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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You really click with someone and wish to further your advances..

Or they make you go.."Meh"

Also pet hates in messages, ie lots of "lol" or short replies to a well versed message like "K"

Mr p4k

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say it's usually over a few days worth, maybe a week or so. It seems to have worked well for me so far, ed out a few fakes too.

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

once someone gets sexual with me before i'm ready i become meh and don't wanna talk to them any more.

most guys i'd say i click quite easily but the more they chat to me the more i'll get attached and wanna fuck them, especially if the convo is fast, flowing easily, and not sexual.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"once someone gets sexual with me before i'm ready i become meh and don't wanna talk to them any more.

most guys i'd say i click quite easily but the more they chat to me the more i'll get attached and wanna fuck them, especially if the convo is fast, flowing easily, and not sexual."

Agreed, despite being a "sex" site its nice to have a articulate flowing conversation prior to going forward, alluring is sexy desperate is not. X

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Sometimes it can be within a few messages, some people you just click with. Others grow on you over a longer period

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•


"once someone gets sexual with me before i'm ready i become meh and don't wanna talk to them any more.

most guys i'd say i click quite easily but the more they chat to me the more i'll get attached and wanna fuck them, especially if the convo is fast, flowing easily, and not sexual.

Agreed, despite being a "sex" site its nice to have a articulate flowing conversation prior to going forward, alluring is sexy desperate is not. X"

i definitely feel more sexy not being sexualised for some weird reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It definitely takes a few messages to confirm you're on the same wavelength. After that, it really depends on the situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 messages total...

1st to say hello

2nd to swap face pics

3rd to ask if they want to meet

4th to arrange meet

All this faffing around, people can tell you exactly what you want to read in messages, it's only when you meet that you get a real feel for them....

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It varies to be honest - and depends on the type of messages (ie Lengthy and detailed -vs- a series of one liners) either way I tend to find you can sense if a connection is there within the first handful of messages but would usually wait a week or so to see if that is sustained before suggesting meeting.

That said I have also met off just a handful of messages where there's been a level of comfort through both messages, profile detail and forum posts/observations.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Sometimes we can click on the first message if it's clear they've taken the time to understand our profile and have a genuine interest in us. Also important is that then can make us smile in the messages and have something worth saying.

If it feels really short and forced then probably not get along .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It definitely takes a few messages to confirm you're on the same wavelength. After that, it really depends on the situation"

This ^^^^^^^

I'm now very happy

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"4 messages total...

1st to say hello

2nd to swap face pics

3rd to ask if they want to meet

4th to arrange meet

All this faffing around, people can tell you exactly what you want to read in messages, it's only when you meet that you get a real feel for them...."

Absolutely spot on , except it's usually 3 as a face pic usually comes with the first msg

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