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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So we have been off the scene for over a year now (just on for the forum ATM) but recently I've (m) been feeling the pull to be naughty again.

So quite a bit recently I've been looking through the meets section and checking locals who look to meet, I check their profiles and perv over the photos, a couple of times messaged about a gangbang. Trouble is I've no interest in actually meeting these people alone, so makes me a bit of a time waster without trying to arrange anything.

I'm finding more and more the fantasy is a turn on but that's where it stops, the reality is I cannot imagine meeting with anyone else with or without the wife's permission, swinging just doesn't appeal without her being there.

This I think is one of the reasons why a lot of guys arrange meets and don't show up, I may be wrong on that but sometimes the thrill is in the fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we have been off the scene for over a year now (just on for the forum ATM) but recently I've (m) been feeling the pull to be naughty again.

So quite a bit recently I've been looking through the meets section and checking locals who look to meet, I check their profiles and perv over the photos, a couple of times messaged about a gangbang. Trouble is I've no interest in actually meeting these people alone, so makes me a bit of a time waster without trying to arrange anything.

I'm finding more and more the fantasy is a turn on but that's where it stops, the reality is I cannot imagine meeting with anyone else with or without the wife's permission, swinging just doesn't appeal without her being there.

This I think is one of the reasons why a lot of guys arrange meets and don't show up, I may be wrong on that but sometimes the thrill is in the fantasy.

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I agree sometimes it's more exciting in the mind then doing it .. but if your getting the feeling to look then why not take part

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So we have been off the scene for over a year now (just on for the forum ATM) but recently I've (m) been feeling the pull to be naughty again.

So quite a bit recently I've been looking through the meets section and checking locals who look to meet, I check their profiles and perv over the photos, a couple of times messaged about a gangbang. Trouble is I've no interest in actually meeting these people alone, so makes me a bit of a time waster without trying to arrange anything.

I'm finding more and more the fantasy is a turn on but that's where it stops, the reality is I cannot imagine meeting with anyone else with or without the wife's permission, swinging just doesn't appeal without her being there.

This I think is one of the reasons why a lot of guys arrange meets and don't show up, I may be wrong on that but sometimes the thrill is in the fantasy.

I agree sometimes it's more exciting in the mind then doing it .. but if your getting the feeling to look then why not take part"

Because as I said I cannot imagine doing it without my wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then get your wife involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you've hit the nail on the head with the fantasy aspect, which is why it is so unfair and infuriating to people like me who are looking for real-life experiences. So if you're not serious about meeting, I would urge you not to contact people.

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By *icegentglosMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

For me it starts with the fantasy then I want to do it ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you've hit the nail on the head with the fantasy aspect, which is why it is so unfair and infuriating to people like me who are looking for real-life experiences. So if you're not serious about meeting, I would urge you not to contact people. "

That's why I don't the only contact I made was with a gangbang group (who charged shit loads). I find looking at the photos keeps me ticking. Then I stick on porn and knock one out. I know we will eventually start meeting again I just have no time scale.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Then get your wife involved "

She will once she's ready. (we just had a baby 7 months ago)

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