FabSwingers.com forum: Why Bi or Bi curious?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why are most females from couple and single girl profiles bi or bi curious? Or is it a case of the males wright the profiles and are wishful thinking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Praps it's because most blokes are crap shags and so they're edging their bets

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ha you could be right there

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By *exy6768Couple
over a year ago

manchester

maybe coz most woman are honest about there sexuality and men are to scared to put bi just incase anyone see it.......well thats what we find x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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"Why are most females from couple and single girl profiles bi or bi curious? Or is it a case of the males wright the profiles and are wishful thinking?

Because I am bisexual. I prefer to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe in general sites like this attract those women wanting to experiment that side, it's easy enough to pick up a bloke in vanilla circles but not so easy for a bi/bi curious woman to find another the same unless of course she tries a 'gay bar' but that could feel like jumping in at the deep end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours has it on because it's true lol! Have played with other girls when younger and enjoyed it very much but not done it for a long time so thats why we put 'curious' i would have thought i will still enjoy it very much

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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"maybe in general sites like this attract those women wanting to experiment that side, it's easy enough to pick up a bloke in vanilla circles but not so easy for a bi/bi curious woman to find another the same unless of course she tries a 'gay bar' but that could feel like jumping in at the deep end."

Oooh yes this. There are a lot of club goers on here who I bet were staight until a meet where they got with the female and enjoyed it, or had a bit of a grope and want to do more.

I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt and assume they are women who want to expand their horizons.

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By *essesCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

Because us women can multi task.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theres lots of bi men out there..... they just hide behind the straight heading......

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Why are most females from couple and single girl profiles bi or bi curious? Or is it a case of the males wright the profiles and are wishful thinking?

Because I am bisexual. I prefer to be honest."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are most females from couple and single girl profiles bi or bi curious? Or is it a case of the males wright the profiles and are wishful thinking?

The meanin of this post is what exactly! Maybe because some women are bi or bi curious!

Btw the correct spelling is write, not wright.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started swinging straight.was introduced to playing by friends with a women loved it so much.that i changed my details.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are most females from couple and single girl profiles bi or bi curious? Or is it a case of the males wright the profiles and are wishful thinking?

Because I am bisexual. I prefer to be honest."

As to why there seems to be a lot of us Bi women, maybe we're higher sexed?? Maybe we're more open to trying new experiences? Maybe we're all nymphos?

Does it really matter as long as everyone is happy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was bi before i even met my hubby and before swinging was even on my mind

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By *essesCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

"Why are most females from couple and single girl profiles bi or bi curious? Or is it a case of the males wright the profiles and are wishful thinking?

The meanin of this post is what exactly! Maybe because some women are bi or bi curious!

Btw the correct spelling is write, not wright."

Ouch!!! I think people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones! So until YOUR (that's a hint) is perfect, I would leave others alone!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Why are most females from couple and single girl profiles bi or bi curious? Or is it a case of the males wright the profiles and are wishful thinking?

The meanin of this post is what exactly! Maybe because some women are bi or bi curious!

Btw the correct spelling is write, not wright.

Ouch!!! I think people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones! So until YOUR (that's a hint) is perfect, I would leave others alone!

*You're

PS Look up Muphrys Law (the spelling error is intentional).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi sexual,I have it on my profile and will only meet couples with bi sexual women and yes,unless they're Oscar standard actresses,I can tell.

This may mean less meets but so what,unlike lots of bi guys I prefer to be honest whether it costs meets or not.T

XXX

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Why are most females from couple and single girl profiles bi or bi curious? Or is it a case of the males wright the profiles and are wishful thinking?

Because I am bisexual. I prefer to be honest.

As to why there seems to be a lot of us Bi women, maybe we're higher sexed?? Maybe we're more open to trying new experiences? Maybe we're all nymphos?

Does it really matter as long as everyone is happy?

I'm a nympho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a nympho.

LOL

According to Tod, I am too!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm a nympho.

LOL

According to Tod, I am too!

The more the merrier is what I say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of so called straight guys in couples are bi, have loads contact me, and hear a lot of so called bi women are pillow princesses as well doing for their guys pleasure and don't enjoy it. So yes some do hedge their bets. As for me enjoy being bi, more choice lol.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Because lots of people say they are bi when they arent...its a spectrum.Being open to a woman licking you out does not make you bi.It is a sexuality just like gay or straight. i find women attractive,i find men attractive. i am bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was bi before i met my partner had a relationship with another woman so its not just trying to please my partner or anyone else for me its about who i am and being able to be honest about who i am. On the other hand i do find that a few couples on here are willing to meet a couple with a bi female but will not meet a bi couple were the male is bi i do myself find this strange somtimes and i think this is why some couples if the male is bi dont put this on as it seems to put off some couples and single males but this is only my opinion

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I am bi and get plenty of "straight" guys, either single or "part of a couple" wanting fun, but turn them down as they are not being entirely honest.

Plenty of openly bi/gay guys to choose from anyway.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

"Why are most females from couple and single girl profiles bi or bi curious? Or is it a case of the males wright the profiles and are wishful thinking?

The meanin of this post is what exactly! Maybe because some women are bi or bi curious!

Btw the correct spelling is write, not wright.

Ouch!!! I think people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones! So until YOUR (that's a hint) is perfect, I would leave others alone!

*You're

PS Look up Muphrys Law (the spelling error is intentional)."

ahem. I believe that Meaning ends with a 'g'..... runs away

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Why are most females from couple and single girl profiles bi or bi curious? Or is it a case of the males wright the profiles and are wishful thinking?

The meanin of this post is what exactly! Maybe because some women are bi or bi curious!

Btw the correct spelling is write, not wright.

Ouch!!! I think people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones! So until YOUR (that's a hint) is perfect, I would leave others alone!

*You're

PS Look up Muphrys Law (the spelling error is intentional).

ahem. I believe that Meaning ends with a 'g'..... runs away

That wasn't me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must admit that at first we didn't put on our profile that i was bi curious as i hadn't actually had an experience with a guy, bex is bi and loves guys and girls and has since before we met. I have had 1 experience if only a bit of oral but still was with another bloke and i enjoyed it so hay onwards and up words i say lol.

(apologies for the spelling dyslexic, wife has been beating me with a spell checker but still not got the hint)

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

"Why are most females from couple and single girl profiles bi or bi curious? Or is it a case of the males wright the profiles and are wishful thinking?

The meanin of this post is what exactly! Maybe because some women are bi or bi curious!

Btw the correct spelling is write, not wright.

Ouch!!! I think people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones! So until YOUR (that's a hint) is perfect, I would leave others alone!

*You're

PS Look up Muphrys Law (the spelling error is intentional).

ahem. I believe that Meaning ends with a 'g'..... runs away

That wasn't me!!!

I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm def Bi. My husband likes the fact. I think it is more socially acceptable for women than for men. Men think it diminishes their manliness. I dont think it would diminish the way I look at him but maybe they think women would feel differently...Idk...just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe coz most woman are honest about there sexuality and men are to scared to put bi just incase anyone see it.......well thats what we find x

+1 +1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am bi and get plenty of "straight" guys, either single or "part of a couple" wanting fun, but turn them down as they are not being entirely honest.

Plenty of openly bi/gay guys to choose from anyway.

same here! not honest - no go lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

when some people see bi fem... they don't instantly think KD Lang.

when some people see bi guy... they instantly think Graham Norton.

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By *cite6662002Couple
over a year ago

glos

just think TV makes it that way with thinks like(tipping the velvet,Buffy the Vampire Slayer,The L Word),and things like that

as a teenager dont think i ever seen two men kiss,but was very common to see

a womon get it on with a woman

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By *amslam1000Man
over a year ago

willenhall

"maybe coz most woman are honest about there sexuality and men are to scared to put bi just incase anyone see it.......well thats what we find x

+1 +1

+1 i have no probs am Bi and say so

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

"Why are most females from couple and single girl profiles bi or bi curious? Or is it a case of the males wright the profiles and are wishful thinking?

Not on ours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when some people see bi fem... they don't instantly think KD Lang.

when some people see bi guy... they instantly think Graham Norton.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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"when some people see bi fem... they don't instantly think KD Lang.

when some people see bi guy... they instantly think Graham Norton.

They should think John Barrowman. Graham Norton isn't bi.

However, I do get your point. Very good analogy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when some people see bi fem... they don't instantly think KD Lang.

when some people see bi guy... they instantly think Graham Norton.

They should think John Barrowman. Graham Norton isn't bi.

However, I do get your point. Very good analogy."

Captain Jack maybe.....think John is totally Gay with a capital G......mores the pity!

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By *ornyHorwichCpl aka HHCCouple
over a year ago

horwich

We wrote our profile together.

And ours states I am bi because I am. I certainly wouldn't do it to please a guy

Scarlett

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"when some people see bi fem... they don't instantly think KD Lang.

when some people see bi guy... they instantly think Graham Norton.

They should think John Barrowman. Graham Norton isn't bi.

However, I do get your point. Very good analogy.

Captain Jack maybe.....think John is totally Gay with a capital G......mores the pity!"

Aaah. And yes, big shame.

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By *oupleup4funCouple
over a year ago

Ashton

"Why are most females from couple and single girl profiles bi or bi curious? Or is it a case of the males wright the profiles and are wishful thinking?

What is the point putting that the fem is bi if she is not, regardless of wishful thinking? It stands to reason that a Bi fem will have more fun, and as such if you are bi why not advertise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am bi and get plenty of "straight" guys, either single or "part of a couple" wanting fun, but turn them down as they are not being entirely honest.

Plenty of openly bi/gay guys to choose from anyway.

Same here, and they just don't get it when you turn them down.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've found most people are bi curious to some degree or another. Whether they will admit it or not is often another question, though!

When I'm chatting to friends in a 'straight' dogging spot I'll often have a guy follow me out, because he fancies me, but doesn't wish to be open about it in front of everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tra's Bi-Nosy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im straight but by no means worried about contact but we find that most straight guys spend half the time trying to do just that lol

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By *ustyWench38kWoman
over a year ago

dunfermline

I was gay before I was bi so maybe a bit different for me - men are the 'new' attraction. I am Bi and have had some grest FF meets from here, but I find than men see the word bi on my profile and expect me to find a fem for a threesome...... not happening tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own. Does it really matter? I've played wit women in the past and it's been fun and I've enjoyed it, but doesn't float my boat in the same way as a guy does.

Does that mean I'm a liar and fake as my profile lists me as straight?

People get way too hung up on labels

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

haha thanks i noticed the spelling after i put it up lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

it is only a curiosity question based on an observation and not meant to put a noses out of joint.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Well I am totally straight and not curious in the slightest.....and no I am not deluding myself

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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago

southampton

"Well I am totally straight and not curious in the slightest.....and no I am not deluding myself

I'm straight, but I don't mind a woman's attentions in a threesome situation as long as she knows I'm passive about it. Hence I say bi-curious on my profile so not to put couples off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when some people see bi fem... they don't instantly think KD Lang.

when some people see bi guy... they instantly think Graham Norton.

But both KD Lang annd Graham Norton are gay ... Loud and proud, not Bi. Anyone who does think like that needs to move with the times and get over it. People should lose their stereo types as we're nearly all here for the same reason so who are we to judge?

Anyway, if there is anyone needed to erase their stereo types check out Portia de Rosi on google(formerly of the series Ally McBeal). She is absolutely stunning and is in a long term relationship with Ellen, the lesbian talk show host (or at least she was when I last checked lol)

Babilicious xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think women are more in touch with their sexuality and women are generally better looking anyway, so easier to be bi :P

Labels can be difficult, I don't really fancy men but like idea of sucking cock and have tried it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Initially I put bi-curious... I was pretty sure I was but hadn't been with a woman.

After confirming what I thought I changed it to bi-sexual because that's what I consider myself to be now... And really can't wait to play again!!

J has been with men so was def. Bi-sexual

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