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By *innamon! OP   Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Wonder why they sing the persons praises about how wonderful they are .. why then do they want to send them on to someone else if they so great.. and why do they never meet again If they good at it and tick all the boxes . just a thought ..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well its a swinging site, so if i give someone a good verification its because i would like to boost their chances of meeting others.

How do you know they dont meet again, i dont get or give verifications everytime i see a guy, sometimes i give/get more than one from the same person but thats usually over a period of time not everytime i meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mainly for proof of meet. I just mail them and ask if i'm curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *innamon! OP   Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Ah yes i see .. never thought of it that way. thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

swinging in my book is all about sharing so i would never consider the notion of wanting to keep a good meet all to ourselves i love the idea that others would get enjoyment from meeting that person too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wonder why they sing the persons praises about how wonderful they are .. why then do they want to send them on to someone else if they so great.. and why do they never meet again If they good at it and tick all the boxes . just a thought .."

aint that called dating???

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Wonder why they sing the persons praises about how wonderful they are .. why then do they want to send them on to someone else if they so great.. and why do they never meet again If they good at it and tick all the boxes . just a thought .."

some people just like one offs..... its the "stranger sex" element that does it for them

some people hope that it helps the person to get other meets....

ooooh.. there could be countless reasons...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wonder why they sing the persons praises about how wonderful they are .. why then do they want to send them on to someone else if they so great.. and why do they never meet again If they good at it and tick all the boxes . just a thought ..

aint that called dating???"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as someone said it helps others in their quest of meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit as a single female I do prefer men who have been verified by others as it makes me feel safer. And if they sing their praises, well that's even better I think some guys have a tough time trying to get meets so I am happy to verify the ones I have met and enjoyed. The ones I have and didn't have the best of times I stay silent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wonder why they sing the persons praises about how wonderful they are .. why then do they want to send them on to someone else if they so great.. and why do they never meet again If they good at it and tick all the boxes . just a thought .."

how do you know they never meet again?

not everyone verifies someone after every time they meet someone

To Me verifications are to show someones genuone, one verifications does that i personally never verify anyone more than once, i see no point

And im sure im not the only one who feels like that

As for sending them onto someone else?!!!

Its a swinging site, we not sending anyone anywhere!

if i meet someone and have a gerat time its got bugger all to do with me who else they meet and i can not stop them meeting others

if you meet someone and have a great time what you doing to do tie him to your bed because you want to keep him?

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By *innamon! OP   Woman
over a year ago

no matter

thanks..

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I prefer one off meets so happy to share.

If I get a really good un, I'll meet them again, but I won't stop them from meeting others.

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow

I lost track...

when I read about getting tied to someone's bed!

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

We dont do a veri every time we meet the same couple or person, so how do you know they never met again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive been meeting with the same guy regular since october, 1 week i saw him 3 times, in all this time hes done 3 verifications for me.... sometimes you can run out of things to say about someone, lol, also i think if he had verified me everytime i wouldnt display them all.... so whos to say people just dont display them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its more interesting to meet different types of people, not see the same ones too often. Also i have a good idea what a person is like by the verifications they leave for other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Question from my simple mind - can a verification with a negative nature be displayed on your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question from my simple mind - can a verification with a negative nature be displayed on your profile?"

It's entirely up to the recipient to post them on their profile.

Kind of defeats the purpose to an extent as they could only show the good ones and hide the bad. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question from my simple mind - can a verification with a negative nature be displayed on your profile?

It's entirely up to the recipient to post them on their profile.

Kind of defeats the purpose to an extent as they could only show the good ones and hide the bad. xx"

Well that was my thinking - slight flaw maybe unlike say Ebay where your positive and negative feedback is shown?

I'll not let it keep me awake at night though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question from my simple mind - can a verification with a negative nature be displayed on your profile?

It's entirely up to the recipient to post them on their profile.

Kind of defeats the purpose to an extent as they could only show the good ones and hide the bad. xx

Well that was my thinking - slight flaw maybe unlike say Ebay where your positive and negative feedback is shown?

I'll not let it keep me awake at night though "

Ultimately you read all with a pinch of salt and base it on your own judgement not the veris. xx

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish


"Wonder why they sing the persons praises about how wonderful they are .. why then do they want to send them on to someone else if they so great.. and why do they never meet again If they good at it and tick all the boxes . just a thought ..

how do you know they never meet again?

not everyone verifies someone after every time they meet someone

To Me verifications are to show someones genuone, one verifications does that i personally never verify anyone more than once, i see no point

And im sure im not the only one who feels like that

As for sending them onto someone else?!!!

Its a swinging site, we not sending anyone anywhere!

if i meet someone and have a gerat time its got bugger all to do with me who else they meet and i can not stop them meeting others

if you meet someone and have a great time what you doing to do tie him to your bed because you want to keep him?

"

exactly what I would have wrote..lol...thank you for saving me from all the typing...I have upset a few guys when they asked for a second verification and I explained that I do not do more than one,even if I have met them countless times,as I see them as a means of saying yes,he is who he says he is and a nice guy...

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow


"...I have upset a few guys when they asked for a second verification and I explained that I do not do more than one,even if I have met them countless times,as I see them as a means of saying yes,he is who he says he is and a nice guy..."

Agree. Can't see the point of multiple verifications from the same person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have hidden mine from Day 1. If peeps are interested in meeting up, then they have to talk to me to find out what I am like for themselves.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We meet some couples/singles on a regular basis and have done for a few years in some cases.

But we don't validate them after every meet, so how do you know that people haven't met again?

On occasions we may update one but that's usually only if we have know them over a long period of time.

As for sending them on to others, we have no hold over anyone (nor do we want to) same as they don't over us.

Everyone is here to meet who they want to, when they want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive had a couple of meets do more than one veri but i only display the latest one. i like the system helps to identify timewasters easier i think although its not fool proof.

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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago

southampton

If you verify someone, you're telling others that they are gen and vice versa. It certainly helps guys in particular to find other meets I feel. There's no way I'd try to prevent anyone from seeing someone else! What's the point of that - we're swingers! All for one and one for all! I agree with the comments about multiple verifications from the same person - no point! It just looks like your boasting in the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wonder why they sing the persons praises about how wonderful they are .. why then do they want to send them on to someone else if they so great.. and why do they never meet again If they good at it and tick all the boxes . just a thought .."

Because this is swinging and not matchdotcom...?

We lay no claim to any of the people we meet-they're free agents and while we like to make friends, we're not looking for an LTR...

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