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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If your reading a post in the forums and you look at the profile (I do anyway) and it says no single men or BBW or similar, and that's what you are, do think, well i'm not replying if you don't think i'm worthy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well how you see yourself is up to you lol...

peoples preferences are their own business surely?? Would you shag anyone you didn't want to then?? Or do something just cause it may suit someone else lol.. doubt it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your reading a post in the forums and you look at the profile (I do anyway) and it says no single men or BBW or similar, and that's what you are, do think, well i'm not replying if you don't think i'm worthy?

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If you mean not replying in the forum, then no, I would still post, forums are open to everyone after all. If you mean replying privately, it's nice to say hello but I prob wouldn't if I wasn't what they're looking for, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going to say something like that... but can't see how posting replies in the forums has anything to do with meeting and playing lol. Says more about the OP than anyone elses preferences really

Theres no way in a million years we'd think we can meet and play with even a fraction..... Posts are just that, nothing more eh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If your reading a post in the forums and you look at the profile (I do anyway) and it says no single men or BBW or similar, and that's what you are, do think, well i'm not replying if you don't think i'm worthy?

If you mean not replying in the forum, then no, I would still post, forums are open to everyone after all. If you mean replying privately, it's nice to say hello but I prob wouldn't if I wasn't what they're looking for, no."

Yes, I mean in the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your reading a post in the forums and you look at the profile (I do anyway) and it says no single men or BBW or similar, and that's what you are, do think, well i'm not replying if you don't think i'm worthy?

If you mean not replying in the forum, then no, I would still post, forums are open to everyone after all. If you mean replying privately, it's nice to say hello but I prob wouldn't if I wasn't what they're looking for, no.

Yes, I mean in the forum."
As I say, hell yeah, post away! The forums are what they are because there are so many different people with different views. Would be a tad boring otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your reading a post in the forums and you look at the profile (I do anyway) and it says no single men or BBW or similar, and that's what you are, do think, well i'm not replying if you don't think i'm worthy?

If you mean not replying in the forum, then no, I would still post, forums are open to everyone after all. If you mean replying privately, it's nice to say hello but I prob wouldn't if I wasn't what they're looking for, no.

Yes, I mean in the forum."

PMSL.... How sad is that ff's....

You'll only reply if you think your in for a chance PMSL....

Ohhhhh Thats so feckin sad its almost unreal lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mind... I can say anything after your posts then and you can't relpy cause we don't want single men??? PMSL.... Ohhhh thats a normal way of thinking eh pmsl.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If your reading a post in the forums and you look at the profile (I do anyway) and it says no single men or BBW or similar, and that's what you are, do think, well i'm not replying if you don't think i'm worthy?

If you mean not replying in the forum, then no, I would still post, forums are open to everyone after all. If you mean replying privately, it's nice to say hello but I prob wouldn't if I wasn't what they're looking for, no.

Yes, I mean in the forum.

PMSL.... How sad is that ff's....

You'll only reply if you think your in for a chance PMSL....

Ohhhhh Thats so feckin sad its almost unreal lol.. "

It's not sad or unreal or even a ffs, as you notice I reply to yours.

Nothing to do with a in with a change as such, bit more like not helping those who don't want help off certain types.

Oh, do remember it's just a topic for chatting, not a law or rule change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhh So you do reply then.... Good lol.

Wondered if you would lol.. Surely though the forums are just like chatting down the pub, or club, takes all sorts and all kinds...

Its more a meeting place of minds surely..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your reading a post in the forums and you look at the profile (I do anyway) and it says no single men or BBW or similar, and that's what you are, do think, well i'm not replying if you don't think i'm worthy?

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No never, I reply to the post not the 'potential fuck'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your reading a post in the forums and you look at the profile (I do anyway) and it says no single men or BBW or similar, and that's what you are, do think, well i'm not replying if you don't think i'm worthy?

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when you say a post on the forum do you mean one such as this one you have posted or a post asking for a meet? if its one asking for a meet and they wasnt after what i was then no i wouldnt reply if its just a post just as one you have posted then yes i'd reply if the topic was interesting enough, i don't think people mind what you look like to just join in a conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have wondered this before, in the sense of is it worth flirting with someone/a couple who aren't after single guys when in the forums? As in just for fun?

In the real world people flirt with others they don't fancy so I guess it is acceptable... but I once put a yes in the yes/no/maybe thread to a couple not after single guys and got a very swift no... I was just being friendly and knew they wouldn't want to meet, so now I probably wouldn't bother!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ahhhh So you do reply then.... Good lol.

Wondered if you would lol.. Surely though the forums are just like chatting down the pub, or club, takes all sorts and all kinds...

Its more a meeting place of minds surely..

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Most would rather a meeting place of bodies

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"If your reading a post in the forums and you look at the profile (I do anyway) and it says no single men or BBW or similar, and that's what you are, do think, well i'm not replying if you don't think i'm worthy?

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Yes. I am a single male and have a brain. If I read a profile (I actually fully read the profile) and it says no single males or only males over 6 foot etc the I wouldn't bother contacting them. If you are not what they are looking for why bother contacting them? You will only annoy them and you won't get a meet.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I have wondered this before, in the sense of is it worth flirting with someone/a couple who aren't after single guys when in the forums? As in just for fun?

In the real world people flirt with others they don't fancy so I guess it is acceptable... but I once put a yes in the yes/no/maybe thread to a couple not after single guys and got a very swift no... I was just being friendly and knew they wouldn't want to meet, so now I probably wouldn't bother!"

I've always thought forum flirting was just banter bollox and is to be taken with a pinch of salt... ffs I'll even flirt with notty2 in the forums

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