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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Really confused by how many people won't meet bi guys .... Just seems to be a bit of a double standard if your a woman who is bi curious but looking for men ...... Ducks his head in preparation for incoming abuse

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

No abuse from me I personally do not worry whether a guy is bi or not to meet

If I fancy them I fancy them

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

It's a well 'debated' subject. Many people will and many people won't. Many of those who won't, don't necessarily have 'double standards' just reasons that they feel are important to them.

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By *ischief79Man
over a year ago

Surrey

I've had it before where blokes in couples think just because I'm bi-curious means I'm more interested in their cock than their partner.

Strange thing is that there are couples who won't meet bisexual guys but will meet TVs who state they're bisexual too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bi woman is not the same as a bi man.

It's not a double standard.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a well 'debated' subject. Many people will and many people won't. Many of those who won't, don't necessarily have 'double standards' just reasons that they feel are important to them."

Maybe double standards was the wrong term .....

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

At the end of the day it's about preference just the same as preferring blue eyed blondes, or tall men or short women or any number of the other myriad preferences that people have.

So long as that preference isn't driven by bigoted opinions then as a bisexual man I have absolutely no problem with it - there are just as many people who actively look for bi guys, or don't object to meeting them as there are those that do

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

How would I know a guy is bi?

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

I'm a straight man and therefore I meet women and couples. If the male of the couple is bi I won't meet them. Ladies I don't mind if they are bi, in fact it's a bonus in group play.

I think it's called a preference. And preferences are allowed.

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By *i de BiCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Don`t worry about it . Everyone has their own reasons.

BUT let me tell you this .....you have the honesty to say you are bisexual . The amount of `straight` profiled guys who message us , saying they are bisexual but keep it secret is shocking .

So they have more than likely played with bisexual guys who have not been honest

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich


"How would I know a guy is bi? "

I think my dress can be a bit of a give away.. Lol. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see why some choose not to, the times we've had bisexual men say I know Fred's straight but he's got a great cock, or what would Fred do if I grabbed his cock mid play, can certainly be off putting, but I guess this is a minority and wouldn't rule out couples with bi males.

The first example could be considered a compliment but I wouldn't dream of saying to a straight woman "nice tits" or "I'd love to lick your pussy shame you are straight" because this is likely to only make the woman feel uncomfortable.

Ginger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am bi but prefer women.

Unspoken fact is that in couples, bi guys make Mr feel uneasy..

Don't worry Mr. Most of us ain't gonna pounce on you. Most of you ain't all that. Just keep your socks on and have a wank in the corner whilst we fuck your missus..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No abuse from me I personally do not worry whether a guy is bi or not to meet

If I fancy them I fancy them "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll meet bi men -specially if they have a bi mate with them

I avoid couples with bi women on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi and meet both men and women.

I know lots of couples who won't meet a bi man incase he jumps on them.

But it's down to preference and we can well meet who we want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really confused by how many people won't meet bi guys .... Just seems to be a bit of a double standard if your a woman who is bi curious but looking for men ...... Ducks his head in preparation for incoming abuse "

I gave u a reason why I didn't want to meet u, why bring it up on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a well 'debated' subject. Many people will and many people won't. Many of those who won't, don't necessarily have 'double standards' just reasons that they feel are important to them."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally as the female part of the couple I don't mind either way. Only reason we won't meet guys of any kind is my other half just not that way inclined

May be similar preferences for others on here.

I'm sure everyone has own likes and dislikes after all

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really confused by how many people won't meet bi guys .... Just seems to be a bit of a double standard if your a woman who is bi curious but looking for men ...... Ducks his head in preparation for incoming abuse

I gave u a reason why I didn't want to meet u, why bring it up on here?"

He has also just proved you was right not too meet him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I him is totally straight,her only just bi playful at times so bi guys certainly not for us

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

another thread, listen JUST DON'T PUT BI ON YOUR PROFILE LIKE ALL THE OTHER GUYS DO THEN THEY'RE NONE THE WISER AND YOU CAN LAUGH WHEN YOU'VE SHAGGED THEM KNOWING THEY DIDN'T WANT TO MEET BI HAHAHA SIMPLE.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Really confused by how many people won't meet bi guys .... Just seems to be a bit of a double standard if your a woman who is bi curious but looking for men ...... Ducks his head in preparation for incoming abuse

I gave u a reason why I didn't want to meet u, why bring it up on here?"

To be fair to the OP - he didn't name you and the only reason we now know it's you that prompted his question (assuming you're not joking) is because you've posted.

Whilst it's an often asked question it is a valid one to an extent.

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By *he Hobbit And MeCouple
over a year ago

southampton


"Really confused by how many people won't meet bi guys .... Just seems to be a bit of a double standard if your a woman who is bi curious but looking for men ...... Ducks his head in preparation for incoming abuse "

No abuse from us!

I am bi-curious and hubby is now bi-curious but orally only!

Single straight often message us trying to meet up and when we point out that they are straight as stated on their profile they all of a sudden become bi-curious? how strange..lol

We don't have to play bi and can play dead straight but it just helps if everyone is open and up front from the start..

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn


"I him is totally straight,her only just bi playful at times so bi guys certainly not for us "

Lol has verification from bi curious guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really confused by how many people won't meet bi guys .... Just seems to be a bit of a double standard if your a woman who is bi curious but looking for men ...... Ducks his head in preparation for incoming abuse

I gave u a reason why I didn't want to meet u, why bring it up on here?

He has also just proved you was right not too meet him. "

Why? He's just asking a question.

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By *tjohnspairCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"I'm a straight man and therefore I meet women and couples. If the male of the couple is bi I won't meet them. Ladies I don't mind if they are bi, in fact it's a bonus in group play.

I think it's called a preference. And preferences are allowed."

Exactly the same....other than I don't give a flying fcuk if the other guy is bi or not..... we won't be playing and I'm sure I won't catch the ghey off him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the insight fabbers ... Nothing like a good discussion to keep you busy , I fully understand that it is all about choice and personal preference , all important things in our lives that we are lucky to have , I find people's reactions and opinions incredibly interesting ..... Fab forums are great

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Really confused by how many people won't meet bi guys .... Just seems to be a bit of a double standard if your a woman who is bi curious but looking for men ...... Ducks his head in preparation for incoming abuse

I gave u a reason why I didn't want to meet u, why bring it up on here?

He has also just proved you was right not too meet him.

Why? He's just asking a question. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of hot straight guys won't go with girls that have been with Bi men - that's one of the major reasons - me I'm just not that keen - been there, tried it - did fuck all for me - I'm not doing something that doesn't do it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv had abusive messages because I won't meet Bi lads even though I put it on my profile that I'm straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally as the female part of the couple I don't mind either way. Only reason we won't meet guys of any kind is my other half just not that way inclined

May be similar preferences for others on here.

I'm sure everyone has own likes and dislikes after all

Mrs "

Exactly

For most men

Happy to watch Mrs rug munching, but he dreads the thought of a bi cock sucker in the same room. God forbid that the guy would give him a better blow job than his Mrs and he secretly enjoyed it..

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really confused by how many people won't meet bi guys .... Just seems to be a bit of a double standard if your a woman who is bi curious but looking for men ...... Ducks his head in preparation for incoming abuse

I gave u a reason why I didn't want to meet u, why bring it up on here?

He has also just proved you was right not too meet him.

Why? He's just asking a question. "

He is implying the lady of having double standards??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id love to meet a bisexual male playmate!!

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

As mentioned above, others actively seek bi men, ourselves included.

You have preferences OP, so let others have theirs and concentrate on the positive aspects Fab has to offer rather than a few that choose not to meet you.

As for bi women having double standards, that doesn't make sense at all. Who we like to meet as individuals, is not based on our sexuality. Plenty of straight women seek bi guys.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Really confused by how many people won't meet bi guys .... Just seems to be a bit of a double standard if your a woman who is bi curious but looking for men ...... Ducks his head in preparation for incoming abuse

I gave u a reason why I didn't want to meet u, why bring it up on here?

He has also just proved you was right not too meet him.

Why? He's just asking a question.

He is implying the lady of having double standards?? "

Double standards was the incorrect term .... Which I retract

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really confused by how many people won't meet bi guys .... Just seems to be a bit of a double standard if your a woman who is bi curious but looking for men ...... Ducks his head in preparation for incoming abuse

I gave u a reason why I didn't want to meet u, why bring it up on here?

He has also just proved you was right not too meet him.

Why? He's just asking a question.

He is implying the lady of having double standards??

Double standards was the incorrect term .... Which I retract "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we've made up lol

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton


"we've made up lol"

Aww that's nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really confused by how many people won't meet bi guys .... Just seems to be a bit of a double standard if your a woman who is bi curious but looking for men ...... Ducks his head in preparation for incoming abuse

I gave u a reason why I didn't want to meet u, why bring it up on here?

He has also just proved you was right not too meet him.

Why? He's just asking a question.

He is implying the lady of having double standards?? "

I have double standards. It's not an insult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really confused by how many people won't meet bi guys .... Just seems to be a bit of a double standard if your a woman who is bi curious but looking for men ...... Ducks his head in preparation for incoming abuse

I gave u a reason why I didn't want to meet u, why bring it up on here?

He has also just proved you was right not too meet him.

Why? He's just asking a question.

He is implying the lady of having double standards??

I have double standards. It's not an insult. "

Theyv made up, im not getting into a argument with you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really confused by how many people won't meet bi guys .... Just seems to be a bit of a double standard if your a woman who is bi curious but looking for men ...... Ducks his head in preparation for incoming abuse "

I don't meet Bi men because of the higher risk of catching HIV, I have no problem with men fucking each other up the arse but I don't want to have sex with them. A Bi man and a Bi woman are completely different. Just because a female is on an adult site, doesn't mean she is obliged to fuck every man whose balls are aching XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we've made up lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really confused by how many people won't meet bi guys .... Just seems to be a bit of a double standard if your a woman who is bi curious but looking for men ...... Ducks his head in preparation for incoming abuse

I don't meet Bi men because of the higher risk of catching HIV, I have no problem with men fucking each other up the arse but I don't want to have sex with them. A Bi man and a Bi woman are completely different. Just because a female is on an adult site, doesn't mean she is obliged to fuck every man whose balls are aching XXX"

Brave.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Don`t worry about it . Everyone has their own reasons.

BUT let me tell you this .....you have the honesty to say you are bisexual . The amount of `straight` profiled guys who message us , saying they are bisexual but keep it secret is shocking .

So they have more than likely played with bisexual guys who have not been honest "

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I him is totally straight,her only just bi playful at times so bi guys certainly not for us

Lol has verification from bi curious guy "

You went through someone's veris to prove a point they might not have played with them, or the bi curious guy might have recently decided he was bi curious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand why people find it "confusing" why people have preferences on who they want to fuck.

Some people don't want to fuck old chubby birds but I'm not whining about it.

Just find the people that do want you and accept it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No abuse from me I personally do not worry whether a guy is bi or not to meet

If I fancy them I fancy them "

Too true Scarlett.. we agree, decent guys are hard enough to come by without narrow the playing field haha.

Adam

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By *.gerri.xTV/TS
over a year ago

North west


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I don't meet Bi men because of the higher risk of catching HIV, I have no problem with men fucking each other up the arse but I don't want to have sex with them. A Bi man and a Bi woman are completely different. Just because a female is on an adult site, doesn't mean she is obliged to fuck every man whose balls are aching XXX"

But as many have pointed out , how do you know ?

Loads of guys advertise here as straight but then message me declaring they have had many bi experiences and they are just straight on here to avoid getting the knockback from women who don't sleep with bi men.

I was actually interested in the amount of new hiv cases between hetero and homo sex as I do both

"Of the 88,769 people accessing HIV treatment in the UK in 2015, 41,945 were men and women who had acquired HIV through heterosexual sex and 41,016 were men who had acquired HIV through homosexual sex."

That was from the avert website and did make me wonder.

The communities are aware in a vastly different way , you go to gay bars and there are safe sex packs and awareness posters all over the place and people much more aware of hiv , you go to a local "straight" club and there's many a woman and man regularly barebacking with no concern whatsoever , but it's ok as she's on the pill

The ability to say no to bi guys is of course each individual's choice ,but your info to make that choice on fab is massively flawed as so many lie.

I just like sexy fun people and some of them I don't even want to fuck with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really confused by how many people won't meet bi guys .... Just seems to be a bit of a double standard if your a woman who is bi curious but looking for men ...... Ducks his head in preparation for incoming abuse "

I agree, its is like assuming that all bi or gay males do anal, we do not! And even if they do, shock, horror gay and bi people only do all the same things that straight people do. They are just more honest and less stuck up about it. Guess what ladies? 9/10 men dress in your undies and meet other men. GET THE FUCK OVER IT!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really confused by how many people won't meet bi guys .... Just seems to be a bit of a double standard if your a woman who is bi curious but looking for men ...... Ducks his head in preparation for incoming abuse

I agree, its is like assuming that all bi or gay males do anal, we do not! And even if they do, shock, horror gay and bi people only do all the same things that straight people do. They are just more honest and less stuck up about it. Guess what ladies? 9/10 men dress in your undies and meet other men. GET THE FUCK OVER IT!"

Errrrm OK ...

It's only after bing on fab that I'm inclined to think that's true!

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Really confused by how many people won't meet bi guys .... Just seems to be a bit of a double standard if your a woman who is bi curious but looking for men ...... Ducks his head in preparation for incoming abuse

I agree, its is like assuming that all bi or gay males do anal, we do not! And even if they do, shock, horror gay and bi people only do all the same things that straight people do. They are just more honest and less stuck up about it. Guess what ladies? 9/10 men dress in your undies and meet other men. GET THE FUCK OVER IT!"

More honest eh not in our experience

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Really confused by how many people won't meet bi guys .... Just seems to be a bit of a double standard if your a woman who is bi curious but looking for men ...... Ducks his head in preparation for incoming abuse

I agree, its is like assuming that all bi or gay males do anal, we do not! And even if they do, shock, horror gay and bi people only do all the same things that straight people do. They are just more honest and less stuck up about it. Guess what ladies? 9/10 men dress in your undies and meet other men. GET THE FUCK OVER IT!

More honest eh not in our experience "

Oops sorry, my reply ignored (didn't agree) with the 9/10 men comment

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I don't understand why people find it "confusing" why people have preferences on who they want to fuck.

Some people don't want to fuck old chubby birds but I'm not whining about it.

Just find the people that do want you and accept it x"

If you start a thread complaining about the bastards that won't meet fat chubbers, I will back you up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really confused by how many people won't meet bi guys .... Just seems to be a bit of a double standard if your a woman who is bi curious but looking for men ...... Ducks his head in preparation for incoming abuse

I don't meet Bi men because of the higher risk of catching HIV, I have no problem with men fucking each other up the arse but I don't want to have sex with them. A Bi man and a Bi woman are completely different. Just because a female is on an adult site, doesn't mean she is obliged to fuck every man whose balls are aching XXX"

Nonsense..

Number one I always use condoms for anal.

Number two..Do women use a month dam when recieving or giving pussy licking? I very much doubt it..

Are you aware that STD"s are just as likely to be transferred during oral sex..

Regardless of male or female..

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

It seems the only posts on this thread that are full of attitude and holier than thou are from the single bi guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait one freaking minute!

Bi women are not the same as bi men?

Would someone care to unravel that utterly bizarre logic?

Bi sexual... Two sexual. You enjoy sex with both men and women.

END OF.

Mr AND Mrs N

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Really confused by how many people won't meet bi guys .... Just seems to be a bit of a double standard if your a woman who is bi curious but looking for men ...... Ducks his head in preparation for incoming abuse

I don't meet Bi men because of the higher risk of catching HIV, I have no problem with men fucking each other up the arse but I don't want to have sex with them. A Bi man and a Bi woman are completely different. Just because a female is on an adult site, doesn't mean she is obliged to fuck every man whose balls are aching XXX

Nonsense..

Number one I always use condoms for anal.

Number two..Do women use a month dam when recieving or giving pussy licking? I very much doubt it..

Are you aware that STD"s are just as likely to be transferred during oral sex..

Regardless of male or female.."

I disagree. If I wasn't into bi guys I'd take exactly the same approach. I also disagree with your quote about oral sex, based on information I receive as the partner of a bi man from GUM clinics.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Really confused by how many people won't meet bi guys .... Just seems to be a bit of a double standard if your a woman who is bi curious but looking for men ...... Ducks his head in preparation for incoming abuse

I gave u a reason why I didn't want to meet u, why bring it up on here?"
criiiinge xx

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I'm bi but my mans straight... no need to question it. I think u need to get over urself

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By *ustJ0dieTV/TS
over a year ago

Burton on Trent


"Really confused by how many people won't meet bi guys .... Just seems to be a bit of a double standard if your a woman who is bi curious but looking for men ...... Ducks his head in preparation for incoming abuse

I don't meet Bi men because of the higher risk of catching HIV, I have no problem with men fucking each other up the arse but I don't want to have sex with them. A Bi man and a Bi woman are completely different. Just because a female is on an adult site, doesn't mean she is obliged to fuck every man whose balls are aching XXX

Nonsense..

Number one I always use condoms for anal.

Number two..Do women use a month dam when recieving or giving pussy licking? I very much doubt it..

Are you aware that STD"s are just as likely to be transferred during oral sex..

Regardless of male or female..

I disagree. If I wasn't into bi guys I'd take exactly the same approach. I also disagree with your quote about oral sex, based on information I receive as the partner of a bi man from GUM clinics."

The statistics for STIs being higher for men who have sex with men, is due in part to the fact that they are by far the largest group to go for testing. Due to years of education on the subject.

I'd argue that although eating pussy is a lower risk activity, the increase in antibiotic resistant oral gonorrhea should give all those obviously clean bi girls pause for thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen lots couple who don't want stright guys so it's their preferences never complaint about it

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Really confused by how many people won't meet bi guys .... Just seems to be a bit of a double standard if your a woman who is bi curious but looking for men ...... Ducks his head in preparation for incoming abuse

I don't meet Bi men because of the higher risk of catching HIV, I have no problem with men fucking each other up the arse but I don't want to have sex with them. A Bi man and a Bi woman are completely different. Just because a female is on an adult site, doesn't mean she is obliged to fuck every man whose balls are aching XXX

Nonsense..

Number one I always use condoms for anal.

Number two..Do women use a month dam when recieving or giving pussy licking? I very much doubt it..

Are you aware that STD"s are just as likely to be transferred during oral sex..

Regardless of male or female..

I disagree. If I wasn't into bi guys I'd take exactly the same approach. I also disagree with your quote about oral sex, based on information I receive as the partner of a bi man from GUM clinics.

The statistics for STIs being higher for men who have sex with men, is due in part to the fact that they are by far the largest group to go for testing. Due to years of education on the subject.

I'd argue that although eating pussy is a lower risk activity, the increase in antibiotic resistant oral gonorrhea should give all those obviously clean bi girls pause for thought.

"

Hi Jodie

Sadly in my 15 years experience of bi partners and knowledge of some others, this isn't my experience. Never had any partner volunteer for screening.

And while the majority of that time was spent with a man who cheated on me with other men, I saw and learnt over time how quickly and easily meets were arranged, safety not at the forefront, emptying balls were. I had an insight when I delved and I found it frightening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When he's hogging the cock for himself!!

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By *art123Man
over a year ago

Stoke


"A bi woman is not the same as a bi man.

It's not a double standard. "

I thought bi was bi?

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"A bi woman is not the same as a bi man.

It's not a double standard.

I thought bi was bi? "

So if you are bi yourself you have to like a certain flavour of sexuality? The assumption that a bi women - this is a woman who likes sex with men and women - should like bi men is erm odd.

Should all bi men like bi women quick start a thread, some of the fuckers might be defecting

Bi men are equally entitled to only like straight women

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

In the OP there was a comment about 'double standards' which, in all fairness to the op, he subsequently said was too strong.

But there is another vein of double standards in this thread. A bi man, quite rightly, has the right to choose his sexuality and partners, and that right should be respected without question. We all would agree with that (I hope).

How then, can people in the same breath say that other people are wrong in selecting their choice of sexuality of partner?

There is no logic in the emotion of what different people find sexually off-putting or appealing. The sooner all people realise that the better.

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By *ustJ0dieTV/TS
over a year ago

Burton on Trent


"Really confused by how many people won't meet bi guys .... Just seems to be a bit of a double standard if your a woman who is bi curious but looking for men ...... Ducks his head in preparation for incoming abuse

I don't meet Bi men because of the higher risk of catching HIV, I have no problem with men fucking each other up the arse but I don't want to have sex with them. A Bi man and a Bi woman are completely different. Just because a female is on an adult site, doesn't mean she is obliged to fuck every man whose balls are aching XXX

Nonsense..

Number one I always use condoms for anal.

Number two..Do women use a month dam when recieving or giving pussy licking? I very much doubt it..

Are you aware that STD"s are just as likely to be transferred during oral sex..

Regardless of male or female..

I disagree. If I wasn't into bi guys I'd take exactly the same approach. I also disagree with your quote about oral sex, based on information I receive as the partner of a bi man from GUM clinics.

The statistics for STIs being higher for men who have sex with men, is due in part to the fact that they are by far the largest group to go for testing. Due to years of education on the subject.

I'd argue that although eating pussy is a lower risk activity, the increase in antibiotic resistant oral gonorrhea should give all those obviously clean bi girls pause for thought.

Hi Jodie

Sadly in my 15 years experience of bi partners and knowledge of some others, this isn't my experience. Never had any partner volunteer for screening.

And while the majority of that time was spent with a man who cheated on me with other men, I saw and learnt over time how quickly and easily meets were arranged, safety not at the forefront, emptying balls were. I had an insight when I delved and I found it frightening.

"

Yup, and this is my point. All the fabstraight guys on here who do this sort of thing. And there are ALOT, then go back to unknowing wives, some of whom swing themselves, and have unprotected sex. It's not the out guys you have to worry about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally dont understand the problem. Its just another label. If boundries are set for the meet then it isnt a problem. Like if we where to meet with a straight male, my partner isnt going to try and touch him as the boundries as set? Same as me with a straight female. Both of whom we do want to meet and us being bi curious shouldnt effect the situation.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I just assume everyone is bi. When the gay nurse at the GUM clinic asks me if I've had sex with a man that has had sex with a man we pause, look at each other and laugh.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I just assume everyone is bi. When the gay nurse at the GUM clinic asks me if I've had sex with a man that has had sex with a man we pause, look at each other and laugh."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally dont understand the problem. Its just another label. If boundries are set for the meet then it isnt a problem. Like if we where to meet with a straight male, my partner isnt going to try and touch him as the boundries as set? Same as me with a straight female. Both of whom we do want to meet and us being bi curious shouldnt effect the situation. "

But i do understand thats its choice.

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne


"Really confused by how many people won't meet bi guys .... Just seems to be a bit of a double standard if your a woman who is bi curious but looking for men ...... Ducks his head in preparation for incoming abuse "

Love bisexual men, especially in pairs

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"I am bi but prefer women.

Unspoken fact is that in couples, bi guys make Mr feel uneasy..

Don't worry Mr. Most of us ain't gonna pounce on you. Most of you ain't all that. Just keep your socks on and have a wank in the corner whilst we fuck your missus.."

Im glad someones had the balls to say this. I certainly believe its true in 1 or 2 cases (aka a lot ).

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By *rebor1955Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"I'm a straight man and therefore I meet women and couples. If the male of the couple is bi I won't meet them. Ladies I don't mind if they are bi, in fact it's a bonus in group play.

I think it's called a preference. And preferences are allowed."

Why do you presume that a bi guy is going to be interested in you anymore than a straight guy?

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"A lot of hot straight guys won't go with girls that have been with Bi men - that's one of the major reasons - me I'm just not that keen - been there, tried it - did fuck all for me - I'm not doing something that doesn't do it for me "
what did fuck all for you?you don't have a cock so how can you try it lol.

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton


"I'm a straight man and therefore I meet women and couples. If the male of the couple is bi I won't meet them. Ladies I don't mind if they are bi, in fact it's a bonus in group play.

I think it's called a preference. And preferences are allowed.

Why do you presume that a bi guy is going to be interested in you anymore than a straight guy?"

I don't presume anything it's called a preference and whilst I don't have to justify it I will qualify it. In the last two years I've had four or five situations where I've been chatting to a bi male couple and whilst it's been clear from the start I'm up for a straight MMF the guy of the couple has steered the conversation around to "would I consider playing with him too". Hence I'm perfectly entitled to state my preferences thank you very much

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"In the OP there was a comment about 'double standards' which, in all fairness to the op, he subsequently said was too strong.

But there is another vein of double standards in this thread. A bi man, quite rightly, has the right to choose his sexuality and partners, and that right should be respected without question. We all would agree with that (I hope).

How then, can people in the same breath say that other people are wrong in selecting their choice of sexuality of partner?

There is no logic in the emotion of what different people find sexually off-putting or appealing. The sooner all people realise that the better."
he isint saying its wrong he is asking why.but he won't get an honast answear like "the thought of a cock up another guys arse gives me the boak"which is a perfectly resonable and honast response.far better than hiding behind the most misused word on fab...."preference" .

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By *an789Man
over a year ago

Cambridge


"No abuse from me I personally do not worry whether a guy is bi or not to meet

If I fancy them I fancy them "

That's a nice attitude. Not all bi guys are into dirty toilets and parks. I'm very careful and just enjoy my sexuality without label.

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By *an789Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

It's just preferences.. I prefer slimmer people and those who tend to look after themselves.. Doesn't mean I don't like chatting to bigger people.. Just not sleeping with them. So it's not something I worry about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOADS of couples say they wont meet bi men.

Then when you look at their verifications 95% of their sexual partners have met bi / tv people, its all rubbish !!!

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By *eadonistCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ashton under Lyne


"Don`t worry about it . Everyone has their own reasons.

BUT let me tell you this .....you have the honesty to say you are bisexual . The amount of `straight` profiled guys who message us , saying they are bisexual but keep it secret is shocking .

So they have more than likely played with bisexual guys who have not been honest "

This... This is pretty much 80% of the Straght guy messages we get.

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By *ntnCleoCouple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!


"I'm a straight man and therefore I meet women and couples. If the male of the couple is bi I won't meet them. Ladies I don't mind if they are bi, in fact it's a bonus in group play.

I think it's called a preference. And preferences are allowed.

Why do you presume that a bi guy is going to be interested in you anymore than a straight guy?

I don't presume anything it's called a preference and whilst I don't have to justify it I will qualify it. In the last two years I've had four or five situations where I've been chatting to a bi male couple and whilst it's been clear from the start I'm up for a straight MMF the guy of the couple has steered the conversation around to "would I consider playing with him too". Hence I'm perfectly entitled to state my preferences thank you very much "

That's where you're going wrong! I made the same mistake.

Apparently MMF is the bi version (male on male on female) where what you want to do is MFM!!!!

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By *ffinfuntMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"No abuse from me I personally do not worry whether a guy is bi or not to meet

If I fancy them I fancy them "

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton


"I'm a straight man and therefore I meet women and couples. If the male of the couple is bi I won't meet them. Ladies I don't mind if they are bi, in fact it's a bonus in group play.

I think it's called a preference. And preferences are allowed.

Why do you presume that a bi guy is going to be interested in you anymore than a straight guy?

I don't presume anything it's called a preference and whilst I don't have to justify it I will qualify it. In the last two years I've had four or five situations where I've been chatting to a bi male couple and whilst it's been clear from the start I'm up for a straight MMF the guy of the couple has steered the conversation around to "would I consider playing with him too". Hence I'm perfectly entitled to state my preferences thank you very much

That's where you're going wrong! I made the same mistake.

Apparently MMF is the bi version (male on male on female) where what you want to do is MFM!!!!"

Duly noted but my point still stands

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I'm a straight man and therefore I meet women and couples. If the male of the couple is bi I won't meet them. Ladies I don't mind if they are bi, in fact it's a bonus in group play.

I think it's called a preference. And preferences are allowed.

Why do you presume that a bi guy is going to be interested in you anymore than a straight guy?

I don't presume anything it's called a preference and whilst I don't have to justify it I will qualify it. In the last two years I've had four or five situations where I've been chatting to a bi male couple and whilst it's been clear from the start I'm up for a straight MMF the guy of the couple has steered the conversation around to "would I consider playing with him too". Hence I'm perfectly entitled to state my preferences thank you very much

That's where you're going wrong! I made the same mistake.

Apparently MMF is the bi version (male on male on female) where what you want to do is MFM!!!!

Duly noted but my point still stands "

Lol funny. It's 3 people in a room whichever way you spell it and it sounds like this gents wishes have been totally disrespected. Really annoys me reading people's experiences like that. I wouldn't dare assume to touch anyone with prior agreement. The fact you had discussions before and they still tried it on just shows a total lack of respect for you.

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton


"I'm a straight man and therefore I meet women and couples. If the male of the couple is bi I won't meet them. Ladies I don't mind if they are bi, in fact it's a bonus in group play.

I think it's called a preference. And preferences are allowed.

Why do you presume that a bi guy is going to be interested in you anymore than a straight guy?

I don't presume anything it's called a preference and whilst I don't have to justify it I will qualify it. In the last two years I've had four or five situations where I've been chatting to a bi male couple and whilst it's been clear from the start I'm up for a straight MMF the guy of the couple has steered the conversation around to "would I consider playing with him too". Hence I'm perfectly entitled to state my preferences thank you very much

That's where you're going wrong! I made the same mistake.

Apparently MMF is the bi version (male on male on female) where what you want to do is MFM!!!!

Duly noted but my point still stands

Lol funny. It's 3 people in a room whichever way you spell it and it sounds like this gents wishes have been totally disrespected. Really annoys me reading people's experiences like that. I wouldn't dare assume to touch anyone with prior agreement. The fact you had discussions before and they still tried it on just shows a total lack of respect for you. "

Yep but we all get people trying it on here, it might be about sexuality, age or body type, any manner of things. This often leads to us locking down our preferences or filters tighter than we might otherwise do. I have no problem at all with bi male couples and have played straight with them in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi guys are perfectlt capable of playing straight... just cause we like a bit of both, doesn't mean we're insatiable cock addicts and must grab a dick if it's in arms reach

I'd never overstep a straight chaps boundaries.

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