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"I was talking to mate I hadn't seen for years. We got talking about the internet and what we do on it. He said he was on a site similar to fab. He had a few women block him. He won the lottery and it got around a lot of people on the website. Suddenly some women who had previously said he was ugly or not their type started messaging him asking if he wanted to meet. He said he finds it hilarious. He said one woman even created a new profile to get around the block he put on her. He said before he won the lottery when he contacted the woman who created the new profile she told him he was ugly and wouldn’t shag him I he was the last man on earth. Not a nice thing to say and obviously you would remember who said it. To my question ladies. If you turned a guy down then found out he had won the lottery would change your mind about him now he is rich? " To be fair any lady, or gentleman, shallow enough to do this would never own up to it. At least I would imagine they would have too much shame to own up to this. But if I am proven wrong I would like to hear how they justify it. | |||
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"I was talking to mate I hadn't seen for years. We got talking about the internet and what we do on it. He said he was on a site similar to fab. He had a few women block him. He won the lottery and it got around a lot of people on the website. Suddenly some women who had previously said he was ugly or not their type started messaging him asking if he wanted to meet. He said he finds it hilarious. He said one woman even created a new profile to get around the block he put on her. He said before he won the lottery when he contacted the woman who created the new profile she told him he was ugly and wouldn’t shag him I he was the last man on earth. Not a nice thing to say and obviously you would remember who said it. To my question ladies. If you turned a guy down then found out he had won the lottery would change your mind about him now he is rich? To be fair any lady, or gentleman, shallow enough to do this would never own up to it. At least I would imagine they would have too much shame to own up to this. But if I am proven wrong I would like to hear how they justify it. " Money and the power it brings are heady aphrodisiacs. | |||
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"I was talking to mate I hadn't seen for years. We got talking about the internet and what we do on it. He said he was on a site similar to fab. He had a few women block him. He won the lottery and it got around a lot of people on the website. Suddenly some women who had previously said he was ugly or not their type started messaging him asking if he wanted to meet. He said he finds it hilarious. He said one woman even created a new profile to get around the block he put on her. He said before he won the lottery when he contacted the woman who created the new profile she told him he was ugly and wouldn’t shag him I he was the last man on earth. Not a nice thing to say and obviously you would remember who said it. To my question ladies. If you turned a guy down then found out he had won the lottery would change your mind about him now he is rich? " Ill shag your mate. Sod the women haha | |||
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"If I was looking for a life partner and I had the choice of two men, one wealthy and one a pauper, all other things being equal I would choose the wealthy man." Very honest and reasonable answer. | |||
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"If I was looking for a life partner and I had the choice of two men, one wealthy and one a pauper, all other things being equal I would choose the wealthy man. Very honest and reasonable answer." Life's easier with money. It doesn't make you happy but it doesn't make you unhappy either. It doesn't bring you health but its a darn site easier to be ill if you don't need to worry about paying the gas bill. | |||
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"If I was looking for a life partner and I had the choice of two men, one wealthy and one a pauper, all other things being equal I would choose the wealthy man." Ah but if the wealthy man was ugly and the poor man was a hunky sex god who would you choose? | |||
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"If I was looking for a life partner and I had the choice of two men, one wealthy and one a pauper, all other things being equal I would choose the wealthy man. Ah but if the wealthy man was ugly and the poor man was a hunky sex god who would you choose?" I said all other things being equal so they'd both be equally attractive or unattractive. Of course its a hypothetical situation and in reality I would go for the man I loved regardless of wealth. In a casual sex situation I'd go for the most attractive again, regardless of wealth. | |||
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"If I was looking for a life partner and I had the choice of two men, one wealthy and one a pauper, all other things being equal I would choose the wealthy man." No shit... | |||
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"If I was looking for a life partner and I had the choice of two men, one wealthy and one a pauper, all other things being equal I would choose the wealthy man. Ah but if the wealthy man was ugly and the poor man was a hunky sex god who would you choose? I said all other things being equal so they'd both be equally attractive or unattractive. Of course its a hypothetical situation and in reality I would go for the man I loved regardless of wealth. In a casual sex situation I'd go for the most attractive again, regardless of wealth." Indeed. But isn't it also the case that you are more likely to love the wealthier man. Say you are single and looking to date. You have two men in their forties. One is unemployed, has never held down a proper job and lives with his parents. The other has a professional career, a good salary and his own house. Are you not far more likely to date the latter man and hence come to love him? Winning the lottery as the OP posited is a different because that says nothing about the nature of a person. | |||
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"No, rich people can still be dickheads too I'm not saying your mate is one, but money shouldn't change anything. " But it does, for some people. The Op has a point, and it's a fact. However, I dong think it has everything to do with the cash. Money can make people more confident than they would be if they were in debt as an example. People pick up on confidence. (I know this doesn't work when it's a profile we see) But your right as wel, I know people who turned into absolute cocks after coming into money. Such a turn off for me. | |||
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"I'd like to know how word of this guys new found wealth got around.He wouldn't have been boasting about it in the hope of making himself more desirable by any chance,would he? " In my view, the OP's story strikes me as rather unlikely. It may well be just be some morality tale about how all women are mercenary bitches. Personally, if I won the lottery and found that loads of women suddenly wanted to have sex with me, I'd be filling my boots | |||
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"I'd like to know how word of this guys new found wealth got around.He wouldn't have been boasting about it in the hope of making himself more desirable by any chance,would he? In my view, the OP's story strikes me as rather unlikely. It may well be just be some morality tale about how all women are mercenary bitches. Personally, if I won the lottery and found that loads of women suddenly wanted to have sex with me, I'd be filling my boots " I know right. Ride the wave...so to speak. | |||
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"No, rich people can still be dickheads too I'm not saying your mate is one, but money shouldn't change anything. But it does, for some people. The Op has a point, and it's a fact. However, I dong think it has everything to do with the cash. Money can make people more confident than they would be if they were in debt as an example. People pick up on confidence. (I know this doesn't work when it's a profile we see) But your right as wel, I know people who turned into absolute cocks after coming into money. Such a turn off for me. " Indeed. There's a lot of bollocks talked about how money shouldn't effect how you feel about someone. It obviously does. You are rather more likely to get a woman to go on a date with you if you can afford to take her to a nice restaurant rather than McDonald's. | |||
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"If I was looking for a life partner and I had the choice of two men, one wealthy and one a pauper, all other things being equal I would choose the wealthy man. Ah but if the wealthy man was ugly and the poor man was a hunky sex god who would you choose? I said all other things being equal so they'd both be equally attractive or unattractive. Of course its a hypothetical situation and in reality I would go for the man I loved regardless of wealth. In a casual sex situation I'd go for the most attractive again, regardless of wealth. Indeed. But isn't it also the case that you are more likely to love the wealthier man. Say you are single and looking to date. You have two men in their forties. One is unemployed, has never held down a proper job and lives with his parents. The other has a professional career, a good salary and his own house. Are you not far more likely to date the latter man and hence come to love him? Winning the lottery as the OP posited is a different because that says nothing about the nature of a person. " The likelihood of a man in his forties wanting to date me with a view to loving me in a long-term relationship is unlikely but in the interests of discussion lets suspend our disbelief. Yes, I would be more likely to go for the wealthier guy in the situation you describe. The other guy sounds like an idle layabout at face value. Life isn't as straight forward as that, however I've lived long enough to know that love doesn't pay the rent. I'm also a realist when it comes to human nature (some would say cynic) and if gods forbid I was ever single again the likelihood of me falling in love ever again is remote. | |||
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"I'd like to know how word of this guys new found wealth got around.He wouldn't have been boasting about it in the hope of making himself more desirable by any chance,would he? " was thinking exactly this x | |||
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"I was talking to mate I hadn't seen for years. We got talking about the internet and what we do on it. He said he was on a site similar to fab. He had a few women block him. He won the lottery and it got around a lot of people on the website. Suddenly some women who had previously said he was ugly or not their type started messaging him asking if he wanted to meet. He said he finds it hilarious. He said one woman even created a new profile to get around the block he put on her. He said before he won the lottery when he contacted the woman who created the new profile she told him he was ugly and wouldn’t shag him I he was the last man on earth. Not a nice thing to say and obviously you would remember who said it. To my question ladies. If you turned a guy down then found out he had won the lottery would change your mind about him now he is rich? " No. I have a type and it's irrelevant of great riches. I've met affluent guys but if there's little to no chemistry, there'll be no repeat meets. | |||
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"I'd like to know how word of this guys new found wealth got around.He wouldn't have been boasting about it in the hope of making himself more desirable by any chance,would he? In my view, the OP's story strikes me as rather unlikely. It may well be just be some morality tale about how all women are mercenary bitches. Personally, if I won the lottery and found that loads of women suddenly wanted to have sex with me, I'd be filling my boots " Both sexes seem to have issue eith the mercenary nature of 'love'. The polite thing is to pretend that women are just more likely to fall in 'love' with wealthy men and men are just more likely to fall in 'love' with conventionally attractive women. Enter tirade of bullshit from people that don't have the looks or money to play the game and therefore make up counter factual explanations... | |||
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"I was talking to mate I hadn't seen for years. We got talking about the internet and what we do on it. He said he was on a site similar to fab. He had a few women block him. He won the lottery and it got around a lot of people on the website. Suddenly some women who had previously said he was ugly or not their type started messaging him asking if he wanted to meet. He said he finds it hilarious. He said one woman even created a new profile to get around the block he put on her. He said before he won the lottery when he contacted the woman who created the new profile she told him he was ugly and wouldn’t shag him I he was the last man on earth. Not a nice thing to say and obviously you would remember who said it. To my question ladies. If you turned a guy down then found out he had won the lottery would change your mind about him now he is rich? " no | |||
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"Ewwww. I’m like a strict split 50:50 kinda gal. Money has never interested me in the slightest. I’m happier sat in a dive bar clutching a bottle of beer and chatting shit than I am in a fancy cocktail bar with a ten pound drink. " It's almost like you think your choices are as limited when you're rich as when you're poor. | |||
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"Ewwww. I’m like a strict split 50:50 kinda gal. Money has never interested me in the slightest. I’m happier sat in a dive bar clutching a bottle of beer and chatting shit than I am in a fancy cocktail bar with a ten pound drink. It's almost like you think your choices are as limited when you're rich as when you're poor." I grew up with wealth. I’ve also hidden from bailiffs in a poky flat in the kind of place where the local shop closing because someone got stabbed elicited no more than an eyeroll from me. Different issues. Money doesn’t solve anything and neither does penury. Education helps though. | |||
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"Ewwww. I’m like a strict split 50:50 kinda gal. Money has never interested me in the slightest. I’m happier sat in a dive bar clutching a bottle of beer and chatting shit than I am in a fancy cocktail bar with a ten pound drink. It's almost like you think your choices are as limited when you're rich as when you're poor. I grew up with wealth. I’ve also hidden from bailiffs in a poky flat in the kind of place where the local shop closing because someone got stabbed elicited no more than an eyeroll from me. Different issues. Money doesn’t solve anything and neither does penury. Education helps though. " You'd think. But you utterly missed my point. | |||
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"Ewwww. I’m like a strict split 50:50 kinda gal. Money has never interested me in the slightest. I’m happier sat in a dive bar clutching a bottle of beer and chatting shit than I am in a fancy cocktail bar with a ten pound drink. It's almost like you think your choices are as limited when you're rich as when you're poor. I grew up with wealth. I’ve also hidden from bailiffs in a poky flat in the kind of place where the local shop closing because someone got stabbed elicited no more than an eyeroll from me. Different issues. Money doesn’t solve anything and neither does penury. Education helps though. You'd think. But you utterly missed my point." Then what was your point? Genuinely asking because, as you’ve said, I’ve completely missed it. I hate it when that happens! | |||
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"I was talking to mate I hadn't seen for years. We got talking about the internet and what we do on it. He said he was on a site similar to fab. He had a few women block him. He won the lottery and it got around a lot of people on the website. Suddenly some women who had previously said he was ugly or not their type started messaging him asking if he wanted to meet. He said he finds it hilarious. He said one woman even created a new profile to get around the block he put on her. He said before he won the lottery when he contacted the woman who created the new profile she told him he was ugly and wouldn’t shag him I he was the last man on earth. Not a nice thing to say and obviously you would remember who said it. To my question ladies. If you turned a guy down then found out he had won the lottery would change your mind about him now he is rich? " have a look at the golddiggers videos on you tube | |||
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"Haha look at all the ladies in here virtue signalling! Look at me I'm not influenced by money!! LOL. " Maybe us ladies have enough of our money and don't need anyone else's? Heaven forbid | |||
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"I was talking to mate I hadn't seen for years. We got talking about the internet and what we do on it. He said he was on a site similar to fab. He had a few women block him. He won the lottery and it got around a lot of people on the website. Suddenly some women who had previously said he was ugly or not their type started messaging him asking if he wanted to meet. He said he finds it hilarious. He said one woman even created a new profile to get around the block he put on her. He said before he won the lottery when he contacted the woman who created the new profile she told him he was ugly and wouldn’t shag him I he was the last man on earth. Not a nice thing to say and obviously you would remember who said it. To my question ladies. If you turned a guy down then found out he had won the lottery would change your mind about him now he is rich? " No. I’m very financially sound myself. | |||
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"This is unintentionaly very funny!, Chuckling at all the ones going out of the way to say money wouldn't influence their choice! " How wealthy do you think you'd need to be to have them flooding your inbox? | |||
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"This is unintentionaly very funny!, Chuckling at all the ones going out of the way to say money wouldn't influence their choice! How wealthy do you think you'd need to be to have them flooding your inbox?" Very, very!, im thinking! | |||
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"I was talking to mate I hadn't seen for years. We got talking about the internet and what we do on it. He said he was on a site similar to fab. He had a few women block him. He won the lottery and it got around a lot of people on the website. Suddenly some women who had previously said he was ugly or not their type started messaging him asking if he wanted to meet. He said he finds it hilarious. He said one woman even created a new profile to get around the block he put on her. He said before he won the lottery when he contacted the woman who created the new profile she told him he was ugly and wouldn’t shag him I he was the last man on earth. Not a nice thing to say and obviously you would remember who said it. To my question ladies. If you turned a guy down then found out he had won the lottery would change your mind about him now he is rich? Only if he offered cake x" I've got cake | |||
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"Ewwww. I’m like a strict split 50:50 kinda gal. Money has never interested me in the slightest. I’m happier sat in a dive bar clutching a bottle of beer and chatting shit than I am in a fancy cocktail bar with a ten pound drink. It's almost like you think your choices are as limited when you're rich as when you're poor. I grew up with wealth. I’ve also hidden from bailiffs in a poky flat in the kind of place where the local shop closing because someone got stabbed elicited no more than an eyeroll from me. Different issues. Money doesn’t solve anything and neither does penury. Education helps though. You'd think. But you utterly missed my point. Then what was your point? Genuinely asking because, as you’ve said, I’ve completely missed it. I hate it when that happens! " You made a comment that implied if you were rich you would only do certain things that cost a certain amount of money and would not be able to do other things that you personally prefer. Which is clearly not true. | |||
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"I was talking to mate I hadn't seen for years. We got talking about the internet and what we do on it. He said he was on a site similar to fab. He had a few women block him. He won the lottery and it got around a lot of people on the website. Suddenly some women who had previously said he was ugly or not their type started messaging him asking if he wanted to meet. He said he finds it hilarious. He said one woman even created a new profile to get around the block he put on her. He said before he won the lottery when he contacted the woman who created the new profile she told him he was ugly and wouldn’t shag him I he was the last man on earth. Not a nice thing to say and obviously you would remember who said it. To my question ladies. If you turned a guy down then found out he had won the lottery would change your mind about him now he is rich? Only if he offered cake x" | |||
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