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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I will be instantly blocking anyone who's message I read and delete or don't read and delete!

I'm sick of abusive messages!!

Maybe when we all join we should be sent an automated message to say (amongst other things) that if someone deletes your message without replying, take it as a not interested. If you are reported for sending an abusive message (said message forwarded to admin) then you get a 24 hour ban on sending messages, 2nd offence 48 hours, 3rd account deleted?

Just a thought?

If I send a message, I don't EXPECT a reply. Why do others?

I'm glad I deleted his message if he's going to be like that!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've decided to do the same after getting told I was rude (amongst other things) for reading and deleting!!

Saves a lot of grief

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will be instantly blocking anyone who's message I read and delete or don't read and delete!

I'm sick of abusive messages!!

Maybe when we all join we should be sent an automated message to say (amongst other things) that if someone deletes your message without replying, take it as a not interested. If you are reported for sending an abusive message (said message forwarded to admin) then you get a 24 hour ban on sending messages, 2nd offence 48 hours, 3rd account deleted?

Just a thought?

If I send a message, I don't EXPECT a reply. Why do others?

I'm glad I deleted his message if he's going to be like that! "

Feel better now?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I will be instantly blocking anyone who's message I read and delete or don't read and delete!

I'm sick of abusive messages!!

Maybe when we all join we should be sent an automated message to say (amongst other things) that if someone deletes your message without replying, take it as a not interested. If you are reported for sending an abusive message (said message forwarded to admin) then you get a 24 hour ban on sending messages, 2nd offence 48 hours, 3rd account deleted?

Just a thought?

If I send a message, I don't EXPECT a reply. Why do others?

I'm glad I deleted his message if he's going to be like that!

Feel better now?"

Yes thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree.

I don't understand the need to be abusive to anyone else just because they are not interested.

Yes it's a disappointment but by being abusive you are just proving that they were right to block you in the first place.

Unfortunately these people create mistrust and ruin it for everyone else.

It would be better if there was a report system that would out this attitude and block those responsible from messaging to protect everyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have different ways of coping with rejection. Getting abusive is the easiest way. Being mature and acting like an adult not so much.

Ignore and move on.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I think your three strike rule is perfect, perhaps post it on the feedback forum as well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block everyone who deletes my message, then I don't see them again.

I rarely block as I rarely message though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seriously can't believe blokes spend all that time searching profiles and sending random messages.. I seriously don't have the patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read, reply then block. So much easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditto - I have had to do similar over the time here and it would be helpful if we had a tool/tab we could hit to help out - in the meantime my "blocked" list gets longer

Happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the input.

I've never really had to use my block button before but it's become the most used tool I have on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seriously can't believe blokes spend all that time searching profiles and sending random messages.. I seriously don't have the patience "

I look at profiles but hardly ever message them, doesn't seem much point.

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