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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

is it ok to have nsa with an ex while swinging? have any of you tried it and did it bring back old feelings that turned into complications?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

with ur ex there is no such thing as nsa theres always feelings behind it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"with ur ex there is no such thing as nsa theres always feelings behind it "

Yep!

I was gonna go down that road myself but why ruin what you had?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally couldn't have nsa fun with an ex, i think there would be too many feelings and emotion involved which could case complications x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worked well for me, but there was a time gap of 20 years since we last meet. We are both happy to meet irregularly. We also think it's better now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for replies, yeah thats what i thought bring up too many emotions

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

They become Ex's for a reason... I wouldn't go there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They become Ex's for a reason... I wouldn't go there."

Sometimes It's more complicated than that,but I aggree with the posts above and I wuldnt go there because if it was a good relationship that ended on a good note it would ruin that memory and make it a bit of fun

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By *ce-2uMan
over a year ago

winsford,Chester & wirral

everytime you meet someone swinging they become an ex after LOL!!!!!!!!!!!! so whats the difference HE!HE!

at least you both know what you both enjoy etc

you only live once x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't agree with having contact or nsa with an ex as an ex is an ex for a reason , best advise is stay clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given their poor sexual prowess and the fact that one died earlier this year, no I wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

what about if it was a threesome or not one on one with an ex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it ok to have nsa with an ex while swinging? have any of you tried it and did it bring back old feelings that turned into complications? "

It's your cock, so you decide where you put it.

It all depends how you both feel about it. No one can feel what you both feel for each other.

If it feels right, go for it, and good luck

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

My ex is an ex for very specific reasons so wouldn't go with him again if last man on earth. Only feelings left for him are disgust .

I guess it depends on if it is a nice ex or not but I only move forward and don't go back to the same mistakes again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"with ur ex there is no such thing as nsa theres always feelings behind it "
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i agree totally x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many people kiss and make up, time after time.

Every case is different.

A lot of splits are amicable, and everyones own experiences will dictate the advice they give.

I'm not one to bare grudges, so it's no surprise that I would play with an "ex"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dot understad why you would want sex with your ex

Personally if i dis liked them enough to not be in a relationship then i wouldnt want to have sex with them

On the other hand if it was them who left me id have more self respect than to shag a guy who left me

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn


"So many people kiss and make up, time after time.

Every case is different.

A lot of splits are amicable, and everyones own experiences will dictate the advice they give.

I'm not one to bare grudges, so it's no surprise that I would play with an "ex" "

Your totally right. So many splits are amicable but I havent really had that much.

Its great to not bear grudges but if you have experiences an ex who has done something despicable in your relationship/or continue to and your opinion of them is extreemly low then you may find it very hard to still find them attractive in a sexual way. I dated one man who we did agree to stop dating(only saw him for about 6 months) I possible could consider nsa with him and he has expressed that in me too tho dont want to go back as like to move forward.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn


"Dot understad why you would want sex with your ex

Personally if i dis liked them enough to not be in a relationship then i wouldnt want to have sex with them

On the other hand if it was them who left me id have more self respect than to shag a guy who left me "

I massively agree with you. exs are exs for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

sometimes the relationship ends simply because it didn't work as a relationship, however it may work as friends with bit more on the side.

Once the barriers of the relationship have been removed, sometimes it may be nice to have sex without the pressures of a relationship, knowing you can see other people. besides in a threesome it would be slightly different, depend son the ex and depends on the break up and everything else.

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