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By *uicy72 OP   Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester

Who wants to practise on my !

Naked canvas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 hours and no replies? Pah!

I'd tie you up OP, but my styles more cable ties and a well used, suspicious smelling hanky

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By *uicy72 OP   Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester


"4 hours and no replies? Pah!

I'd tie you up OP, but my styles more cable ties and a well used, suspicious smelling hanky "

At least your honest !

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By *atexbound_scotMan
over a year ago

Livingston

Cant believe there are no takers....such a waste of a great offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"4 hours and no replies? Pah!

I'd tie you up OP, but my styles more cable ties and a well used, suspicious smelling hanky

At least your honest ! "

No point lying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do find this fascinating, especially since I researched its origins.

It originates from early Japan, where rope was used to restrain captives. Often in extremely uncomfortable positions. Only difference is that the captives didn't find it to be in any way erotic.

OP would be better off joining and searching a popular Fetish site. Plenty of willing practicioers on there. Best way to meet them is to go to "Fetish Munches" in your area. Basically a social for kink minded people. Quite often there are play Munches where you can play (non sexual, rope , spanking etc) in a safe environment.

Any woman should be careful about asking random guys to meet her and tie her up with rope. Not safe or sane.

There also many Shibari groups who meet for courses, demos etc.

Hope this helps x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Any woman should be careful about asking random guys to meet her and tie her up with rope. Not safe or sane.

"

Next you'll be saying no woman should ask random men to meet her and have sex with her too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strangely enough there was recently an interesting article on the site that cannot be named about people not taking being tied by a stranger seriously.

The lack of response may be due to the fact that tying (and I am more kinbaku than shibari although some argue over definitions) is about connection, trust and safety of the top as well as the bottom. When it comes to rope not many tops that I know would tie a random person other than in an environment that they are safe. However I suspect those interested in tying OP would have sent PMs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Any woman should be careful about asking random guys to meet her and tie her up with rope. Not safe or sane.

Next you'll be saying no woman should ask random men to meet her and have sex with her too "

Blah blah..

Shibari in its true form isn't for a guy who wants to turn up at a woman's house with a carrier bag full of rope from B&Q.. hoping to tie a woman up and fuck her senseless. It is a skill and an art form. You know nothing. Sex and any form of penetration does not even have to be in the equation for true devotees..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Strangely enough there was recently an interesting article on the site that cannot be named about people not taking being tied by a stranger seriously.

The lack of response may be due to the fact that tying (and I am more kinbaku than shibari although some argue over definitions) is about connection, trust and safety of the top as well as the bottom. When it comes to rope not many tops that I know would tie a random person other than in an environment that they are safe. However I suspect those interested in tying OP would have sent PMs."

I agree. This is the totally wrong site to be asking about being tied Shibari style.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"4 hours and no replies? Pah!

I'd tie you up OP, but my styles more cable ties and a well used, suspicious smelling hanky "

Say no more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who wants to practise on my !

Naked canvas "

Yes please! Always looking for a local willing rope bunny to practice on. Get your arse down here

Fuzz

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By *omis.69Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"

Any woman should be careful about asking random guys to meet her and tie her up with rope. Not safe or sane.

Next you'll be saying no woman should ask random men to meet her and have sex with her too

Blah blah..

Shibari in its true form isn't for a guy who wants to turn up at a woman's house with a carrier bag full of rope from B&Q.. hoping to tie a woman up and fuck her senseless. It is a skill and an art form. You know nothing. Sex and any form of penetration does not even have to be in the equation for true devotees.. "

I can converse about most subjects, not self opinionated

Just saying !!!

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By *omis.69Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"

Any woman should be careful about asking random guys to meet her and tie her up with rope. Not safe or sane.

Next you'll be saying no woman should ask random men to meet her and have sex with her too

Blah blah..

Shibari in its true form isn't for a guy who wants to turn up at a woman's house with a carrier bag full of rope from B&Q.. hoping to tie a woman up and fuck her senseless. It is a skill and an art form. You know nothing. Sex and any form of penetration does not even have to be in the equation for true devotees.. "

I can converse about most subjects, not self opinionated

Just saying !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Any woman should be careful about asking random guys to meet her and tie her up with rope. Not safe or sane.

Next you'll be saying no woman should ask random men to meet her and have sex with her too

Blah blah..

Shibari in its true form isn't for a guy who wants to turn up at a woman's house with a carrier bag full of rope from B&Q.. hoping to tie a woman up and fuck her senseless. It is a skill and an art form. You know nothing. Sex and any form of penetration does not even have to be in the equation for true devotees..

I can converse about most subjects, not self opinionated

Just saying !!!"

The OP was asking for genuine advice and help.

What have you offered? Just a dig at me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you certainly have the boobage to practise on!

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By *uicy72 OP   Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester


"I do find this fascinating, especially since I researched its origins.

It originates from early Japan, where rope was used to restrain captives. Often in extremely uncomfortable positions. Only difference is that the captives didn't find it to be in any way erotic.

OP would be better off joining and searching a popular Fetish site. Plenty of willing practicioers on there. Best way to meet them is to go to "Fetish Munches" in your area. Basically a social for kink minded people. Quite often there are play Munches where you can play (non sexual, rope , spanking etc) in a safe environment.

Any woman should be careful about asking random guys to meet her and tie her up with rope. Not safe or sane.

There also many Shibari groups who meet for courses, demos etc.

Hope this helps x"

Thanks for the advice x

I've been to a couple of fetish nights with a friend of mine who's a dominatrix

I wouldn't go anywhere alone she comes with me

Just thought I'd ask on here !!!

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By *uicy72 OP   Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester


"Strangely enough there was recently an interesting article on the site that cannot be named about people not taking being tied by a stranger seriously.

The lack of response may be due to the fact that tying (and I am more kinbaku than shibari although some argue over definitions) is about connection, trust and safety of the top as well as the bottom. When it comes to rope not many tops that I know would tie a random person other than in an environment that they are safe. However I suspect those interested in tying OP would have sent PMs."

Being a single parent I'm all about safety!

I'd have to get to know the person and really connect and trust them in what they were doing to me ..........

There must be guys out there that are intrigued by shibari and would like to try it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn i wish i knew there was a Lady rope enthusiast here.

Its a bit late in the day to get to know each other and i leave tomorrow.

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By *uicy72 OP   Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester


"OP you certainly have the boobage to practise on!"

Thanks

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By *uicy72 OP   Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester


"Who wants to practise on my !

Naked canvas

Yes please! Always looking for a local willing rope bunny to practice on. Get your arse down here

Fuzz"

So this is something you practise on your wife !?

Maybe I should make a trip and watch you in action ! And experience your rope skills

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By *uicy72 OP   Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester


"Damn i wish i knew there was a Lady rope enthusiast here.

Its a bit late in the day to get to know each other and i leave tomorrow.

"

I'm very intrigued

I would really like to be a canvas to practise on I like the

eroticness that surrounds this art

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Private messaged you.

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By *uicy72 OP   Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester

(Quote )

The OP was asking for genuine advice and help.

What have you offered? Just a dig at me.

I really appreciate your positive advice!

Thanks

I've came across many kinks on here that I'd like to try so thought I'd put it out there to see what response I got and to see if there was maybe a few that do this and would like more bodies to practise on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who wants to practise on my !

Naked canvas

Yes please! Always looking for a local willing rope bunny to practice on. Get your arse down here

Fuzz"

OP. After checking out the photos of this poster i have to say.. Get your arse down there

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By *uicy72 OP   Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester


"Who wants to practise on my !

Naked canvas

Yes please! Always looking for a local willing rope bunny to practice on. Get your arse down here

Fuzz

OP. After checking out the photos of this poster i have to say.. Get your arse down there "

They do have amazing pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Strangely enough there was recently an interesting article on the site that cannot be named about people not taking being tied by a stranger seriously.

The lack of response may be due to the fact that tying (and I am more kinbaku than shibari although some argue over definitions) is about connection, trust and safety of the top as well as the bottom. When it comes to rope not many tops that I know would tie a random person other than in an environment that they are safe. However I suspect those interested in tying OP would have sent PMs.

Being a single parent I'm all about safety!

I'd have to get to know the person and really connect and trust them in what they were doing to me ..........

There must be guys out there that are intrigued by shibari and would like to try it! "

If you are looking for more than chest harnesses, karadas and corsets you need to know more than the standard issues of safety. I know I sound over the top but in the rope world and the kink world the emphasis is on the bottoms and subs to understand what they are getting into if they know nothing about the kink they want to try.

I would suggest googling rope safety for bottoms. Edie Vane has a good book the guide to getting tied up. If you are the London end of Essex try the peer rope London event there will be lots of people wanting to tie you.

One of the first people I tied had had her shoulder severely damaged because the rigger she started with persuaded her to try suspension and he did not know what he was doing. Entirely your choice but rope can be dangerous if not done properly. Good luck.

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By *uicy72 OP   Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester

Thanks ozzz

I will look that up

I have been to a few fetish events and watched rope play

And I would never put myself in harms way !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who wants to practise on my !

Naked canvas

Yes please! Always looking for a local willing rope bunny to practice on. Get your arse down here

Fuzz

So this is something you practise on your wife !?

Maybe I should make a trip and watch you in action ! And experience your rope skills "

It's is. And yes you should.

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who wants to practise on my !

Naked canvas

Yes please! Always looking for a local willing rope bunny to practice on. Get your arse down here

Fuzz

OP. After checking out the photos of this poster i have to say.. Get your arse down there

They do have amazing pics "

Thank you both

Fuzz

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By *oluptuous delightWoman
over a year ago

Walsall

I love the idea of this, but can not even contemplate the idea of allowing a relative stranger to restrain me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the idea of this, but can not even contemplate the idea of allowing a relative stranger to restrain me"

Trust is a factor in rope play. It's always good for 'rigger' and 'bunny' to get to know each other socially.

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The trust factor comes up regularly in kink and I approach it in two ways. First is the standard meet socially and get to know people. The second is to meet people at a public trusted event and play at the event under the control of a dungeon monitor. In the case of rope I tie at peer ropes first. It is a public space and if the bunny speaks to the organisers they can look out for them.

I would add that decorative rope does not need to be restraining. Google Karada or crotch tie or rope gauntlets. There is a really beautiful tie by Beautiful bondage called the booty bondage or booty basket that has no restraint. Also most breast ties have no restraint.

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By *uicy72 OP   Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester


"I love the idea of this, but can not even contemplate the idea of allowing a relative stranger to restrain me"

No way !

I'd have to get to know them 1st

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By *oluptuous delightWoman
over a year ago

Walsall


"I love the idea of this, but can not even contemplate the idea of allowing a relative stranger to restrain me

No way !

I'd have to get to know them 1st "

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the idea of this, but can not even contemplate the idea of allowing a relative stranger to restrain me

No way !

I'd have to get to know them 1st

Totally agree"

Hello ladies. I'm Fuzz, pleased to meet you both. Fancy a drink and chat......?

Fuzz

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Makes me smile, play like this with no sexual report or relationship. 'Tis the world of porn, unless it's at an open event and there is a safety aspect.

Still what do I know..,,

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