FabSwingers.com forum: Too old to swing

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im now 50 and Im beginning to think maybe i'm too old to swing, as I'm finding it more difficult to find couples to meet, it made me start to think has anyone else found it more difficult to get genuine or any meets after 50 xx

I hope not as I want to carry on into my 70s if possible lol

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By *arnsleycouple7683Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Your pics look okay from what I can see. You don't look past it!

There are a lot of more mature swingers out there.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

You're a mere spring chicken

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By *otchillicoupleCouple
over a year ago

all over

"Im now 50 and Im beginning to think maybe i'm too old to swing, as I'm finding it more difficult to find couples to meet, it made me start to think has anyone else found it more difficult to get genuine or any meets after 50 xx

I hope not as I want to carry on into my 70s if possible lol"

Quickly goes to look at profile

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Perhaps if isn't the age that is an issue... may be lol at some new photos?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi thankyou both for support and comments but it seems to be difficult to find couples at least around cheltenham who seem interested in meeting if your over 50 they have age limits on there profiles, just makes me feel old. i can still play all night so stamina isnt an issue lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Perhaps if isn't the age that is an issue... may be lol at some new photos?"

maybe it is the photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you read my profile you will see that you are very much my type.... apart from being local xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha....I know many who are older then they announce so just get stuckin....

You never know know your luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow i see what you mean Jessica pity we aren't closer xxx

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By *rs Robinson no 1Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I hope not as I want to carry on into my 70s if possible lol"
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You are just a boy....come visit sometime.. Rx

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By *ngel clawsWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Not at all hunni, doesn't matter what your age, if it feels good, do it, and there is someone out there for everyone x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

youre even further aawy, would love to come and see you, but this is the problem maybe its a cheltenham thing no oldies wanted in cheltenham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blackpool full of gilfs and milfs

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By *udistcpl1Couple
over a year ago

Wirral

We meet men well into their 60s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your never too old!

Keep at it xx

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By *lderukmale2005Man
over a year ago

basingstoke

I hope not as I want to carry on into my 70s if possible lol"

I am 67 and finding it almost impossible to find genuine meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate

I'm 55 next week and doing ok on here

chin up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi thanks I really think it must be the area im in, perhaps i should move, I also think older swingers have alot to offer and are well worth a try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need to move but be open to travelling, I'm lucky enough to travel a fair bit in the UK for different reasons, I'm sitting on a balcony in a villa in Spain right now and there are swingers aplenty within 10 miles

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

wow lucky you, sounds a great job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope not as I want to carry on into my 70s if possible lol"

Well am getting no response at 49 so I kinda give up

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By *ebedee2009Man
over a year ago

South Croydon

OP, age is just a number...I'm 55 and not doing too badly on here so stick to your guns!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like experience and expertise not a rough fumble with a lad who doesn't like 80s music or understand my jokes and quotes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Jessica you sound better and better xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take off the tree pic and add some new ones

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Don't think it's the area OP - just dod a quick search of ladies within 20 miles of Cheltenham willing to meet guys of my age (52) and there were 139 results

You've a decent profile blurb - as others have said better pics might help you don't really need 5/6 pics of your cock

I only started all this when I was 50 and the site is meeting my expectations so age isn't a limiting factor.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Mr N is 60 I'm not far short of 61. We're soft swap only and have specific requirements. All these things limit our options but we still have opportunities.

Work with what you have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at benidorm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm meeting I met men my age and older .there's lots of ladies who love men in their 50,s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope there's no upper age limit!! I'll want all the young studs when I'm in my 60's xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gawd - I didn't even start until I was in my mid-50's, and ten years later everything still works!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you will find its more the people you chat to and that mess you around starts to make you feel that way I feel the same too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suggested in another topic that honesty, when you first set up your account, can work against you later. The dishonest guys with lower stated ages are able to communicate through filters us honest guys can't.

There are lots of lovely accounts, mf and f, who revel in us older, wiser men, just fewer and far between, but they are there. Thanks to those who contacted me last time. You cheered me up no end.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

The reality is that single men over fifty will find it increasingly difficult to get meets. It's supply and demand again. Most women and couples will prefer younger men (30 to 40 is probably the optimum age bracket) and because there are so many men on offer women and couples can pick and choose. Katie's view is that she is meeting guys for casual sex and that she can pick and choose really hot guys. Why would she choose less hot men?

Again supply and demand means that doesn't apply to older women. So the older women saying they have no problems are rather missing the point

That doesn't mean that some women and couples don't want older men, just they will be fewer than when you were younger.

I'm 51 in two months by the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're definitely not too old to swing, there are just more people who think you are......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am innocently curious to why the senior couples/ lady's prefer younger buck

20 or so years younger, if it was a male seeking a young lady it would most probably be frowned upon lol and (fingers would be pointing)

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By *osexyCouple
over a year ago

ST AUSTELL

We are going through the same dilemma regarding age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a lot to be said for the older dog

Patience, experience, understanding and most of all who doesn’t just love a silver fox???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fabswingers I suppose you if you have good lucks there's hope either or it's a struggle for guys younger or older....it's a fact

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By *ucky1sCouple
over a year ago

yorkshire

we still have lots of fun the young lads love to play with wife xx

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

52 and still doing OK on here

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By *ucky1sCouple
over a year ago

yorkshire

we still have lots of fun the young lads love to play with wife xx

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By *ambslass48Woman
over a year ago

Peterborough

I hope not as I want to carry on into my 70s if possible

lol"

Im almost 52 no chance im too old to swing just more fussy lol

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

I hope not, I'm 50 next year and only just getting into swing of things lol & hubby 51 and he's endless staying power

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I hope not, I'm 50 next year and only just getting into swing of things lol & hubby 51 and he's endless staying power "

Yeah fantastic I must say I find more mature couples sexier too xx

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"I hope not, I'm 50 next year and only just getting into swing of things lol & hubby 51 and he's endless staying power

Yeah fantastic I must say I find more mature couples sexier too xx"

Age is but a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope not, I'm 50 next year and only just getting into swing of things lol & hubby 51 and he's endless staying power "
just bored!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attention seeking old fart

We rather like your pics and who gives a toss about age xx look us up x

Well played though we hadn’t noticed you yet and you’re to far away from us lol xx

Hope you have a face mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's face it,the majority are in the overs category...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 84 and find it very difficult even with good orals. Also the body slows down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Salutes)

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"I hope not, I'm 50 next year and only just getting into swing of things lol & hubby 51 and he's endless staying power

Yeah fantastic I must say I find more mature couples sexier too xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish we were 50 again!!!!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I hope not as I want to carry on into my 70s if possible lol"

The effect on my inbox when I turned 46 was noticeable for sure

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I think you will find its more the people you chat to and that mess you around starts to make you feel that way I feel the same too x"

And you're only looking for guys 35-39?

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

We are around the same age. And everyone we see at the club we use look either within 10 years each side of that. Life begins at fourty so just enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have MF couple I visit on several occasions over the years whenever I over their way - she is 67 and he is 68 and BOTH are two of the horniest people I ever met - not only are they "swingers" but both still meet as singles to - so age is truly just a number OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope not as I want to carry on into my 70s if possible lol"

50 is perfect age for us x

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"hi thankyou both for support and comments but it seems to be difficult to find couples at least around cheltenham who seem interested in meeting if your over 50 they have age limits on there profiles, just makes me feel old. i can still play all night so stamina isnt an issue lol"

They're not the couples for you then. Plenty of people like guys in their 50's including me so keep at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope not as I want to carry on into my 70s if possible lol

50 is perfect age for us x"

TAXI for Lincoln Sir ........yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope not as I want to carry on into my 70s if possible lol

50 is perfect age for us x

TAXI for Lincoln Sir ........yes please

You are invited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not sure I'll ever be to old lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im not sure I'll ever be to old lol x"

totally agreed - i have used this following old saying a few times to express myself;

"life is for living as your a long time dead"

jon xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're just a youngster, we're still going strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im not sure I'll ever be to old lol x

totally agreed - i have used this following old saying a few times to express myself;

"life is for living as your a long time dead"

jon xx

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My sentiments exactly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're just a youngster, we're still going strong"
Respect x

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By *oreverHorny69Man
over a year ago

Milnrow

I sometimes think the same as you, sadly It’s no easier here in Rochdale

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By *orksCouple25Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

People saying age isn’t an issue are just being politically correct . The problem particularly applies to men rather than women as it’s a simple fact that in many cases as men get older the mind is very willing but the cock simply isn’t capable of delivering ,whereas there is much less pressure on older women to ‘perform’ once the fun begins .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have MF couple I visit on several occasions over the years whenever I over their way - she is 67 and he is 68 and BOTH are two of the horniest people I ever met - not only are they "swingers" but both still meet as singles to - so age is truly just a number OP

the age it's not about the age it's more subjective to attractiveness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 54 and in having more sex and cock now than ever

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe I should move North as don't seem so many muture swingers in Gloucestershire lol

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

We're over 50, but certainly don't look it, and we always turn heads when we are out.

We get a buzz out of still being sexy. It's our Saturday ego boost to get dressed up and go out to to a busy city centre pub/club and attract flirting and admiring glances from people in their 30s, 40s and 50s

Take care of yourself, take pride in yourself and have confidence and you'll still have mileage.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"People saying age isn’t an issue are just being politically correct . The problem particularly applies to men rather than women as it’s a simple fact that in many cases as men get older the mind is very willing but the cock simply isn’t capable of delivering ,whereas there is much less pressure on older women to ‘perform’ once the fun begins ."

Can't say I entirely agree with this.

Firstly, there are aids to your first point.

Secondly, I think mature women are way, way more switched on and sexy. They know what they like and how to get it. They have confidence and naughtiness in spades.

I don't see any need for 'political correctness'. Age isn't an issue in my book (yet).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's slightly different for couples.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody heck,over the hill in 62 days,best get it while i still can!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope not as I want to carry on into my 70s if possible lol"

Believe me mate, there’s a few on here that are 70 good luck in your search but just remember you’re a single man and there’s thousands of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say I entirely agree with this.

Firstly, there are aids to your first point.

Secondly, I think mature women are way, way more switched on and sexy. They know what they like and how to get it. They have confidence and naughtiness in spades.

I don't see any need for 'political correctness'. Age isn't an issue in my book (yet)."

Also, women have to go through the menopause which can drastically reduce sex drive and cause issues with lubrication, so having to keep adding that during play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Issues to many on this site !!

Maybe blame brexit lol

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By *ffanotdykeCouple
over a year ago

Telford

I really didn't start swinging in earnest until I was 50 and that was a long time ago. Two of my closest mates fell off the perch this week so its has inspired me to go at it while I still can.

Luckily my lady keeps me inspired. Remember you are only as old as the woman you feel.

Aitch

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By *igerlilycubWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

I'm 50 in 6 months and I don't have any problem with my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 50 in 6 months and I don't have any problem with my age "

Neither do we

Looking half your age mmmm

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We find that hit 50 and blocked. But my fella can get hard stay hard and cum on command.

I find ( my opinion) youngers go floppy as soon as condom comes out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We find that hit 50 and blocked. But my fella can get hard stay hard and cum on command.

I find ( my opinion) youngers go floppy as soon as condom comes out. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a number of issues to swinging as you get older.

1) you will be attractive to fewer people. (it is nature - sex is for procreation primarily and as we age that imperative is gone).

2) you need to adjust your expectations. Do not expect to pull young, fit page3 models. They can have their pick of young, fit, hardbodied men.

3) the killer blow is that so many of the older women are searching for a young replacement for their aged partner who can manage it only infrequently, if at all.

4) when there is a favourable combination of circumstances, however, you may be lucky enough to enjoy a session like I did this afternoon.

All three of us are retired and in our late 60s. We met at their house and spent best part of 2 hours in a wonderful sex session. It made me feel as if I was 58 again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a number of issues to swinging as you get older.

1) you will be attractive to fewer people. (it is nature - sex is for procreation primarily and as we age that imperative is gone).

2) you need to adjust your expectations. Do not expect to pull young, fit page3 models. They can have their pick of young, fit, hardbodied men.

3) the killer blow is that so many of the older women are searching for a young replacement for their aged partner who can manage it only infrequently, if at all.

4) when there is a favourable combination of circumstances, however, you may be lucky enough to enjoy a session like I did this afternoon.

All three of us are retired and in our late 60s. We met at their house and spent best part of 2 hours in a wonderful sex session. It made me feel as if I was 58 again.

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I hope not as I want to carry on into my 70s if possible lol"

Never too old. You look in great shape.

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By *ingAlMan
over a year ago

hereford

I,m 65 and still having fun

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By *rs Robinson no 1Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I,m 65 and still having fun"

You don't look anywhere near 55 let alone 65

R x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can't beat farther time. Some of us weather it better than others and we'll all give up at different times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was in a club last night there wasn't anyone in there under 40...

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By *ingAlMan
over a year ago

hereford

Thank you, you look gorgeous x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think the fab life is fortunately diverse for all ages ...

You still need to be half decent in many complexed ways...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been here for nine months and I think that at 59 I am definitely left on the shelf.

I am sure that there is the right lady or couple out there but it's a bit of a bugger trying to get the planets aligned, find a four leaf clover and get the correct lottery numbers all on the same day

p.s. Just the winning lottery numbers will suffice please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 53 I don’t think I’m past it and if I wanted to meet I’d do ok

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

OP went UNLOS. Expect him back soon profile age 40

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

OP I can see where you are coming from

From a female perspective I think actually mature ladies do very well in the swinging scene as porn over the past few years has upped the game for the whole Milf scenario

Men I have to say do find it harder the older they get but that’s down to a few factors

Not as many younger girls compared to younger guys go for mature statistically and also (don’t shoot me for this) women do seem to have the power on here

The attention ladies get on here means they become more demanding what they are looking for .. 6 packs, fitness levels and the like and yes im not counting myself out of it either

And the reason why ? Because we can

BUT ... that may be the case on here but bumping into someone in a club is a different kettle of fish

Many a time someone’s personality has blown me away and when we have exchanged Fab names and I’ve looked at their profile I know if they had messaged me on here I prob wouldn’t have really been interested - that’s being really honest

So don’t worry about it just maybe change the way you try to swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's difficult all round it's a mindfield sure ...

We all want to be hotty lol

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