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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone ever meet for solely soft fun?

(Fingering/touching/handjob/blowjob/toy play)

Seems hard to find people willing to stick to our boundaries. Not wanting full sex. Think a lot of fun can be had in foreplay alone.

Drop us a message if interested (male or female)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't met anyone from this site yet (just had an experience in a club) but I would actual prefer that myself. I guess a club is easier to meet people and then straight away you can tell them your boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I haven't met anyone from this site yet (just had an experience in a club) but I would actual prefer that myself. I guess a club is easier to meet people and then straight away you can tell them your boundaries."

That's true. We have been to quite a few clubs. Not always found what we're looking for though. Think majority of couples want full swap and that's not for us. Would love more meets with males involving lots of oral fun but so far they seem to want more x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't met anyone from this site yet (just had an experience in a club) but I would actual prefer that myself. I guess a club is easier to meet people and then straight away you can tell them your boundaries.

That's true. We have been to quite a few clubs. Not always found what we're looking for though. Think majority of couples want full swap and that's not for us. Would love more meets with males involving lots of oral fun but so far they seem to want more x"

love soft play ,love driving so invites welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love soft play such a big turn on teasing each other

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By *ulia2013Couple
over a year ago

Yeovil


"Does anyone ever meet for solely soft fun?

(Fingering/touching/handjob/blowjob/toy play)

Seems hard to find people willing to stick to our boundaries. Not wanting full sex. Think a lot of fun can be had in foreplay alone.

Yes we do meet for soft play alone. It's where our boundaries are at the moment. We are always clear about it in advance

Drop us a message if interested (male or female)

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Does anyone ever meet for solely soft fun?

(Fingering/touching/handjob/blowjob/toy play)

Seems hard to find people willing to stick to our boundaries. Not wanting full sex. Think a lot of fun can be had in foreplay alone.

Drop us a message if interested (male or female)

"

We only do soft play at the club and have had so many pleasurable experiences there and boundaries always fully respected

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By *ack_at_the_farm....Man
over a year ago

woodhall spa

Imo soft play can be just as much fun as intercourse. It's. naughty without being overly so

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By *randMrsPCouple
over a year ago

Nr Salisbury

We're in the same, if not more difficult position. We aren't looking for any sort of swap but just want to be together around other people, in an erotic environment. Watching and being watched. What are we doing on a swingers site then? Well whilst looking for information on clubs in Pdi, to see if it's something we could find, came across this site. We have had some great messages and found a few couples looking for the same thing. We're off to Gran Canaria in a couple of weeks so will see if we can find what we are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that where you see how many small, coloured plastic balls you can insert into other peoples orifices?

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We started as only girl-girl and soft play. Although we also full swap also now, we still play like that with people who prefer it, and have had fun meets doing that.

I'm sure you'll find other couples who do too, either on here or also in clubs. Your age range is a bit limiting, that could be part of the issue. As anyone adds more restrictions there will be less people that fit the criteria, but those that do will be the ones you want!

Good luck, have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on a heart bypass waiting list so soft fun is all I can risk at the moment.

Steve

Meetshorty kik

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone ever meet for solely soft fun?

(Fingering/touching/handjob/blowjob/toy play)

Seems hard to find people willing to stick to our boundaries. Not wanting full sex. Think a lot of fun can be had in foreplay alone.

Drop us a message if interested (male or female)

"

I would love to but I'm too old, story of my f**king life.

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By *lderukmale2005Man
over a year ago

basingstoke

As an older man soft play becomes much more of a turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry play is great and I'd argue that I probably enjoy that more than straight to it. The build up is the most enjoyable part but if I'm being honest I would probably find it difficult to walk away after being so turned on. Suppose it all depends on how fulfilled you felt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far we are more then happy with soft swing, some things are best left to partners as it is more personal but you never know maybe in the future we may venture to more then soft swing but in the meantime we are happy doing what we do. It can be very erotic watching others as your being watched and a bit of oral but intimate stuff for own partners for us.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

We don't arrange meets with couples from the site but we do meet at clubs and have had soft play with couples on many occasions there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do! We much prefer it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone ever meet for solely soft fun?

(Fingering/touching/handjob/blowjob/toy play)

Seems hard to find people willing to stick to our boundaries. Not wanting full sex. Think a lot of fun can be had in foreplay alone.

Very intetested

"

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By *ntnCleoCouple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!

We had the sexiest soft play night on Saturday. 4 bodies tumbled in a bed and no one knows whose hand or mouth was whose.

Cleo told me afterwards - didn't you know that was my hand or my mouth at that moment etc.?

I didn't. Was awesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone ever meet for solely soft fun?

(Fingering/touching/handjob/blowjob/toy play)

Seems hard to find people willing to stick to our boundaries. Not wanting full sex. Think a lot of fun can be had in foreplay alone.

Drop us a message if interested (male or female)

"

If only I wasn't such an old git

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Well (Shakes his dreads till they all fall in place on his huge arms), soft play is both an art and a sport. In fact, it is a discipline. The emphasis is on discipline! That means only up to 10 percent of the population can do it and as with every sport only about 1% of participants can take it to the very top.

Enter the next rule: you are not allowed to ejaculate / cum/ gush etc for so and so number of minutes. You break the rule, you pay/ do a task/ etc.

The task can be ANYTHING as long as it's safe, legal, and affordable.

Hmmm..... those were the days!

Inbox for further details.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd meet a couple if they both wanted to give me oral and not want any in return. Any toy play would be in him or her, and only he would be allowed to finger me, and only me, if he doesn't disinfect his hands after fingering her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate to jump on the bandwagon, but this is something I'd be interested in!

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By *arnsleycouple7683Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley


"Does anyone ever meet for solely soft fun?

(Fingering/touching/handjob/blowjob/toy play)

Seems hard to find people willing to stick to our boundaries. Not wanting full sex. Think a lot of fun can be had in foreplay alone.

Drop us a message if interested (male or female)

"

We tend to do that with other couples when we are out at the club. Oral, hand/fingers, it's all good

Not opposed to doing other things, but we are easy going lol

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Whilst I like to have full sex I am more than happy to watch, keep to hands touching and oral.

Often in a club I will soft play all night because I am just watching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're only looking for ff play and same room/own partner play at the moment. It does make it harder to find compatible couples but they are out there so don't give up!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I've noticed as a single bi gem that There's and increasing number of couples wanting soft play only recently so it's not that difficult to find

Even though I love forplay they're not the type of meet I'd want to personally partake in

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By *inkyCouple1927Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We would happily meet for that, it's all still fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone ever meet for solely soft fun?

(Fingering/touching/handjob/blowjob/toy play)

Seems hard to find people willing to stick to our boundaries. Not wanting full sex. Think a lot of fun can be had in foreplay alone.

Drop us a message if interested (male or female)

"

we are soft only and love just same room fun watching others and being watched,

there are a few cples about that like this type of play, but mostly we find them too far away for a meet,

soft play gives way to more teaseing touching and foreplay we find it very erotic, as long as everyone enjoys themselves and has a good orgasm it doesn't matter how you reach that point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love just sit there playing with myself while the couple was playing with each other..and if they invited me over belting if not I'm still enjoying myself

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I think I'd actuslly prefer this. Particularly if I was going to meet a couple or try out group stuff.

Actually soft swing only with a group is quite a fantasy of mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

started out that way -- didnt last long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are looking to do something like that to start. I think it sounds really hot

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