FabSwingers.com forum: displaying verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you display all your verifications?

If not, what is it about the veri that makes you choose to hide it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to but I've had instances where they have caused friction so now I just keep them hidden. If someone wants to see them then I'll open them up but I see now benefit to having them on show really. I've also been asked once to not show a verification publicly.

It's not like anyone ever leaves a bad one is it? I mean, if you read mine you'd think I was the greatest lover in history.

Many of them are repeats when people have left and rejoined and re-verified me which makes me look far more popular than I am also

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

I display a selection of mine plus the summary so people can tell I've got more than those on display. Of course some have gone UNLOS so couldn't show them all if I wanted. No particular reason for this approach but it's how I roll.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do show a selection. The ones that I think show a flavour of who I am, what my interests are, what people can expect. I need a couple more that say I'm damned sexy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had recieved a veri off a couples profiles, who I never even met. I reported it. But there it is in the summary. Not displayed because it's not a true veri.

Never sits well with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show any. It's nobody's business who I socialise with or play with and I've had idiots message my previous meets before to ask questions etc when I used to display them. And I can't bear the graphic ones.

If a guy doesn't want to talk to me because I don't show off who I've hung out with, that is just fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just how many veries does anyone need to prove they are real?

And if someone can't decide if I'm worth meeting based on talking with me ...why would they consider some other persons opinion more valuable than their own?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I show all mine mainly because a lot of them are from organised socials so I leave them visible so people can see that's what they are rather than thinking I'm more "active" than I actually am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't show any as I got fed up of men mainly sending messages asking me to put in a good word for someone we've met, for the same reason we don't display our friends list either.

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I don't show all. noones business. I show some that are from different scenarios or I particularly like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just how many veries does anyone need to prove they are real?

And if someone can't decide if I'm worth meeting based on talking with me ...why would they consider some other persons opinion more valuable than their own?"

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Do you display all your verifications?

If not, what is it about the veri that makes you choose to hide it?"

No, I don't show all of mine. I don't ask for veris but if someone leaves me one I will reciprocate. I hide ones that are repeats and a few cam veris from my very early days on the site since I haven't been on cam since and displaying them would give the impression that I might (that's also the reason I hide my summary).

I don't set that much store by veris, really. They had nothing to do with my decision to meet people or not and I think those who've met me might say the same.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"I had recieved a veri off a couples profiles, who I never even met. I reported it. But there it is in the summary. Not displayed because it's not a true veri.

Never sits well with me."

never heard of this happening before. So we're you a brilliantly great shag in their fictitious minds

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"Do you display all your verifications?

If not, what is it about the veri that makes you choose to hide it?"

We tend to show verifications that are more recent. Some verifications are from couples we have met more than once so we will tend not to show multiple verifications from the same couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only asked for one veri out of five meets.. I like a bit of mystery to my sexual encounters (says the woman exposing herself through photos to all and sundry lol).

I may be displaying another one when I receive it... but I'm undecided atm.

I only really read one or two verif's when I'm checking someone out... I use my intuition a lot when I decide to meet someone, that and extensive verbal socialising x

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

We tend to think 4 or 5 verifications from different people who also have multiple verifications are a pretty good filter to out fakes.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

No, I don't.

I don't really like graphic ones so don't show the ones I have. A few caused grief when I displayed them. To be honest, I'm only showing ones right now from a social as I am not looking to meet anyone new for bonking and they make me smile.

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

We display everything at the moment. Shows we are active and not dreamers or single guy with a couples profile. Might at some point be more selective at what we display but we are still learning on here.

D&K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are all nice and say mostly the same thing - but I turned them off, when I found out that there are fucked-in-the-head, veri-stalkers out there, who hassle the people who write them.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We don't show all ours .

Just enough to show we are reliable and that we do what it says on the tin .

Some of our more graphic are shown , especially the well crafted ones .

We meet all demographs on the site , so a few from each are on display , as are veris from newbies , and the more experienced .

They give the reader a true idea of what we are about

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I don't show all mine, I have a few repeats, several from just social meets & events.

And a several

times, I've had veris posted much later, so it looks like I had 2 meets on the same day, or 3 days in row.

Which kinda makes me think Eeew!

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By *idzguyMan
over a year ago

coventry

I keep them hidden as other members can still see your verified anyway from the symbol on profile......not that it gives me much luck anyway lol

I also find profiles of others with literally loads of verifications visible is off putting especially when they seem to be having someone new every other day which isn't a bad thing as everyone's here for the same thing generally but when your on about 100 verifications in a 6 month period I just think wow the person isn't at all picky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It varies, sometimes I display all sometimes none and other times a selection. Depends what I'm looking for and using fab for at the time. I don't have any that I wouldn't want to display or are ashamed of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will if asked but don't normally. Everyone has a different experience so there is no guarantee any two meets will be the same. The summary is displayed to show I do meet people but what happens on those rare occasions is private.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I display a few I like, nothing too intimate but enough to give people a good idea I think.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Oh and if someone verifies me repeatedly I usually remove the old ones or just keep my favourite up.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Only have the one and its shown. Should i get more i'll show them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show all mine. There's lots of social veris that didn't go further, some are very explicit which I'm not keen on, a couple of serious lamp post pissing ones, and a fair few from repeat meets.

My summary isn't a fair reflection either as some meets have left, rejoined and reverified me.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"I don't show all mine. There's lots of social veris that didn't go further, some are very explicit which I'm not keen on, a couple of serious lamp post pissing ones, and a fair few from repeat meets.

My summary isn't a fair reflection either as some meets have left, rejoined and reverified me. "

You have the longest profile text on fab on a side note lol

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"We don't show any as I got fed up of men mainly sending messages asking me to put in a good word for someone we've met, for the same reason we don't display our friends list either. "

Its possible to display your friends list?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no as i get fed up with guys looking at who ive met then go off talking to them asking if they can get me to meet them ?? or guys trying to arrange double up meets behind my back ..pisses me off ... oh i see you shagged my mate if youve shagged him then you must shag me lol erm no piss off lol so i hide most of mine now and we do the same on the joint account too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to get more and i'd show them off like badges of honour lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't show any as I got fed up of men mainly sending messages asking me to put in a good word for someone we've met, for the same reason we don't display our friends list either.

Its possible to display your friends list?"

I don't show my friends list neither to cut nosiness down... Plus some people like to do weird things like fk everyone you've fkd?!... Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't show any as I got fed up of men mainly sending messages asking me to put in a good word for someone we've met, for the same reason we don't display our friends list either.

Its possible to display your friends list?"

It displays by default, you alter through the privacy section.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you display all your verifications?

If not, what is it about the veri that makes you choose to hide it?"

Privacy/descretion for the person I was with. Maybe the thought of some asshole creating an opinion of me for who I met, and the other person for meeting me.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"no as i get fed up with guys looking at who ive met then go off talking to them asking if they can get me to meet them ?? or guys trying to arrange double up meets behind my back ..pisses me off ... oh i see you shagged my mate if youve shagged him then you must shag me lol erm no piss off lol so i hide most of mine now and we do the same on the joint account too"

The way some people's minds work is hilarious. The fact someone can think this way whilst sobber is just plain nuts.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We show the summary and display any new ones for a few days. Used to show them all but had a few issues along lines of "you shagged him, why not me", also "that guy is a friend of mine, will you do me too", but the thing that made us hide them was several of our veris were contacted asking for info on us to enable them to be successful meeting us. Got to point we thought sod it and hid them all. We like reading them as nice memories of some great meets.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Think veryfies help especially when from lots of different people least you know the people will meet unlike most on here that do not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My summary isn't a fair reflection either as some meets have left, rejoined and reverified me.

You have the longest profile text on fab on a side note lol"

That has nothing to do with the post though does it? Works for me perfectly

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

I show party organiser verifications,people then know I'm real and go places and abit about my personality

I don't show meet/social verifications as my business,men do tend to write play verifications abit OTT sometimes,and about what we got up to sexually which to me is private between me and him,

I do write some verifications never explicit though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications are personal too me .I like reading them to remind me of that special person .People are just nosey to see who met who and what they did .

That's my opinion and I choose to hide mine .I think some people should hide them as well .detailed ones and ones with spelling mistakes on .just puts me off profiles even if they look hot .

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I don't display more than one verification from the same couple or woman....unless they have something specifically new to add...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show some and I like to read others when browsing profiles and see they've been with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of ours have gone UNLOS so can't display them, I also don't show the explicit ones - no need for it and I worry if a trouble maker who knows us stumbles across our profile too, they can be rather incriminating! That said I do like to read other's veris before we meet and if someone has hidden them all it makes me wonder why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show all of my veri's other than one which I got when I visited a Domme for an experience that I'm not going to repeat again!

Lots of my veri's are from women who are on Fabs for a few months but then get disillusioned and leave or find a vanilla partner.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've never experienced this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you display all your verifications?

If not, what is it about the veri that makes you choose to hide it?

Privacy/descretion for the person I was with. Maybe the thought of some asshole creating an opinion of me for who I met, and the other person for meeting me. "

I gave a guy a veri and apparently it put someone off. Me? I'm an angel - I'll be lucky if i get a meet a month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I display most of mine. Sometimes if Simon cam in chat random people I haven't even spoken to will verify me. I don't display those as they aren't personal really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you display all your verifications?

If not, what is it about the veri that makes you choose to hide it?"

Up to date and the latest ones from repeat meets. No point showing all.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"We don't show any as I got fed up of men mainly sending messages asking me to put in a good word for someone we've met, for the same reason we don't display our friends list either.

Its possible to display your friends list?

I don't show my friends list neither to cut nosiness down... Plus some people like to do weird things like fk everyone you've fkd?!... Lol x "

Ive found out how to disable shoeing mine now. I can't say I've ever noticed anyone showing theirs!

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"We don't show any as I got fed up of men mainly sending messages asking me to put in a good word for someone we've met, for the same reason we don't display our friends list either.

Its possible to display your friends list?

It displays by default, you alter through the privacy section."

Yeah found it ta.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

My summary isn't a fair reflection either as some meets have left, rejoined and reverified me.

You have the longest profile text on fab on a side note lol

That has nothing to do with the post though does it? Works for me perfectly

Correct thats why i put "on a side note".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've hidden some of mine because of the messages I was getting because of them.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Mine are hidden,it's my business who I've met for socials, sex or chatted on cam with. I hide the summary because people are way too judgemental on here and can't get past it. My veris are an equal mix of social, sex and cam, most are repeat meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you display all your verifications?

If not, what is it about the veri that makes you choose to hide it?

Privacy/descretion for the person I was with. Maybe the thought of some asshole creating an opinion of me for who I met, and the other person for meeting me.

I gave a guy a veri and apparently it put someone off. Me? I'm an angel - I'll be lucky if i get a meet a month

You see, it happens.

I fancy you, or at least I did until you tainted yourself by meeting blah blah blah...

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

If someone has put particular thought into my veri, I'll put it up. It has to say something a bit different to the norm though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a lady not meet me because I have had "too many veri's from the same person".

She was concerned that the FB might be attached to me and if she was to fuck me then the FB might seek out retribution on her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide some as I had this local lady mailing everyone I had saying she new me it put me off showing them and I think people here can know too much .

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

I display a few but a number of straight? guys have asked me not too display and for discretionary purposes/respecting a request I honour that.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

When i first joined, I displayed some of them.

But later (till now) I hide them all to protect the privacy of those who've met me.

It's good that now we can just display the summary so that people know that one do meets without exposing those whom they've met.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you display all your verifications?

If not, what is it about the veri that makes you choose to hide it?

Privacy/descretion for the person I was with. Maybe the thought of some asshole creating an opinion of me for who I met, and the other person for meeting me.

I gave a guy a veri and apparently it put someone off. Me? I'm an angel - I'll be lucky if i get a meet a month

You see, it happens.

I fancy you, or at least I did until you tainted yourself by meeting blah blah blah...

Of course it could just be she was put off that he'd met someone recently and wouldn't be desperate just yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I display a few but a number of straight? guys have asked me not too display and for discretionary purposes/respecting a request I honour that."

Why then did they verify you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a lady not meet me because I have had "too many veri's from the same person".

She was concerned that the FB might be attached to me and if she was to fuck me then the FB might seek out retribution on her."

That does happen sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We hide about half ours because otherwise it's all a bit long and boring. We prefer our veris to reflect what we are about and be used as an addition to our profile, so we hide those that don't really add anything to our journey and story. Mainly those who were random people we chatted to at clubs or parties. We've also had to hide a few where the senders used our really names, which is a shame as we didn't want those hidden. And we've sadly lost a fair few veris due to friends leaving the site. We might cull the odd veri if the same profile has verified us several times, again because it gets a bit boring. By and large we like our veris and find the verification system fun.

Mrs

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