FabSwingers.com forum: Who Knows!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been on here now for 4 months and have sent a few more like many very polite messages to both couples and females alike but to no avail well that`s not strictly true had 5 replies.I accept that I`am one of many single guys that send messages to couples and females.

Hence the reason I always read profiles 1st and respond to like minded people and adhere to their requests etc,but its seems that being polite and following the rules isn't maybe the best option.

I say this as looking on profiles and these forums regarding meets and in particular guys with verification's of which most not all have nothing in them or are very vague one liners,but have loads of verification's,so how does that work when most posts from couples/females object to these profiles.

What am I doing wrong?

Or do I need to change my profile to:

A) Fancy a f...k

B) Got an enormous c..k that enters the room before me,can go for hours,tongue as flexible as a snake,six pack,with toned fit body.

C)No definitely Bi cause I want to Sh.. the wife

D) any suggestions lol

Any comments gratefully received

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might want to explain why you can't accommodate as at your age people will presume you're married.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

Some people change their profile often so the ones you looked at might of said a lot before they changed it, They also might of met them at clubs then arranged to meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny you should pick that out because again going back on a lot of profiles they say the same thing,in my case have 2 young adults in their twenty's at home which makes it very awkward to invite people back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funny you should pick that out because again going back on a lot of profiles they say the same thing,in my case have 2 young adults in their twenty's at home which makes it very awkward to invite people back."

Yep, but you've given the reason on your profile, just suggesting OP did the same

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

You only have one public photo and I have no idea unless I ask why you can't accommodate...

Now do I put effort into finding out more or just move to the next message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Timewasters mate, they always find something in your profile to point out. I've contacted loads on here that are supposedly a match and nothing normally happens

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids

Put yourself out there! Go to clubs and social! It's what I did as a single male and I never had an issue on here! I'm no oil painting either

Good luck op! Keep fighting the good fight

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi only 1 public photo what difference does that make,unless you only go by photos,as i said before a lot of profiles Have NO photos yet plenty of veris,and on the subject your profile is hidden so cant understand your logic

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"Hi only 1 public photo what difference does that make,unless you only go by photos,as i said before a lot of profiles Have NO photos yet plenty of veris,and on the subject your profile is hidden so cant understand your logic"

Let me ask you a question. Why do YOU think that someone should meet you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Great question and I could take page and half to answer it,guess as my profile says hope to get response to then get chatting,but my point I was trying to make unlike your profile which is clear with pics a lot on here have nothing on them even pics but have veris.

Hence do i change my profile to you want a f..k!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We honestly don't think fabs the way ahead for single men get yourself to social and clubs you'll have far more success just by being polite and having the balls to actually speak to couples

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"We honestly don't think fabs the way ahead for single men get yourself to social and clubs you'll have far more success just by being polite and having the balls to actually speak to couples "

Took the words out of my mouth! Everyone is entitled to use fab the way they choose to. However...

I got into fab as yet another hobby to get my ass out of the house and meet people and make some friends. I'm not doing too badly if I may say so myself! The majority of my verifications are people I've met in clubs. In fact I should have tons more but my target is to make friends not verifications.

Oh yeah I do have sex too sometimes!

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

As the previous poster pointed out, swinging sites are predominantly for couples looking to meet couples. Singles on here to meet singles.......well, is that really swinging?

There's so many single guys on here and as it's cheap to join it attracts chancers and jokers. Our profile states we're not looking for single guys but that doesn't stop them messaging. Your best chance of meeting people will be at a club.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi yes great post but the secrets out now lol.

I only joined this site as I do attend clubs not regularly and have had some great meets both socially and more intimate.

Maybe I`am to "nice" for this site

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

As a single guy, I can definitely say that clubs and socials are the way to go to put yourself out there. People there can see you for the genuine person you are, as opposed to the virtual world, where often times things aren't what they seem..

I have yet to accomplish a meet with someone from chatting here, but have been successful going to swing clubs and very successful with tinder.

I personally enjoy fab for the banter, feedback and perving

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"As the previous poster pointed out, swinging sites are predominantly for couples looking to meet couples. Singles on here to meet singles.......well, is that really swinging?

I should have added that before I joined fab, I did a little research into the lifestyle and decided that it fits in with my philosophy on relationships (despite my upbringing). I do have a partner who I swing with but I'm more than happy to operate as a single guy. In fact I prefer it at the moment but I kinda see myself being with someone permanently who is also involved in this lifestyle.

As a single guy, I can't think of anywhere better to find a future swinging partner!

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

"Timewasters mate, they always find something in your profile to point out. I've contacted loads on here that are supposedly a match and nothing normally happens "

CHOICE. Actually!

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

You are not doing anything wrong but in my opinion you need to take the emphasis off the ladies or couples and place the spotlight on you, you are the star in this game not the ladies or the couples. You need to change your thinking and think like this and approach them like this, stop acting like you are begging them or they are doing you a favour because they are not, approach them like this and you will see them begging to meet you.Also go to the clubs and make friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think Fab is necessarily a solution for single men. Guys come here in droves looking for sex, and the reality is that there are relatively few single ladies in comparison to single men. Then there are the couples but I think more couples than not are looking for other couples and not single guys. Hotwife couples like ourselves may already have a few regulars, and even when actively looking are probably going to go for slightly younger men. And that's a difficult dynamic to achieve as there are 3 people to please instead of 2z There are a few guys who do very well on Fab, but not many. If I were you I would use Fab in conjunction with other avenues such as clubs. In fact I would advise anyone to do that if they truly want to network and have good swinging experience.

Mrs

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