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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A question for the men for a change:

I like a man who tells me how he climaxes - once and it's all over, one quick one then it takes a while for a second, or several times and stays hard for ages (

)....especially if it's true..

It helps us pace the play.

How do I delicately ask about the guy's 'cum plan' tho? If I ask if they are a repeater it sounds like that what I'm looking for. I'm not. I just like to know how to pace things to suit them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A question for the men for a change:

I like a man who tells me how he climaxes - once and it's all over, one quick one then it takes a while for a second, or several times and stays hard for ages (

)....especially if it's true..

It helps us pace the play.

How do I delicately ask about the guy's 'cum plan' tho? If I ask if they are a repeater it sounds like that what I'm looking for. I'm not. I just like to know how to pace things to suit them.

Lol, wish it was that simple. Sometimes you'll cum once quickly, sometimes slowly. Sometimes you can repeat a 2nd/3rd time and sometimes all night. I don't think most fellas have a 'plan' as you put it whatever wishes their ego may have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Through lots of edge play and ruining my own orgasm sometimes (five in 30 mins is the record) I am very in tune with the whole situation.

Maybe looks for a man who can spoil and therefore stay hard and interested?

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By *oping for funMan
over a year ago

Newport - Shropshire

"A question for the men for a change:

I like a man who tells me how he climaxes - once and it's all over, one quick one then it takes a while for a second, or several times and stays hard for ages (

)....especially if it's true..

It helps us pace the play.

How do I delicately ask about the guy's 'cum plan' tho? If I ask if they are a repeater it sounds like that what I'm looking for. I'm not. I just like to know how to pace things to suit them.

I think its impossible to answer other than from personal experiences and circumstances x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A question for the men for a change:

I like a man who tells me how he climaxes - once and it's all over, one quick one then it takes a while for a second, or several times and stays hard for ages (

)....especially if it's true..

It helps us pace the play.

How do I delicately ask about the guy's 'cum plan' tho? If I ask if they are a repeater it sounds like that what I'm looking for. I'm not. I just like to know how to pace things to suit them.

I've found women don't like repeaters, but maybe my research has been off. Surely planning sex makes it unsexy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always up front, I can only cum once but then I'll carry on for as long as we want to. Lots of short little fucks or longer drawn out ones. No problems getting hard repeatedly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how the planets and stars line up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A question for the men for a change:

I like a man who tells me how he climaxes - once and it's all over, one quick one then it takes a while for a second, or several times and stays hard for ages (

)....especially if it's true..

It helps us pace the play.

How do I delicately ask about the guy's 'cum plan' tho? If I ask if they are a repeater it sounds like that what I'm looking for. I'm not. I just like to know how to pace things to suit them.

I've found women don't like repeaters, but maybe my research has been off. Surely planning sex makes it unsexy? "

Each to their own is all I can say. It's not a blow by blow play list, more a decision about the kind of menu we're choosing from - tapas or traditional 3 courses? I play differently with different people.

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By *ommon_usernameMan
over a year ago

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For myself i tend to stop myself from cumming for a while so if i feel like im going to cum i stop and start with oral etc etc .. once i do climax it takes me a few minutes before i can get hard again and then takes me a while before i actually cum again.

I have only ever cum twice never more than that would love to try hahahhaa

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm always up front, I can only cum once but then I'll carry on for as long as we want to. Lots of short little fucks or longer drawn out ones. No problems getting hard repeatedly."

That's exactly the kind of info I mean. Do you volunteer that? Do women tactfully ask?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If asked I couldn't answer, depends on the mood and the moment as well as the activity

I can repeat, I can stay hard but also sometimes need a bit of down time if the trusted friend is a little sensitive. A bit of down time and I'm back in the game

The duration from beginning to cumming is usually dependent on the same three things. I usually take ages to cum but can also cum quickly during a "quick session". Each time I cum, it takes longer for the next one. I can cum multiple times in a night.

I tend to cum a lot so I'm in the "heavy cummer" category, that's usually a given. I can shoot like peter north on a good day (most days) but do sometimes just shoot moderately

I have a cum plan or strategy, well unless it's bukkake. I just like to enjoy my meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm always up front, I can only cum once but then I'll carry on for as long as we want to. Lots of short little fucks or longer drawn out ones. No problems getting hard repeatedly.

That's exactly the kind of info I mean. Do you volunteer that? Do women tactfully ask? "

I think she just has!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Through lots of edge play and ruining my own orgasm sometimes (five in 30 mins is the record) I am very in tune with the whole situation.

Maybe looks for a man who can spoil and therefore stay hard and interested?"

You misunderstand. I'm looking just for info on how they like to climax in play, not for a particular type of climax. How do I elicit that tactfully?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm always up front, I can only cum once but then I'll carry on for as long as we want to. Lots of short little fucks or longer drawn out ones. No problems getting hard repeatedly.

That's exactly the kind of info I mean. Do you volunteer that? Do women tactfully ask?

I think she just has!"

'She'?? I'm talking one to one interactions...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask them how it usually works for them. I wouldn't be offended personally, and would happily fill you in. I can cum multiple times, as long as there is a little break between sessions, and I'm turned on enough. It obviously depends on the situation, but most guys will know what usually happens for them.

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By *ohnandLucyCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Yes, "how does it work best for you when you cum". It's a really nice question to be asked...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, "how does it work best for you when you cum". It's a really nice question to be asked...

It's not exactly an outrageous thing to be asked on a site where people meet for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm always up front, I can only cum once but then I'll carry on for as long as we want to. Lots of short little fucks or longer drawn out ones. No problems getting hard repeatedly.

That's exactly the kind of info I mean. Do you volunteer that? Do women tactfully ask? "

I have volunteered on a few occasions where people have said they like repeaters. I've been asked outright and a few have not been concerned.

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By *ontanMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Im def a repeater rather annoyingly sometimes. .. first time dosnt usually last long second time takes longer.. 3rd time and im good to go as long as I want.

Befor a meet I usually wank to empty one off. Take the edge off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say that I cum really easily so be gentle

and let me enjoy your body first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do I delicately ask about the guy's 'cum plan' tho? If I ask if they are a repeater it sounds like that what I'm looking for. I'm not. I just like to know how to pace things to suit them.

I guess just ask:

Do you cum multiple times while having sex or go for a while with one big climax?

That way your not requesting a repeater or expecting them to last ages. Always best to be upfront about it.

I can go quick and cum quick or take my time and pace myself to make it last... that said if something it a huge turn on it can sometimes be hard to hold back

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I always say that I cum really easily so be gentle

and let me enjoy your body first

Nice line!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, "how does it work best for you when you cum". It's a really nice question to be asked...

It's not exactly an outrageous thing to be asked on a site where people meet for sex

You gentlemen can be delicate flowers about this stuff sometimes...

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By *hinypants77Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Love the fact that you are wanting to know! Very thoughtful!

Guess it depends on how people are feeling that day. I'll always want to cum at least twice a meet depending on how much time there is. I like to fuck and cum. Take a break, chat and chill then go back for round 2.

Unless I really don't fancy her then I'll just fuck and run!

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Best time to ask is after the first orgasm .

Let him have a snooze then wake him nicely , the response should show you without the need for words

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Love the fact that you are wanting to know! Very thoughtful!

I'm just a pleaser..(pauses as drowned out by raucous laughter from friends)..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Best time to ask is after the first orgasm .

Let him have a snooze then wake him nicely , the response should show you without the need for words

No sleeping for the first four hours!!!

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

"Best time to ask is after the first orgasm .

Let him have a snooze then wake him nicely , the response should show you without the need for words

No sleeping for the first four hours!!!

I'll pass , 6 hours minimum before my first blast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once it's come out the end, all I want is a cab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Best time to ask is after the first orgasm .

Let him have a snooze then wake him nicely , the response should show you without the need for words

No sleeping for the first four hours!!!

I'll pass , 6 hours minimum before my first blast

Is that a side effect of the radioactivity?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And are there any others??

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

"Best time to ask is after the first orgasm .

Let him have a snooze then wake him nicely , the response should show you without the need for words

No sleeping for the first four hours!!!

I'll pass , 6 hours minimum before my first blast

Is that a side effect of the radioactivity?"

not radioactivity , solar powered ! After all we live in a world of renewable energy

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By *Devil77Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

Never been asked by a woman myself, but I have cum 3 times in one long session.

Didn't manage 4 but I did try lol.

In the end she asked to stop as she was sore!

The first one usually comes to quickly, but a few mins and I can be ready to go again.

It all depends on the person I'm with and what she likes too.

It's never the same twice no matter how much you try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And are there any others??

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Hi Tiger, well let's see then,I suppose I'm similar to some of the above, no two sessions are the same, but a nice slow start and build up is always good, if I'm getting too excited then switch to a bit of play, and then start again, as someone above said it depends on how sexy the woman is, your hot! So I would definitely start the action slowly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Best time to ask is after the first orgasm .

Let him have a snooze then wake him nicely , the response should show you without the need for words

No sleeping for the first four hours!!!

I'll pass , 6 hours minimum before my first blast

Is that a side effect of the radioactivity?

not radioactivity , solar powered ! After all we live in a world of renewable energy

Last time I looked Heysham was nuclear..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And are there any others??

Hi Tiger, well let's see then,I suppose I'm similar to some of the above, no two sessions are the same, but a nice slow start and build up is always good, if I'm getting too excited then switch to a bit of play, and then start again, as someone above said it depends on how sexy the woman is, your hot! So I would definitely start the action slowly

Good to know LL!

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

"Best time to ask is after the first orgasm .

Let him have a snooze then wake him nicely , the response should show you without the need for words

No sleeping for the first four hours!!!

I'll pass , 6 hours minimum before my first blast

Is that a side effect of the radioactivity?

not radioactivity , solar powered ! After all we live in a world of renewable energy

Last time I looked Heysham was nuclear.."

Not this part !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And are there any others??

Good to know LL!

Hey, also depends on whether I've got my lucky loin cloth on or my magical gourd. Good witch doctor

/bad witch doctor

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Varies on level of tiredness i find. Never care how many times I cum. If i find im getting close too early i'll switch to an activity that doesn't involve my pecker but maintains the hotness of the meet for a little while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm usually once and done, you get everything I've got in that time though.

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By *aughtyYorkGentMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I can't say this is something I've ever been asked up front, but I wouldn't have any problem with a woman just enquiring. I'd probably prefer a detailed question, worded as the OP has in this thread, so I knew exactly what was being asked, no misunderstandings or confusion!

I almost always follow the same pattern - I cum quickly the first time, but can repeat a few times after that, controlling how long I take, and I can get hard as much as is needed!

I'd probably be more relaxed if the lady had asked, as I'd know she was aware it wouldn't all be over after my first climax!

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