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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you think in future relationships you will need a fab swinging relationship, someone with the same kinky mind, or you think you will keep your fab life in the past?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think in future relationships you will need a fab swinging relationship, someone with the same kinky mind, or you think you will keep your fab life in the past? "

I've thought about this for a while. I met a lady from Fab and we started dating. She didn't want to carry on with a Fab lifestyle. This didn't work for me, not now.

I'd have to be with someone where we would enjoy the fruits of the swinging lifestyle now.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

It would depend entirely on the relationship. I love the swinging lifestyle but I could live without it if I was with the right person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the swinging lifestyle with my wife and as things stand, any future partner would have to be part of this. I tried the 'vanilla' dating sites, I've had colleagues and family 'set me up' etc but I've always come back to this because frankly I enjoy it.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham


"It would depend entirely on the relationship. I love the swinging lifestyle but I could live without it if I was with the right person. "

Same here, however they would have to accept my dressing as this I can never give up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think in future relationships you will need a fab swinging relationship, someone with the same kinky mind, or you think you will keep your fab life in the past? "

Yes!

I've had the vanilla marriage and I've the swinging one now.

We don't always partake in this lifestyle because work and kids take up most of it but we know it we've a free weekend we can go to a club or arrange a meet. I like the variety. Will we do it forever? Who knows but right now it feels right.

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

I left swinging for a vanilla relationship that lasted 2 years and didn't miss swinging as I adored the lady. Was gutted when it ended too. I've also been in a swinging relationship and much prefer swinging as a couple and do miss that.

I think the point I've reached now is that I'd be happiest committing to a relationship that involved swinging together.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I'd possibly see how it went and if we both wanted to continue then we would but maybe with a select few rather than select from the whole candy store.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I could ever be monogamous again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had both and now am single by choice. When I decide I want a relationship it will only be with someone who's a happy swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm impressed normally threads like this highlight hypocritical people who want to fuck someone's partner but wouldn't want anyone fucking theirs.

I met my wife through the life style and am happy carrying on, that being said it's been over a year since our last meeting/visit to club I miss it and I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on dating sites again now, and it does bother me...there a lot of negative connotations about sexually adventurous women in society (still!! ) nowadays. I *could* have a monogamous relationship, but the ideal would be one where we swung together. For one thing I'd miss women too much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would completely depend on the person. I'm sure everything would be up for negotiation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think in future relationships you will need a fab swinging relationship, someone with the same kinky mind, or you think you will keep your fab life in the past? "

I think that's the ideal, but I'm willing to negotiate

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By *adein68Man
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Do you think in future relationships you will need a fab swinging relationship, someone with the same kinky mind, or you think you will keep your fab life in the past? "

It would have to be open, both bisexual and highly sexual. Have done monogamous & stale twice, never again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need sex with multiple people. If I was in a relationship, and we had a good sex life with intimacy and passion, that would be enough for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't need sex with multiple people. If I was in a relationship, and we had a good sex life with intimacy and passion, that would be enough for me. "

I think I get what you mean. I guess the same but not such vanilla choices

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

i definitely need a kinky relationship, but not with multiple people no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love a kinky relationship where we could do this but if not as long as we're fucking loads I wouldn't mind not swinging. But that would mean sex 3-4 times a week.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

I could live without Fab for the right person. (but can I pop back for the forums?)

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

My bf and I met on fab, been together 4 weeks. This is something we still want to do though

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I'd rather stay single than be monogamous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think I could keep it in past as most guys on pof/tinder recognise me.....seem most are all on same sites.

Definitely would like to meet someone who enjoys the scene

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I don't for sure because there's no man atm.

Though I currently believe I wouldn't want monogamy again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on dating sites again now, and it does bother me...there a lot of negative connotations about sexually adventurous women in society (still!! ) nowadays. I *could* have a monogamous relationship, but the ideal would be one where we swung together. For one thing I'd miss women too much!"

I tried Bumble recently. It just didn't work for me!

It's quite an insane thought about the connotations linked to women be sexually adventurous and open. I have a close female friend at work who I've shared my previous Fab and club experiences with. She thinks it's wild and would love be to apart from her perceived barrier that she's not allowed because of how 'society' and her friends would see her. I think it's a load of piffle.

It's so stifling and simply stupid in my personal opinion.

And it's frustrating for me as her friend. I know she would love a club experience. She would find her niche, her likes etc. And allow her to discover what really turn her on.

I could go on...

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex

It's great to meet your partner in crime when you are both swingers - completely open with your likes , kinks and can do it all together

As well as all the normal memories think when you are really old some of the real naughty ones you can look back on too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want someone with the same tastes as I have. I was married for 20 years and my ex was a prude. No, you have to be true to yourself and find someone who compliments you

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Very good question and one i've never really thought of....I started dipping my toes on and off in this scene after my separation. Was always very curious but my partner at the time wasn't. I suppose it really depends on the person you'll meet. If a future partner is keen on swinging that would be fantastic. However, i've seen and read that it takes a special amount of maturity, honesty and humility to make that work. Swing couples please correct me if i'm wrong!

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Do you think in future relationships you will need a fab swinging relationship, someone with the same kinky mind, or you think you will keep your fab life in the past? "

I don't think i could be with someone who didn't want to be in a swinging relationship but i wouldn't do it as much as now but every now again would be okay of she could deal with it. But i've had vanilla relationships and stepped back from fab fully. And no offence to the lady bcz she was hot but i missed the thrill of going to a club or the anticipation of meeting someone etc.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"Do you think in future relationships you will need a fab swinging relationship, someone with the same kinky mind, or you think you will keep your fab life in the past?

I don't think i could be with someone who didn't want to be in a swinging relationship but i wouldn't do it as much as now but every now again would be okay of she could deal with it. But i've had vanilla relationships and stepped back from fab fully. And no offence to the lady bcz she was hot but i missed the thrill of going to a club or the anticipation of meeting someone etc. "

Same here. I wouldn't want to have a relationship based solely around swinging, but going to a club every couple of months or just knowing that we were both open to that in the future is something I would like. Don't know how I would feel about a "vanilla" relationship, I think more for the fact someone would be put off if I told them my past!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok but say the other half never showed any signs of kinkieness would you confess you where a swinger in the past....

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale


"Ok but say the other half never showed any signs of kinkieness would you confess you where a swinger in the past...."

No need to rub there face in your past but you must be honest about yourself

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton


"Ok but say the other half never showed any signs of kinkieness would you confess you where a swinger in the past...."

Occasionally I'll go on a vanilla date but I'll always mention my lifestyle early on both to be honest and to gauge their reaction.

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

Given where my journey has taken me I tbink it likely that any future life partner is going to also have experienced this lifestyle or aspects of it. What happens after that is a joint decision happily accepted.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Do you think in future relationships you will need a fab swinging relationship, someone with the same kinky mind, or you think you will keep your fab life in the past? "

I think it has to be about the relationship. Stepping away from swinging wouldn't necessarily mean turning vanilla .

It's about finding the partner where each others needs are met and you're both satisfied.

That could be just with each other or could involve more.

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