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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok ive been worried about doing this but i need to know.....okay first things first im not after the violin here i just need to know why is it that i get quite a few views a day off couples and women yet no message or wink or even a fab? What am i doing wrong

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

They've looked at you and decided they don't want any further contact.

Do you buy everything you look at in a supermarket?

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Exactly

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

The bit at the bottom. I get the frustration, but it doesn't necessarily endear you to people.

Also, your text is a little hard to read as it's one big paragraph with very long sentences. I don't say this to be picky just that it makes it a little harder to scan through- which realistically is what a lot of people do in first read.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok thankyou ive edited my profile see what you think x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me needs more pics. Your only body shot is a cock pic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah ill add some good point x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been here a week. Much more patience is needed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think its when your having a nose you start to get more and more horny then you sort of want it tbere and then you women have got to stop looking so sexy ...well its how i feel anyway i know im going getting to get a swinger preacher comment now but sorry im young free and i cant help myself sometimes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its when your having a nose you start to get more and more horny then you sort of want it tbere and then you women have got to stop looking so sexy ...well its how i feel anyway i know im going getting to get a swinger preacher comment now but sorry im young free and i cant help myself sometimes x"

I've tried to not look so sexy, but I just can't help it. Sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah you failed misserably there wooooooooo i love these forums!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok ive been worried about doing this but i need to know.....okay first things first im not after the violin here i just need to know why is it that i get quite a few views a day off couples and women yet no message or wink or even a fab? What am i doing wrong "

Profile not too bad need few more pics oh and you can't accomadate usually means playing away so puts a lot of wemon off good luck x female replying x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im not playing away its complicated but i wont state my whole business on my profile if people ask me ill explain why and ill work on the pics looks like ill have to renew my gym membership lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re not doing anything wrong, but there is massive choice for ladies here, you might be a special little flower but to them Your just another sausage in a king sized pack of Richmond’s

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By *imonP23Man
over a year ago

Shepton Mallet

You've been on here a week...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great advice simon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great advice simon "

I like you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Great advice simon

I like you! "

xx

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Most people join the site thinking they will get as much sex as they can handle, and are sadly mistaken when they realise just how many single guys are doing the same. That doesn't mean it won't happen, but it might take more effort than what you originally thought. It's only been a week, so chin up.

There are a few things that immediately stand out to us from your profile. Firstly, you must have the lungs of a racehorse. Try reading your profile out load and only take a breath when you reach a full stop or comma. If you find you are starting to turn blue then you need some punctuation. Secondly it's 'I' not 'i' when used as a single letter. Sorry to sound like a school teacher, and that's not how it's meant, but those things do detract from your profile and are simple easy fixes. We understand that not everyone writes in perfect English, and we all make mistakes, but if you want to polish up your shop window then that's an easy place to start.

Other people have already mentioned your photo's and we echo their sentiments.

Never mind the gym membership, you appear to have a reasonable body. Not everyone goes for rippling muscles, so as long as your happy with your body then show it off, not just your cock. Perhaps you could add one where your smiling, rather than looking like the getaway driver outside of a bank

Unfortunately as you can't accomodate many people will think your playing away from home. That's fine, leave them to it. You say it's complicated and that's fair enough, many people on here also have complications in their lives that they don't want to broadcast but will talk about privately. For our part we normally assume that a younger person can't accomodate as they are still living at home.

Ask yourself a serious question. Would you really want to have sex with someone in their nineties? If you do then carry on, if not then you might want to adjust your preferences slightly. You'd be suprised how many people get told the same thing.


"i get quite a few views a day off couples and women yet no message or wink or even a fab?"

This sounds like you are expecting everyone to approach you. I'm sure that's not the case, but if it is then you'll need to be more active. Use the search facility to find people that meet your preferences, then approach them if they meet yours. If they don't then it's likely to be a no anyway, so save yourself some time. You don't come across as a shy guy so you should have no trouble putting a message together that shows you have read their profile, and that you are interested and engaging.

You've found the forum, so try the chatroom as well, especially the room for your geographic area. Offline, you could attend an organised social or a club.

All in all it's not a bad profile, but very simple steps could improve it, and your chances, significantly. Don't take anything we have said to heart, it's not meant to cause offence.

Good luck out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok ive been worried about doing this but i need to know.....okay first things first im not after the violin here i just need to know why is it that i get quite a few views a day off couples and women yet no message or wink or even a fab? What am i doing wrong "

Only issues I have are your age and the back to front baseball cap. Nice cock though xx Jay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've only been here a really short while, don't get bent out of shape. Have a nosey at other guys' profiles (preferably the ones who are successfully achieving your aims) and take some inspiration. DON'T copy (that's just naff). And look at the effort a lot of guys put into photos.

Mainly keep a happy head and a light heart. It's not a quick fix shag site, and if that's what you were hoping for, unfortunately it's been mis-sold to you.

Best of British.

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