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Classed as cheating or not?? what's your opinions

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just curious.... I've noticed some lovely female,ladies etc wanting to stay discreet as they have a partner an dont want them finding out that's understandable but how comes when if a guy wants to stay discreet as he has a partner his an automatic cheat and every name under the sun whats so different for the ladies then it is for the guys ??

Just looking for your opinions peeps.... happy fabbing

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

It's no different at all

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

If the other person doesn't know at all, and believes they are in a monogamous relationship, then its cheating.

If the other person knows, and is consenting to their partner playing with others, but is happy not to know specific details. Its not cheating.

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

probably because everything about women has been sexualised, and that includes what we'd usually consider poor traits in a human.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's no different at all "

Thank you for replying see that's what I thought but others I've spoke to say different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is different but personally I wouldn't get involved with anyone who was in a relationship unless I know there partner knows. If I suspect they're cheating I ask them. Again, everyone has different views but my opinion (and only my opinion) is that cheating goes against everything that swinging stands for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's no different at all

Thank you for replying see that's what I thought but others I've spoke to say different."

In what way do they say it's different?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is different but personally I wouldn't get involved with anyone who was in a relationship unless I know there partner knows. If I suspect they're cheating I ask them. Again, everyone has different views but my opinion (and only my opinion) is that cheating goes against everything that swinging stands for."

It's just sex at the end of the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is different but personally I wouldn't get involved with anyone who was in a relationship unless I know there partner knows. If I suspect they're cheating I ask them. Again, everyone has different views but my opinion (and only my opinion) is that cheating goes against everything that swinging stands for.

It's just sex at the end of the day "

Indeed. It's just a principle of mine that's all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone is different but personally I wouldn't get involved with anyone who was in a relationship unless I know there partner knows. If I suspect they're cheating I ask them. Again, everyone has different views but my opinion (and only my opinion) is that cheating goes against everything that swinging stands for.

It's just sex at the end of the day "

Exactly that they say it's just sex but what they won't no don't hurt.... but I say don't be in a relationship if that's how you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious.... I've noticed some lovely female,ladies etc wanting to stay discreet as they have a partner an dont want them finding out that's understandable but how comes when if a guy wants to stay discreet as he has a partner his an automatic cheat and every name under the sun whats so different for the ladies then it is for the guys ??

Just looking for your opinions peeps.... happy fabbing "

No different in any way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is different but personally I wouldn't get involved with anyone who was in a relationship unless I know there partner knows. If I suspect they're cheating I ask them. Again, everyone has different views but my opinion (and only my opinion) is that cheating goes against everything that swinging stands for.

It's just sex at the end of the day

Exactly that they say it's just sex but what they won't no don't hurt.... but I say don't be in a relationship if that's how you think"

It's just sex whether it's the man or woman involved. Men are more likely to meet married women having sex behind their husband's back than the other way round I think.

A relationship is more than just sex.

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