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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey all. First time we've posted on the forum. We get up to lots of naughty fun but neither of us have ever tried a club. Considering doing our first visit together. We like the idea of watching and being watched but what actually happens when you walk in? What can you get up to? Enlighten us please

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton


"Hey all. First time we've posted on the forum. We get up to lots of naughty fun but neither of us have ever tried a club. Considering doing our first visit together. We like the idea of watching and being watched but what actually happens when you walk in? What can you get up to? Enlighten us please "

Normally a staff member will give you a tour of the facilities then have a look around by yourselves to see what your comfortable with

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By *andbCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Hey all. First time we've posted on the forum. We get up to lots of naughty fun but neither of us have ever tried a club. Considering doing our first visit together. We like the idea of watching and being watched but what actually happens when you walk in? What can you get up to? Enlighten us please "

In our experiences of going to clubs what has always happened is if you let them know when you arrive that it is your first time they will give you a tour of the club and help you relax. People who go are generally friendly and there is no pressure to do anything you do not want to do. Some use the clubs as a social meeting and others to play either with others or by themselves. Check out the club(s) you are interested in going to on their websites and take a deep breath and visit whichever appeals to you the most. Happy fabbing x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it all public, or are there rooms? We're def up for going. Just wondering what people get up to

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Hey all. First time we've posted on the forum. We get up to lots of naughty fun but neither of us have ever tried a club. Considering doing our first visit together. We like the idea of watching and being watched but what actually happens when you walk in? What can you get up to? Enlighten us please "

it depends on the club , but be prepared for a more social event rather than a full on play night .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey all. First time we've posted on the forum. We get up to lots of naughty fun but neither of us have ever tried a club. Considering doing our first visit together. We like the idea of watching and being watched but what actually happens when you walk in? What can you get up to? Enlighten us please

In our experiences of going to clubs what has always happened is if you let them know when you arrive that it is your first time they will give you a tour of the club and help you relax. People who go are generally friendly and there is no pressure to do anything you do not want to do. Some use the clubs as a social meeting and others to play either with others or by themselves. Check out the club(s) you are interested in going to on their websites and take a deep breath and visit whichever appeals to you the most. Happy fabbing x"

We like the idea of watching people and the being watched too. We have a lot of cam fun and are voyeurs I suppose

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your replies guys

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Is it all public, or are there rooms? We're def up for going. Just wondering what people get up to"

It varies from club to club. As Glos says don't go with the sole intention of playing. Just see how things go

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

Most clubs have open rooms and private rooms so normally plenty of options for watching or playing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cool ok, any recommendations?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Cool ok, any recommendations? "

With your location set to 'UK' you'll need to do the research where you're prepared to travel to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh yeah sorry, we're based up north and in South Wales. So midlands / somewhere central. We're thinking meet up. Stay in hotel and go to a club one weekend

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Oh yeah sorry, we're based up north and in South Wales. So midlands / somewhere central. We're thinking meet up. Stay in hotel and go to a club one weekend "

Chameleons , Darlaston

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

All the clubs I've been to have a bar/social area when you first walk in. The rooms are further away or upstairs. There are rooms that are lockable, open, caged, Windows, mirrored, themed etc; all depending on the club you go to.

People will and do play in "social" areas or just at the side of them, so it cannot be certain of what you will walk in to.

Some clubs are wet clubs, some are dry; so people will be dressed accordingly.

Some clubs have a good mixture of people in, some will only have couples/fems/tgirls... All depending on the night you choose.

All clubs are different, but the majority have a website, so take at look at them (although most need to update their pics) that way you'll get a general feel of what the club layout is like and what to expect.

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester


"Oh yeah sorry, we're based up north and in South Wales. So midlands / somewhere central. We're thinking meet up. Stay in hotel and go to a club one weekend "

Chams and xtasia are west mids, two very differing clubs, depending on what you want.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Oh yeah sorry, we're based up north and in South Wales. So midlands / somewhere central. We're thinking meet up. Stay in hotel and go to a club one weekend "

A bit further south in the Vanilla Alternative (VA). It's very nice, big bar area and huge hot tub.

No private play rooms but there's a hotel attached

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We both like idea of full swapping but first time round it would more likely be watching/being watched. Maybe joining others if it's going well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh yeah sorry, we're based up north and in South Wales. So midlands / somewhere central. We're thinking meet up. Stay in hotel and go to a club one weekend

Chams and xtasia are west mids, two very differing clubs, depending on what you want."

What's the difference?

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Oh yeah sorry, we're based up north and in South Wales. So midlands / somewhere central. We're thinking meet up. Stay in hotel and go to a club one weekend

Chams and xtasia are west mids, two very differing clubs, depending on what you want.

What's the difference? "

Chams is a wet club. You dress down on arrival and it has a spa type feel.

Xtasia is a dry club so you don't need to dress down on arrival and has a nightclub feel.

I haven't been to either club yet but I will at some point because they both come highly recommended.

Another consideration would be whether you want to go on a couples only night or a mixed night.

The best advice I can give you is to have a look on the club reviews page on fab. There are links to the club websites on there too so you can find out more about each one.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Hey all. First time we've posted on the forum. We get up to lots of naughty fun but neither of us have ever tried a club. Considering doing our first visit together. We like the idea of watching and being watched but what actually happens when you walk in? What can you get up to? Enlighten us please "

We've been to a lot of clubs, they vary massively. Some clubs insist that you "dress down" straight away where others don't require dressing down at all.

Most clubs have a social area and separate play areas, with the majority having at least a couple of lockable private rooms.

Cal x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys. We're quite enjoying learning about them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey all. First time we've posted on the forum. We get up to lots of naughty fun but neither of us have ever tried a club. Considering doing our first visit together. We like the idea of watching and being watched but what actually happens when you walk in? What can you get up to? Enlighten us please "

All his dreams are shattered

All hers fulfilled

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

All clubs vary in their level of cleanliness and facilities but most are like clubs with bars where somewhere, somebody may be shagging.

Whether you get to join in or not is up to you and them.

You'll mostly be doing what people do in clubs or bars, drink and chat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sounds good

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