FabSwingers.com forum: too d*unk

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If a fb u saw regularly deems u to have had too much to drink but still has his way with u.. Then drops u at a bus stop 20 odd miles from home.. Can he be classed as a genuine friendly gentleman or just a pure dastard.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

He should have taken you home in my opinion. Never had a guy not offer to take me home if he was able to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he sounds a selfish wanker to me! what a nasty thing to do!

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By *elson61Man
over a year ago

WELWYN GARDEN CITY

That's not very friendly! In fact it's very shoddy behaviour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

should defo taken you home ! any gent would

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"If a fb u saw regularly deems u to have had too much to drink but still has his way with u.. Then drops u at a bus stop 20 odd miles from home.. Can he be classed as a genuine friendly gentleman or just a pure dastard.

What do you think?

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

"He should have taken you home in my opinion. Never had a guy not offer to take me home if he was able to. "

he'd been drinking ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"should defo taken you home ! any gent would"

After he's fucked her d*unken ass? Yep a gentleman would

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By *xplorer13Man
over a year ago

glenrothes

Don't get so pissed, your not 15 ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't get so pissed, your not 15 .."

Shit happens and yes sensible advice. But are you saying she's fair game if she's had too much to drink??

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"Don't get so pissed, your not 15 .."

Don't be so judgemental.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Don't get so pissed, your not 15 .."

Was it you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't get so pissed, your not 15 ..

Was it you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How on earth is a genuine friendly gentleman an option?

He got what he wanted - and left you to get home knowing you'd had a drink.

Ditch him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How on earth is a genuine friendly gentleman an option?

He got what he wanted - and left you to get home knowing you'd had a drink.

Ditch him. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's no friend. If youve had too much to.drink then he should have made sure you got home safely. You might have invited him in for a coffee?

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Assuming this is real and not a hypothetical question.

Very bad language warning.

Hes a fucking cunt.

Sorry but I can't sit on the fence on this one. Terrible behaviour at best. At worst he r***d you and left you in potential further danger.

I only censor the r word as it wouldnt let me post otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He didn't offer that you stay at his place??????

Sorry but what a wanker.....

Hope you are safely home now, and tell him to f.... off, have some self respect my dear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So unsafe and just fucking rude

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't get so pissed, your not 15 ..

Shit happens and yes sensible advice. But are you saying she's fair game if she's had too much to drink?? "

It was just one of those nights had been at a BBQ had maybe one too many.. He knew b4 he picked me up.. Could have said no you're too d*unk and took me home.. He calls himself a friendly genuine gent on profile lol.. And yea didn't meet again after that..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

He didn't offer that you stay at his place??????

Sorry but what a wanker.....

Hope you are safely home now, and tell him to f.... off, have some self respect my dear."

Yea it was a while back got home ok and yea he never got near me again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Assuming this is real and not a hypothetical question.

Very bad language warning.

Hes a fucking cunt.

Sorry but I can't sit on the fence on this one. Terrible behaviour at best. At worst he r***d you and left you in potential further danger.

I only censor the r word as it wouldnt let me post otherwise."

Hi i did know what i was doing maybe not full clarity but if he thought that he should have taken me home.. I had saw him a few times and thought he was nice.. Live and learn.. Not all bad have met some lovely ppl on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a real question lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's not very nice.. I couldn't/wouldn't do that!

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Block.

Learn from your experience.

Move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time to move on, he was being selfish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Utterly disgusting ... what a bastard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any reason you couldn't stay over night at his?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He thought you'd had too much drink to do what? In fact I'd say it doesn't really matter what, he should have also realised you wouldn't be able to give informed consent. What a shit.

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Just sounds like he got what he wanted...live and learn lass,doesn't sound much of a friend to me.

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By *exysurferMan
over a year ago

Bromley

If he could drive you to the bus stop he could have driven you back home ensuring you get in safe and sound.

What a complete bastard.

Clearly he's shellfish and doesn't respect you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

alwys make sure whoever can get home safe if youve been with them surely

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By *andbCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"How on earth is a genuine friendly gentleman an option?

He got what he wanted - and left you to get home knowing you'd had a drink.

Ditch him. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't get so pissed, your not 15 ..

Shit happens and yes sensible advice. But are you saying she's fair game if she's had too much to drink??

So were you just after a lift from him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Consent related alarm bells ringing here... With friends like that, who needs enemies

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"If he could drive you to the bus stop he could have driven you back home ensuring you get in safe and sound.

What a complete bastard.

Clearly he's shellfish and doesn't respect you. "

Exactly. She could've lobster way getting home

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By *azuliWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

No that's a total knob. Tbh he shouldn't have had his way with you if you'd had too much, and definitely should have made sure you got home safely, that's just common human decency.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo bastard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would there be the same support if the man got d*unk and the woman left him at a bus stop to make his own way home?

No ?

Didn't think so

Yet women cry out for equality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Complete tossed and a waste of space. Better off without him x

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

If you have had too much to drink he should not have had sex with you.

If you have had too much to drink he should have seen you safely to your door.

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By *isalashes888400Couple
over a year ago

ennis

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he drove u while he was d*unk to bus stop?wudnt got in car tbh...

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By *isalashes888400Couple
over a year ago

ennis

"Meet him again, take some rhohipnal with you and a massive black strap on... revenge is sweet."
go all john coffey on his azz

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By *isalashes888400Couple
over a year ago

ennis

he drove u while he was d*unk to bus stop?wudnt got in car tbh..."
sorry misread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As Kim Jong Un would say, he sounds like a real Dotard.......

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

I guess that's the difference between a fb and FWB

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Drink or no he should have got you safely home, ditch him x

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Most definitely

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all your responses don't feel so bad calling him out on it and kickin him to the curb.. And no i would not have dumped anyone male or female off at a bus stop nothing to do with equality.. It's just manners especially if u have just had fun with them at theirs.. Wasn't looking for a lift met him miles away from my home

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

You're best off without 'friends' like that!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A twat if he drinks and drives

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Not a gentleman, not a friend.

Be responsible with alcohol in future.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

A twat if he drinks and drives "

She was the drinker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe you should learn to stay in control of your drinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you need a new FB

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Why is this even in question??? Think anyone with a bit of sense would ditch the fkwit pronto style! Harsh, but oh so true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the feeling there's more to this story than what we're being told.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regardless of the circumstances leading up you ending up alone, d*unk at a bus stop. He shouldn't have done that....I wouldn't be able to drive home knowing that I'd left you like that.

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By *im and her 2017Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

He should of at least got you a taxi if he'd been drinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a twat not worthy of anymore of your time you deserve better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally,I don't meet anyone anywhere where I cannot get myself back home from, on my own esteem.

Your story seems a little muddled so I'm unsure of what actually took place ~ but I'd say you need to be more responsible and don't rely on others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally,I don't meet anyone anywhere where I cannot get myself back home from, on my own esteem.

Your story seems a little muddled so I'm unsure of what actually took place ~ but I'd say you need to be more responsible and don't rely on others.

Sometimes we trust when we shouldn't no excuse just saying like.. Thought he was a gentleman..kudos on u tho for knowing the difference ..always.. And anything I can clear up for u just ask

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get the feeling there's more to this story than what we're being told."

Anything u wanna know just ask.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Personally,I don't meet anyone anywhere where I cannot get myself back home from, on my own esteem.

Your story seems a little muddled so I'm unsure of what actually took place ~ but I'd say you need to be more responsible and don't rely on others.

it's what I posted recently - the person most responsible for you is you. Far too many people, mostly women chancing their safety on others, then posting up woe is me threads, when it turns to shit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally,I don't meet anyone anywhere where I cannot get myself back home from, on my own esteem.

Your story seems a little muddled so I'm unsure of what actually took place ~ but I'd say you need to be more responsible and don't rely on others.

it's what I posted recently - the person most responsible for you is you. Far too many people, mostly women chancing their safety on others, then posting up woe is me threads, when it turns to shit. "

Yea i kinda thought your post was aimed at me

Went down well your post i think not

I was asking a question about his behavior being gentlemanly or not i would also think it unladylike if roles were reversed

No woe is me at all it was shit from the start seeing and just glad i found out what he was like ..

And i wouldn't like u to be judge amd jury lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How old are you?

You met him for mutual fun, since when did it become his responsibility to drop you home too? Your an adult capable of calling a Taxi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How old are you?

You met him for mutual fun, since when did it become his responsibility to drop you home too? Your an adult capable of calling a Taxi

You're *

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Personally,I don't meet anyone anywhere where I cannot get myself back home from, on my own esteem.

Your story seems a little muddled so I'm unsure of what actually took place ~ but I'd say you need to be more responsible and don't rely on others.

it's what I posted recently - the person most responsible for you is you. Far too many people, mostly women chancing their safety on others, then posting up woe is me threads, when it turns to shit.

Yea i kinda thought your post was aimed at me

Went down well your post i think not

I was asking a question about his behavior being gentlemanly or not i would also think it unladylike if roles were reversed

No woe is me at all it was shit from the start seeing and just glad i found out what he was like ..

And i wouldn't like u to be judge amd jury lol

Yes and you've had a lot of sympathy for that. I'm not excusing him, but ultimately you need to be responsible for yourself and you put yourself in a vulnerable situation.

I also think you aren't telling the whole story, rather giving a very one sided slanted view. Never mind there there. Is that better ?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Personally,I don't meet anyone anywhere where I cannot get myself back home from, on my own esteem.

Your story seems a little muddled so I'm unsure of what actually took place ~ but I'd say you need to be more responsible and don't rely on others.

Yeah I was just kinda thinking the same. Why should it be up to the guy to make sure you got home safely? You turned up at his intoxicated,I presume you wanted sex from him you got that and then he dropped you at a bus stop.

Sound's a decent enough person,he could have walked you just to his front door! He was a fb not a taxi service,20 miles isn't actually just around the corner for him is it,40 miles round trip. I wouldn't have done it.

I would have given you a bed for the night though...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally,I don't meet anyone anywhere where I cannot get myself back home from, on my own esteem.

Your story seems a little muddled so I'm unsure of what actually took place ~ but I'd say you need to be more responsible and don't rely on others.

it's what I posted recently - the person most responsible for you is you. Far too many people, mostly women chancing their safety on others, then posting up woe is me threads, when it turns to shit.

I would have given you a bed for the night though..."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No i didn't turn up at his d*unk looking for sex.. He picked me up and if he thought i was too d*unk he shouldn't have took me to his.. I am not in the habit of using men as taxis and it's only common decency i would have thought..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally,I don't meet anyone anywhere where I cannot get myself back home from, on my own esteem.

Your story seems a little muddled so I'm unsure of what actually took place ~ but I'd say you need to be more responsible and don't rely on others.

it's what I posted recently - the person most responsible for you is you. Far too many people, mostly women chancing their safety on others, then posting up woe is me threads, when it turns to shit.

Yea i kinda thought your post was aimed at me

Went down well your post i think not

I was asking a question about his behavior being gentlemanly or not i would also think it unladylike if roles were reversed

No woe is me at all it was shit from the start seeing and just glad i found out what he was like ..

And i wouldn't like u to be judge amd jury lol

Yes and you've had a lot of sympathy for that. I'm not excusing him, but ultimately you need to be responsible for yourself and you put yourself in a vulnerable situation.

I also think you aren't telling the whole story, rather giving a very one sided slanted view. Never mind there there. Is that better ?

What does he need excusing for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have had too much to drink he should not have had sex with you.

If you have had too much to drink he should have seen you safely to your door."

If some d*unk woman called him from a BBQ (which he wasn't at) for sex then he should've said no and left her to it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally,I don't meet anyone anywhere where I cannot get myself back home from, on my own esteem.

Your story seems a little muddled so I'm unsure of what actually took place ~ but I'd say you need to be more responsible and don't rely on others.

it's what I posted recently - the person most responsible for you is you. Far too many people, mostly women chancing their safety on others, then posting up woe is me threads, when it turns to shit.

I would have given you a bed for the night though..."

Nope that offer was never on the cards lol

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"No i didn't turn up at his d*unk looking for sex.. He picked me up and if he thought i was too d*unk he shouldn't have took me to his.. I am not in the habit of using men as taxis and it's only common decency i would have thought..

Right so he was a fb what did you meet him for then? That's what fb's do they just have sex?!

Would you have done a 40 mile round trip if it was the other way around,afterall it's only common decency?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you have had too much to drink he should not have had sex with you.

If you have had too much to drink he should have seen you safely to your door.

If some d*unk woman called him from a BBQ (which he wasn't at) for sex then he should've said no and left her to it "

I didn't phone him looking for sex.. He phned me!! it was pre arranged and i agree if he thought i was too d*unk he should have done exactly that said no and left me to it.. So hence the question is he of good character like he states in his profile??

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By *ocbigMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Ah the evils of alcohol...& BBQs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Right so he was a fb what did you meet him for then? That's what fb's do they just have sex?!

Would you have done a 40 mile round trip if it was the other way around,afterall it's only common decency?"

Yes i would have but i have a conscience and it's nice to be nice.. Fb or not respect goes a long way.. And also it's nice to have some aspect of friendship.. Like i say live and learn.. Not everybody has good moral fibre..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ah the evils of alcohol...& BBQs"

I know lol will stay put in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love how people think she's his responsibility!

No one forced her to drink, or meet up and have mutual sex which she was sober enough to AGREE to.

Why didn't you ask him before meeting him if he was ok to drop you home?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quick question: Do you think you were too d*unk to have sex? There seems to be a lot of emphasis on what he thought, but you're a grown woman.

I do think that if he felt you were too d*unk to have sex, he shouldn't have done it. I would've dropped you back off at your BBQ.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love how people think she's his responsibility!

No one forced her to drink, or meet up and have mutual sex which she was sober enough to AGREE to.

Why didn't you ask him before meeting him if he was ok to drop you home? "

Don't you think that dropping a d*unk woman at a bus stop alone is maybe a little irresponsible though!? Personally, I think that's a bit of a dick move.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you were too d*unk then surely too d*unk for sex?

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

"he sounds a selfish wanker to me! what a nasty thing to do!"

i agree.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love how people think she's his responsibility!

No one forced her to drink, or meet up and have mutual sex which she was sober enough to AGREE to.

Why didn't you ask him before meeting him if he was ok to drop you home? "

I wouldn't have thought asking an option.. Guessing chivalry is dead for a few of you.. Nothin like makin a few friends lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have had too much to drink he should not have had sex with you.

If you have had too much to drink he should have seen you safely to your door.

If some d*unk woman called him from a BBQ (which he wasn't at) for sex then he should've said no and left her to it

You must have known if you were too d*unk to have sex so why didn't you contact him and say you weren't in a fit state to meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Quick question: Do you think you were too d*unk to have sex? There seems to be a lot of emphasis on what he thought, but you're a grown woman.

I do think that if he felt you were too d*unk to have sex, he shouldn't have done it. I would've dropped you back off at your BBQ. "

No i was quite happy to be with him.. But think after he got what he wanted he just wanted me home so said your d*unk and left me at bus stop..not friendly and a little effort goes a long way..

Never saw him again so it did have an impact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love how people think she's his responsibility!

No one forced her to drink, or meet up and have mutual sex which she was sober enough to AGREE to.

Why didn't you ask him before meeting him if he was ok to drop you home?

Don't you think that dropping a d*unk woman at a bus stop alone is maybe a little irresponsible though!? Personally, I think that's a bit of a dick move. "

On paper, maybe it is a little irresponsible.

In reality tho we all know how difficult some people can be when they drink.....

And there are always 3 sides to a story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 47 you are more than responsible for your own actions, but seem not to acknowledge that here. If you knew you had a meet post BBQ then why get d*unk and put yourself and him in a compromising and potentially unsafe situation? Yes he probably should have taken you home, or at least made sure you could get there safely, but your choices are not his responsibility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't give someone like this the time of day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you have had too much to drink he should not have had sex with you.

If you have had too much to drink he should have seen you safely to your door.

If some d*unk woman called him from a BBQ (which he wasn't at) for sex then he should've said no and left her to it

You must have known if you were too d*unk to have sex so why didn't you contact him and say you weren't in a fit state to meet? "

I did speak to him but he said it was fine to still meet all rationality goes out the window.. Just thought he was a gentleman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quick question: Do you think you were too d*unk to have sex? There seems to be a lot of emphasis on what he thought, but you're a grown woman.

I do think that if he felt you were too d*unk to have sex, he shouldn't have done it. I would've dropped you back off at your BBQ.

No i was quite happy to be with him.. But think after he got what he wanted he just wanted me home so said your d*unk and left me at bus stop..not friendly and a little effort goes a long way..

Never saw him again so it did have an impact

A little effort does go a long way, and by the sounds of it, you put no effort in at all.

You got d*unk before a pre-arranged meet with him, and then expected him to take you home afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love how people think she's his responsibility!

No one forced her to drink, or meet up and have mutual sex which she was sober enough to AGREE to.

Why didn't you ask him before meeting him if he was ok to drop you home?

Don't you think that dropping a d*unk woman at a bus stop alone is maybe a little irresponsible though!? Personally, I think that's a bit of a dick move.

On paper, maybe it is a little irresponsible.

In reality tho we all know how difficult some people can be when they drink.....

And there are always 3 sides to a story."

Without any other sides though, I think it's still irresponsible. If not for them, cover your own back and take them home. Can you imagine how bad you'd feel if something happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love how people think she's his responsibility!

No one forced her to drink, or meet up and have mutual sex which she was sober enough to AGREE to.

Why didn't you ask him before meeting him if he was ok to drop you home?

I wouldn't have thought asking an option.. Guessing chivalry is dead for a few of you.. Nothin like makin a few friends lol

I'm not trying to be your friend.

I just don't like the fact you're berating a guy for not dropping you home. Were you incapable of calling a taxi then?

Also at what time did all this take place? Couldn't have been late if buses were running.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Quick question: Do you think you were too d*unk to have sex? There seems to be a lot of emphasis on what he thought, but you're a grown woman.

I do think that if he felt you were too d*unk to have sex, he shouldn't have done it. I would've dropped you back off at your BBQ.

No i was quite happy to be with him.. But think after he got what he wanted he just wanted me home so said your d*unk and left me at bus stop..not friendly and a little effort goes a long way..

Never saw him again so it did have an impact

A little effort does go a long way, and by the sounds of it, you put no effort in at all.

You got d*unk before a pre-arranged meet with him, and then expected him to take you home afterwards.

It was not the first meet lots of effort on my part fk all on his..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quick question: Do you think you were too d*unk to have sex? There seems to be a lot of emphasis on what he thought, but you're a grown woman.

I do think that if he felt you were too d*unk to have sex, he shouldn't have done it. I would've dropped you back off at your BBQ.

No i was quite happy to be with him.. But think after he got what he wanted he just wanted me home so said your d*unk and left me at bus stop..not friendly and a little effort goes a long way..

Never saw him again so it did have an impact

For the record, I think it was a bit of a dick move to leave you at a bus stop. However, you are sounding a little bit privileged here. If that were me, I'd call a taxi and find my own way home.

Don't rely on anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love how people think she's his responsibility!

No one forced her to drink, or meet up and have mutual sex which she was sober enough to AGREE to.

Why didn't you ask him before meeting him if he was ok to drop you home?

Don't you think that dropping a d*unk woman at a bus stop alone is maybe a little irresponsible though!? Personally, I think that's a bit of a dick move.

On paper, maybe it is a little irresponsible.

In reality tho we all know how difficult some people can be when they drink.....

And there are always 3 sides to a story.

Without any other sides though, I think it's still irresponsible. If not for them, cover your own back and take them home. Can you imagine how bad you'd feel if something happened. "

Or did it become apparent that the female was so d*unk that he did need to cover his own back and take his leave? Just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love how people think she's his responsibility!

No one forced her to drink, or meet up and have mutual sex which she was sober enough to AGREE to.

Why didn't you ask him before meeting him if he was ok to drop you home?

Don't you think that dropping a d*unk woman at a bus stop alone is maybe a little irresponsible though!? Personally, I think that's a bit of a dick move.

On paper, maybe it is a little irresponsible.

In reality tho we all know how difficult some people can be when they drink.....

And there are always 3 sides to a story.

Without any other sides though, I think it's still irresponsible. If not for them, cover your own back and take them home. Can you imagine how bad you'd feel if something happened. "

Maybe he weighed it up and thought dropping her at public transport was the lesser of 2 evils & was being responsible, who know what actually went on?

Ultimately getting pissed is a choice, getting home safely is your responsibility, no one else's.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love how people think she's his responsibility!

No one forced her to drink, or meet up and have mutual sex which she was sober enough to AGREE to.

Why didn't you ask him before meeting him if he was ok to drop you home?

I wouldn't have thought asking an option.. Guessing chivalry is dead for a few of you.. Nothin like makin a few friends lol

I'm not trying to be your friend.

I just don't like the fact you're berating a guy for not dropping you home. Were you incapable of calling a taxi then?

Also at what time did all this take place? Couldn't have been late if buses were running. "

Thank god your not trying to be a friend lol !!

Take your not in the nice to be nice club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quick question: Do you think you were too d*unk to have sex? There seems to be a lot of emphasis on what he thought, but you're a grown woman.

I do think that if he felt you were too d*unk to have sex, he shouldn't have done it. I would've dropped you back off at your BBQ.

No i was quite happy to be with him.. But think after he got what he wanted he just wanted me home so said your d*unk and left me at bus stop..not friendly and a little effort goes a long way..

Never saw him again so it did have an impact

A little effort does go a long way, and by the sounds of it, you put no effort in at all.

You got d*unk before a pre-arranged meet with him, and then expected him to take you home afterwards.

It was not the first meet lots of effort on my part fk all on his..

There's your answer. Why would you choose to meet someone who made no effort? And why would you need to get roaring d*unk before meeting such a person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm worried about consent here. If you were that d*unk, count you really consent?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Quick question: Do you think you were too d*unk to have sex? There seems to be a lot of emphasis on what he thought, but you're a grown woman.

I do think that if he felt you were too d*unk to have sex, he shouldn't have done it. I would've dropped you back off at your BBQ.

No i was quite happy to be with him.. But think after he got what he wanted he just wanted me home so said your d*unk and left me at bus stop..not friendly and a little effort goes a long way..

Never saw him again so it did have an impact

A little effort does go a long way, and by the sounds of it, you put no effort in at all.

You got d*unk before a pre-arranged meet with him, and then expected him to take you home afterwards.

It was not the first meet lots of effort on my part fk all on his..

There's your answer. Why would you choose to meet someone who made no effort? And why would you need to get roaring d*unk before meeting such a person?"

I didn't consider myself roaring d*unk he did!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love how people think she's his responsibility!

No one forced her to drink, or meet up and have mutual sex which she was sober enough to AGREE to.

Why didn't you ask him before meeting him if he was ok to drop you home?

Don't you think that dropping a d*unk woman at a bus stop alone is maybe a little irresponsible though!? Personally, I think that's a bit of a dick move.

On paper, maybe it is a little irresponsible.

In reality tho we all know how difficult some people can be when they drink.....

And there are always 3 sides to a story.

Without any other sides though, I think it's still irresponsible. If not for them, cover your own back and take them home. Can you imagine how bad you'd feel if something happened.

Maybe he weighed it up and thought dropping her at public transport was the lesser of 2 evils & was being responsible, who know what actually went on?

Ultimately getting pissed is a choice, getting home safely is your responsibility, no one else's."

I mean, we don't know the full story so it's probably a pointless debate. However, personally, even if someone was being a pain in my arse, I'd drop them somewhere safe. Purely so I wouldn't worry that they got home okay.

I 100% agree that your own safety is your responsibility though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quick question: Do you think you were too d*unk to have sex? There seems to be a lot of emphasis on what he thought, but you're a grown woman.

I do think that if he felt you were too d*unk to have sex, he shouldn't have done it. I would've dropped you back off at your BBQ.

No i was quite happy to be with him.. But think after he got what he wanted he just wanted me home so said your d*unk and left me at bus stop..not friendly and a little effort goes a long way..

Never saw him again so it did have an impact

A little effort does go a long way, and by the sounds of it, you put no effort in at all.

You got d*unk before a pre-arranged meet with him, and then expected him to take you home afterwards.

It was not the first meet lots of effort on my part fk all on his..

What effort did you make? He picked you up from where you were. You were d*unk. He dropped you off at a bus stop. You're 47, I'm sure you're capable of getting a bus or taxi home. It seems very much take on your behalf and no give.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love how people think she's his responsibility!

No one forced her to drink, or meet up and have mutual sex which she was sober enough to AGREE to.

Why didn't you ask him before meeting him if he was ok to drop you home?

Don't you think that dropping a d*unk woman at a bus stop alone is maybe a little irresponsible though!? Personally, I think that's a bit of a dick move.

On paper, maybe it is a little irresponsible.

In reality tho we all know how difficult some people can be when they drink.....

And there are always 3 sides to a story.

Without any other sides though, I think it's still irresponsible. If not for them, cover your own back and take them home. Can you imagine how bad you'd feel if something happened.

Maybe he weighed it up and thought dropping her at public transport was the lesser of 2 evils & was being responsible, who know what actually went on?

Ultimately getting pissed is a choice, getting home safely is your responsibility, no one else's.

I 100% agree that your own safety is your responsibility though. "

Fair point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quick question: Do you think you were too d*unk to have sex? There seems to be a lot of emphasis on what he thought, but you're a grown woman.

I do think that if he felt you were too d*unk to have sex, he shouldn't have done it. I would've dropped you back off at your BBQ.

No i was quite happy to be with him.. But think after he got what he wanted he just wanted me home so said your d*unk and left me at bus stop..not friendly and a little effort goes a long way..

Never saw him again so it did have an impact

A little effort does go a long way, and by the sounds of it, you put no effort in at all.

You got d*unk before a pre-arranged meet with him, and then expected him to take you home afterwards.

It was not the first meet lots of effort on my part fk all on his..

There's your answer. Why would you choose to meet someone who made no effort? And why would you need to get roaring d*unk before meeting such a person?

I didn't consider myself roaring d*unk he did!! "

It's usually the sober person that can correctly make that judgement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you say on your profile your not looking for humping and dumping, but that's exactly what he did to you, he's no gentleman, he shoukd have dealt with it completely differently

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Quick question: Do you think you were too d*unk to have sex? There seems to be a lot of emphasis on what he thought, but you're a grown woman.

I do think that if he felt you were too d*unk to have sex, he shouldn't have done it. I would've dropped you back off at your BBQ.

No i was quite happy to be with him.. But think after he got what he wanted he just wanted me home so said your d*unk and left me at bus stop..not friendly and a little effort goes a long way..

Never saw him again so it did have an impact

For the record, I think it was a bit of a dick move to leave you at a bus stop. However, you are sounding a little bit privileged here. If that were me, I'd call a taxi and find my own way home.

Don't rely on anyone else."

I travelled 40 odd miles that night on public transport as i did on all meets with him a little gentlemanly effort as stated on profile wouldn't have hurt.. We all make mistakes.. Male and female.. And it's nice to look out for each other from time to time.. May all your meets be pleasant for the future

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Quick question: Do you think you were too d*unk to have sex? There seems to be a lot of emphasis on what he thought, but you're a grown woman.

I do think that if he felt you were too d*unk to have sex, he shouldn't have done it. I would've dropped you back off at your BBQ.

No i was quite happy to be with him.. But think after he got what he wanted he just wanted me home so said your d*unk and left me at bus stop..not friendly and a little effort goes a long way..

Never saw him again so it did have an impact

A little effort does go a long way, and by the sounds of it, you put no effort in at all.

You got d*unk before a pre-arranged meet with him, and then expected him to take you home afterwards.

Yep that's sounds exactly it. She got what she wanted from a fb,then expected a free ride home.

Op did you just presume he was going to trek you all the way home,did you not think prior to meeting him how you would get home. I know I alway's do,but then I either don't drink to drive myself or stay over if I've been drinking. I wouldn't presume someone else was going to take me.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Quick question: Do you think you were too d*unk to have sex? There seems to be a lot of emphasis on what he thought, but you're a grown woman.

I do think that if he felt you were too d*unk to have sex, he shouldn't have done it. I would've dropped you back off at your BBQ.

No i was quite happy to be with him.. But think after he got what he wanted he just wanted me home so said your d*unk and left me at bus stop..not friendly and a little effort goes a long way..

Never saw him again so it did have an impact

A little effort does go a long way, and by the sounds of it, you put no effort in at all.

You got d*unk before a pre-arranged meet with him, and then expected him to take you home afterwards.

It was not the first meet lots of effort on my part fk all on his..

There's your answer. Why would you choose to meet someone who made no effort? And why would you need to get roaring d*unk before meeting such a person?

I didn't consider myself roaring d*unk he did!! "

So you were more than capable enough to get the bus back home then!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Quick question: Do you think you were too d*unk to have sex? There seems to be a lot of emphasis on what he thought, but you're a grown woman.

I do think that if he felt you were too d*unk to have sex, he shouldn't have done it. I would've dropped you back off at your BBQ.

No i was quite happy to be with him.. But think after he got what he wanted he just wanted me home so said your d*unk and left me at bus stop..not friendly and a little effort goes a long way..

Never saw him again so it did have an impact

A little effort does go a long way, and by the sounds of it, you put no effort in at all.

You got d*unk before a pre-arranged meet with him, and then expected him to take you home afterwards.

It was not the first meet lots of effort on my part fk all on his..

There's your answer. Why would you choose to meet someone who made no effort? And why would you need to get roaring d*unk before meeting such a person?

I didn't consider myself roaring d*unk he did!!

So you were more than capable enough to get the bus back home then!"

I wouldn't have let someone but guess I'm just different

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Quick question: Do you think you were too d*unk to have sex? There seems to be a lot of emphasis on what he thought, but you're a grown woman.

I do think that if he felt you were too d*unk to have sex, he shouldn't have done it. I would've dropped you back off at your BBQ.

No i was quite happy to be with him.. But think after he got what he wanted he just wanted me home so said your d*unk and left me at bus stop..not friendly and a little effort goes a long way..

Never saw him again so it did have an impact

A little effort does go a long way, and by the sounds of it, you put no effort in at all.

You got d*unk before a pre-arranged meet with him, and then expected him to take you home afterwards.

Yep that's sounds exactly it. She got what she wanted from a fb,then expected a free ride home.

No i didn't get what i wanted RESPECT ffs hope all your meets run smoothly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP you say on your profile your not looking for humping and dumping, but that's exactly what he did to you, he's no gentleman, he shoukd have dealt with it completely differently

Do I hear the sound of hooves...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Quick question: Do you think you were too d*unk to have sex? There seems to be a lot of emphasis on what he thought, but you're a grown woman.

I do think that if he felt you were too d*unk to have sex, he shouldn't have done it. I would've dropped you back off at your BBQ.

No i was quite happy to be with him.. But think after he got what he wanted he just wanted me home so said your d*unk and left me at bus stop..not friendly and a little effort goes a long way..

Never saw him again so it did have an impact

A little effort does go a long way, and by the sounds of it, you put no effort in at all.

You got d*unk before a pre-arranged meet with him, and then expected him to take you home afterwards.

Yep that's sounds exactly it. She got what she wanted from a fb,then expected a free ride home.

No i didn't get what i wanted RESPECT ffs hope all your meets run smoothly

They do as I don't tend to rely on others to get me home!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Quick question: Do you think you were too d*unk to have sex? There seems to be a lot of emphasis on what he thought, but you're a grown woman.

I do think that if he felt you were too d*unk to have sex, he shouldn't have done it. I would've dropped you back off at your BBQ.

No i was quite happy to be with him.. But think after he got what he wanted he just wanted me home so said your d*unk and left me at bus stop..not friendly and a little effort goes a long way..

Never saw him again so it did have an impact

A little effort does go a long way, and by the sounds of it, you put no effort in at all.

You got d*unk before a pre-arranged meet with him, and then expected him to take you home afterwards.

Yep that's sounds exactly it. She got what she wanted from a fb,then expected a free ride home.

No i didn't get what i wanted RESPECT ffs hope all your meets run smoothly

but he was a fb,not a blooming taxi service!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Good god,women in other countries are fighting for the right to simply drive at this moment in time and here we have a woman putting us women back decade's!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quick question: Do you think you were too d*unk to have sex? There seems to be a lot of emphasis on what he thought, but you're a grown woman.

I do think that if he felt you were too d*unk to have sex, he shouldn't have done it. I would've dropped you back off at your BBQ.

No i was quite happy to be with him.. But think after he got what he wanted he just wanted me home so said your d*unk and left me at bus stop..not friendly and a little effort goes a long way..

Never saw him again so it did have an impact

A little effort does go a long way, and by the sounds of it, you put no effort in at all.

You got d*unk before a pre-arranged meet with him, and then expected him to take you home afterwards.

Yep that's sounds exactly it. She got what she wanted from a fb,then expected a free ride home.

No i didn't get what i wanted RESPECT ffs hope all your meets run smoothly

How did he not respect you? How did you get home on the previous occasions you met him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love how people think she's his responsibility!

No one forced her to drink, or meet up and have mutual sex which she was sober enough to AGREE to.

Why didn't you ask him before meeting him if he was ok to drop you home?

I wouldn't have thought asking an option.. Guessing chivalry is dead for a few of you.. Nothin like makin a few friends lol

I'm not trying to be your friend.

I just don't like the fact you're berating a guy for not dropping you home. Were you incapable of calling a taxi then?

Also at what time did all this take place? Couldn't have been late if buses were running.

Thank god your not trying to be a friend lol !!

Take your not in the nice to be nice club

I'm in the "You're a grown woman, you're responsible for yourself" club

And also the "I have a bit more class than to start a woe is me thread about another site user who doesn't even know about this threa" club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now in the cold light of day ~ is it worth speaking to this guy and asking him why he thought it was acceptable to not take you home & how it made you feel?

At least it would give you a chance to air your grievance & him to say his piece, something you might not have totally appreciated depending on the amount you drank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good god,women in other countries are fighting for the right to simply drive at this moment in time and here we have a woman putting us women back decade's!"

Hear hear! And remember that if you want others to treat you with respect, you have to respect yourself first and foremost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a definite song script in this post,

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

It makes him a total bastard.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love how people think she's his responsibility!

No one forced her to drink, or meet up and have mutual sex which she was sober enough to AGREE to.

Why didn't you ask him before meeting him if he was ok to drop you home?

I wouldn't have thought asking an option.. Guessing chivalry is dead for a few of you.. Nothin like makin a few friends lol

I'm not trying to be your friend.

I just don't like the fact you're berating a guy for not dropping you home. Were you incapable of calling a taxi then?

Also at what time did all this take place? Couldn't have been late if buses were running.

Thank god your not trying to be a friend lol !!

Take your not in the nice to be nice club

I'm in the "You're a grown woman, you're responsible for yourself" club

And also the "I have a bit more class than to start a woe is me thread about another site user who doesn't even know about this threa" club. "

You're a man and not a gentle one..

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"It makes him a total bastard. "

Why he dropped her at the bus stop didn't he,they both got what they wanted a shag and then said goodbye. That's a fb.

Unless you're just messing of course...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love how people think she's his responsibility!

No one forced her to drink, or meet up and have mutual sex which she was sober enough to AGREE to.

Why didn't you ask him before meeting him if he was ok to drop you home?

I wouldn't have thought asking an option.. Guessing chivalry is dead for a few of you.. Nothin like makin a few friends lol

I'm not trying to be your friend.

I just don't like the fact you're berating a guy for not dropping you home. Were you incapable of calling a taxi then?

Also at what time did all this take place? Couldn't have been late if buses were running.

Thank god your not trying to be a friend lol !!

Take your not in the nice to be nice club

I'm in the "You're a grown woman, you're responsible for yourself" club

And also the "I have a bit more class than to start a woe is me thread about another site user who doesn't even know about this threa" club.

You're a man and not a gentle one..

Oh do grow up a little, and stop acting like a spoilt little princess eh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love how people think she's his responsibility!

No one forced her to drink, or meet up and have mutual sex which she was sober enough to AGREE to.

Why didn't you ask him before meeting him if he was ok to drop you home?

I wouldn't have thought asking an option.. Guessing chivalry is dead for a few of you.. Nothin like makin a few friends lol

I'm not trying to be your friend.

I just don't like the fact you're berating a guy for not dropping you home. Were you incapable of calling a taxi then?

Also at what time did all this take place? Couldn't have been late if buses were running.

Thank god your not trying to be a friend lol !!

Take your not in the nice to be nice club

I'm in the "You're a grown woman, you're responsible for yourself" club

And also the "I have a bit more class than to start a woe is me thread about another site user who doesn't even know about this threa" club.

You're a man and not a gentle one..

Oh do grow up a little, and stop acting like a spoilt little princess eh?

Lol i think it's your tiara that's slipped over the edge..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good god,women in other countries are fighting for the right to simply drive at this moment in time and here we have a woman putting us women back decade's!"

Eh taking it too far now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have sex with anyone that had to get pissed .A drink together yes but pissed is a no no in my opinion .I like too know what I'm doing and enjoy every moment .

Just forget about him , Sounds like he's a bit of a idiot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love how people think she's his responsibility!

No one forced her to drink, or meet up and have mutual sex which she was sober enough to AGREE to.

Why didn't you ask him before meeting him if he was ok to drop you home?

I wouldn't have thought asking an option.. Guessing chivalry is dead for a few of you.. Nothin like makin a few friends lol

I'm not trying to be your friend.

I just don't like the fact you're berating a guy for not dropping you home. Were you incapable of calling a taxi then?

Also at what time did all this take place? Couldn't have been late if buses were running.

Thank god your not trying to be a friend lol !!

Take your not in the nice to be nice club

I'm in the "You're a grown woman, you're responsible for yourself" club

And also the "I have a bit more class than to start a woe is me thread about another site user who doesn't even know about this threa" club.

You're a man and not a gentle one..

Oh do grow up a little, and stop acting like a spoilt little princess eh?

Lol i think it's your tiara that's slipped over the edge..

I'm not the one throwing tantrums because poor little me was left to my own devices after a meet.

How about you contact the guy on here, tell him about this thread and let's have his input too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It makes him a total bastard.

Why he dropped her at the bus stop didn't he,they both got what they wanted a shag and then said goodbye. That's a fb.

Unless you're just messing of course..."

Guess I'm not going to win on the treat others bit then manners cost nowt..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love how people think she's his responsibility!

No one forced her to drink, or meet up and have mutual sex which she was sober enough to AGREE to.

Why didn't you ask him before meeting him if he was ok to drop you home?

I wouldn't have thought asking an option.. Guessing chivalry is dead for a few of you.. Nothin like makin a few friends lol

I'm not trying to be your friend.

I just don't like the fact you're berating a guy for not dropping you home. Were you incapable of calling a taxi then?

Also at what time did all this take place? Couldn't have been late if buses were running.

Thank god your not trying to be a friend lol !!

Take your not in the nice to be nice club

I'm in the "You're a grown woman, you're responsible for yourself" club

And also the "I have a bit more class than to start a woe is me thread about another site user who doesn't even know about this threa" club.

You're a man and not a gentle one..

Oh do grow up a little, and stop acting like a spoilt little princess eh?

Lol i think it's your tiara that's slipped over the edge..

I'm not the one throwing tantrums because poor little me was left to my own devices after a meet.

How about you contact the guy on here, tell him about this thread and let's have his input too. "

Nosey lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good god,women in other countries are fighting for the right to simply drive at this moment in time and here we have a woman putting us women back decade's!

Hear hear! And remember that if you want others to treat you with respect, you have to respect yourself first and foremost "

I have the utmost respect for myself and i treat ppl the same way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Quick question: Do you think you were too d*unk to have sex? There seems to be a lot of emphasis on what he thought, but you're a grown woman.

I do think that if he felt you were too d*unk to have sex, he shouldn't have done it. I would've dropped you back off at your BBQ.

No i was quite happy to be with him.. But think after he got what he wanted he just wanted me home so said your d*unk and left me at bus stop..not friendly and a little effort goes a long way..

Never saw him again so it did have an impact

A little effort does go a long way, and by the sounds of it, you put no effort in at all.

You got d*unk before a pre-arranged meet with him, and then expected him to take you home afterwards.

It was not the first meet lots of effort on my part fk all on his..

Had been meeting for a while considered myself a friend of nothing else don't u look out fro friends??

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

If this is as you say, you don't need to ask us, you know yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good god,women in other countries are fighting for the right to simply drive at this moment in time and here we have a woman putting us women back decade's!

Hear hear! And remember that if you want others to treat you with respect, you have to respect yourself first and foremost

I have the utmost respect for myself and i treat ppl the same way

Your actions suggest otherwise. YOU got d*unk, you suggest that you were perhaps to d*unk to get home safely on the bus. Where is the self respect there? You knew you had to get home, and are now berating a seemingly innocent person who can't defend himself or his decisions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good god,women in other countries are fighting for the right to simply drive at this moment in time and here we have a woman putting us women back decade's!

Hear hear! And remember that if you want others to treat you with respect, you have to respect yourself first and foremost

I have the utmost respect for myself and i treat ppl the same way

You just want to know who it is lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good god,women in other countries are fighting for the right to simply drive at this moment in time and here we have a woman putting us women back decade's!

Hear hear! And remember that if you want others to treat you with respect, you have to respect yourself first and foremost

I have the utmost respect for myself and i treat ppl the same way

You just want to know who it is lol..

Absolutely.. So I can alert him to this thread and let him offer his side of the story and have a chance to defend himself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good god,women in other countries are fighting for the right to simply drive at this moment in time and here we have a woman putting us women back decade's!

Hear hear! And remember that if you want others to treat you with respect, you have to respect yourself first and foremost

I have the utmost respect for myself and i treat ppl the same way

You just want to know who it is lol..

Absolutely.. So I can alert him to this thread and let him offer his side of the story and have a chance to defend himself. "

He's no longer a friend shall we say i wouldn't talk to him again after.. no point .. Just didn't think he was that nice to keep meeting him..

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Good god,women in other countries are fighting for the right to simply drive at this moment in time and here we have a woman putting us women back decade's!

Eh taking it too far now

Maybe but we can't have it both way's can we. Women are still fighting for rights in this day and age and expecting men to ferry us around isn't on. Yes of course it's nice,but you should never expect it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So hang on a minute u agree to a meet hours later ur too d*unk....does that still mean ur consenting because u said hours ealier u would....dnt think so every woman still has a right to change their mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So hang on a minute u agree to a meet hours later ur too d*unk....does that still mean ur consenting because u said hours ealier u would....dnt think so every woman still has a right to change their mind"

Where has it been suggested she changed her mind and withdrew consent?

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By *uziebabyWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

Do you think you had consumed too much alcohol? If so why did you drink so much if not then whats the issue?

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Bad form, you can get in legal trouble for being with someone out of their head.

Some people are just out for their bit and to hell with the world. Others are out to share some good times and would rather drop you home.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good god,women in other countries are fighting for the right to simply drive at this moment in time and here we have a woman putting us women back decade's!

Eh taking it too far now

Didn't expect it.. Just thought he thought a bit more of me.. I would take a friend home in reversed circumstances..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bad form, you can get in legal trouble for being with someone out of their head.

Some people are just out for their bit and to hell with the world. Others are out to share some good times and would rather drop you home."

Yea here's to good times and nice friends to share them with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you met him on previous occasions, how did you get home then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confused. You got public transport 20 miles there so clearly not too d*unk to get there. You had sex with a fuck buddy then he dropped you back at a bus stop and you went home the same way. You weren't too d*unk to decide to go to his and get there. Sounds like he is a bit of a cad but not like he is the devil incarnate.

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By *ammerbrothersCouple (MM)
over a year ago

london

Personally I think a lift home would be the way to go, especially for someone you thought was a little on the d*unk side. To be brutally honest, I don't think someone would do that expecting a return visit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where has it been suggested she changed her mind and withdrew consent? "

Ppl have implied she went there d*unk so its her own fault....but alcohol or not doesnt mean she had to have sex with him

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I had another couple at his and i think if someones just been intimate with u the least you could do is take them home.. I would if it was other way round no probs..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a gentleman and not a friend to be honest.

More of a chancer and a user.

That's disgraceful behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What were the transport arrangements on previous meets?

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By *ightasiandelightCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I guess that's the difference

between a fb and FWB

Very true xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What were the transport arrangements on previous meets?"

I've asked that a couple of times yet that question seems to be ignored by the OP.

I wonder why.

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By *idalgo13Man
over a year ago

Near York

Pure dastard....unacceptable on all levels. Left you at a bus stop, d*unk....what type of regular fb is that...no one concerned for your well being and safety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pure dastard....unacceptable on all levels. Left you at a bus stop, d*unk....what type of regular fb is that...no one concerned for your well being and safety."

The OP has responsibility for her own welfare and safety. She shouldn't have got d*unk.. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If he could drive you to the bus stop he could have driven you back home ensuring you get in safe and sound.

What a complete bastard.

Clearly he's shellfish and doesn't respect you.

Exactly. She could've lobster way getting home

Precisely. Hope eel regret doing being so shellfish.

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By *idalgo13Man
over a year ago

Near York

"Pure dastard....unacceptable on all levels. Left you at a bus stop, d*unk....what type of regular fb is that...no one concerned for your well being and safety.

The OP has responsibility for her own welfare and safety. She shouldn't have got d*unk.. Simple. "

Yes, I see your point and partly agree but whatever the circumstances for being d*unk, nerves etc..surely common courtesy extends to ensuring a someone you know however tenuously gets home safely....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pure dastard....unacceptable on all levels. Left you at a bus stop, d*unk....what type of regular fb is that...no one concerned for your well being and safety.

The OP has responsibility for her own welfare and safety. She shouldn't have got d*unk.. Simple. "

You've never been d*unk and a bit silly ? Ever?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pure dastard....unacceptable on all levels. Left you at a bus stop, d*unk....what type of regular fb is that...no one concerned for your well being and safety.

The OP has responsibility for her own welfare and safety. She shouldn't have got d*unk.. Simple. "

I think you're being overly critical. People get d*unk.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What were the transport arrangements on previous meets?

I've asked that a couple of times yet that question seems to be ignored by the OP.

I wonder why."

Wonder no more!!

It varied as he saw fit..we both made a lot of effort in the beginning but think his facade wained.. what annoyed me was thinking he was a friend he could have saw me home safely that one night at least..i would do it for anyone but that's me..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pure dastard....unacceptable on all levels. Left you at a bus stop, d*unk....what type of regular fb is that...no one concerned for your well being and safety.

The OP has responsibility for her own welfare and safety. She shouldn't have got d*unk.. Simple. "

Yeah maybe..but hey nobody's perfect.. Oops except u.. You must be

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

OP its not very charitable, why would he do that and not take you home?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he was anything if a decent man and friend he should have taken you home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a dick!! Should have made sure you got home called you a taxi or uber x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"OP its not very charitable, why would he do that and not take you home?"

Probably because she was just a woman he saw for sex and it was a 40 mile round trip and because she was more than capable of getting on the bus to get herself home!

She made it right so she can't actually have been that d*unk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What were the transport arrangements on previous meets?

I've asked that a couple of times yet that question seems to be ignored by the OP.

I wonder why.

Wonder no more!!

All you can do is learn from this experience and take it forward to whoever & whenever you meet next.

Just because you would do something don't assume everyone else would too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP its not very charitable, why would he do that and not take you home?

Probably because she was just a woman he saw for sex and it was a 40 mile round trip and because she was more than capable of getting on the bus to get herself home!

She made it right so she can't actually have been that d*unk!"

Aye ok just a woman for sex what an irresponsible comment..ok it's a sex site but does that mean u leave your common decency at the door.. i wouldn't!! .. Ppl like u spoil fab.. There is nothing nice or friendly about you..you should meet him.. you seem his type.. No manners or morals towards fellow humans.. Shocking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What were the transport arrangements on previous meets?

I've asked that a couple of times yet that question seems to be ignored by the OP.

I wonder why.

Wonder no more!!

All you can do is learn from this experience and take it forward to whoever & whenever you meet next.

Just because you would do something don't assume everyone else would too!"

Yea i know that but we can't all be the same shame tho.. It has kinda put me off ..

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"OP its not very charitable, why would he do that and not take you home?

Probably because she was just a woman he saw for sex and it was a 40 mile round trip and because she was more than capable of getting on the bus to get herself home!

She made it right so she can't actually have been that d*unk!

Sure give me his username so I can get his version of event's! I'm just not a woman who comes across like the little helpless woman that you are that's all. You're the one that got d*unk he wasn't your responsibility was he,you shouldn't have got yourself into that state if you knew you had to get home. Now stop coming across like a feeble woman and take responsibility for your own wellbeing

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I have a shelf to put up,me being a woman mean's I couldn't possibly do it,who would be a gentleman and pop it up for me?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP its not very charitable, why would he do that and not take you home?

Probably because she was just a woman he saw for sex and it was a 40 mile round trip and because she was more than capable of getting on the bus to get herself home!

She made it right so she can't actually have been that d*unk!

I can assure I'm not helpless just as well with ppl like you and him around lol.. Just like i keep saying nice to be nice..fwb are still friends.. But his blatant disregard cost him cos i saw him for what he was.. Now u run along and spread some cheer elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have a shelf to put up,me being a woman mean's I couldn't possibly do it,who would be a gentleman and pop it up for me?

I know a good place to pop it..

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"OP its not very charitable, why would he do that and not take you home?

Probably because she was just a woman he saw for sex and it was a 40 mile round trip and because she was more than capable of getting on the bus to get herself home!

She made it right so she can't actually have been that d*unk!

Erm you said he was a fb not a fwb,make your blooming mind up

. Last word to you my little helpless dear...

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