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How many single guys would like to share their partner if they had one?

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By *ntnCleo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!

Just curious - most single guys here want to meet single women or couples.

For what percentage does the idea work in reverse? i.e. If you had a partner, how many of you would like to share her? Yes or no?

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley


"Just curious - most single guys here want to meet single women or couples.

For what percentage does the idea work in reverse? i.e. If you had a partner, how many of you would like to share her? Yes or no?"

Definitely, if I had a partner i would love to share. Would prefer a full on Bi orgy though *chuckles*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a single guy but I wouldn't share a partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to 'share' my wife. I also have FWBs that I meet other people with. Would be a bit pointless being on a swinging site if you wouldn't though...wouldn't it?

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By *ack_at_the_farm....Man
over a year ago

woodhall spa

If i had a partner and she was happy to consent why not

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I used to 'share' my wife. I also have FWBs that I meet other people with. Would be a bit pointless being on a swinging site if you wouldn't though...wouldn't it? "

No I don't think so. There have been a few guys over the years admit they are happy to play with couples, but if they had a partner, would not be prepared to do the same. Personally I'm fine with that, we all feel differently about these things. Others have accused them of being hypocrites which I don't agree with.

Bit like the argument some bi guys use about bi women not wanting to play with them.... nope it's totally different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to 'share' my wife. I also have FWBs that I meet other people with. Would be a bit pointless being on a swinging site if you wouldn't though...wouldn't it?

No I don't think so. There have been a few guys over the years admit they are happy to play with couples, but if they had a partner, would not be prepared to do the same. Personally I'm fine with that, we all feel differently about these things. Others have accused them of being hypocrites which I don't agree with.

Bit like the argument some bi guys use about bi women not wanting to play with them.... nope it's totally different "

It's not hypocritical at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment it's hard to imagine even having a partner, never mind sharing her.

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•


"I used to 'share' my wife. I also have FWBs that I meet other people with. Would be a bit pointless being on a swinging site if you wouldn't though...wouldn't it?

No I don't think so. There have been a few guys over the years admit they are happy to play with couples, but if they had a partner, would not be prepared to do the same. Personally I'm fine with that, we all feel differently about these things. Others have accused them of being hypocrites which I don't agree with.

Bit like the argument some bi guys use about bi women not wanting to play with them.... nope it's totally different

It's not hypocritical at all. "

i can't message you back, was just saying i'd deleted all my phone apps for finding fetish guys and hidden my *banned site on here* profile and the site blocked me from sending messages now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to 'share' my wife. I also have FWBs that I meet other people with. Would be a bit pointless being on a swinging site if you wouldn't though...wouldn't it?

No I don't think so. There have been a few guys over the years admit they are happy to play with couples, but if they had a partner, would not be prepared to do the same. Personally I'm fine with that, we all feel differently about these things. Others have accused them of being hypocrites which I don't agree with.

Bit like the argument some bi guys use about bi women not wanting to play with them.... nope it's totally different "

Merely my opinion, although I'd never be self righteous enough to call anyone a hypocrite. Each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to 'share' my wife. I also have FWBs that I meet other people with. Would be a bit pointless being on a swinging site if you wouldn't though...wouldn't it?

No I don't think so. There have been a few guys over the years admit they are happy to play with couples, but if they had a partner, would not be prepared to do the same. Personally I'm fine with that, we all feel differently about these things. Others have accused them of being hypocrites which I don't agree with.

Bit like the argument some bi guys use about bi women not wanting to play with them.... nope it's totally different

It's not hypocritical at all.

i can't message you back, was just saying i'd deleted all my phone apps for finding fetish guys and hidden my *banned site on here* profile and the site blocked me from sending messages now."

Ahhhh shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many lol

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By *ntnCleo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!


"I used to 'share' my wife. I also have FWBs that I meet other people with. Would be a bit pointless being on a swinging site if you wouldn't though...wouldn't it?

No I don't think so. There have been a few guys over the years admit they are happy to play with couples, but if they had a partner, would not be prepared to do the same. Personally I'm fine with that, we all feel differently about these things. Others have accused them of being hypocrites which I don't agree with.

Bit like the argument some bi guys use about bi women not wanting to play with them.... nope it's totally different

It's not hypocritical at all. "

Agreed. Not hypocritical at all. I like to share my wife, she enjoys being shared, she has always been very dubious about sharing me though. (Seems to be changing her mind recently!) but that works for us. Very hot!

I guess the follow up question is for those who wouldn't share, do you think those of us who do are odd, even if you like to benefit from it!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did when I was with someone, loved it, pity we didn't work out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done many times and would love another partner who would too

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I have in the past with ex wife and girlfriends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to 'share' my wife. I also have FWBs that I meet other people with. Would be a bit pointless being on a swinging site if you wouldn't though...wouldn't it?

No I don't think so. There have been a few guys over the years admit they are happy to play with couples, but if they had a partner, would not be prepared to do the same. Personally I'm fine with that, we all feel differently about these things. Others have accused them of being hypocrites which I don't agree with.

Bit like the argument some bi guys use about bi women not wanting to play with them.... nope it's totally different

It's not hypocritical at all.

Agreed. Not hypocritical at all. I like to share my wife, she enjoys being shared, she has always been very dubious about sharing me though. (Seems to be changing her mind recently!) but that works for us. Very hot!

I guess the follow up question is for those who wouldn't share, do you think those of us who do are odd, even if you like to benefit from it!?"

No I don't think you're odd.

I understand both sides. Maybe I'm odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think I'd class is it as 'me' sharing...

but I have had long term and fb(hate the term) partners, happy to be shared if they like the person....

*though if I have a partner that likes being shared,I say its a two way street...

unfortunately I've had some partners in the past more than happy to take a cock or two...but unhappy if I was to shag someone else..(I dont mean behind their back ffs lol)..

ideally I like bisexual-bi curious partners...not for a performing seal show though..it might sound hypocritical but I wouldnt be the same for my partner as never wishing for bi-ness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to 'share' my wife. I also have FWBs that I meet other people with. Would be a bit pointless being on a swinging site if you wouldn't though...wouldn't it?

No I don't think so. There have been a few guys over the years admit they are happy to play with couples, but if they had a partner, would not be prepared to do the same. Personally I'm fine with that, we all feel differently about these things. Others have accused them of being hypocrites which I don't agree with.

Bit like the argument some bi guys use about bi women not wanting to play with them.... nope it's totally different

It's not hypocritical at all.

Agreed. Not hypocritical at all. I like to share my wife, she enjoys being shared, she has always been very dubious about sharing me though. (Seems to be changing her mind recently!) but that works for us. Very hot!

I guess the follow up question is for those who wouldn't share, do you think those of us who do are odd, even if you like to benefit from it!?"

Mr F is happy to share me, but I'd never share him, I'm far too jealous and insecure. Do I find wanting to share odd? I wouldn't say 'odd' as such, but I'll never understand it! Not complaining though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to 'share' my wife. I also have FWBs that I meet other people with. Would be a bit pointless being on a swinging site if you wouldn't though...wouldn't it?

No I don't think so. There have been a few guys over the years admit they are happy to play with couples, but if they had a partner, would not be prepared to do the same. Personally I'm fine with that, we all feel differently about these things. Others have accused them of being hypocrites which I don't agree with.

Bit like the argument some bi guys use about bi women not wanting to play with them.... nope it's totally different

It's not hypocritical at all.

Agreed. Not hypocritical at all. I like to share my wife, she enjoys being shared, she has always been very dubious about sharing me though. (Seems to be changing her mind recently!) but that works for us. Very hot!

I guess the follow up question is for those who wouldn't share, do you think those of us who do are odd, even if you like to benefit from it!?

Mr F is happy to share me, but I'd never share him, I'm far too jealous and insecure. Do I find wanting to share odd? I wouldn't say 'odd' as such, but I'll never understand it! Not complaining though "

at least you admit the insecurity...many dont..

but yeahh..that'd fuck me off... you get all the cock ya like...and I cant get a sniff of pussy..no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to 'share' my wife. I also have FWBs that I meet other people with. Would be a bit pointless being on a swinging site if you wouldn't though...wouldn't it?

No I don't think so. There have been a few guys over the years admit they are happy to play with couples, but if they had a partner, would not be prepared to do the same. Personally I'm fine with that, we all feel differently about these things. Others have accused them of being hypocrites which I don't agree with.

Bit like the argument some bi guys use about bi women not wanting to play with them.... nope it's totally different

It's not hypocritical at all.

Agreed. Not hypocritical at all. I like to share my wife, she enjoys being shared, she has always been very dubious about sharing me though. (Seems to be changing her mind recently!) but that works for us. Very hot!

I guess the follow up question is for those who wouldn't share, do you think those of us who do are odd, even if you like to benefit from it!?

No I don't think you're odd.

I understand both sides. Maybe I'm odd. "

You arent odd at all.

As a single fem who has met loads of couples here over the yrs I wouldn't give my partner easy access to women to cheat on me with.

Dozens of couples and every single male has then wanted to meet me behind their partners back. At one point when I started on here I ended up seeing both the man and the woman behind each others back...not my proudest monent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Mr F is happy to share me, but I'd never share him, I'm far too jealous and insecure. Do I find wanting to share odd? I wouldn't say 'odd' as such, but I'll never understand it! Not complaining though "

Doesn't the unequality in the relationship not worry you? That he may cheat with others cos why should u get to have fun and him not?

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By *amRod64Man
over a year ago

Gravesend

oh definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Mr F is happy to share me, but I'd never share him, I'm far too jealous and insecure. Do I find wanting to share odd? I wouldn't say 'odd' as such, but I'll never understand it! Not complaining though

at least you admit the insecurity...many dont..

but yeahh..that'd fuck me off... you get all the cock ya like...and I cant get a sniff of pussy..no thanks "

He knew that was he deal from the start before we even signed up, and it's really not about getting 'all the cock I like', we're not here so I can shag my way through the site :/ (just as well considering half of them never turn up! )

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

I've used to swing with my ex partner and hope my next partner is a swinger. So a big yes from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to 'share' my wife. I also have FWBs that I meet other people with. Would be a bit pointless being on a swinging site if you wouldn't though...wouldn't it?

No I don't think so. There have been a few guys over the years admit they are happy to play with couples, but if they had a partner, would not be prepared to do the same. Personally I'm fine with that, we all feel differently about these things. Others have accused them of being hypocrites which I don't agree with.

Bit like the argument some bi guys use about bi women not wanting to play with them.... nope it's totally different

It's not hypocritical at all.

Agreed. Not hypocritical at all. I like to share my wife, she enjoys being shared, she has always been very dubious about sharing me though. (Seems to be changing her mind recently!) but that works for us. Very hot!

I guess the follow up question is for those who wouldn't share, do you think those of us who do are odd, even if you like to benefit from it!?

Mr F is happy to share me, but I'd never share him, I'm far too jealous and insecure. Do I find wanting to share odd? I wouldn't say 'odd' as such, but I'll never understand it! Not complaining though

at least you admit the insecurity...many dont..

but yeahh..that'd fuck me off... you get all the cock ya like...and I cant get a sniff of pussy..no thanks "

I wouldn't find it erotic having a partner fuck other women, but i wouldn't be insecure about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Mr F is happy to share me, but I'd never share him, I'm far too jealous and insecure. Do I find wanting to share odd? I wouldn't say 'odd' as such, but I'll never understand it! Not complaining though

Doesn't the unequality in the relationship not worry you? That he may cheat with others cos why should u get to have fun and him not?"

He gets his kicks from the sharing, he doesn't consider himself as not having fun. I told him all along there was no way I could cope with him doing it and he said he didn't want to. I'm hoping that if his feelings change in that respect that he'd be open about it, after all, none of us know how we're going to feel about being here and what we do until we try it.

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By *aemonDayzMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Would love to. I have taken a fwb to clubs and loved seeing her fucked by others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I share my partner all of the time!

With females. Haha!

That's her choice by the way.

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Nope I wouldn't! Simply because it'll do nothing for me. So why should I do it?

Over my many years of meeting couples, I've come to conclude that the brains of men who enjoy watching their wives being fucked by other men are wired differently from mine. Because try as I might, I still can't work out how the pleasure is derived.

But hey, as long as they're happy I'm not complaining. You know.., free world, consenting adults and all that.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

I would but would mainly be interested in 4 somes(mfmf) rather than 3 somes(mfm). I think it works better for me with 4. But saying that had a hot club meet yesterday with my FWB and a single guy. But if all guys were like him i'd enjoy either just as much!

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley

Ultimately a triad relationship would be perfect for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious - most single guys here want to meet single women or couples.

For what percentage does the idea work in reverse? i.e. If you had a partner, how many of you would like to share her? Yes or no?"

If I had on, most definitely.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

No, none of my fwb's ever want to share me, and that suits me fine. I wouldn't mind a 3some one day, but I'm not bothered.

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