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By *inger and nice OP   Couple
over a year ago

southport

hey gguys and gals anyone had a problem where loads of people add you talk for 1 day then never speak again but allways looking at your proifle .. we are finding this site hard to get basic meets ...we are a couple byw or is that the problem who knows ...

but just seams like maybe 10 percent if that are honist swingers

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By *.1079Man
over a year ago

caistor

I have a couple of people who look at me every day but will not talk

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm looked at constantly which is so tiring for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm looked at constantly which is so tiring for me. "
Ive looked at you and you've looked at me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think a lot of people look and read your profile! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hey gguys and gals anyone had a problem where loads of people add you talk for 1 day then never speak again but allways looking at your proifle .. we are finding this site hard to get basic meets ...we are a couple byw or is that the problem who knows ...

but just seams like maybe 10 percent if that are honist swingers "

veris and pics might help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People view me, Fab me, view me next day, but never message.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

most of them are fake so use more attractive pictures to get people to speak with them, then when you hint on a meet they disappear as they obviously cannot meet as it's not them. Just count your lucky stars as they would've been trolls if you met them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just like to perv lol

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By *inger and nice OP   Couple
over a year ago

southport

to the responce veris and pics well we have pics and how do you get verified without meets ..... and good to see aint only us xx

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"People view me, Fab me, view me next day, but never message. "

Think people wonder where your nice outfits are purchased...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats an honest swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People view me, Fab me, view me next day, but never message.

Think people wonder where your nice outfits are purchased... "
You are one of them.

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By *inger and nice OP   Couple
over a year ago

southport

we would say a honist swinger on for fun dont wanna upset anyone and here for nsa fun ..not to message about meets and like someone allready said as soon as you hint on a meet bye bye they go lmao just a bit deflating at times for both males and females i see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do and I end up blocking them. They have wasted my time engaging me in conversation just to wank at my pics. Only adding people I've every intention of meeting now.

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By *inger and nice OP   Couple
over a year ago

southport

thats the way we have done it today removed everyone in our freinds list and not adding anyone until we have met them think its the best way to stop getting messed about really ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thats the way we have done it today removed everyone in our freinds list and not adding anyone until we have met them think its the best way to stop getting messed about really ... "

Best way to do it I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hey gguys and gals anyone had a problem where loads of people add you talk for 1 day then never speak again but allways looking at your proifle .. we are finding this site hard to get basic meets ...we are a couple byw or is that the problem who knows ...

but just seams like maybe 10 percent

if that are honist swingers "

Lots of looks from the same people . Having had a profile stalker recently, I just block now. Seems to be young guys so I'm glad my filters work.

I've spoken to a couple of timewasters who are either after wank fodder not a meet or are just talk . Answer - block.

I think ghosting and breadcrumbing are the same here as dating sites.

Sorry to hear about the problem though. Think we are all dealing with the same in varying degrees.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many people play a game of cat and mouse on here and start chatting then both parties wait for the other to ask outright to meet up, best solution, just ask people outright if they want to meet, any hesitation, bit busy at the moment excuses, just forget and move on, if they do truly mess you about just block, voila they can't view you anymore....

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By *inger and nice OP   Couple
over a year ago

southport

Woow we should of ocme on forums along time ago seams like a few people with sense on here and makes us feel better now knowing it really isnt just us facing this problem and yup ..we did go on the meets page and publish on there but still ended up with p takers lol ..think it will be a learning game for us xxxx thanks all for help and responces

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

We stopped doing do the 'friends' thing years ago. It's just an excuse for people to try to see private pics in most cases I think. We don't have the facility to check who's looked at our profile but if we did and were bothered about certain people looking at it we'd just block them, that's the simple answer to the problem isn't it?

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By *ornyforfmCouple
over a year ago

somewhere

I spent most of Friday night chatting with a woman who just joined. She was happy with the oucs I sent her of me and my gf. Went I to very specific detail what would happen if we met her and then yesterday BOOM...... cold shoulder and not a word since but yet keeps checking the profile out. Not the first time this has happened. Confused.com

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"hey gguys and gals anyone had a problem where loads of people add you talk for 1 day then never speak again but allways looking at your proifle .. we are finding this site hard to get basic meets ...we are a couple byw or is that the problem who knows ...

but just seams like maybe 10 percent if that are honist swingers "

All the time.. we find it hard to get couples to meet .. Chams is our best option x Storm x

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Loads of people look at us but never speak. Maybe they were checking us out and didn't like what they see, maybe when they look and realise they are mileages away from us, maybe they are fakes or just like to perv our photos, whats it matter.

We post our photos for all to enjoy, we would rather spend time talking and arranging to meet those who do talk to us.

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By *ambon2015Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Haha, this site reading everyone's comments on this thread everything has happened to us it's so frustrating it's beyond belief at times. Wished the time wasters would do one & leave the real genuine people alone to arrange meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad this thread was made. Thought i was going loopy. Lol agree with many of the comments

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