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By *orders-cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

middx cpl

meeting guy tonite for 5th meeting is this normal or are we just getting lazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it isn't

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

there is a old saying that covers my answer for this..

"If it Ain't Broke..........."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met one of mine 5 times in 2 months... And many more times besides that... It's all about what works for you..

I prefer regular meets if one on one.

Cali x

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By *orders-cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

middx cpl

oh i can tell u it aint broke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not if your looking for regular fun and friendship.

Only a problem if one starts asking where you are or what are you up to out of meets, then the NSA is broken....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont think its lazy, hes turned up in the past, so isnt likely to let you down, hes proved himself proformance wise, so why not keep meeting

but.... variety is the spice of life!

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By *orders-cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

middx cpl

we are in this for lots of fun...but its so easy to keep with a regular guy but thats not realy swinging is it...more like taking a lover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

_orders-cpl... if either of you are dubious about whether it's right to continue, then you should have a chat about it.

But if you are both happy with a friend who is adding value to your relationship without threatening it, then crack on!

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

not lazy at all, I've been meeting a guy from here for over 2 years and it works for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore my regulars, the fun just gets so much better ....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"not lazy at all, I've been meeting a guy from here for over 2 years and it works for us."

Have you told soapy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I adore my regulars, the fun just gets so much better ...."

I agree completely, a little knowledge is a wonderful thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

return meets are great, theres nothing like feeling as somebodies wee slut for a nite or two again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been meeting same guy at least once a month for past 10 months and I'm very lazy cos only read his profile this week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"meeting guy tonite for 5th meeting is this normal or are we just getting lazy"

to be honest i dont usually meet guys that many times

However i did meet a guy a while back who was local to me and could accommodate, i liked him and the sex was good too so i met him quite regular, but thinking about it it was only because he was handy so i think it was due to being lazy

I used to think why bother looking on here for sopmeone new when i have someone i can meet whos just down the road lol

so yeah your lazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although I agree with what has been said, I know of a few people that have broken up because the woman has started seeing the man behind his back (& vice versa) The Idiom 'Familiarity breeds contempt' springs to mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats why i dont do regular meets as ive had a few guys want more than im willing to give them, i think a lot of people think that because im single i must be looking for someone, and im not!i just think one off meets are easier, we all know where we stand that way

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By *riseeTV/TS
over a year ago

MacKay

as a couple meeting a regular guy isn't that strange.

We had one that lasted 6 months and another that lasted 3 months. The latter his 'ex wife' found out and her solicitors wrote us a letter. We replied 'SO you want us to take back the sex' - never heard from any of them again. I have the letters One day I'll publish them!

We also had a couple move across the country and in with us for several months - they also worked with my company - stunned no one in the staff worked out what was going on.

and another couple that moved intrastate to work with us and things got hanky panky, specially between me and the other wife That lasted about 3 years .... was fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had several playmates I saw regularily for four years. Time constraints, coupled with the fact this was occasional fantasy fulfilment meant regulars suited me fine. As I could "rotate" them it still remained fresh.

If I were part of a couple I'd be a little concerned about the other person forming an attachment.

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

Not lazy at all, I find the experiences just gets better and better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats why i dont do regular meets as ive had a few guys want more than im willing to give them, i think a lot of people think that because im single i must be looking for someone, and im not!i just think one off meets are easier, we all know where we stand that way "

I had this problem when i used to play on my own as a single lady. I used to play with a husband and wife, then it went from 3 playing to her agreeing for him to play with me on my own which i wasnt overly comftable with.

Then one day i was shopping turned round and he was stood there( i had my children with me)

Then he started turning up to the yard where i kept my horses and leaving huge boquets of flowers on my doorstep.

I then found out he was telling everyone he was leaving his wife for me and had told her so

So as has been said before it can and does work for some but for me it got out of hand.

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