FabSwingers.com forum: First Meet Sex

By *akedmassage OP Couple
over a year ago

Southampton

Who likes to fuck on first meet and why? and would you like to fuck my mrs.

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By *riseeTV/TS
over a year ago

MacKay

As long as a person is kind, respectful, clean and flirty, I'll always flirt and engage on a first meet!

I have found on rare occasions couples or singles present a body language that is more a shield. Usually inexperienced people who are very uncertain what it is they are looking for, want or think they want. Most rarely 'last' long in the community and many if a couple, split up shortly after.

We are here for a purpose, to enjoy experiences with new people who we will either teach something to or learn something from. Sometimes it's because a partner (like my ex) didn't want to do certain things I enjoyed, and vice a versa, so we found couples or singles who fulfilled that need and have a great time extending our sexual experiences.

We don't need to 'date' and 'court' to get into each others knickers! We're here for that express purpose. So I recommend tossing away the nerves, convert them into excited anticipation, and let yourself embrace the experience rather than find excuses not to.

And stop looking for clones of your partner of 'better models' - enjoy a person for their sexuality, not whether they are Page 3 material. Sex is about personality not looks.

I do find men who turn up in jeans, trainers and a t-shirt offensive though, so guys if you want something genuine to happen, make an effort. Women always seem to make an effort, although I've met one or two that don't.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

1. yes if we click 99% of the time this happens

2. Err we are swingers

3. No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i will play on a first meet if we get on

i cant see the point in meeting socially, liking each other and going home only to arrange a meet on another day

if you like each other get on with it lol

oh and no ta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes if we all get on...and feeling a little horny...

and yes i would with your other half..

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By *rica77Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

Yes if you like the guy and you are able to go somewhere...isn't that why we are on a site like this. It's not for holding hands...

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By *e gentle with usCouple
over a year ago

luton

First date fucks are best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the right person, then yes, why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errr Yeah and No.

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By *eetle201Couple
over a year ago

dunfermline

yes we fuck on first meets if -

1. We are getting on with the other people and having a laugh.

2.We are all relaxed.

3.So what the fuck go for it and have fun

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Who likes to fuck on first meet and why? and would you like to fuck my mrs.

is she bi ?

It depends on what we have arranged, mmf normally we fuck, we dont date meets,some couples we fuck cos thats whats agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First plays are a bit flat, as all try to be normal, unless full frank chats before hand on what people want to happen.

Couple, she wanted to have her clit licked as her partner was fucking her.

Couple, wanted my cock insider from the back, whilst she kissed her partner

Woman, wanted to be called dirty names when being fucked on all fours...

Other wise it's all a bit normal until we relax and try things...

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

First meet fuck can be great.

Bring it on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i will play on a first meet if we get on

i cant see the point in meeting socially, liking each other and going home only to arrange a meet on another day

if you like each other get on with it lol

oh and no ta

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Love your thinking mate but ditto on the mrs

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Sometimes we will and other times we won't.

Depends on how time we have, how we get on etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most of the time yes i do thats what its all about. i hv metsome guys who were so nervous it wasnt going to happen. i guess women and couples can be the same. i think i may be a little forward at times on first met

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

If I / We arrange to meet a person then we will already have done our homework, have seen the person(s) face, either pics or cam, have spoken on the phone and discussed what we all like and not.

So yes, definately and most often we play on the first meet. The simple reason is that we don't have time to do the social, see if we get on, and then arrange another time to play.

Jane & Tarzan x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally do like to play on the first meet, as its ultimately what we are hear for.

Though if my meet was nothing like i expected them to be and there is no clcik then i wouldnt

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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago

southampton

In most cases I can tell if I want to meet a guy within just a few messages and then I cut to the chase and arrange to meet them. If the messages have included sex talk then I certainly expect sex on the first meet. If they haven't, then I'm happy to meet for a chat and a drink, then arrange another meet from there. Depends on the build up to the meet I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to.. but found that its better to meet socially first...

plus I dont want to invite someone into my house till I have met them first.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to meet peeps who like to fuck on the first meet. If there is any strange feeling though it does not happen.

I think you should tell us why we would like to fuck your Mrs. How would we know?

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

so whats so wrong with sex on the first meet is this not a nsa site ,not a dating site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so whats so wrong with sex on the first meet is this not a nsa site ,not a dating site

Nothing if it works for people... But as we don't play till after 9:30 in the evenings... We don't want to have someone drive to our house and then find at that time there is no chemistry.. also as we only meet for one hour.. possibly two for a regular... It is best for us to do social one day or evening, in a public place... Then if we like them in person we set up a play meet...

I'm not into giving just anyone my home address.

Cali x

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By *ne-just4funMan
over a year ago

Southampton

"Who likes to fuck on first meet and why? and would you like to fuck my mrs.

I do.

Because life's too short.

I already have, and jolly nice it was too

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