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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

First ever post, be gentle.

I started chatting to a guy on here and we swapped numbers. He asked what I was doing and I said i was led on my sofa, wanking.

He then replied saying to delete his number. When I asked why he said that he wasn't gay.

I explained that I was a woman and took a selfie (top half only) confirming this but the messages on WhatsApp didn't go through so he must have blocked me.

A bit later he messaged me on here saying that I should have said i was playing, not wanking as only men wank.

I've been on this site many times over the years and I have always called it wanking and this is new to me and has stuck in my mind.

I would like to hear other people's thoughts.

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By *aughtychopsCouple
over a year ago

Dartford

Wank away girl! Don't worry about him, sounds like a nightmare lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a lucky escape!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he might just be stuck in his ways as far as terminology goes and he's gotten the wrong end of the stick. i suspect most folk wouldn't assume you to be a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same goal at the end of it. It's just words. maybe he is not comfortable with his own sexuality

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I've always thought of wanking as what men do and playing as the female equivalent - but there's no definitive rule so call it whatever you want to. The guy in question only had to ask rather than act like a petulant teenager - I'd tell him to do one!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I think he over-reacted, but in fairness I can see why he thought what he did, as very few women we have talked to would use the word "wanking", usually using some other way to describe what they were doing... plus, if it was us, we'd be suspicious of a woman being so descriptive (sexually) so early into a chat, that's very unusual.

I'm not saying what you did was wrong, it would just be different to how we would usually expect a woman to respond.

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By *eadonistCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ashton under Lyne


"First ever post, be gentle.

I started chatting to a guy on here and we swapped numbers. He asked what I was doing and I said i was led on my sofa, wanking.

He then replied saying to delete his number. When I asked why he said that he wasn't gay.

I explained that I was a woman and took a selfie (top half only) confirming this but the messages on WhatsApp didn't go through so he must have blocked me.

A bit later he messaged me on here saying that I should have said i was playing, not wanking as only men wank.

I've been on this site many times over the years and I have always called it wanking and this is new to me and has stuck in my mind.

I would like to hear other people's thoughts. "

He checked your profile? (lovely pics BTW..) how could he think you ment anything different???

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By *hatterley64Couple
over a year ago

Hertford

I'm a girl and I'm always wanking!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well thank you all. It's nice to have the positives.

I can confirm that I do wank and shall carry on doing and calling it that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He probably had little experience of communication with a single woman. It seems many single men on here suffer the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Carry on wanking ! He must have got confused with your batman pic lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say lady wank, surprising how many men get confused otherwise!

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By *lderukmale2005Man
over a year ago

basingstoke

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By *lderukmale2005Man
over a year ago

basingstoke

Everyone knows what wanking means and everyone wanks x

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

i wank too, not play.

i guess guys get fake men a lot though so can understand why they'd be suspicious. shame really.

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By *icegentglosMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

Sounds like a wanker to me

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By *antern49Man
over a year ago

Bampton

I think he has l problem within himself

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"First ever post, be gentle.

I started chatting to a guy on here and we swapped numbers. He asked what I was doing and I said i was led on my sofa, wanking.

He then replied saying to delete his number. When I asked why he said that he wasn't gay.

I explained that I was a woman and took a selfie (top half only) confirming this but the messages on WhatsApp didn't go through so he must have blocked me.

A bit later he messaged me on here saying that I should have said i was playing, not wanking as only men wank.

I've been on this site many times over the years and I have always called it wanking and this is new to me and has stuck in my mind.

I would like to hear other people's thoughts. "

OP, you can call it whatever you want! I can see from your profile that you're all woman!!!!

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By *rof SalamanderMan
over a year ago

glasgow

What a wanker he is then. U wank ur self silly girl xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"First ever post, be gentle.

I started chatting to a guy on here and we swapped numbers. He asked what I was doing and I said i was led on my sofa, wanking.

He then replied saying to delete his number. When I asked why he said that he wasn't gay.

I explained that I was a woman and took a selfie (top half only) confirming this but the messages on WhatsApp didn't go through so he must have blocked me.

A bit later he messaged me on here saying that I should have said i was playing, not wanking as only men wank.

I've been on this site many times over the years and I have always called it wanking and this is new to me and has stuck in my mind.

I would like to hear other people's thoughts.

OP, you can call it whatever you want! I can see from your profile that you're all woman!!!!"

Thank you xx

I like to think I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call it wanking. Playing is fucking surely.

If he got so uptight over one word I wouldn't want to meet him anyway. Lucky escape.

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By *arnsleycouple7683Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

I call it playing with myself, but really it doesn't matter what you call it.

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