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"It surprises me how poor some pictures are on profiles. When a potential couple send face pics and either very old, big distance from camera and poor focus.then when you ask for another picture so you can see them properly they are surprised... We try to do our best to put up clear up to date pictures to help people decide if they would like to meet for social or fun...cameras on phones these days are very good quality and should be no reason not to post good pictures...they then wonder why they get very few meets...we wouldn't meet unless we can determine if their is chemistry from picture first. We don't have lots of time to meet so can't waste it on meets where we meet people for social to find out we don't like them...what do you think ?" some of your pics are from 2013 ,saying that some of ours are | |||
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"It surprises me how poor some pictures are on profiles. When a potential couple send face pics and either very old, big distance from camera and poor focus.then when you ask for another picture so you can see them properly they are surprised... We try to do our best to put up clear up to date pictures to help people decide if they would like to meet for social or fun...cameras on phones these days are very good quality and should be no reason not to post good pictures...they then wonder why they get very few meets...we wouldn't meet unless we can determine if their is chemistry from picture first. We don't have lots of time to meet so can't waste it on meets where we meet people for social to find out we don't like them...what do you think ?" The main reason, I would think for,"big distance from camera and poor focus.", would be that it gives an impression of what they look like without allowing 100% positive identification to be possible to all and sundry accessing this site. "It does look a bit like us." but we can deny it if necessary. 
It's called plausible deniability. 
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"If you are happy to swap pictures for a meet you obviously need to show pics to achieve the end results...I understand face pics being left in private so you can use for clarification reasons. They don't have to be in public view but we need chemistry for a meet as do most people I think but you do need to see people properly regardless of how you feel you look. Nobody is perfect and you have to accept this and move on with this is mind...people give lots of reasons for not give pictures too but we would not meet blind...full stop as a general rule.. " n your original post "It surprises me how poor some pictures are on profiles." This sentence I understood to refer to photos readily available to all on site, hence my comments as above. If they are sending theses photos from their private collection then I would agree with you that there is little reason not to have a reasonably clear image. | |||
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"We got an offer from a photographer on here to do a free photo session, so we hired a studio (£40 for two hours) which had a main room and a 'boudoir' plus loads of props and even tea and coffee! The results from having proper lights and cameras were excellent - it turned out being one of the best things we've done on here. We both really enjoyed it and all those exotic undies that had been sitting unworn in the drawer for ages, got a great airing! " What no cake?  | |||
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"It surprises me how poor some pictures are on profiles. When a potential couple send face pics and either very old, big distance from camera and poor focus.then when you ask for another picture so you can see them properly they are surprised... We try to do our best to put up clear up to date pictures to help people decide if they would like to meet for social or fun...cameras on phones these days are very good quality and should be no reason not to post good pictures...they then wonder why they get very few meets...we wouldn't meet unless we can determine if their is chemistry from picture first. We don't have lots of time to meet so can't waste it on meets where we meet people for social to find out we don't like them...what do you think ?" Had the same problem with a couple. So they message. Hi,usual how are you etc. We proceed to the what do you look like bit,baring in mind the only picture they had was of her kitty. Cool each to their own i guess. So I ask for a full length picture,excluding the face at this point. To which they sent back a picture of her sat down on a lounger from a decent distance . Okay so i repeat the question. They start talking about kik,at this point they've clearly seen my body minus cock shots so they know what's on offer. I think Okay,give them a chance. Quite new to the seen etc. Trying to convince myself that they're not totall time wasters. So get over to kick where i start talking to miss now. Repeat the question to where she sends the same types of pictures. During down so i can't tell if she's my tyoe. So I send them a picture from my profile with a caption saying like this please. Minute later i get full clothed picture,standing up,no face and thought bloody hell that was hard work. So now i'm thinking are they gonna be this much hard work in person? | |||
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