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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mrs mids- how do we make us more desirable to ladies? Please guide us. Got a club night planned, managed an impromptu mff off the sight.......now stuck on the site. I appreciate we are really outnumbering you beautiful single ladies so how can we stand out? Thanks in advance.

Em xxxx

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

You're a couple so you have the advantage of having a female half, so have the lady sit and think what she would like to see from a couples profile, if she was here are a single female herself and you probably won't go far wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cake sale?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Cake sale? "

I make cakes

Suggesting I have a sale is just making more work for me

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"Mrs mids- how do we make us more desirable to ladies? Please guide us. Got a club night planned, managed an impromptu mff off the sight.......now stuck on the site. I appreciate we are really outnumbering you beautiful single ladies so how can we stand out? Thanks in advance.

Em xxxx"

You are a gorgeous woman mrs mids I'm sure you'll get what you desire soon enough hope you get exactly what you are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a really good profile... I can't see why you'll struggle. Just keep trying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cake sale?

I make cakes

Suggesting I have a sale is just making more work for me "

Just cheat and sprinkle icing sugar on shop bought fairycakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're a couple so you have the advantage of having a female half, so have the lady sit and think what she would like to see from a couples profile, if she was here are a single female herself and you probably won't go far wrong "

This is actually great advice. A lot of couples I come across, tend to be geared towards attracting the single male. Even if they are only looking for females. The male half of the couple is just as important as the female. The single woman likes to see both equally. As the female isn't the only lure like it is for men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're a couple so you have the advantage of having a female half, so have the lady sit and think what she would like to see from a couples profile, if she was here are a single female herself and you probably won't go far wrong

This is actually great advice. A lot of couples I come across, tend to be geared towards attracting the single male. Even if they are only looking for females. The male half of the couple is just as important as the female. The single woman likes to see both equally. As the female isn't the only lure like it is for men "

It's a hard balance. We don't wanna flood the pics with cock pics. Do we have the right sort of pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're a couple so you have the advantage of having a female half, so have the lady sit and think what she would like to see from a couples profile, if she was here are a single female herself and you probably won't go far wrong

This is actually great advice. A lot of couples I come across, tend to be geared towards attracting the single male. Even if they are only looking for females. The male half of the couple is just as important as the female. The single woman likes to see both equally. As the female isn't the only lure like it is for men

It's a hard balance. We don't wanna flood the pics with cock pics. Do we have the right sort of pics? "

Just remember that there doesn't only have to be be willy pics of the male . A bare chest can be sexy. You have a good variety of pics to be fair. They are lovely ones too. Perhaps a couple more of the male would be good. Your profile text is very good. All in all it's a very good profile OP. Much better than a lot on here .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cake sale?

I make cakes

Suggesting I have a sale is just making more work for me "

I love cake x

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Having a lady in a couple does not mean you will find it easier catching single ladies, my lesbian friends find it so difficult catching ladies that they sometimes ask me for guidance and that is because every lady is different, no two ladies are the same but you must be able to read the non verbal signs they give you if not you are never going to catch them. The single ladies objective is to be as difficult to catch as possible but if you can read them and you tell them you picked up the non verbal communication then you will always catch.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Having a lady in a couple does not mean you will find it easier catching single ladies, my lesbian friends find it so difficult catching ladies that they sometimes ask me for guidance and that is because every lady is different, no two ladies are the same but you must be able to read the non verbal signs they give you if not you are never going to catch them. The single ladies objective is to be as difficult to catch as possible but if you can read them and you tell them you picked up the non verbal communication then you will always catch."

This is online they can't read their non verbal body language from behind a screen

And you make us ladies sound like your running after us with a bleeding net no wonder your lady friends can't get laid following that advice

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"Having a lady in a couple does not mean you will find it easier catching single ladies, my lesbian friends find it so difficult catching ladies that they sometimes ask me for guidance and that is because every lady is different, no two ladies are the same but you must be able to read the non verbal signs they give you if not you are never going to catch them. The single ladies objective is to be as difficult to catch as possible but if you can read them and you tell them you picked up the non verbal communication then you will always catch.

This is online they can't read their non verbal body language from behind a screen

And you make us ladies sound like your running after us with a bleeding net no wonder your lady friends can't get laid following that advice

"

I think he's got hook, line, sinker and copy of the angling times

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

The club will be a good opportunity, as single ladies there can gauge you easier. Ask the lady who you played with to verify you, that's really important. Also any couples you play with too, as your male veris are handy, but not necessarily what a single fem would be looking for to build her confidence in you.

Have fun, and don't focus too much on that aspect xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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This is actually great advice. A lot of couples I come across, tend to be geared towards attracting the single male. Even if they are only looking for females. The male half of the couple is just as important as the female. The single woman likes to see both equally. As the female isn't the only lure like it is for men "

Where are these folks searching for the single males... I haven't seen them.. Lol.. And no wise cracks

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Yeah I know it's online but my only aim online is to arrange a meet face to face , I don't bother chasing someone I cannot speak to ,face to face. It is a waste of time in my opinion because I need to read the lady and you can only do that face to face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I know it's online but my only aim online is to arrange a meet face to face , I don't bother chasing someone I cannot speak to ,face to face. It is a waste of time in my opinion because I need to read the lady and you can only do that face to face."

James, you dont arf spout some nonsense

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Plus a lot of people miss this point, it is the ladies who run after you either as a couple or single guy , the only difference is when the single ladies get to the field of play they are silent by default and let you take over , now if you cannot move from talking to the single lady and interpreting her body language to taking her to the room then in her mind you failed and she will not bother about you because she has done her part , at least she turned up.

It does not matter if you are a couple , single guy or Lesbian lady, you will have to make that connection with the single ladies, if not she will just go home to her regular guys .

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I don't bother trying to toast someone I cannot see because in my opinion it does not work, now this is my opinion , it is obvious based on the percentage of guys who struggle to get meets that I am correct, if you disagree state your position.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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This is actually great advice. A lot of couples I come across, tend to be geared towards attracting the single male. Even if they are only looking for females. The male half of the couple is just as important as the female. The single woman likes to see both equally. As the female isn't the only lure like it is for men

Where are these folks searching for the single males... I haven't seen them.. Lol.. And no wise cracks "

You must be looking in the wrong places!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The club will be a good opportunity, as single ladies there can gauge you easier. Ask the lady who you played with to verify you, that's really important. Also any couples you play with too, as your male veris are handy, but not necessarily what a single fem would be looking for to build her confidence in you.

Have fun, and don't focus too much on that aspect xx"

We are going to a club in a few weeks. The lady can't varify us as she's not on the site. It was a totally impromptu surprise. It was great.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Yeah I know it's online but my only aim online is to arrange a meet face to face , I don't bother chasing someone I cannot speak to ,face to face. It is a waste of time in my opinion because I need to read the lady and you can only do that face to face."

Anyone you'd meet here would be face to face I would have thought that would be obvious

You really need to think before positing lovey

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"The club will be a good opportunity, as single ladies there can gauge you easier. Ask the lady who you played with to verify you, that's really important. Also any couples you play with too, as your male veris are handy, but not necessarily what a single fem would be looking for to build her confidence in you.

Have fun, and don't focus too much on that aspect xx

We are going to a club in a few weeks. The lady can't varify us as she's not on the site. It was a totally impromptu surprise. It was great. "

Oh, I mis-read

Enjoy the club!

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"You're a couple so you have the advantage of having a female half, so have the lady sit and think what she would like to see from a couples profile, if she was here are a single female herself and you probably won't go far wrong

This is actually great advice. A lot of couples I come across, tend to be geared towards attracting the single male. Even if they are only looking for females. The male half of the couple is just as important as the female. The single woman likes to see both equally. As the female isn't the only lure like it is for men

It's a hard balance. We don't wanna flood the pics with cock pics. Do we have the right sort of pics?

Just remember that there doesn't only have to be be willy pics of the male . A bare chest can be sexy. You have a good variety of pics to be fair. They are lovely ones too. Perhaps a couple more of the male would be good. Your profile text is very good. All in all it's a very good profile OP. Much better than a lot on here . "

Could we jump in on the asking what you think please?

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

How is anyone you meet on the site face to face? you are obviously talking to someone from behind the computer, they could be a time waster etc my aim is to arrange to meet physically. That is the only time you know someone is serious

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"How is anyone you meet on the site face to face? you are obviously talking to someone from behind the computer, they could be a time waster etc my aim is to arrange to meet physically. That is the only time you know someone is serious"

When you meet them Physically you meet them face to face ffs

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

We are saying the same thing, what I mean is I won't start toasting the babe until I see her physically, when I see her wherever we decide to meet then I will ask her if she will like to play if I like her, it does not need to be drawn out.

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

My only job online is to arrange to meet her physically and that could be at a spa etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My only job online is to arrange to meet her physically and that could be at a spa etc"

Don't you find that some like to get to know you a little via PM, before committing to meeting in person though?

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

That's cool, we would chat via pm but I don't want an endless chat on pm, we don't have to play when we meet but I like the face to face because I can tell if she is a time waster when I see her and I can determine if I would like her. Am not looking for one offs , I want friends that I can hook up with when we are free regularly.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"That's cool, we would chat via pm but I don't want an endless chat on pm, we don't have to play when we meet but I like the face to face because I can tell if she is a time waster when I see her and I can determine if I would like her. Am not looking for one offs , I want friends that I can hook up with when we are free regularly."

If she turned up to your face to face meet she wouldn't be a time waster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mrs mids- how do we make us more desirable to ladies? Please guide us. Got a club night planned, managed an impromptu mff off the sight.......now stuck on the site. I appreciate we are really outnumbering you beautiful single ladies so how can we stand out? Thanks in advance.

Em xxxx"

Far too many samey pics of Mrs. Needs better pics of hubby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's cool, we would chat via pm but I don't want an endless chat on pm, we don't have to play when we meet but I like the face to face because I can tell if she is a time waster when I see her and I can determine if I would like her. Am not looking for one offs , I want friends that I can hook up with when we are free regularly.

If she turned up to your face to face meet she wouldn't be a time waster "
do you think hes getting it yet lol xx female replying xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mrs mids- how do we make us more desirable to ladies? Please guide us. Got a club night planned, managed an impromptu mff off the sight.......now stuck on the site. I appreciate we are really outnumbering you beautiful single ladies so how can we stand out? Thanks in advance.

Em xxxx

Ah ha I have only just seen this. Sorry. And thank you x

Far too many samey pics of Mrs. Needs better pics of hubby"

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