FabSwingers.com forum: Should a man buy his gf a dildo?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Or is that the woman's job if she's that way inclined?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YES!

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By *ates1eMan
over a year ago

clapham

I've brought my mrs dildos and vibrators

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Sussex

If you get a kit that allows you to make a mould of your 'old chap', put a vibrator inside then that's a humorous gift just before going away for a long while.

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By *wesomeSauce!Man
over a year ago

Brighton

Yes - but as a surprise?

I went to a shop with her, so that she could pick.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"Yes - but as a surprise?

I went to a shop with her, so that she could pick."

I dont see why not.

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By *ack_at_the_farm....Man
over a year ago

woodhall spa

I bought one for a female friend of mine last week as a ' thank u' gesture....she loved it cos she had never had a usb chargeable one before

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By *ngandnickCouple
over a year ago

Haverhill

Nothing wrong with the man buying it, but only after finding out which one she actually wants

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Think it's great if a man buys them as gifts

Shows he wants her to enjoy herself even if he's not there

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

But they charge 10p for a large carrier.

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By *strokeC100Couple
over a year ago

chester

A very nice gift. My wife always appreciates a new model to try- if she is typical then a range of different types is a useful thing for women

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By *ack_at_the_farm....Man
over a year ago

woodhall spa

"Think it's great if a man buys them as gifts

Shows he wants her to enjoy herself even if he's not there

What she said

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

I've bought my girl lots of toys her fav is lovesense lush , I can now play with her over the Internet with my iPhone lol x

D&K

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By *strokeC100Couple
over a year ago

chester

In my lifetime this is one of the amazing changes: they were hardly heard of at one time and virtually unobtainable. Now I imagine almost all women have had at least one and they are widely discussed and are advertised everywhere.

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By *eadonistCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ashton under Lyne

Buy her a strapon.. She'll live it.. (you might even learn to enjoy it)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

buy her a wand

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"In my lifetime this is one of the amazing changes: they were hardly heard of at one time and virtually unobtainable. Now I imagine almost all women have had at least one and they are widely discussed and are advertised everywhere. "

Some have at least 3!!!!!

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By *strokeC100Couple
over a year ago

chester

Well my wife says two are the bare minimum- wand and a rabbit. She also sometimes likes a bullet type. Then there waterproof , rechargeable, quiet and so on. She has a drawer ful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and why not the two off you go shopping together. Have a look at stuff you both can enjoy

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Or is that the woman's job if she's that way inclined? "

If he wants to yeah. I didn't really get the point or was it just a simple question?

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

I have the love honey account and treat my wife to lots of toys but her favourite is always the first one we bought the tatty old pealing one lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Mr N has often bought me things like that. Why wouldn't he.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or is that the woman's job if she's that way inclined? "

I have bought dildos and other sex toys for sweet over the years,but never once did I feel obliged to do it,so in answer to your question,no,he shouldn't if he doesn't want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Girls LOVE those fist shaped ones. The bigger the better. Trust me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think it's great if a man buys them as gifts

Shows he wants her to enjoy herself even if he's not there

Well I go away in 3 days for 4 month, got one gave it to her there she was shocked acting shy but deep down I think she likes it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do t see a problem with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My man bought me one

I didn't ask for it he just kinda thought it would be funny but he's used it on me and I've used it when he's not been here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do t see a problem with it."

I just thought I'd ask, cause it can be quite a personal / embarrassing for people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive purchased Mrs p4k many a toy/ dildo/wand pkus accesories outfits etc etc and i love researching the toys reviews etc.. love gifting her with filth, after 14years you kinda now what they like/dislike...

Then she blew me out of the water buy sending me a pic of a cucumber whilst shopping saying "guess what this is for"

MIND = BLOWN

turns out it was for cheese and cucumber sandwhiches, albeit the best sandwhich id ever eaten

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always bought them for my ex and never got any complaints.

Only complaint now is having a draw full but nobody to play with

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Think it's great if a man buys them as gifts

Shows he wants her to enjoy herself even if he's not there

Well I go away in 3 days for 4 month, got one gave it to her there she was shocked acting shy but deep down I think she likes it

Good man ! I always say the more times you cum the more you want to - she can build herself up until you get home

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By *assy but classyWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own!

"Girls LOVE those fist shaped ones. The bigger the better. Trust me

They do ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course they should

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think it's great if a man buys them as gifts

Shows he wants her to enjoy herself even if he's not there

I find it's best if she helps to choose. I once bought one that, in hindsight, was probably a bit on the large side and got one of those 'what are you trying to say' looks.

I find they're great fun for both parties and i absolutely love to watch a woman pleasuring herself with one.

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By *urlycatMan
over a year ago

Southampton

£18 wand. Sit back and watch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Girls LOVE those fist shaped ones. The bigger the better. Trust me

They do ? "

Tongue thoroughly wedged in cheek.

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By *assy but classyWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own!

"Girls LOVE those fist shaped ones. The bigger the better. Trust me

They do ?

Tongue thoroughly wedged in cheek. "

...... breathes a sigh of relief

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess with sites like Love Honey now and it’s so easy to buy online there’s no reason a lady can’t pick her own but isn’t it much more fun to choose toys together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to Ann Summers with an ex

Spent £120 on a fabulous vibrator for her.

She loved it.

She called it Robocock. In her opinion far better than the real thing..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But her a wand, the orgasms I have with a wand are amazing

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Im pretty certain most women have more than one nowadays. I mean I have about 5 and I'm not even a real woman

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By *ohnandLucyCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Yes buy one BUT maybe something to choose together... You don't want to buy the wrong one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always buy my own toys.

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We buy sex toys together. Can't go wrong that way.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Probably one slightly smaller than his cock is a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I but all wife's toys and lingerie

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By *mmaNandyCouple
over a year ago

wolvo

I didn't know what to get sam for Christmas as she got most things she could ask for, so brought her a rabbit from Anne summers, I let her have it early thou not exactly a present to put under the tree

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just a wee update.... she loved it

as you can see from my new pic.

thanks for the help x

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

The first night I spent with my new girlfriend (now wife) I saw her dildo and vibrator collection - she had several, and all truly enormous too. (I was fascinated by her double-ender!)

I have bought her several more, the last was a mains-powered LoveHoney vibrator, she used one at a party and liked it so I gave her one for her birthday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely!

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