FabSwingers.com forum: Fancying you sexual partner

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them...."

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely.

There's no way either I or Mrs N would shag someone we didn't fancy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we won't shag anyone we're not attracted too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't be meeting them otherwise

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

It's not the law or anything, but I'd say yes, personally

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By *ancastermanMan
over a year ago

carnforth

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them...."

Sort of...

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

God yes! And why I haven't had sex since bloody March!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be a spark there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well apparently sex is just sex and i can hardly say im genuine coz ill only fuck guys i fancy pmsl never heard summat so rediculous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do, but mainly need to fancy the mind and the personality. Many men it seems just want fresh flesh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely. I would need that physical attraction and chemistry. Surprisingly I've had no offers...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It just blows my mind if u dont fancy them then surely wed all have fucked each other by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gloryholes solve this dilemma.

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By *otturk69Man
over a year ago

Croydon

You have to fancy each other or have some kind of attraction before you indulge in sex

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Oh god yes I absolutely have to fancy them!

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

Of course otherwise I might as well just cut a hole in a pumpkin and save my self the hassle of leaving my house.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Definitely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do. Whether they fancy me or just need a fuck, who knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Apparently im a picky fucker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose it depends on how despatate you are to have sex. But yes there needs to be a spark of attraction both physically & emotionally between those involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some guys are I absolutely love fucking. It's hot, they know how to hit the spot, they say the right things. But I don't actually fancy them. So know I don't have to fancy someone ( that emotion is rare), but I have to want to fuck them.

Mrs

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them...."

How is this new?

Errr yes!

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By *layful Couple For YouCouple
over a year ago

Lust

Definitely

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By *ontanMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Depends what im looking for... somtimes I only want someone I fancy..

other days I dont care so long as its wett and warm haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not necessarily, I'm more interested in the persons personality than looks. Guy can be hot as hell but still be a twat.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Depends what im looking for... somtimes I only want someone I fancy..

other days I dont care so long as its wett and warm haha"

Noted

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Absolutely. Attraction is vital not only to perform, but to enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently im a picky fucker"

Or is that a fucky picker?

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

Absolutely - I have to be attracted to both their appearance *and* their personality.

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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them...."

Yes

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them...."

sometimes I fancy the mind more than the look , and for me that's better than fancying the body and not the mind .......... If that makes sense

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them....

Sort of...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. But the attraction is not necessarily based on looks.

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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester

"Apparently im a picky fucker"

Me too !

Why not

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Nah! Just planning to shag my way through the site....

Number 1 Step forward, this could be a long journey

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

"I do, but mainly need to fancy the mind and the personality. Many men it seems just want fresh flesh."

Yep, this is me too. Doesn't matter how gorgeous they are, if they have the personality of a wet mop, I'm not going to be attracted to them

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By *lderukmale2005Man
over a year ago

basingstoke

Some attraction is necessary

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

This is fantasy, casual sex for me. I have to fancy them I'm not after marrying them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errrrr yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely, physically and mentally x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty obvious answer?

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

yes i do, i don't have to know a lot about them to fancy them either, just physical looks will do.

on the other hand i think it's why some of us go off guys who seem to want to fuck anything, it looks like they have no standards at all.

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By *ancastermanMan
over a year ago

carnforth

Attraction varies though. Same person different situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and tbh id hate to think someone was having sex with me who didnt fancy me or have a spark with me on some level!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them...."

Defo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.Im so fussy.I do find people attractive but it has to be more than that.They have to have that thing about them that makes my heart race and makes me desire them and if that isn't there then I'm not sharing my body with them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well...judging by the amount of messages I get back, saying 'not my type' 'not for me' or indeed a delete of my messages. I would say yes... people feel they have to fancy a person to shag them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes and tbh id hate to think someone was having sex with me who didnt fancy me or have a spark with me on some level!

This!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them...."

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them...."

yes very much so

otherwise why would 1 do it for? Numbers, taking 1 for the team?

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

I can only play with a lady I'm sexually attracted to. But to me in swinging that's a broader spectrum than ladies I'd be attracted to to date. If that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So.

Many say yes..

So what is with all the photos on here of Mrs being fucked by 3 or more men with beer guts, man boobs and flabby hairy arses?

Frig me.. if that is attractive to women, then i am going to ditch wearing Lingerie and start eating pies and drinking 10 pints a night...

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Of course.

I only meet those whom I desire/lust over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them...."

100% yes, that's why every rejection on here hurts as it makes me feel ugly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be an attraction or the sex is not any good

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By *ostafunMan
over a year ago

near ipswich

I only meet couples and been in the game long enough to know I'm only there to indulge thier fantasies which also happen to be mine so no don't think you have to fancy them its just sex.in fact I think if you start fancing another guys wife it could blur the lines a mutual attraction is a must though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only meet couples and been in the game long enough to know I'm only there to indulge thier fantasies which also happen to be mine so no don't think you have to fancy them its just sex.in fact I think if you start fancing another guys wife it could blur the lines a mutual attraction is a must though."

my dick works on attraction, I don't fancy them, he doesn't get hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them...."

For me it's a hell yes.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"So.

Many say yes..

So what is with all the photos on here of Mrs being fucked by 3 or more men with beer guts, man boobs and flabby hairy arses?

Frig me.. if that is attractive to women, then i am going to ditch wearing Lingerie and start eating pies and drinking 10 pints a night..."

Yep , agree with this .

It totally depends on the scenario for us .

Once in action so to speak , there doesn't need to be an attraction as such , as it's the scenario and not necessarily the people .

Fior a one on one , then it's a yes , we have to fancy them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Yasmin) haven't fancied many of the meets we have had ,makes no difference to me it's just sex ... I fancy my partner and we use fab to fulfil our fantasies , our sex life is amazing and fab just adds to that ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them...."
I've fucked people I've not even seen... So no. However if im going to be more intimate ( like when we meet couples) then yes I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site baffles me more every day?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had sex with people I don't fancy and it's been very torrid... sometimes it's been a one off, sometimes on-going dependent on how good the experience was.

I've had sex with people I fancied just based on their looks and then got totally turned off during sex with them.

I prefer the sex you have with someone you fall in love with, because everything they do is just bloody amazing and I love that feeling lol... It makes my libido purr 24/7 lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally yes I don't see the point otherwise as I get plenty at home

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By *ntnCleoCouple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!

Absolutely.

Cleo is very picky - she has rose-tinted glasses when it comes to me and says she won't shag anyone unless they are as hot as (she sees) me. She says why would she bother when she can have me anytime?

Which I get I suppose, from her perspective. But I do tell her "that's fine, but you don't want roast lamb and veg every night! Some days you can have a curry or stir fry or even take away!"

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By *ostafunMan
over a year ago

near ipswich

my dick works on attraction, I don't fancy them, he doesn't get hard."
mine works on the mind guess we are different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if they are dressed in latex head to toe and smooth as a the day they were born, then No.

Mostly yes

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By *harlotte SometimesWoman
over a year ago

Leafy Warwickshire

Yes there has to be a spark. Just something about that person that you like and hopefully they feel it too otherwise it's mechanical.

A good kiss is usually an indication for me. If that leaves you cold then there's no point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them...."

Yes, without any shadow of doubt.

How could you have sex with someone you're not attracted to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've fucked people I didn't fancy (not on here).

People that don't fancy me have fucked me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So.

Many say yes..

So what is with all the photos on here of Mrs being fucked by 3 or more men with beer guts, man boobs and flabby hairy arses?

Frig me.. if that is attractive to women, then i am going to ditch wearing Lingerie and start eating pies and drinking 10 pints a night..."

I'd much rather shag someone with moobs, a flabby hairy arse and a lovely personality than some guy that thinks the sun shines out of his own arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course don't get many offers though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do. Whether they fancy me or just need a fuck, who knows. "

This

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

100%. The worry issue is people have sex with people they don't find attractive. How and why does that happen? I don't understand how this phenomenon occurs? Would rather stick my knob in a blender than have sex with someone I don't fancy.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them....

Yes, without any shadow of doubt.

How could you have sex with someone you're not attracted to?"

Very easily in a group scenario

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them...."

Yes totally. Couldnt fuck someone i dont find sexual attractive n id hope they felt the same

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Absolutely - I have to be attracted to both their appearance *and* their personality. "

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"So.

Many say yes..

So what is with all the photos on here of Mrs being fucked by 3 or more men with beer guts, man boobs and flabby hairy arses?

Frig me.. if that is attractive to women, then i am going to ditch wearing Lingerie and start eating pies and drinking 10 pints a night...

I'd much rather shag someone with moobs, a flabby hairy arse and a lovely personality than some guy that thinks the sun shines out of his own arse. "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So.

Many say yes..

So what is with all the photos on here of Mrs being fucked by 3 or more men with beer guts, man boobs and flabby hairy arses?

Frig me.. if that is attractive to women, then i am going to ditch wearing Lingerie and start eating pies and drinking 10 pints a night...

I'd much rather shag someone with moobs, a flabby hairy arse and a lovely personality than some guy that thinks the sun shines out of his own arse. "

Do you know what ...that last paragraph is sooooo 100% right - absolutely

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"So.

Many say yes..

So what is with all the photos on here of Mrs being fucked by 3 or more men with beer guts, man boobs and flabby hairy arses?

Frig me.. if that is attractive to women, then i am going to ditch wearing Lingerie and start eating pies and drinking 10 pints a night...

I'd much rather shag someone with moobs, a flabby hairy arse and a lovely personality than some guy that thinks the sun shines out of his own arse. "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them...."

Yes, of course.

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By *ngel clawsWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Yes, definitely has to be a connection, but not necessarily physical attraction

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Isnt that why we have doggy style?

Confusious say

"Wise man dont need to look at fireplace whilst stoking the fire"

All joking aside, yep!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them...."

God almighty

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By *ittle earsMan
over a year ago

south oxfordshire

Absolutely yes

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By *ullanonCouple
over a year ago

Hull

Yes, but the term 'fancy' is pretty broad for us, and interchangeable. Sometimes it'll be about looks, but other times it'll be someone's tone, or vibe - or just what type of meet we fancy that night. So not a simple answer for us. Whoops! xx

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By *harlotte SometimesWoman
over a year ago

Leafy Warwickshire

"100%. The worry issue is people have sex with people they don't find attractive. How and why does that happen? I don't understand how this phenomenon occurs? Would rather stick my knob in a blender than have sex with someone I don't fancy."

This can happen with couples meets if one half of the couple doesn't find their prospective partner attractive and that's where socials are essential. But if that's not practical there is always the possibility of somebody having to take one for the team. It's not always easy to walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its easy to walk away.. we would never dream of "taking one for the team" there should never be a situation where sex is forced upon someone just because!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% YES - the reason I was stalked in January was simply because I turned up at a met, but refused to have sex with the MF couple, because the guy was horrid looking and very dirty with it - so yes you must fancy or at the very least like the person your about to have sex with

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Definitely yes! Absolutely gagging for it here but I can't fuck someone I've no attraction to!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

On a one to one yes its essential. In a club enviroment my morals go out the window and its all about the good sex more than the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be some attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indeed

I've tried in the past without attraction, I can't get off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Indeed

I've tried in the past without attraction, I can't get off"

Wouldn't try myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutly. I don't think the Captain would stand to attention without a little attraction!

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By *ffinfuntMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Chemistry counts for seduction an seducing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction needs to be there 110%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them...."
of course !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definately!

Although it often seems some men dont care what you look like as they ask to meet without even seeing a pic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definatly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a one to one meet, then yes I do have to fancy them but in a club scenario then, no, I don't necessarily need to fancy them.

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By *ealbinotfakeMan
over a year ago

St judes

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them...."

I dont think so, if its casual and you bit know what you want. Because if your acting out a fantasy its whatever you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely in all scenarios

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By *rGenuineMan
over a year ago

Purley

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them...."

What a ridiculous question. And I thought it was just some men on here who'd fuck anything that breathes on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them....

What a ridiculous question. And I thought it was just some men on here who'd fuck anything that breathes on here."

No it's not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fussy and need a few factors that make me want to play .Being attracted to the person is number 1 ,then I like polite and nicely spoken with a edge about him and height .

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By *rGenuineMan
over a year ago

Purley

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them....

What a ridiculous question. And I thought it was just some men on here who'd fuck anything that breathes on here.

No it's not

Of course it is, what sort of male or female slag would shag someone they didn't at all fancy? Talk about sad and desperate.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them....

What a ridiculous question. And I thought it was just some men on here who'd fuck anything that breathes on here.

No it's not

Of course it is, what sort of male or female slag would shag someone they didn't at all fancy? Talk about sad and desperate."

We aren't sad or desperate at all but in the right scenario it doesn't matter who's involved. As long as they are clean and respectful it's all good . And it's an attitude more than looks that are important too . So terminology like slag isn't gonna cut it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them....

What a ridiculous question. And I thought it was just some men on here who'd fuck anything that breathes on here.

No it's not

Of course it is, what sort of male or female slag would shag someone they didn't at all fancy? Talk about sad and desperate."

Ooh ouch. I guess that makes me a slag! Though I will insist that I'm certainly not desperate, as I have my fair share of offers most of which I reject. But I have fucked men i don't fancy. Why do I fuck them? Various reasons. They might say something to excite me, they might look hot, I might have a gut feeling that they would give me an amazing time sexually. In fact one of the best regular fucks I've had is with a guy I did not fancy, but the sexual connection and chemistry was incredible. Yet I've had bland sex with men I do fancy.

Mrs

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"Yes. But the attraction is not necessarily based on looks. "

We find that attraction isn't based solely on looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a yes from us . Not just anyone will do and hope our playmates have that view and don't just shag me ( jilly) cos it's a shag . Would like to think there attraction for them to

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Yes, fancy them sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I second that ..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction isn't purely looks either.

It's a few things combined !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gloryholes solve this dilemma."

I second that ...glory holes have a purpose ..lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them....

Yes, without any shadow of doubt.

How could you have sex with someone you're not attracted to?

Very easily in a group scenario "

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By *xotic indianCouple
over a year ago

leicester

Yes mutual physical attraction and perfect body hygiene is very important to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them...."

Would have thought it was obvious that fancying someone would be absolutely essential if you were even going to consider playing with someone.

But that's just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So.

Many say yes..

So what is with all the photos on here of Mrs being fucked by 3 or more men with beer guts, man boobs and flabby hairy arses?

Frig me.. if that is attractive to women, then i am going to ditch wearing Lingerie and start eating pies and drinking 10 pints a night..."

I'd agree and say that's a very good point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A major part of the problem with Fab, is that people don't tend to want to communicate, they go by a photo and then dismiss without getting to know the personality behind the picture.

I have had more success on a very well known social site, simply because its all about getting to know the person. On here its all about the looks... very shallow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, so in orgies, gang bangs, dogging scenarios, and general group fun at parties are most people saying the 'fancy' emotion is always in existence? Seriously? Do people actually fancy the stranger they fuck in a club? or do they just find them hot and a good fuck? Or do I have a different definition of the word 'fancy'?

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A major part of the problem with Fab, is that people don't tend to want to communicate, they go by a photo and then dismiss without getting to know the personality behind the picture.

I have had more success on a very well known social site, simply because its all about getting to know the person. On here its all about the looks... very shallow. "

Very true. Mind you there are a few decent people on here. You've just got to wade through all the shallow minded people to find them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A major part of the problem with Fab, is that people don't tend to want to communicate, they go by a photo and then dismiss without getting to know the personality behind the picture.

I have had more success on a very well known social site, simply because its all about getting to know the person. On here its all about the looks... very shallow. "
I agree, I want to see if there is a spark of "something" before starting to play, anything less becomes more of a posh wank. I'm wary because I've come across too many people who enjoy being in / creating drama and I don't enjoy complications. A spark of attractiveness, respect and trust goes a long, long way xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh but they're very few and far between.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Ok, so in orgies, gang bangs, dogging scenarios, and general group fun at parties are most people saying the 'fancy' emotion is always in existence? Seriously? Do people actually fancy the stranger they fuck in a club? or do they just find them hot and a good fuck? Or do I have a different definition of the word 'fancy'?

Mrs"

Not just you

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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"I (Yasmin) haven't fancied many of the meets we have had ,makes no difference to me it's just sex ... I fancy my partner and we use fab to fulfil our fantasies , our sex life is amazing and fab just adds to that .. "

Exactly, it's different for couples in that you might have to 'take one for the team' on occasions but things equal out, usually.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Exactly, it's different for couples in that you might have to 'take one for the team' on occasions but things equal out, usually."

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes as without the attractions everything would feel robotic and no fun at all.

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over a year ago

I actually think that since trying to make sure I'm sexually attracted to sexual partners ive found its rare I play....

I used to just go with the moment. Now I stop to think do i find them attractive.... And as such rarely play.

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

We never take one for the team that might makes us fussy but that's our decision

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By *200 swingersCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Neither do we take one for the team has to be some attraction ,

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"I actually think that since trying to make sure I'm sexually attracted to sexual partners ive found its rare I play....

I used to just go with the moment. Now I stop to think do i find them attractive.... And as such rarely play.

And I would guess that totally sucks ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally need to fancy someone to fuck them each to their own x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely, I'd rather just have a wank if I didn't fancy them.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yes, I do have to fancy someone. I actually checked the definition to make sure I wasn't going to post something silly - I think what fancying means can vary a lot.

Even in group play, I still want to feel that desire for someone. Otherwise I can't bring myself to play with them and switch off.

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley

For me, it's all about liking the person. I find all body shapes, sizes and genders attractive. Sounds weird but it be the truth. But I need to be attracted to the person though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them....

What a ridiculous question. And I thought it was just some men on here who'd fuck anything that breathes on here.

No it's not

Of course it is, what sort of male or female slag would shag someone they didn't at all fancy? Talk about sad and desperate.

Mrs"

Completely agree with this. At a club, I've had group fun which has included men I haven't fancied but the sex has been great.

To call people slags is pretty immature and childish and not very respectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely. Looks first for me, closely followed by intelligence/personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually think that since trying to make sure I'm sexually attracted to sexual partners ive found its rare I play....

I used to just go with the moment. Now I stop to think do i find them attractive.... And as such rarely play.

And I would guess that totally sucks ?"

Yeah that would suck with us, we would have missed out on too much hot sexy fun if we stopped to worry about whether we fancied the person. An example. I briefly got talking to a guy at a club because we had mutual friends on the scene. I was not interested. Long story but many moons later he attended our house party. I was playing to 2 guys who I usually play with and he joined in. And we had the most amazing sex. To this day I would love to have a repeat with him. Do I fancy him? I think I might have started to fancy after he'd given me such an amazing time, but I certainly didn't fancy before. He didn't fancy me because he showed no interest afterwards in meeting again. But it doesn't matter if we fancied each other, because sexually we had a great time for one night. So the question my husband and I ask out selves is not 'do we fancy them?' but 'will we enjoy it? do we want it?' And it's question that is only relevant for that moment in time.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them....

What a ridiculous question. And I thought it was just some men on here who'd fuck anything that breathes on here.

No it's not

Of course it is, what sort of male or female slag would shag someone they didn't at all fancy? Talk about sad and desperate.

Mrs

Completely agree with this. At a club, I've had group fun which has included men I haven't fancied but the sex has been great.

To call people slags is pretty immature and childish and not very respectful

The guy who suggested people who do that are slags, has 'gang bangs' and 'dogging' on his list of interests, both activities that doesn't tend to involve much of the 'fancy' emotion. He's either being incredibly naiive or downright hypocritical.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"I actually think that since trying to make sure I'm sexually attracted to sexual partners ive found its rare I play....

I used to just go with the moment. Now I stop to think do i find them attractive.... And as such rarely play.

And I would guess that totally sucks ?

Mrs"

This sums it up perfectly and is exactly why we feel the same way . The process involved when one looks for a playmate on here is entirely different to the play at a party or in a club . We call it going with the flow , and sometimes you find playmates you would never choose normally , but they prove to be amazing in these scenarios .

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Yes. I'd hope that's the case for everyone.

I'd hate to think people have had sex with me and not fancied me.

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over a year ago

"I actually think that since trying to make sure I'm sexually attracted to sexual partners ive found its rare I play....

I used to just go with the moment. Now I stop to think do i find them attractive.... And as such rarely play.

And I would guess that totally sucks ?

Mrs

This is exactly how I feel. On a one to one meet, where I like to have a conversation with someone as well as sex, then I do have to fancy them. But at a club, I just go with the flow and as long as they are polite and respectful, then the fancying part isn't important and the sex has been great.

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over a year ago

"I actually think that since trying to make sure I'm sexually attracted to sexual partners ive found its rare I play....

I used to just go with the moment. Now I stop to think do i find them attractive.... And as such rarely play.

And I would guess that totally sucks ?

Mrs"

I had something similar. Had a meet with a guy that I didn't fancy. Still met him even though my partner couldn't make it.

He was amazing and lovely and very interesting. We had a great time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them....

Yes"

And yes , it does help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So heres a new one do people think you need to fancy the person your meeting to shag them....

What a ridiculous question. And I thought it was just some men on here who'd fuck anything that breathes on here.

No it's not

Of course it is, what sort of male or female slag would shag someone they didn't at all fancy? Talk about sad and desperate.

Mrs

Completely agree with this. At a club, I've had group fun which has included men I haven't fancied but the sex has been great.

To call people slags is pretty immature and childish and not very respectful

Lol I love delusion that's funny as fk!!

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By *trongcuddlesMan
over a year ago

Europe

Depends on the chase and the conversation before, if someone is interesting and you both discussed it then you have to it even if you know it won't happen again

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"I actually think that since trying to make sure I'm sexually attracted to sexual partners ive found its rare I play....

I used to just go with the moment. Now I stop to think do i find them attractive.... And as such rarely play.

And I would guess that totally sucks ?

Mrs"

Well said and articulated exactly our viewpoint

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over a year ago

"I actually think that since trying to make sure I'm sexually attracted to sexual partners ive found its rare I play....

I used to just go with the moment. Now I stop to think do i find them attractive.... And as such rarely play.

And I would guess that totally sucks ?

Mrs

Yup. 100% agree with this. We have played with people in a club that I know had they messaged us via fab we would have on their profile or oh2otos said not for us x yet had great times. X

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By *inkykouple1985Couple
over a year ago

Spalding-ish

Yeah got to be sexual attraction x

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By *arnsleycouple7683Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Entirely different when it's an organised social meet with sex, from a club environment, in my opinion.

For a meet yes I'd have to fancy them, but not only that... I'd have to find them interesting and intelligent and conversational.

In a dark room in a club I really don't care what they look like. I go with the flow.

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