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By *exy_as_fuck_couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

London

September 23rd is bisexual awareness day. It's a Saturday. Who knew about this beforehand and who will be doing anything to celebrate this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't know. What can we do to celebrate?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We didn't know about it .

And we will be doing fuck all to celebrate it .

Why people want to glorify and celebrate their sexuality is beyond us .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to celebrate "anti pigeonhole day"

When people on here feel the need to "categorise" everyone according to their perception of someone elses sexual preference, based upon a few pics and profile write up.

In many cases, it is more complicated. ..

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By *callycatMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

Bisexual awareness day....or as I call it...Saturday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I shall celebrate by being silently aware that bisexual people don't need to be singled out as a minority in 2017.Things like this only promote discrimination

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Oh right,what do bisexuals do on Bisexual Awareness Day?

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By *ifes2short!!Man
over a year ago

newtownabbey

I would like a nice big cock in both ends to celebrate please lol

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By *exy_as_fuck_couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

London

Seems like many people here need to find out about bisexuality. Great since the day is approaching and you can all learn about something and dispel your ignorance.

How are you pigeonholing yourself because you are brave enough to identify as something??? Just because you do not understand something or it doesn't include you, no need to try and shit on other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to celebrate "anti pigeonhole day"

When people on here feel the need to "categorise" everyone according to their perception of someone elses sexual preference, based upon a few pics and profile write up.

In many cases, it is more complicated. .."

Hear hear ....

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Well we'll be at the Birmingham social so I'll try and make everyone aware.. If I remember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"September 23rd is bisexual awareness day. It's a Saturday. Who knew about this beforehand and who will be doing anything to celebrate this?"

Nope first I've heard of it

Only thing I can do to celebrate it is keep being bi

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Well we'll be at the Birmingham social so I'll try and make everyone aware.. If I remember "

I shall celebrate by snogging both men and women at the social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems like many people here need to find out about bisexuality. Great since the day is approaching and you can all learn about something and dispel your ignorance.

How are you pigeonholing yourself because you are brave enough to identify as something??? Just because you do not understand something or it doesn't include you, no need to try and shit on other people. "

Fair point.

But on Fab.. most bi men are bi because it's the only way they can get a shag. And most bi women are bi to turn on the menfolk.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I imagine it's more aimed at people out of the scene, who aren't as aware or accepting of how widespread and usual it is.

But, not heard of it until this post.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Bisexual awareness

It's a quirky one isn't it. Because it's a so much bigger subject than liking sexual contact with men and women. I truly think it's way more complex than being gay, which by and large I feel is pretty much accepted in general society. But if me and Sir came out as being bi, there would be a moment of "ah you like fucking same sex" recognition, before the realisation that it means we aren't monogamous. It would be a massive can of worms.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

When's hetero day?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"September 23rd is bisexual awareness day. It's a Saturday. Who knew about this beforehand and who will be doing anything to celebrate this?"

I'll be at a Pride event.

What will you be doing?

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden


"September 23rd is bisexual awareness day. It's a Saturday. Who knew about this beforehand and who will be doing anything to celebrate this?"

Can it be in Saturday or Sunday ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bisexual awareness

It's a quirky one isn't it. Because it's a so much bigger subject than liking sexual contact with men and women. I truly think it's way more complex than being gay, which by and large I feel is pretty much accepted in general society. But if me and Sir came out as being bi, there would be a moment of "ah you like fucking same sex" recognition, before the realisation that it means we aren't monogamous. It would be a massive can of worms."

Why would it leap to anyone thinking you're not monogamous?

I think that's one of the myths about bisexual people. "They'll fuck anyone."

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Bisexual awareness

It's a quirky one isn't it. Because it's a so much bigger subject than liking sexual contact with men and women. I truly think it's way more complex than being gay, which by and large I feel is pretty much accepted in general society. But if me and Sir came out as being bi, there would be a moment of "ah you like fucking same sex" recognition, before the realisation that it means we aren't monogamous. It would be a massive can of worms.

Why would it leap to anyone thinking you're not monogamous?

I think that's one of the myths about bisexual people. "They'll fuck anyone." "

alright gorjus?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"When's hetero day? "

I'll let you know, if i you let me suck your dick.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Well we'll be at the Birmingham social so I'll try and make everyone aware.. If I remember

I shall celebrate by snogging both men and women at the social "

Oh jolly good

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Well we'll be at the Birmingham social so I'll try and make everyone aware.. If I remember

I shall celebrate by snogging both men and women at the social "

That sounds like a normal Saturday for you

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Bisexual awareness

It's a quirky one isn't it. Because it's a so much bigger subject than liking sexual contact with men and women. I truly think it's way more complex than being gay, which by and large I feel is pretty much accepted in general society. But if me and Sir came out as being bi, there would be a moment of "ah you like fucking same sex" recognition, before the realisation that it means we aren't monogamous. It would be a massive can of worms.

Why would it leap to anyone thinking you're not monogamous?

I think that's one of the myths about bisexual people. "They'll fuck anyone." "

Because apart from fab life, eveyone would think I'm a heterosexual woman. Two marriages to men and always partnered to men, so announcing I'm bi I'm sure folk would think, when ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bisexual awareness

It's a quirky one isn't it. Because it's a so much bigger subject than liking sexual contact with men and women. I truly think it's way more complex than being gay, which by and large I feel is pretty much accepted in general society. But if me and Sir came out as being bi, there would be a moment of "ah you like fucking same sex" recognition, before the realisation that it means we aren't monogamous. It would be a massive can of worms.

Why would it leap to anyone thinking you're not monogamous?

I think that's one of the myths about bisexual people. "They'll fuck anyone."

Because apart from fab life, eveyone would think I'm a heterosexual woman. Two marriages to men and always partnered to men, so announcing I'm bi I'm sure folk would think, when ?!"

Not even a gap when you were single for a week?

Yeah I suppose people misunderstand sexuality. You don't have to fuck a woman to know you want to and are therefore bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"September 23rd is bisexual awareness day. It's a Saturday. Who knew about this beforehand and who will be doing anything to celebrate this?"

Who makes this shit up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I'll celebrate it by sucking my mates cock, while his wife rides mine. ......

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Bisexual awareness

It's a quirky one isn't it. Because it's a so much bigger subject than liking sexual contact with men and women. I truly think it's way more complex than being gay, which by and large I feel is pretty much accepted in general society. But if me and Sir came out as being bi, there would be a moment of "ah you like fucking same sex" recognition, before the realisation that it means we aren't monogamous. It would be a massive can of worms.

Why would it leap to anyone thinking you're not monogamous?

I think that's one of the myths about bisexual people. "They'll fuck anyone."

Because apart from fab life, eveyone would think I'm a heterosexual woman. Two marriages to men and always partnered to men, so announcing I'm bi I'm sure folk would think, when ?!

Not even a gap when you were single for a week?

Yeah I suppose people misunderstand sexuality. You don't have to fuck a woman to know you want to and are therefore bi. "

Point is that I have done and will do and all while I'm happily partnered to a man that will no doubt be joining in. Not sure where you're coming from with people thinking bi's would fuck anyone; If I came out to friends I think they'd have a lot more intelligence than that, but it still brings about the question of not being monogamous, which society generally frowns on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to celebrate by appreciating my damn fine decision to equally appreciate men and women... I love you all!!, though obviously my favs are the *sexiest ones of you's!! Lol

*disclaimer: sexiest refers to subjective qualities that don't necessarily solely focus on outer appearances .

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Well we'll be at the Birmingham social so I'll try and make everyone aware.. If I remember

I shall celebrate by snogging both men and women at the social

That sounds like a normal Saturday for you "

how rude!!

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids


"We didn't know about it .

And we will be doing fuck all to celebrate it .

Why people want to glorify and celebrate their sexuality is beyond us .

"

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I imagine it's more aimed at people out of the scene, who aren't as aware or accepting of how widespread and usual it is.

But, not heard of it until this post."

There are issues on here, there is a F local to me who has posted on her status more than once that there is no such thing as bi - there is no middle ground we are either straight or gay!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I imagine it's more aimed at people out of the scene, who aren't as aware or accepting of how widespread and usual it is.

But, not heard of it until this post.

There are issues on here, there is a F local to me who has posted on her status more than once that there is no such thing as bi - there is no middle ground we are either straight or gay!"

So wtf does she call people whilst they're having a male, female, transvestite orgy??? Lol the mind boggles sometimes, we're lucky we're not The Borg because none of us would be able to have our opinions!! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy BAD day to all y'all Bisexuals, may we live long and prosper!! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm aware that I'm bisexual every day so today won't be much different I guess.

Though I might pop a cucumber and a ring doughnut in my Tesco trolley and salaciously flirt with the cute shelf stacker who I've had my eye on!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I'm bisexual and more than aware of that daily - although I guess the point of an Awareness Day is to raise others' awareness of the subject.

Personally I shan't be doing so, as whilst I'm openly and proudly bisexual on here, it's not something I scream from the rooftops publically - for some of the reasons touched on above and the onward, albeit indirect, impact doing so would have on others in my life e.g. the suggestion that my sex life is not entirely monogomous

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Happy BAD day to all y'all Bisexuals, may we live long and prosper!! Lol x"

...I'm good at being BAD

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Well we'll be at the Birmingham social so I'll try and make everyone aware.. If I remember

I shall celebrate by snogging both men and women at the social

That sounds like a normal Saturday for you

how rude!!"

only teasing

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Never knew there was such a day but happy bisexual day to all you naughties lol

Shame we're not celebrating lol

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

There needs to be a bisexual awareness awareness day, so we know about it

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"There needs to be a bisexual awareness awareness day, so we know about it"

You're only half bi, so you only get half the info

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bisexual awareness

It's a quirky one isn't it. Because it's a so much bigger subject than liking sexual contact with men and women. I truly think it's way more complex than being gay, which by and large I feel is pretty much accepted in general society. But if me and Sir came out as being bi, there would be a moment of "ah you like fucking same sex" recognition, before the realisation that it means we aren't monogamous. It would be a massive can of worms.

Why would it leap to anyone thinking you're not monogamous?

I think that's one of the myths about bisexual people. "They'll fuck anyone."

Because apart from fab life, eveyone would think I'm a heterosexual woman. Two marriages to men and always partnered to men, so announcing I'm bi I'm sure folk would think, when ?!

Not even a gap when you were single for a week?

Yeah I suppose people misunderstand sexuality. You don't have to fuck a woman to know you want to and are therefore bi.

Point is that I have done and will do and all while I'm happily partnered to a man that will no doubt be joining in. Not sure where you're coming from with people thinking bi's would fuck anyone; If I came out to friends I think they'd have a lot more intelligence than that, but it still brings about the question of not being monogamous, which society generally frowns on. "

You're lucky you have intelligent friends. It's a common misconception that bi people will fuck anyone. Surprised you've never heard it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm celebrating my BAD-assness again today anyone else with me??? Lol x

I'm keeping it up to between now and death too, s'gona be one heck if a GREAT party!! lol x

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Bisexual people are hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bisexual people are hot "

Lol I'm overheating atm, my horniness levels have just decided to blow a gasket at 3.09am in the morning?!!! Lol very funking convenient not?!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All these sex awareness days. Like heterosexuals, can they just not get on with their lives??

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Bisexual awareness

It's a quirky one isn't it. Because it's a so much bigger subject than liking sexual contact with men and women. I truly think it's way more complex than being gay, which by and large I feel is pretty much accepted in general society. But if me and Sir came out as being bi, there would be a moment of "ah you like fucking same sex" recognition, before the realisation that it means we aren't monogamous. It would be a massive can of worms.

Why would it leap to anyone thinking you're not monogamous?

I think that's one of the myths about bisexual people. "They'll fuck anyone."

Because apart from fab life, eveyone would think I'm a heterosexual woman. Two marriages to men and always partnered to men, so announcing I'm bi I'm sure folk would think, when ?!

Not even a gap when you were single for a week?

Yeah I suppose people misunderstand sexuality. You don't have to fuck a woman to know you want to and are therefore bi.

Point is that I have done and will do and all while I'm happily partnered to a man that will no doubt be joining in. Not sure where you're coming from with people thinking bi's would fuck anyone; If I came out to friends I think they'd have a lot more intelligence than that, but it still brings about the question of not being monogamous, which society generally frowns on.

You're lucky you have intelligent friends. It's a common misconception that bi people will fuck anyone. Surprised you've never heard it. "

no

We are very selective actually. We always insist on a pulse

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Well we'll be at the Birmingham social so I'll try and make everyone aware.. If I remember

I shall celebrate by snogging both men and women at the social

That sounds like a normal Saturday for you

how rude!!

only teasing"

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

I recently chatted to two bi guys who were in a relationship with each other - I thought my life was complicated enough!

Most of the bisexual guys I know keep their bisexuality quiet but it doesn't hurt to make people realise that it exists all around them and many bisexuals are not 'out' even on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I recently chatted to two bi guys who were in a relationship with each other - I thought my life was complicated enough!

Most of the bisexual guys I know keep their bisexuality quiet but it doesn't hurt to make people realise that it exists all around them and many bisexuals are not 'out' even on Fab "

What's complicated about 2 bi men?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Well I was talking to the guy I'm dating at the moment and he told me something yesterday which wasn't great for me. He doesn't like the fact that people are bisexual,he thinks it's a bit dirty but couldn't explain further what he doesn't like.

Now considering I've had bi mmf's from here I find it hard when people have issues regarding someone's sexuality. I know there can be that stigma from the gay people as well towards bisexuals.

Don't know something inside me died a little,he's never done any threesomes or random sex,wouldn't never go to a club,could never see me with another man etc. Now he's worried he's not enough for me. Suppose that's why I've put off throwing myself into a relationship. Can it work I don't know.

Apologies I'm just writing my thoughts down...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bi guy in our relationship but have straight on our profile as a lot of couples won't meet with a bi male but still think its funny how many STRAIGHT guys want you to suck there cock or they wanna suck yours would be nice if we could all b honest because I have no problem saying what I am but still have to hide it on here

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Well I was talking to the guy I'm dating at the moment and he told me something yesterday which wasn't great for me. He doesn't like the fact that people are bisexual,he thinks it's a bit dirty but couldn't explain further what he doesn't like.

Now considering I've had bi mmf's from here I find it hard when people have issues regarding someone's sexuality. I know there can be that stigma from the gay people as well towards bisexuals.

Don't know something inside me died a little,he's never done any threesomes or random sex,wouldn't never go to a club,could never see me with another man etc. Now he's worried he's not enough for me. Suppose that's why I've put off throwing myself into a relationship. Can it work I don't know.

Apologies I'm just writing my thoughts down...

"

You should be honest with him about yourself, and what you want from a person you have a relationship with. You never know, maybe he said that stuff because he thought it was what you wanted to hear!

In all likelihood though, you probably just found out he’s not the right person for you. So better to be honest and let the relationship survive or fail based on that honesty.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I'm a bi guy in our relationship but have straight on our profile as a lot of couples won't meet with a bi male but still think its funny how many STRAIGHT guys want you to suck there cock or they wanna suck yours would be nice if we could all b honest because I have no problem saying what I am but still have to hide it on here"

That really has got to be the most hypocritical post in a long time.

WHAT

And sorry but no you don't have to lie on here either. Deceiving people to get a shag is sheer desperate

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Well I was talking to the guy I'm dating at the moment and he told me something yesterday which wasn't great for me. He doesn't like the fact that people are bisexual,he thinks it's a bit dirty but couldn't explain further what he doesn't like.

Now considering I've had bi mmf's from here I find it hard when people have issues regarding someone's sexuality. I know there can be that stigma from the gay people as well towards bisexuals.

Don't know something inside me died a little,he's never done any threesomes or random sex,wouldn't never go to a club,could never see me with another man etc. Now he's worried he's not enough for me. Suppose that's why I've put off throwing myself into a relationship. Can it work I don't know.

Apologies I'm just writing my thoughts down...

You should be honest with him about yourself, and what you want from a person you have a relationship with. You never know, maybe he said that stuff because he thought it was what you wanted to hear!

In all likelihood though, you probably just found out he’s not the right person for you. So better to be honest and let the relationship survive or fail based on that honesty."

Thankyou for your reply,I don't think he said that because he thought that's what I wanted to hear. I think he's just not the type to have casual sex,he was saying some guy came onto him in the pub we were in last night on a previous visit,then he was just talking about someone being bi curious etc explaining if someone has actually done something with the same sex they're no longer bi curious and he asked me how I knew so much.

I then explained about being on here etc. I thought if I'm going to scare him off I may as well do it in the early stages . I suppose I have to decide what my priorities are and at the moment it's him,it's just a shame he feel's the way he does about bisexuals

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I'm a bi guy in our relationship but have straight on our profile as a lot of couples won't meet with a bi male but still think its funny how many STRAIGHT guys want you to suck there cock or they wanna suck yours would be nice if we could all b honest because I have no problem saying what I am but still have to hide it on here"

Reading your profile it's clear you're bi and in fact you go as far as to tell single guys that message who aren't bi that their message will be deleted.

So your profile contradicts itself completely by labelling yourself 'straight'

Have said it before and will say it again - really don't see the need to lie about your sexuality in here - by doing so you're excluding just as many people as you are including i.e. there are as many people who won't meet strainght guys as there are those that won't meet bi ones and a whole load who aren't bothered either way but will exclude you for lying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im bisexual every day

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

I'm aware I'd love to try it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I was talking to the guy I'm dating at the moment and he told me something yesterday which wasn't great for me. He doesn't like the fact that people are bisexual,he thinks it's a bit dirty but couldn't explain further what he doesn't like.

Now considering I've had bi mmf's from here I find it hard when people have issues regarding someone's sexuality. I know there can be that stigma from the gay people as well towards bisexuals.

Don't know something inside me died a little,he's never done any threesomes or random sex,wouldn't never go to a club,could never see me with another man etc. Now he's worried he's not enough for me. Suppose that's why I've put off throwing myself into a relationship. Can it work I don't know.

Apologies I'm just writing my thoughts down...

"

I've had experience of this and it didn't end well. He thought it was cool at the start then he used it against me. Not saying your man will be the same but it sounds like a seed has been sown... x

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Bisexuality is part of the range of sexualities and it has its own complexities - eg not everyone is 50/50 bisexual and some people have times when their bisexuality is stronger than at other times. At least people can talk about it now rather than trying to suppress it. I think you have to allow individuals to decide what is right for them in whether they declare it or not. Everyone's situation is different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bisexuality is part of the range of sexualities and it has its own complexities - eg not everyone is 50/50 bisexual and some people have times when their bisexuality is stronger than at other times. At least people can talk about it now rather than trying to suppress it. I think you have to allow individuals to decide what is right for them in whether they declare it or not. Everyone's situation is different."

Bang on the money!.. I only discovered I'm sexually bisexual after having a few crazy ass lesbian relationships.. Not that my MF relationships are perfect but they are way more enjoyable for me and I don't start craving cock like I do when I'm only having sex with a woman?!! Lol.... Trial and error I guess?! Lol x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Well I was talking to the guy I'm dating at the moment and he told me something yesterday which wasn't great for me. He doesn't like the fact that people are bisexual,he thinks it's a bit dirty but couldn't explain further what he doesn't like.

Now considering I've had bi mmf's from here I find it hard when people have issues regarding someone's sexuality. I know there can be that stigma from the gay people as well towards bisexuals.

Don't know something inside me died a little,he's never done any threesomes or random sex,wouldn't never go to a club,could never see me with another man etc. Now he's worried he's not enough for me. Suppose that's why I've put off throwing myself into a relationship. Can it work I don't know.

Apologies I'm just writing my thoughts down...

I've had experience of this and it didn't end well. He thought it was cool at the start then he used it against me. Not saying your man will be the same but it sounds like a seed has been sown... x "

Well I don't think he even sees it as cool,it's just something he would never do,but then he's been in relationships for most of his adult life where as I've been single for the last 6 year's. I sure as heck couldn't stay celibate for that length of time.

I kinda stopped short of telling him the threesomes I've had were with bi guy's,maybe I should have said that would have been a test for him

We are so different in so many ways,time will tell eh! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I was talking to the guy I'm dating at the moment and he told me something yesterday which wasn't great for me. He doesn't like the fact that people are bisexual,he thinks it's a bit dirty but couldn't explain further what he doesn't like.

Now considering I've had bi mmf's from here I find it hard when people have issues regarding someone's sexuality. I know there can be that stigma from the gay people as well towards bisexuals.

Don't know something inside me died a little,he's never done any threesomes or random sex,wouldn't never go to a club,could never see me with another man etc. Now he's worried he's not enough for me. Suppose that's why I've put off throwing myself into a relationship. Can it work I don't know.

Apologies I'm just writing my thoughts down...

I've had experience of this and it didn't end well. He thought it was cool at the start then he used it against me. Not saying your man will be the same but it sounds like a seed has been sown... x

Well I don't think he even sees it as cool,it's just something he would never do,but then he's been in relationships for most of his adult life where as I've been single for the last 6 year's. I sure as heck couldn't stay celibate for that length of time.

I kinda stopped short of telling him the threesomes I've had were with bi guy's,maybe I should have said that would have been a test for him

We are so different in so many ways,time will tell eh! x"

Time will tell!... Sometimes it's best to not prise open someone's mind and let them know how big the world is imo... You guys may have an amazing relationship together, moreso for him not knowing what you've gotten up to... After all you did it all for you anyways and it benefitted you on lots of levels...

I've told previous bf's how many people I've slept with and every single time it's fucked things up... I think men are more culturally ingrained to believe their own hype than women... We're all bombarded by societal crap from birth to death... But at least women get to freely express their emotions, men are taught to suppress them and I think therein lies a big problem with computing out if the ordinary to them things sometimes.

Wishing you all the very best lovely xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bisexual people are hot "
and so are you

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Ooops, missed it... along with the Rapture/End Of Days day.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"

Time will tell!... Sometimes it's best to not prise open someone's mind and let them know how big the world is imo... You guys may have an amazing relationship together, moreso for him not knowing what you've gotten up to... After all you did it all for you anyways and it benefitted you on lots of levels...

I've told previous bf's how many people I've slept with and every single time it's fucked things up... I think men are more culturally ingrained to believe their own hype than women... We're all bombarded by societal crap from birth to death... But at least women get to freely express their emotions, men are taught to suppress them and I think therein lies a big problem with computing out if the ordinary to them things sometimes.

Wishing you all the very best lovely xxx"

Thankyou for that x. I never tell men how many people I've had sex with that's my business alone,being on here it could have been a hell of a lot more if I'd taken up every offer

I'm going to give love a chance I think,it's been so long since I've had affection from a man I miss it immensely. Hopefully I can put having bi mmf's with two fit guy's to the back of my mind x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Time will tell!... Sometimes it's best to not prise open someone's mind and let them know how big the world is imo... You guys may have an amazing relationship together, moreso for him not knowing what you've gotten up to... After all you did it all for you anyways and it benefitted you on lots of levels...

I've told previous bf's how many people I've slept with and every single time it's fucked things up... I think men are more culturally ingrained to believe their own hype than women... We're all bombarded by societal crap from birth to death... But at least women get to freely express their emotions, men are taught to suppress them and I think therein lies a big problem with computing out if the ordinary to them things sometimes.

Wishing you all the very best lovely xxx

Thankyou for that x. I never tell men how many people I've had sex with that's my business alone,being on here it could have been a hell of a lot more if I'd taken up every offer

I'm going to give love a chance I think,it's been so long since I've had affection from a man I miss it immensely. Hopefully I can put having bi mmf's with two fit guy's to the back of my mind x"

Awww!, that's beautiful ... There's always pliable silicone dildos for that job if you're hankering for multiple stuffings lol... Tho I've not experienced the real deal yet on that front so I may currently being satisfied because of pure ignorance of what I'm missing out on lol x

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

I was sexually incompatible with my first husband. When I told him I was bi, myself 21, him 25, he literally blanked me. It wasn't easy being with someone so prudish.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


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Time will tell!... Sometimes it's best to not prise open someone's mind and let them know how big the world is imo... You guys may have an amazing relationship together, moreso for him not knowing what you've gotten up to... After all you did it all for you anyways and it benefitted you on lots of levels...

I've told previous bf's how many people I've slept with and every single time it's fucked things up... I think men are more culturally ingrained to believe their own hype than women... We're all bombarded by societal crap from birth to death... But at least women get to freely express their emotions, men are taught to suppress them and I think therein lies a big problem with computing out if the ordinary to them things sometimes.

Wishing you all the very best lovely xxx

Thankyou for that x. I never tell men how many people I've had sex with that's my business alone,being on here it could have been a hell of a lot more if I'd taken up every offer

I'm going to give love a chance I think,it's been so long since I've had affection from a man I miss it immensely. Hopefully I can put having bi mmf's with two fit guy's to the back of my mind x

Awww!, that's beautiful ... There's always pliable silicone dildos for that job if you're hankering for multiple stuffings lol... Tho I've not experienced the real deal yet on that front so I may currently being satisfied because of pure ignorance of what I'm missing out on lol x"

It's not so much the multiple stuffings it's seeing two guy's together that I enjoy

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I was sexually incompatible with my first husband. When I told him I was bi, myself 21, him 25, he literally blanked me. It wasn't easy being with someone so prudish. "

What was his reason for not liking you being bi,I'm just trying to understand? I'm now doubting if I can be with someone who doesn't like the fact a person is bi.

Which is a bitch considering he's the nearest I've got to having a relationship with a man in 6 year's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was sexually incompatible with my first husband. When I told him I was bi, myself 21, him 25, he literally blanked me. It wasn't easy being with someone so prudish.

What was his reason for not liking you being bi,I'm just trying to understand? I'm now doubting if I can be with someone who doesn't like the fact a person is bi.

Which is a bitch considering he's the nearest I've got to having a relationship with a man in 6 year's "

I know you weren't asking me but I'll answer from my experience. My ex thought it meant I'd fuck anyone. It doubled the 'chance' of me cheating as in his eyes, clearly I'd fuck any man and any woman. However he was also very homophobic in general so no idea why he started dating me as he knew I'm bi as soon as we met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a bi guy in our relationship but have straight on our profile as a lot of couples won't meet with a bi male but still think its funny how many STRAIGHT guys want you to suck there cock or they wanna suck yours would be nice if we could all b honest because I have no problem saying what I am but still have to hide it on here"
if you have no problem with it why lie I hope you tell them before a meet because if it happened to me I'd rip your bollocks off and feed them to you you are who you are but let them make the choice don't lie just to fuck then you wonder why people have no tolerance

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I'm a bi guy in our relationship but have straight on our profile as a lot of couples won't meet with a bi male but still think its funny how many STRAIGHT guys want you to suck there cock or they wanna suck yours would be nice if we could all b honest because I have no problem saying what I am but still have to hide it on hereif you have no problem with it why lie I hope you tell them before a meet because if it happened to me I'd rip your bollocks off and feed them to you you are who you are but let them make the choice don't lie just to fuck then you wonder why people have no tolerance "

Another reason why "Fab straight" guys really should get their act together. When people request a particular thing and get blatantly lied to, this is what you could face

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I'm a bi guy in our relationship but have straight on our profile as a lot of couples won't meet with a bi male but still think its funny how many STRAIGHT guys want you to suck there cock or they wanna suck yours would be nice if we could all b honest because I have no problem saying what I am but still have to hide it on hereif you have no problem with it why lie I hope you tell them before a meet because if it happened to me I'd rip your bollocks off and feed them to you you are who you are but let them make the choice don't lie just to fuck then you wonder why people have no tolerance "

You certainly sound very tolerant..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We didn't know about it .

And we will be doing fuck all to celebrate it .

Why people want to glorify and celebrate their sexuality is beyond us .

"

I totally agree, im sick of gay pride? Transgender march this and bisexual that. Just be who you want to be and stop ramming it down others throats ffs. Right im off to the hetrosexual rally

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"We didn't know about it .

And we will be doing fuck all to celebrate it .

Why people want to glorify and celebrate their sexuality is beyond us .

I totally agree, im sick of gay pride? Transgender march this and bisexual that. Just be who you want to be and stop ramming it down others throats ffs. Right im off to the hetrosexual rally "

Ramming it down others throats? Whatever are you insinuating?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ramming it down others throats? Whatever are you insinuating?! "

Ooo errrrr mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a bi guy in our relationship but have straight on our profile as a lot of couples won't meet with a bi male but still think its funny how many STRAIGHT guys want you to suck there cock or they wanna suck yours would be nice if we could all b honest because I have no problem saying what I am but still have to hide it on hereif you have no problem with it why lie I hope you tell them before a meet because if it happened to me I'd rip your bollocks off and feed them to you you are who you are but let them make the choice don't lie just to fuck then you wonder why people have no tolerance

Another reason why "Fab straight" guys really should get their act together. When people request a particular thing and get blatantly lied to, this is what you could face "

we had 3 approaches yesterday...all straight single guys on their profile. I had a little time on my hands so called them out on their reading and comprehension skills...2 claimed it was an oversight and they'd correct their profiles immediately...one thought that being "really open minded" qualified him as meeting our needs...to date they're all still listed as straight and all still looking at our profile several times...it would be funny if it wasn't so pathetic...and pointless...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I was sexually incompatible with my first husband. When I told him I was bi, myself 21, him 25, he literally blanked me. It wasn't easy being with someone so prudish.

What was his reason for not liking you being bi,I'm just trying to understand? I'm now doubting if I can be with someone who doesn't like the fact a person is bi.

Which is a bitch considering he's the nearest I've got to having a relationship with a man in 6 year's

I know you weren't asking me but I'll answer from my experience. My ex thought it meant I'd fuck anyone. It doubled the 'chance' of me cheating as in his eyes, clearly I'd fuck any man and any woman. However he was also very homophobic in general so no idea why he started dating me as he knew I'm bi as soon as we met. "

Thankyou,it does sound crazy he even dated you. I hate people who are homophobic,well I don't hate them I just don't understand them. My daughter prefer girl's so it wouldn't work for me being with someone like that x.

He asked me if I was into women,it would have been interesting to see his response if I'd have said yes I was. It sounds like that would have been the end of it before it's even properly started . I told him I wished I was .

Think I'm just putting it to the back of my mind at the moment

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I was sexually incompatible with my first husband. When I told him I was bi, myself 21, him 25, he literally blanked me. It wasn't easy being with someone so prudish.

What was his reason for not liking you being bi,I'm just trying to understand? I'm now doubting if I can be with someone who doesn't like the fact a person is bi.

Which is a bitch considering he's the nearest I've got to having a relationship with a man in 6 year's

I know you weren't asking me but I'll answer from my experience. My ex thought it meant I'd fuck anyone. It doubled the 'chance' of me cheating as in his eyes, clearly I'd fuck any man and any woman. However he was also very homophobic in general so no idea why he started dating me as he knew I'm bi as soon as we met.

Thankyou,it does sound crazy he even dated you. I hate people who are homophobic,well I don't hate them I just don't understand them. My daughter prefer girl's so it wouldn't work for me being with someone like that x.

He asked me if I was into women,it would have been interesting to see his response if I'd have said yes I was. It sounds like that would have been the end of it before it's even properly started . I told him I wished I was .

Think I'm just putting it to the back of my mind at the moment "

Kiss a girl. You might like it

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I was sexually incompatible with my first husband. When I told him I was bi, myself 21, him 25, he literally blanked me. It wasn't easy being with someone so prudish.

What was his reason for not liking you being bi,I'm just trying to understand? I'm now doubting if I can be with someone who doesn't like the fact a person is bi.

Which is a bitch considering he's the nearest I've got to having a relationship with a man in 6 year's

I know you weren't asking me but I'll answer from my experience. My ex thought it meant I'd fuck anyone. It doubled the 'chance' of me cheating as in his eyes, clearly I'd fuck any man and any woman. However he was also very homophobic in general so no idea why he started dating me as he knew I'm bi as soon as we met.

Thankyou,it does sound crazy he even dated you. I hate people who are homophobic,well I don't hate them I just don't understand them. My daughter prefer girl's so it wouldn't work for me being with someone like that x.

He asked me if I was into women,it would have been interesting to see his response if I'd have said yes I was. It sounds like that would have been the end of it before it's even properly started . I told him I wished I was .

Think I'm just putting it to the back of my mind at the moment

Kiss a girl. You might like it "

I just might . Women are kinda missing a little (big) something though

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I was sexually incompatible with my first husband. When I told him I was bi, myself 21, him 25, he literally blanked me. It wasn't easy being with someone so prudish.

What was his reason for not liking you being bi,I'm just trying to understand? I'm now doubting if I can be with someone who doesn't like the fact a person is bi.

Which is a bitch considering he's the nearest I've got to having a relationship with a man in 6 year's

I know you weren't asking me but I'll answer from my experience. My ex thought it meant I'd fuck anyone. It doubled the 'chance' of me cheating as in his eyes, clearly I'd fuck any man and any woman. However he was also very homophobic in general so no idea why he started dating me as he knew I'm bi as soon as we met.

Thankyou,it does sound crazy he even dated you. I hate people who are homophobic,well I don't hate them I just don't understand them. My daughter prefer girl's so it wouldn't work for me being with someone like that x.

He asked me if I was into women,it would have been interesting to see his response if I'd have said yes I was. It sounds like that would have been the end of it before it's even properly started . I told him I wished I was .

Think I'm just putting it to the back of my mind at the moment

Kiss a girl. You might like it

I just might . Women are kinda missing a little (big) something though "

Actually not! Ive got a big black one I bought months again that's never been used

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I was sexually incompatible with my first husband. When I told him I was bi, myself 21, him 25, he literally blanked me. It wasn't easy being with someone so prudish.

What was his reason for not liking you being bi,I'm just trying to understand? I'm now doubting if I can be with someone who doesn't like the fact a person is bi.

Which is a bitch considering he's the nearest I've got to having a relationship with a man in 6 year's

I know you weren't asking me but I'll answer from my experience. My ex thought it meant I'd fuck anyone. It doubled the 'chance' of me cheating as in his eyes, clearly I'd fuck any man and any woman. However he was also very homophobic in general so no idea why he started dating me as he knew I'm bi as soon as we met.

Thankyou,it does sound crazy he even dated you. I hate people who are homophobic,well I don't hate them I just don't understand them. My daughter prefer girl's so it wouldn't work for me being with someone like that x.

He asked me if I was into women,it would have been interesting to see his response if I'd have said yes I was. It sounds like that would have been the end of it before it's even properly started . I told him I wished I was .

Think I'm just putting it to the back of my mind at the moment

Kiss a girl. You might like it

I just might . Women are kinda missing a little (big) something though

Actually not! Ive got a big black one I bought months again that's never been used "

Oh well in that case

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