FabSwingers.com forum: Sex, lies and swinging.

By *inkyLondonpair OP Couple
over a year ago

London

This arises from another thread...

Those of you meeting behind your partners back and honest about that on here, kudos to you for honesty and all that, but I am curious as to why you are honest. . You obviously are able to live with deceiving your partner so why be bothered about lying to randoms on a sex site? Especially as attached people clearly get less meets on here.

So why not lie?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Very good question!

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Married blokes that I meet (who happen to hide it on profiles) these blokes tell me how "easier" meets are with me because I "know" they're married and so can (supposedly) understand when they have to rush or cancel etc etc. I personally don't appreciate any of those but I do understand their constraints.

They say meets with women who think they're meeting a single guy are much more tense for them because of the wifey axe on their heads and the worry that sooner or later the person they're shagging will find out.

So I suspect blokes who reveal their married status upfront want to avoid that tension (as well as the "wrath" of some woman who supposedly was fucking a single guy!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me i think the main reason to be on here is to be open weather thats to get a buzz some attention and mainly some action maybe some people have approached there other half and suggested the idea of swinging but have been shut down by them so doing this thing in secret with people who want to experience different things is definetly tempting and also discreet as for been honest about been with someone thats a good thing and also saves hassle trying to explain why they cannot meet etc and its up to the other person to decide if its a good move or not but i get your point x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it's obvious I am married, can only meet daytimes being the give away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To all the attached guys on here..

I hope your partner is also screwing around your back and gives you a dose !!

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By *ruesome-twosomeCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"To all the attached guys on here..

I hope your partner is also screwing around your back and gives you a dose !!"

Just the guys ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To all the attached guys on here..

I hope your partner is also screwing around your back and gives you a dose !!

Just the guys ??"

Sorry ..

And women..

It disgusts me.

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