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By *otswaps OP   Couple
over a year ago

Medway

In short, what is the best way for a couple to attract a single lady?

We have been on and off here a while during which time we have played with couples where I (Sally), have discovered my bi side. I still like Harry's cock aswell though so we really want to meet a single lady for a mff.

We know most couples are also after the same, so how do we stand out and get ourselves noticed in the small world of single women?

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple that doesn't know what they want is dangerous ground. What if they decide half way through a meet that their rules have changed and the woman gets pissed off at the man fucking the other woman?

Bi curious can mean a woman pretending to be bi just to please her husband.

I'm a person, not a tick box on someone's 'wish list'.

Just some reasons why I might not want to meet some couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id say the same as above. If you don't know what you want how will I know if it matches what Im looking for?

The bit about not swapping face pics right away would put me off too. I want to see who Im talking with from the start, if Im not attracted then i don't want to waste time for any of us. Remember there are 2 of you she needs to find attractive too.

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By *otswaps OP   Couple
over a year ago

Medway


"A couple that doesn't know what they want is dangerous ground. What if they decide half way through a meet that their rules have changed and the woman gets pissed off at the man fucking the other woman?

Bi curious can mean a woman pretending to be bi just to please her husband.

I'm a person, not a tick box on someone's 'wish list'.

Just some reasons why I might not want to meet some couples. "

No we have said we both want to meet a lady! That's what this whole post is about.

As I said I like playing with ladies, but also like the feel of Harry's cock as well.

I enjoy watching Harry with other ladies.

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By *otswaps OP   Couple
over a year ago

Medway

Thanks for your comments so far though.

Maybe we should re write our profile to make it clear.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

If you want to attract ladies then you need to tailor your profile towards that. At the moment there just isn't enough information on there.

Ladies will want to know how the dynamic between you two and them will work out. Will you all play together or is it just the ladies playing? Are there any limits to what you will and won't do? What do you find attractive in a potential meet?

More photos of both of you might help too. Be prepared to send face pictures very early on in any message exchange. Nobody will invest too much time getting to know you if they don't know what you look like.

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By *inkyCouple1927Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We don't attract single ladies either...sadly

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By *assy but classyWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own!

I would want to see face pics of both of you from the onset .... has to be an attraction to start talking before arranging a possible meet. It saves everyone's time!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

No face pictures, no messages.

If I message anyone, I attach a face pic, if they message me, I expect to see one and the vast majority on here know that.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We don't look for single girls on here, too difficult. In vanilla life , we occasionally meet ladies where a mutual attraction and spark is evident, more often than not it goes nowhere, but we do have a sexy older lady at present that may progress to a physical relationship. This is a great site for meeting guys which usually suffices for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it for you both to have sex with her?

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

Unicorn hunt.... can we play?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A couple that doesn't know what they want is dangerous ground. What if they decide half way through a meet that their rules have changed and the woman gets pissed off at the man fucking the other woman?

Bi curious can mean a woman pretending to be bi just to please her husband.

I'm a person, not a tick box on someone's 'wish list'.

Just some reasons why I might not want to meet some couples.

No we have said we both want to meet a lady! That's what this whole post is about.

As I said I like playing with ladies, but also like the feel of Harry's cock as well.

I enjoy watching Harry with other ladies."

Have a read of your profile and see if that information is in there or if it can be clarified.

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By *otswaps OP   Couple
over a year ago

Medway

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By *otswaps OP   Couple
over a year ago

Medway


"Is it for you both to have sex with her?"

It is for both of us to play and have and have sex with her as long as she is comfortable with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I see a couples profile I always ask the question is the fem allowed to play alone. If not then probability of me wanting to take it further is slim.

I want fem on fem fun with no men, not even one watching but that's really hard to find on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I see a couples profile I always ask the question is the fem allowed to play alone. If not then probability of me wanting to take it further is slim.

I want fem on fem fun with no men, not even one watching but that's really hard to find on here. "

T is allowed to play alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I see a couples profile I always ask the question is the fem allowed to play alone. If not then probability of me wanting to take it further is slim.

I want fem on fem fun with no men, not even one watching but that's really hard to find on here.

T is allowed to play alone "

And T is rather gorgeous too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so bad yourself

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By *lderukmale2005Man
over a year ago

basingstoke


"In short, what is the best way for a couple to attract a single lady?

We have been on and off here a while during which time we have played with couples where I (Sally), have discovered my bi side. I still like Harry's cock aswell though so we really want to meet a single lady for a mff.

We know most couples are also after the same, so how do we stand out and get ourselves noticed in the small world of single women?

X"

Mmmmmm Sally you would stand out anywhere - delicious x

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

OP, I'd suggest showing your veris, that might help confidence of a prospective meet.

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By *otswaps OP   Couple
over a year ago

Medway


"OP, I'd suggest showing your veris, that might help confidence of a prospective meet.

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Yes we could do. But last veris we had was a year ago and just at a social.

Our play meets was over a year ago and they have since left.

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