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How do some of you males take cocks as big as you do

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By *oupleJMxxx OP   Couple
over a year ago

doncaster

Mrs and her mate was playing me my ass the other night and I could only take a small dildo how do you take big is it just a case of working up to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Practice makes perfect.

Have taken a bit bigger than this one. But tbh there is a limit I won't cross.

And definitely nothing remotely fist shaped or sized.

Apparently poppers do help to relax you . But never taken them.

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Butt plug training

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By *ersguy999Man
over a year ago

waterford

Me & my sexy twink use poppers but not all the time but he gets a buzz off it so i go with it, he's bottom so i dont argue with him, & it does make the creampie more intense so i cant argue with that side of things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Butt plug training"

Yes.. never used an inflatable one, but heard they are good for gradually stretching.

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

A finger then two, three and four follow then ... the thumb! It's like hands were made for it!

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley

I have anal training plugs, I can now take the large one

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By *lli_sissyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cambridge

As others have said... pratice... and more pratice... don't rush... allow yourself to relax and get used to each new step up in size, both length and girth.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Butt plug training

Yes.. never used an inflatable one, but heard they are good for gradually stretching."

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By *.gerri.xTV/TS
over a year ago

North west

Vodka an orange , plenty of ice !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mrs and her mate was playing me my ass the other night and I could only take a small dildo how do you take big is it just a case of working up to it "

Same way us women do. Lube his dick, lube your arse inside and out, relax relax relax and it really does help if you wank off your cock during the entire experience. Not that I'd know anything about anal of course. Just wgat a friend told me!

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

There seems to be an increase in the number of men of all sexualities who like anal stimulation from tongues to fingers to dildos to cocks. Just saying.

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Working up from smaller toys helps as does being relaxed and well lubed. Technique is also important, however much you've practiced with large toys if the giver is either inconsiderate or unskilled it can still be pretty uncomfortable at least at first. There are some people that, however much their told not to, will always just try and ram home rather than working with the bottom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poppers

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I know you wanted a guys opinion but as an anal loving lady all I can say is The easiest way is just being with someone you trust so you're fully relaxed, the lots of lube for a guy us ladies are lucky sometimes we make plenty of lube all of our own

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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

I like to give and take but the first time I received a cock It was quite uncomfortable but I persisted and I have to say I really enjoy the feeling.

It goes without saying that a good application of lube on your bumhole and the cock you wish to penetrate you is essential. Finger play is also important to stretch you in preparation for the big event.

My first anal experience was with a guy at the Greenhouse sauna in Newport about five years ago.I met a man there with whom I had an immediate attraction and we went to a playroom to be on our own. We had some really sensual fun and after a while the question of penetration arose.

Armed with a condom and copious lube he began to enter me and as he was quite a big guy I couldn't take all he had to give me. The immediate feeling for me was not pain but discomfort and in that occasion I proboably took only half of his manhood.

Usually for me the discomfort goes ater a few minutes as I becum accustomed to the 'foreign body' inside me.that's when the enjoyment kicks in. For me it is a great experience. The secret for me is to take my time, be relaxed and use plenty of lube.

The one thing that puts me off is the fear that my little rosebud bumhole could be damaged and I might lose control of my sphincter and all the problems that might cause.

Fortunately I have never been damaged down there but the bumholes on some porn stars are so abused they look positively huge.

All in all I recommend anal sex (with condoms of course) as it is meant to be pleasurable and not a pain in the arse as it were.

ENJOY ??

PS.I have met the same guy several times since at the Greenhouse and there is real chemistry between us and we regularly contact each other on Fabswingers.

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"Working up from smaller toys helps as does being relaxed and well lubed. Technique is also important, however much you've practiced with large toys if the giver is either inconsiderate or unskilled it can still be pretty uncomfortable at least at first. There are some people that, however much their told not to, will always just try and ram home rather than working with the bottom."

Ramming sounds a bit painful

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

It certainly got a bit of a negative response from me and strangely I didn't choose to meet them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seems to be an increase in the number of men of all sexualities who like anal stimulation from tongues to fingers to dildos to cocks. Just saying. "

Do you mean all them straight guys on here that are more than bi curious? Thousands of em on ere

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By *ockluvincoupleCouple
over a year ago

Erdington


"Mrs and her mate was playing me my ass the other night and I could only take a small dildo how do you take big is it just a case of working up to it "

Lube.

Patience.

Lube.

Practice.

Lube.

Poppers help.

Start small and build up.

Take your time.

RELAX.

You're unlikely to be able to take a 12"er with a 6" girth on your first time.

Oh.....and did I mention lube?

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By *ex mad ladMan
over a year ago

Sussex

Bit graphic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bite a pillow and take it once in only hurts for about 10 seconds just count and breath. You have done bigger poos so it is big enough your just not relaxed enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bite a pillow and take it once in only hurts for about 10 seconds just count and breath. You have done bigger poos so it is big enough your just not relaxed enough."

Hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reminds me of a conversation I had on here with a Domme woman (part of a couple), discussing a possible meet. I passed as it scared the beJesus out of me.

She described how she got her male partner ready for anal etc.

She would get him to wear a gas mask, in which was a tissue soaked in poppers, then how she was able to get her fist in his ass. Hell no thanks !!

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"A finger then two, three and four follow then ... the thumb! It's like hands were made for it!"

Then clap.

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By *icky_tvLondonTV/TS
over a year ago

london


"There seems to be an increase in the number of men of all sexualities who like anal stimulation from tongues to fingers to dildos to cocks. Just saying. "

The asscent of man

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By *rof SalamanderMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Everything in life takes practice and preperation. Remember no matter how hard u do both u will reach a point u wont better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Butt plug training

Yes.. never used an inflatable one, but heard they are good for gradually stretching."

I use an inflatable one and work. Up from there, I also use a speculum to stretch me out, safely of course. Feels intense

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"Reminds me of a conversation I had on here with a Domme woman (part of a couple), discussing a possible meet. I passed as it scared the beJesus out of me.

She described how she got her male partner ready for anal etc.

She would get him to wear a gas mask, in which was a tissue soaked in poppers, then how she was able to get her fist in his ass. Hell no thanks !!"

Fisting is a whole other ball game - a bit scary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reminds me of a conversation I had on here with a Domme woman (part of a couple), discussing a possible meet. I passed as it scared the beJesus out of me.

She described how she got her male partner ready for anal etc.

She would get him to wear a gas mask, in which was a tissue soaked in poppers, then how she was able to get her fist in his ass. Hell no thanks !!

Fisting is a whole other ball game - a bit scary "

Frig.. it scares the crap out of me

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"Reminds me of a conversation I had on here with a Domme woman (part of a couple), discussing a possible meet. I passed as it scared the beJesus out of me.

She described how she got her male partner ready for anal etc.

She would get him to wear a gas mask, in which was a tissue soaked in poppers, then how she was able to get her fist in his ass. Hell no thanks !!

Fisting is a whole other ball game - a bit scary

Frig.. it scares the crap out of me"

It's amazing! Truly!

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

clean out bum in morning, properly.

leave to settle down few hours

should be nice and clean, should also have some anal juice, its a sticky slime type usually, good as lube tho

play with bum for while 5-10mins or so, before attempting to slide in.

muscles will relax, makes it easier to take, start slow for first few mins,

this always works for me, rarely used lube, have taken some big cocks.

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