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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's the point in age range when a lot of people on here lie about their ages I can forgive maybe 1 or 2 years but lying just because they think it's ok to be deceitful so they can bed someone younger. Just be honest about your age if people don't want to meet you just move on don't lie about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the point in age range when a lot of people on here lie about their ages I can forgive maybe 1 or 2 years but lying just because they think it's ok to be deceitful so they can bed someone younger. Just be honest about your age if people don't want to meet you just move on don't lie about it."

Agreed.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 'age' is a genuine mistake and i cant change it

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Not only is it wrong to lie, it's pointless. If the meet actually happened, it probably wouldn't progress. A waste if time for everybody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not only is it wrong to lie, it's pointless. If the meet actually happened, it probably wouldn't progress. A waste if time for everybody."

But isn't wasting everyone's time the default position on Fab?

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"My 'age' is a genuine mistake and i cant change it "

How can you get your age so wrong? Surely you can remember your own birthday.

The site does allow you to change your age once for those who have made a genuine error when putting in their age.

They won't let you keep changing it because many people would do this to try and get around age filters.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Not only is it wrong to lie, it's pointless. If the meet actually happened, it probably wouldn't progress. A waste if time for everybody.

But isn't wasting everyone's time the default position on Fab? "

Sadly true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't see the point if lying about age, I am what I am and don't dive a dam, as the song goes

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"My 'age' is a genuine mistake and i cant change it "

I'm sure if you report yourself to Admin, they'll happily rectify you mistake.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age is real ,soon be 46 years old ,have all my own teeth still

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We don't see the point in lying about our ages and are quite prepared to tell somebody no if they don't look their age.

We are confused by fabs search system as a lot of couples have 50 as a cut off point but if we did a search many of them will appear in the search results. Can only assume that it takes the youngest persons age as it's search parameter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 52 next week sucks but it is what it is.

Pointless fibbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age, distance, sexual orientation, weight, cock size, hight, need I go on people lie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age is real, see no point lying about it

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"We don't see the point in lying about our ages and are quite prepared to tell somebody no if they don't look their age.

We are confused by fabs search system as a lot of couples have 50 as a cut off point but if we did a search many of them will appear in the search results. Can only assume that it takes the youngest persons age as it's search parameter."

It does. Male here is 50 and woman 46 and we are able to message people who set their age limits at 46-49

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the only safe bet is skin colour! !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well my point is if they lie about there age what else are they lying about?

It never even crossed my mind to lie end of

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know of a few profile that aren't giving their true age due to the fact the think they can pass for younger but still it's lying and like someone said if they can lie about something so insignificant then what else are they lying about

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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You could say the same about people's pictures, Taken at certain angles peoples bodies/body parts look bigger/smaller

You should have at least one normal full body picture, Fully dressed semi naked or naked is up to you

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By *parkle......Woman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Age is just a number!

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

I never lie about my age .what's the point

Its just a bloody number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not only is it wrong to lie, it's pointless. If the meet actually happened, it probably wouldn't progress. A waste if time for everybody.

But isn't wasting everyone's time the default position on Fab? "

no thats a starting point only

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

I'm in that 45-50 age group now so some doors are closed and others are open. It is what it is and point lying.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Personally I don't see the point if lying about age, I am what I am and don't dive a dam, as the song goes "

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should have account sign up using credit card details... not for payment purposes, purely for verification as DOB can be entered against the database checks as part of this process. Also, this may leave a higher proportion of genuine people on the site, however I understand this method will also deter a number of genuine peeps.

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By *eeowlsMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Honesty all the way, if I don't get a meet because I'm 50 we'll heyyy!!! Let it be x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Age may just be a number for some people but I personally prefer younger guys over older men, that's my preference.

If it's just a number to some then leave your age range open but for people like me that filter is important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed

We do enjoy a good giggle when we see the ages some people claim to be on here, we advertise our real ages, if that's too old for some people, then so be it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is just a number! "

I had to laugh as you have put Men aged 20 to 35 only so to you age is not just a number! !!

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

Same here, we have a laugh when supposedly younger couples send us face pics before a meet and they look much older then us. Glad we look young for our age. No point in fibbing You get found out in the end. Attraction isn't dependent on age in any case. If someone is only after under 50s then that is there choice and we arnt for you. Your loss not ours.

D&K

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Our ages are real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age is correct and as others have said, it's just a number.

My age doesn't bother me one iota and neither does anyone else's.

Can't understand why people get so hung up on it to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay. Hopefully people will take your advice.

Or do you you reckon these mini rants fall on deaf ears? I do.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I'm sure my age works against me re meeting a certain % of younger and older people but it is what it is and life's to short to worry

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"What's the point in age range when a lot of people on here lie about their ages I can forgive maybe 1 or 2 years but lying just because they think it's ok to be deceitful so they can bed someone younger. Just be honest about your age if people don't want to meet you just move on don't lie about it."

To be fair it's an easy statement to make as a woman on fab!

Plenty of men will meet us whatever our age simply because there's a shortage of women on fab!

For guys it's different. Women tend to have narrower accepted age ranges as a way of reducing the number of messages - I know I do!

I've met a couple of exceptionally well preserved guys my own age who claimed to be around the 40 mark! Had they been honest about their age then they wouldn't have been able to message me!

Can't say I necessarily approve but I DO understand!

As long as the face and body pics are recent (theirs were) then I'll simply decide whether I'm attracted to them or not whatever the age!

X

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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

Our ages are real, and everything else on our profile is true. People either like us for who we are or they don't.

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By *elson61Man
over a year ago

WELWYN GARDEN CITY

If you look your age and knock off a few years, it will only show up when you meet up. I know of one person here who has knocked 10 years off her true age. It might get a few more messages, but when it gets to meeting, the truth will be brutal in its honesty.

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By *amesYork17Man
over a year ago

York

My age is true. No point lying. Although I've been told I look younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both our ages are truth. But we have spoken to someone before and the age compared to the picture looked very different. We still dont know if they are lieing or we are being too judgemental by thinking they look way older in pictures!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age is true and my photos unfiltered

I want to meet so no point doing anything otherwise imho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People (some) lie about everything on here, don't see why she would be any different. It's infuriating of course

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton


"People (some) lie about everything on here, don't see why she would be any different. It's infuriating of course "

I'm actually a Dachshund called Colin. My age is correct though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I also know of 3 profiles where the age has been knocked down by 10 years on two of them 9 years on the other

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By *harlotte SometimesWoman
over a year ago

Leafy Warwickshire

My age is real. Can’t do anything about it so I don’t lie. I like younger guys and have set my age range accordingly but it does frustrate me when I’m messaged by somebody who is clearly chancing their arm....or something else for that matter! So you’re 45? Sure that’s not born in ‘45? Delete!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know of a few profile that aren't giving their true age due to the fact the think they can pass for younger but still it's lying and like someone said if they can lie about something so insignificant then what else are they lying about "

They might get a shag for saying they were younger. Where's the harm? If you don't want to meet them let someone else meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'm actually a Dachshund called Colin. My age is correct though "

Excellent typing skills. I thought it would more challenging with paws. Do you have a special keyboard or a tool that you use?

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton


"

I'm actually a Dachshund called Colin. My age is correct though

Excellent typing skills. I thought it would more challenging with paws. Do you have a special keyboard or a tool that you use? "

I have a tool

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"If you look your age and knock off a few years, it will only show up when you meet up. I know of one person here who has knocked 10 years off her true age. It might get a few more messages, but when it gets to meeting, the truth will be brutal in its honesty. "

The chances are that she'll still get laid though

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