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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP   Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Ok so heres my dilemma. a lady who's just joined fab wants to meet but hasn't even looked at my profile yet. she has pics but it just sounds dodgy. any advice ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't bother.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

'Her' profile will probably disappear within a few hours.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

If you're worried then you already know the answer

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Arrange to meet at a pub, that way when she doesn't turn up at least you can have a beer

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP   Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I thought the same . she has public pics but something just didn't feel right . call it a gut instinct

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

She might have looked at your profile in stealth mode.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so heres my dilemma. a lady who's just joined fab wants to meet but hasn't even looked at my profile yet. she has pics but it just sounds dodgy. any advice ??"

She may well have looked at your profile but done it in stealth!

There are plenty of ways to check someone out before you meet.

Tell her you're in no particular rush. That you'd like to chat for a bit. Maybe ask to chat over the phone or she can send you a direct pic holding something of your choice?

If she does want to do any of those then maybe you should proceed with caution?

Good luck and I hope it all turns out well for you.

We were all new here once, without veri's etc.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP   Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"She might have looked at your profile in stealth mode.

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I don't even know what that is lol ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use stealth mode

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I've just looked at your profile...

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

How do you know she's not looked at your profile OP? She may have looked in ninja mode and you'd never know.

It's possible she could be genuine - so why not chat some more and get more of a feel for the situation, perhaps suggest a social meet somewhere that's not going to take you too far out of your way.

Although of your gut instinct is telling you to steer clear then I think you already know the answer.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Have a chat on the phone or cam and then public place meet x

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP   Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Ok so heres my dilemma. a lady who's just joined fab wants to meet but hasn't even looked at my profile yet. she has pics but it just sounds dodgy. any advice ??

She may well have looked at your profile but done it in stealth!

There are plenty of ways to check someone out before you meet.

Tell her you're in no particular rush. That you'd like to chat for a bit. Maybe ask to chat over the phone or she can send you a direct pic holding something of your choice?

If she does want to do any of those then maybe you should proceed with caution?

Good luck and I hope it all turns out well for you.

We were all new here once, without veri's etc."
yes that's a good idea cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She might have looked at your profile in stealth mode.

I don't even know what that is lol ??"

There ia a setting, where can look at people but they carnt see you have looked

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP   Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I've just looked at your profile..."

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP   Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"She might have looked at your profile in stealth mode.

I don't even know what that is lol ??

There ia a setting, where can look at people but they carnt see you have looked "
I've been on fab for years and I never knew that. how thick am i lol . Cheers

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"She might have looked at your profile in stealth mode.

I don't even know what that is lol ??"

There's a feature you can use which once enabled means you don't show on the looked at me list.

I tend to think though that women who are new to the site rarely contact men straight away and even more rarely want to meet immediately. Proceed with caution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She might have looked at your profile in stealth mode.

I don't even know what that is lol ??

There's a feature you can use which once enabled means you don't show on the looked at me list.

I tend to think though that women who are new to the site rarely contact men straight away and even more rarely want to meet immediately. Proceed with caution."

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Arrange to meet somewhere local then it's not a massive issue if she doesn't show up.

As the poster above said I do think it's a little odd that she's new and wanting to arrange a meet already.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP   Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"She might have looked at your profile in stealth mode.

I don't even know what that is lol ??

There's a feature you can use which once enabled means you don't show on the looked at me list.

I tend to think though that women who are new to the site rarely contact men straight away and even more rarely want to meet immediately. Proceed with caution.

"
I certainly will cheers

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP   Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Arrange to meet somewhere local then it's not a massive issue if she doesn't show up.

As the poster above said I do think it's a little odd that she's new and wanting to arrange a meet already. "
So do i lick!! can I pm you and ask you to take a look at her profile in stealth mode as you are local . Cheers

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Arrange to meet somewhere local then it's not a massive issue if she doesn't show up.

As the poster above said I do think it's a little odd that she's new and wanting to arrange a meet already. So do i lick!! can I pm you and ask you to take a look at her profile in stealth mode as you are local . Cheers "

Of course

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics

Everything other people have said, also, have a conversation on cam first, that way you can see if you are both what each other is expecting and see if there is some attraction.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP   Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Everything other people have said, also, have a conversation on cam first, that way you can see if you are both what each other is expecting and see if there is some attraction."
Cheers

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Have you done a google image search on her photos to see if they have been taken from elsewhere?

If nothing shows up try a cam chat or phone chat or has suggested ask her to do a photo holding a piece of paper with yours and her names on it.

Still going well arrange a pub meet.

None of the above happen then probably a fake and time to block and move on.

Mr2

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP   Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you done a google image search on her photos to see if they have been taken from elsewhere?

If nothing shows up try a cam chat or phone chat or has suggested ask her to do a photo holding a piece of paper with yours and her names on it.

Still going well arrange a pub meet.

None of the above happen then probably a fake and time to block and move on.

Mr2"
doesn't mean a fake .. we have photos that will turn up elsewhere. I tend to keep chat to fab and will not go on cam either. And if meeting a single guy its going to be straight to it. Not a social first

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP   Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Well just to let you all know I didn't bother too risky. Could have ended up being robbed or sodomized lol just wasn't worth the risk

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