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By *igersgobounce69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend

Ok, Whats is it with people,

People on here and other sites post things like please read my ad/profile fully before contacting me or why is that single guys can't read etc etc

But in truth there are so many "females" that put all the above that cant actually read, tick the correct boxes or fill out things correctly.

If you browse under females you will find a few of them saying things like, my partner/husband will be present and may hopfully be aloud to join in.

How does this make it a female ad/profile and not a couple ad. As if partner/husband present then they are not playing as a female.

Females also seem to add things like "update" im now with someone. So as this is a free site why not just create a new account as a couple and delete the old one or if they still want to keep there account as the relationship is new, just create a new couple account and on the single account you link the couple account and just change the content to not play as a single and delete the rest of the info. Unless of course you are still playing as a sinlge then have 2 accounts.

Ok rant over, what are your thoughts on this.

And knowning what some people are like, i apologise for the spelling, gramma, punctation and all the other stuff you can pick on lol im just trying to get a point of veiw across.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely right... Its crap, why put up with it, delete your account and move on pmsl....

Its all part of the system, not perfect but then nothing is eh...

Sift through it all... No one said sign here and get laid did they lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And this from the couples profile where the male also plays alone pmsl...

Why not remove that bit and put up a singles account too... Its free after all PMSL

Ohhhhhhhhhh dear lol....

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By *igersgobounce69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend

quite right, but we do have other accounts on here as well lol

But we are not pretending to be single and advertising as a single then adding that our partner will be there.

We are saying that we are a couple through and through but can and will play as singles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Truly see your point, honest... but its rare anyone gets anything perfect eh.

Like yourself.. we see those ads, click off and move on surely, so many better ones to see and maybe even reply to..

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By *igersgobounce69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend

Totally agree with closing the ad and moving on to the next one.

We have been in the scene for many years now and sometimes, you just feel that you need to voice an opinion. and today is one of those days lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree generally but what can you do?

Think the 'My husband will always be present' should mean they should have a couple profile, and I don't think anyone would blame you for reporting a profile like that and selecting 'wrong sex' as your reason....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone has the wrong profile type, either through mistake, splitting up, getting a partner then admin can change the account type for you.

This saves losing the friends list etc. I would say that most feedback would become irellevant though when this happens.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally agree with closing the ad and moving on to the next one.

We have been in the scene for many years now and sometimes, you just feel that you need to voice an opinion. and today is one of those days lol"

We all do it lol... Bless ya guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anyone has the wrong profile type, either through mistake, splitting up, getting a partner then admin can change the account type for you.

This saves losing the friends list etc. I would say that most feedback would become irellevant though when this happens.

Steve"

Couples contacting , then me declining , then a message coming back saying ....well how about me ( the bloke half of the couple ) on my own? are pretty commonplace. I'm starting to believe that there wasn't a couple in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you browse under females you will find a few of them saying things like, my partner/husband will be present and may hopfully be aloud to join in.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

made me laff must be a very noisy husband or partner very LOUD lol

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

where the lady says hubby may be present but not join in is very common with cpls that i see.

i just give him the camera or vidio cam lol

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Ok, Whats is it with people,

People on here and other sites post things like please read my ad/profile fully before contacting me or why is that single guys can't read etc etc

But in truth there are so many "females" that put all the above that cant actually read, tick the correct boxes or fill out things correctly.

If you browse under females you will find a few of them saying things like, my partner/husband will be present and may hopfully be aloud to join in.

How does this make it a female ad/profile and not a couple ad. As if partner/husband present then they are not playing as a female.

Females also seem to add things like "update" im now with someone. So as this is a free site why not just create a new account as a couple and delete the old one or if they still want to keep there account as the relationship is new, just create a new couple account and on the single account you link the couple account and just change the content to not play as a single and delete the rest of the info. Unless of course you are still playing as a sinlge then have 2 accounts.

Ok rant over, what are your thoughts on this.

And knowning what some people are like, i apologise for the spelling, gramma, punctation and all the other stuff you can pick on lol im just trying to get a point of veiw across."

I always wondered why some women join up as single when they obviously have a partner. I can understand why the women who are cheating on their partners would joing up as a single women but not the ones whose boyfriends or hubands are going to be partaking in the swinging.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"If anyone has the wrong profile type, either through mistake, splitting up, getting a partner then admin can change the account type for you.

This saves losing the friends list etc. I would say that most feedback would become irellevant though when this happens.

Steve

Couples contacting , then me declining , then a message coming back saying ....well how about me ( the bloke half of the couple ) on my own? are pretty commonplace. I'm starting to believe that there wasn't a couple in the first place. "

You think lol.

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By *igersgobounce69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"I always wondered why some women join up as single when they obviously have a partner. I can understand why the women who are cheating on their partners would joing up as a single women but not the ones whose boyfriends or hubands are going to be partaking in the swinging. "

To be honest we think that some couples do this so that people do actually contact them. Mr Tigs actually has an acount on this site with another female, yes it is under a FF couple status and they do get a lot of interest. But our couple account hardly ever gets any messages or anything. We also have a couple account but it is actually a MMF account and again we dont get any messages or anything through that one.

So to answer your question I think the woman/couples do it so that people do contact them....in the hope that they get lucky. But, still think it is wrong and a little dishonest.

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By *igersgobounce69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend

sorry that was meant to say Mrs Tigs has another account with another Fem not Mr Tigs lol....brain is working faster than my fingers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Mr Tigs actually has an acount on this site with another female, yes it is under a FF couple status and they do get a lot of interest. We also have a couple account but it is actually a MMF account and again we dont get any messages or anything through that one.

still think it is wrong and a little dishonest."

Well, you lost me with the Mr Tigs and the FF account... and then the dishonest bit ff's...

The Plot thickens lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry that was meant to say Mrs Tigs has another account with another Fem not Mr Tigs lol....brain is working faster than my fingers lol"

Well no one noticed....

Take it then Mr Tigs never gets involved then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree generally but what can you do?

Think the 'My husband will always be present' should mean they should have a couple profile, and I don't think anyone would blame you for reporting a profile like that and selecting 'wrong sex' as your reason...."

Dont really want to disagree but feel I must point out that the security aspect needs to be taken into account

The fem may well only swing alone but the hubby may well just be in the house and not always the bedroom

This does not in my humble opinion justify the need for a couple profile.

Back in the early days we swung alone quite a bit and sometimes i was in the house while Les and buddy were in the bedroom i didnt participate in any way xx

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By *igersgobounce69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend

when its the FF account it is just me and another fem (who incidently does have a single fem account cause that is what she is lol).

Any play will be done away from Mr Tigs and he has no involvement whatsoever. The only involvement he has is that I do show him anyone that I am interested in and say do you mind and he 9 times out of 10 say go for it babes He doesnt even come on the intial meet i.e drink at the pub, he knows we are safe casue ther are two of us and we and we know how to get ourselves out of any trouble if you know what I mean

I know we are confusing, but we are honest

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By *igersgobounce69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"

Dont really want to disagree but feel I must point out that the security aspect needs to be taken into account

The fem may well only swing alone but the hubby may well just be in the house and not always the bedroom

This does not in my humble opinion justify the need for a couple profile.

Back in the early days we swung alone quite a bit and sometimes i was in the house while Les and buddy were in the bedroom i didnt participate in any way xx "

to be honest you are right and yes we do know that it sometimes does happen that way. To be totally truthfully it happen to us when we were first on the scene there was a particular fem that wanted to play with Mrs Tigs and I stayed downstairs with the boyfriend watching a dvd (and no it was not porn lol)

But, its when the ad/profile say's partner/hasband will be present and hopefully be allowed to join in....that is the real one that bugs us....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And this from the couples profile where the male also plays alone pmsl...

Why not remove that bit and put up a singles account too... Its free after all PMSL

Ohhhhhhhhhh dear lol.... "

so its not just a rumour then pitbull. i got told yer often sitting in the corner playing alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And this from the couples profile where the male also plays alone pmsl...

Why not remove that bit and put up a singles account too... Its free after all PMSL

Ohhhhhhhhhh dear lol....

so its not just a rumour then pitbull. i got told yer often sitting in the corner playing alone"

If I had a singles account it would be the M&S of singles accounts lol....

What feckin rumour then???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a thread some time back about single women who advertised as such but were in fact a couple.

Most of the time its just a ruse to get more hits on there profile.

It borders on deception or misrepresentation and,if we remember correctly,at the time Admin advised that such profiles be reported.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anyone has the wrong profile type, either through mistake, splitting up, getting a partner then admin can change the account type for you.

This saves losing the friends list etc. I would say that most feedback would become irellevant though when this happens.

Steve

Couples contacting , then me declining , then a message coming back saying ....well how about me ( the bloke half of the couple ) on my own? are pretty commonplace. I'm starting to believe that there wasn't a couple in the first place.

You think lol. "

Look Tiggles.. I have a problem in that I tend to give the benefit of the doubt.. you calling me simples ?

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By *igersgobounce69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"And this from the couples profile where the male also plays alone pmsl...

Why not remove that bit and put up a singles account too... Its free after all PMSL

Ohhhhhhhhhh dear lol....

so its not just a rumour then pitbull. i got told yer often sitting in the corner playing alone

If I had a singles account it would be the M&S of singles accounts lol....

What feckin rumour then???

"

And as said then we are not being dishonest, we are not pretending to be a single then mentioning that a partner will be there.

We are saying we are a couple and that we both play on our own (partner is never there if playing on own), but you have only picked up on the male half when in fact it mentions both of us playing on our own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And this from the couples profile where the male also plays alone pmsl...

Why not remove that bit and put up a singles account too... Its free after all PMSL

Ohhhhhhhhhh dear lol....

so its not just a rumour then pitbull. i got told yer often sitting in the corner playing alone

If I had a singles account it would be the M&S of singles accounts lol....

What feckin rumour then???

And as said then we are not being dishonest, we are not pretending to be a single then mentioning that a partner will be there.

We are saying we are a couple and that we both play on our own (partner is never there if playing on own), but you have only picked up on the male half when in fact it mentions both of us playing on our own.

"

Nooo... you can do what you like, makes no odds eh, its just humour... ironic humour.. but still humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the husband is present, I ask him to hold my beer or go make me a sandwich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anyone has the wrong profile type, either through mistake, splitting up, getting a partner then admin can change the account type for you.

This saves losing the friends list etc. I would say that most feedback would become irellevant though when this happens.

Steve

Couples contacting , then me declining , then a message coming back saying ....well how about me ( the bloke half of the couple ) on my own? are pretty commonplace. I'm starting to believe that there wasn't a couple in the first place. "

haha granny. or wot about the couples contacting you, you decline then the woman half of the couple contacts you...well wot about me. the guy of the couple never existed in the first place lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, Whats is it with people,

People on here and other sites post things like please read my ad/profile fully before contacting me or why is that single guys can't read etc etc

But in truth there are so many "females" that put all the above that cant actually read, tick the correct boxes or fill out things correctly.

If you browse under females you will find a few of them saying things like, my partner/husband will be present and may hopfully be aloud to join in.

How does this make it a female ad/profile and not a couple ad. As if partner/husband present then they are not playing as a female.

Females also seem to add things like "update" im now with someone. So as this is a free site why not just create a new account as a couple and delete the old one or if they still want to keep there account as the relationship is new, just create a new couple account and on the single account you link the couple account and just change the content to not play as a single and delete the rest of the info. Unless of course you are still playing as a sinlge then have 2 accounts.

Ok rant over, what are your thoughts on this.

And knowning what some people are like, i apologise for the spelling, gramma, punctation and all the other stuff you can pick on lol im just trying to get a point of veiw across."

People who have incorrect profiles should be contacted by the admin. They should say excuse me you have a single female profile when it is obvious you are not. Please delete your profile and make a couple profile or your single female profile gets banned.

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