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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im dyslexic and every time I try and use chat I get a complete mental block and I never know what to say. Does anyone feel the same or am I just being really stupid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all

Maybe enter the chat rooms and just watch the conversation see how you feel.

If the confidence is there, post a message there's no pressure to chat all the time.

Never feel stupid x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep just view the cams ...i do sometimes ...forgot about the chatty bit to be fair

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to both of you and I will give it a go xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not dyslexic and have problems trying to chat on cam. So can understand what your going through. I ended up just watching

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Just view the cams. And you can always use the audio/mic to chat so no typing needed. I have spelling and grammar problems too but I don't let it worry me. Never 44 years old don't think I am going to change it.

Maybe Chat one to one to start with with a understanding person. And grow your confidence.

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

London/Suffolk

Is it that you struugle to write things in the chat room, or have problem's reading others messages?

If it's the former, you can go live with cam and sound and respond verbally over the mic. Those who want to talk will probably have your cam selected.

Should you be struggling to read what others are typing, then fear not. Everyone at some time struggles to keep across the conversation in a busy chat room. Use your every day strategies and try not to panic. People will expect you may take a while to answer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just view the cams. And you can always use the audio/mic to chat so no typing needed. I have spelling and grammar problems too but I don't let it worry me. Never 44 years old don't think I am going to change it.

Maybe Chat one to one to start with with a understanding person. And grow your confidence. "

I thought did find someone very understanding but in the end it just felt like he was using me to find other women witch I understand on fab coz everyone can see everyone else but he did it on 1 2 1 chat sites to witch just made me loss all confidence in my self

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"Just view the cams. And you can always use the audio/mic to chat so no typing needed. I have spelling and grammar problems too but I don't let it worry me. Never 44 years old don't think I am going to change it.

Maybe Chat one to one to start with with a understanding person. And grow your confidence. I thought did find someone very understanding but in the end it just felt like he was using me to find other women witch I understand on fab coz everyone can see everyone else but he did it on 1 2 1 chat sites to witch just made me loss all confidence in my self "

Dobt know what to say really. You can only take people at face value. Dont let one idiot put you off though.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"im dyslexic and every time I try and use chat I get a complete mental block and I never know what to say. Does anyone feel the same or am I just being really stupid

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Please don't feel stupid, the people worth knowing will understand. I certainly get blocks but I don't go in the chat rooms, only ever use any cam chat with people I know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just view the cams. And you can always use the audio/mic to chat so no typing needed. I have spelling and grammar problems too but I don't let it worry me. Never 44 years old don't think I am going to change it.

Maybe Chat one to one to start with with a understanding person. And grow your confidence. I thought did find someone very understanding but in the end it just felt like he was using me to find other women witch I understand on fab coz everyone can see everyone else but he did it on 1 2 1 chat sites to witch just made me loss all confidence in my self

Dobt know what to say really. You can only take people at face value. Dont let one idiot put you off though."

I know I shouldn't but I've been fucking the idiot in question on and of for four years and he was the one who told me about fab

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"Just view the cams. And you can always use the audio/mic to chat so no typing needed. I have spelling and grammar problems too but I don't let it worry me. Never 44 years old don't think I am going to change it.

Maybe Chat one to one to start with with a understanding person. And grow your confidence. I thought did find someone very understanding but in the end it just felt like he was using me to find other women witch I understand on fab coz everyone can see everyone else but he did it on 1 2 1 chat sites to witch just made me loss all confidence in my self

Dobt know what to say really. You can only take people at face value. Dont let one idiot put you off though. I know I shouldn't but I've been fucking the idiot in question on and of for four years and he was the one who told me about fab "

There's more to people than reading and writing. Personality looks, I would quite happily cam you you.

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