FabSwingers.com forum: Reasons to instantly reject

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As a couple, any message we get completely ignoring the fact we're a couple and assume its mrs reading the message, we ignore and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will only meet couples and single women.Not single men. It states so on my profile.. right at the top.

I have not blocked messages from single men, suppose didn't out of curiousity as to how many message me.. just my wry sense of humour.

But all messages from single men get deleted without being read..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact all your public pics are of her except for his cock in one won't help.

If you want people to address you both, then show pics of you both.

And when couples ever message me, they never say who is actually messaging me.

It works both ways.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have a couples profile, no matter what we show it should be clear theres two of us, if not sure then ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple, any message we get completely ignoring the fact we're a couple and assume its mrs reading the message, we ignore and move on"

This exactly.

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By *ornysxguyMan
over a year ago

Maldon, Essex

You profile is written with a portrait that it's the female that wants to play, an you to watch. From reading it, I would presume that although you are a couple, it's the females attention that is saut.

In the middle of your profile you state that your now looking for couples, it's hidden, an as a previous poster put, you have 1 pic of the male, which is unlikely to entice more couples to you.

Happy Tuesday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone unverified asking for face pics straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they haven’t read my profile it’s a delete, I don’t even read it

Same with friend requests without asking first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fact all your public pics are of her except for his cock in one won't help.

If you want people to address you both, then show pics of you both.

And when couples ever message me, they never say who is actually messaging me.

It works both ways."

They have a couples profile, what they choose to show in there pictures should make no difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they haven’t read my profile it’s a delete, I don’t even read it

Same with friend requests without asking first "

Friends requests with no previous messages is a definite bin!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple, any message we get completely ignoring the fact we're a couple and assume its mrs reading the message, we ignore and move on"
we are the same x anyone that mentions bare play we move on from too x

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"The fact all your public pics are of her except for his cock in one won't help.

If you want people to address you both, then show pics of you both.

And when couples ever message me, they never say who is actually messaging me.

It works both ways."

Well said my dear.

. I very rarely message couples first mind you. They message me and state who's talking. If they don't then they can't say s@#t if i assume or they would've said from the start.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

I never reject as in don't read. But won't meet men,tv,t's etc. Unless it's my mate and we're going out to a club

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"As a couple, any message we get completely ignoring the fact we're a couple and assume its mrs reading the message, we ignore and move on"

Same for us. Jack.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"The fact all your public pics are of her except for his cock in one won't help.

If you want people to address you both, then show pics of you both.

And when couples ever message me, they never say who is actually messaging me.

It works both ways."

Also correct.

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By *witch4Fun24Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

Any mention of bareback, playing behind the Mrs' back, heavy cumming or squirters, really hairy men or really overweight ones. I am big and never deny that but I don't find my body shape attractive on others for some reason.

Anyone who says they are only available for day time meets.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Fact of the matter is no matter how painstakingly detailed a profile may be for the type of person you are looking for there will always be the ones that message thinking that they can change your mind !

And regarding messaging just the female half - they see a hot pic of her in updates or hot pics and send a message ... probably not even looked to see if you are a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it's clearly a guy pretending to be a woman or couple.... zzzzz

Instant block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where do I start.

Hi messages with nothing else.

Blank face messages with no face pic attached

Fancy a fuck

The list goes on ........

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

Single guys that look at the profile 40 times a day.

Non-verified everybody's

People that have not met in the last year

Rude people

Smokers

Anyone making a friend request as first contact

Bi-sexual men in couples

Anyone over 100 miles away.

Other than that we are a friendly pair xx

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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

How are you?

Questions that are already answered in the profile.

No public pics and none sent with message.

Any obvious fake.

Anyone who makes a bit of an effort will get a reply, even if it's a no thanks.

Anyone who reads the profile will know who they're messaging.

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

No public pics

Silhouettes profile

Been on a year and no verification's

Been on a year and profile is one line

Couples profiles with just the guy playing at the moment

If you make an effort on your message we will reply. If you read our profile and dont know where we live then that good either. We both reply to messages so we make sure you know who is talking

D&K

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

When it's blatantly obvious they haven't even bothered to read our profile before messaging us. Instant block. We also do the same for friend requests when we've never spoken to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they haven’t read my profile it’s a delete, I don’t even read it

Same with friend requests without asking first "

Exactly. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many couples profiles pretend to be the female reading and doing all the chatting.I was talking to what I was told the female of the couple for days.

Then I messaged to see if she was ok only to get a reply saying this is the female half of the couple could you please stop chatting to my husband and sorry if he's lied to you.she then instantly blocked me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fact all your public pics are of her except for his cock in one won't help.

If you want people to address you both, then show pics of you both.

And when couples ever message me, they never say who is actually messaging me.

It works both ways."

I couldn’t agree more. There is nothing worse than seeing a couple process to be in a position that is about them both and then see nothing of the Male half. It leads people to assume it is the lady running the show. Personally as a bi guy I WANT to see both Male and Female of couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are "fancy a discreet bj nothing in return" from men, I just delete.

I've not set message filters because sometimes you do get that fruitful message inviting you to a party, group session or threeway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple, any message we get completely ignoring the fact we're a couple and assume its mrs reading the message, we ignore and move on"

Ditto and when they're looking for mm couples and your a mf couple, also when they've been on over a year and have no avatar or pics/verifications we just block now.

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By *utecontradictionMan
over a year ago

Malvern

I have a single man's proline....reject someone....don't be silly....I'd never get to talk to anyone if I did that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only allow single men to message me so can't comment about anyone else.

If they don't accommodate.

If they have nothing on their profile.

If they are too far away.

If their face pic doesn't appeal.

If something they have written on their profile puts me off.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"If they haven’t read my profile it’s a delete, I don’t even read it

Same with friend requests without asking first "

If you dont read the message how do you know if they have read your profile or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block if there's no photos, also one line profiles. XXX

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

"If they haven’t read my profile it’s a delete, I don’t even read it

Same with friend requests without asking first

If you dont read the message how do you know if they have read your profile or not?"

Women's prerogative and intuition

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

Blocked one yesterday , just going on thier user name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple, any message we get completely ignoring the fact we're a couple and assume its mrs reading the message, we ignore and move on"

I delete if its obvious the person hasn't read my profile!(Ladies are just as guilty of this as men!)

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"If they haven’t read my profile it’s a delete, I don’t even read it

Same with friend requests without asking first

If you dont read the message how do you know if they have read your profile or not?

Women's prerogative and intuition

Something like that haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We recently added a few rules to who we will and won't engage in a conversation with now. We don't bother with any of the follow

Address Us as "You", as mentioned earlier.

Totally unverified, or has only really old and/private veri's.

Too many dick pics, or no pics.

Admits openly to cheating on their partner.

Starts out as a couple but then switches to the "do you meet alone" tactic.

Empty profile, or something that has no effort or care put into it.

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