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Is 45 too old for here

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By *sdacam OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield

Hiya folks,

Just wandering if age makes a big difference with people on here?

Does swinging tend to die off as we get older?

Just a thought

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

It makes no difference as people are looking for all age groups. I am confused as to why you are worrying over this.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Bloody hope not!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to old OP. All sorts of ages on here. I've met people much older than me before also.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Only started all this at the "tender" age of 51 and it's not caused me any problems OP - so no is the answer to your question

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Hiya folks,

Just wandering if age makes a big difference with people on here?

Does swinging tend to die off as we get older?

Just a thought "

You're 45 not 105! Hardly old!

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By *sdacam OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield

It's not a worry, recently I got the impression that other younger swingers don't seem interested in older singles and couples.

When you start chatting to people and age is mentioned the conversation seems to go cold.

I just wandered if age is a factor on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fecked if it is ...or not as the case maybe lol

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Hiya folks,

Just wandering if age makes a big difference with people on here?

Does swinging tend to die off as we get older?

Just a thought "

Definitely not.

There's loads of over 45 swingers and we'll be joining them soon.

Nita

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By *ral DMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Id of said 40s to late 50s is about the average age on here. Thankfully.

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Am looking for Cougars , the hot ones seem scare but they are really sweet to be honest

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Better not !!! Hell im 44 next next month I better get my arse in gear over the next 12 months and be a proper swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not! We still get lots of meets and very often it is with people younger than us!

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By *sdacam OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield

Thanks for the reply guys... ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number..

I know and have seen guys on here much younger than me, who frankly could do with going on a diet and cutting out the beer.. they look years older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fked if it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 60,though have been told I don't look it.

A lot of people have 55 as an upper limit,very fustrating. Age is just a number,if you can still get an erection & know how to pleasure a lady then I don't see what the problem is.

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By *antas little minxWoman
over a year ago

essex

Haha best I leave now then if it is!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bloody hope not!!!!!"

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha best I leave now then if it is!!! "
You can stay

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By *antas little minxWoman
over a year ago

essex


"Haha best I leave now then if it is!!! You can stay "

aww ty.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

I hope not ... passed it already if that's the limit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

45 does seem to be the upper age limit for people around my area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging by the filters, only 100+ is too old....which is a pity

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Hell do I get a free bus pass yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell I hope not else we're over the hill rite offs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 43 and having the time of my life the older I get. Never had so much fun in my life and long may it continue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you mentioning age in conversation? It says your age on your profile. No need to discuss it surely.

I like older men in general, but on fab they seem to be winey bitches. No offence

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yes, far too old.

Oh hold on.....

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By *mooth shaftMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm so old I should be dead

Or maybe one last shag

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"45 does seem to be the upper age limit for people around my area."

You need to move up north

Nita

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"45 does seem to be the upper age limit for people around my area.

You need to move up north

Nita"

Old folks is one thing, but southerners? Get a grip woman!

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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Well, we're old and have yet to find anyone who can keep up with us lol.

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By *th2011Couple
over a year ago

paignton/ Tamworth

I hope not....my other half is 46!

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I'm still going strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that's us fecked then ,bye bye , were off to join saga

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By *layful Couple For YouCouple
over a year ago

Lust

Bloody well hope not, we're fast approaching

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By *riztangMan
over a year ago

dungannon all over uk

It's not to old at all its a fine age younger always looking older fit women x

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Hiya folks,

Just wandering if age makes a big difference with people on here?

Does swinging tend to die off as we get older?

Just a thought "
I posted a thread with exactly the same question and the replies almost universally said yes

Guy's 45 and over are not desired unless they are super fit. which is kinda double standards I think.

Doesn't explain how ugly billionaires manage to shack up with fit younger women?

Maybe it's their amazing personality

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Hiya folks,

Just wandering if age makes a big difference with people on here?

Does swinging tend to die off as we get older?

Just a thought I posted a thread with exactly the same question and the replies almost universally said yes

Guy's 45 and over are not desired unless they are super fit. which is kinda double standards I think.

Doesn't explain how ugly billionaires manage to shack up with fit younger women?

Maybe it's their amazing personality"

I (male) am over 45 and we've had tons of great meets through fab and at clubs. I'm just an average bloke, like most others and we have lots of fun.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

My guess would be that it's harder for someone of 18 than it is for anyone of 50.

My advice would be to get on with it rather than think about it.

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By *aughtychopsCouple
over a year ago

Dartford

We would say 45 is prob primeage for here lol ... too old? Come on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I hope not ... passed it already if that's the limit"

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 49 and doing OK .....I only meet men my age or older

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

45 is the most popular upper age limit on profiles, and I can confirm that my inbox starting cultivating cobwebs the day I turned 46

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Yup, that's why we aren't on the site...

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Hiya folks,

Just wandering if age makes a big difference with people on here?

Does swinging tend to die off as we get older?

Just a thought I posted a thread with exactly the same question and the replies almost universally said yes

Guy's 45 and over are not desired unless they are super fit. which is kinda double standards I think.

Doesn't explain how ugly billionaires manage to shack up with fit younger women?

Maybe it's their amazing personality"

The Fab 'Holy Trinity' for guy's is;

Under 45;

Over 6ft tall;

Can accommodate.

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By *udistcpl1Couple
over a year ago

Wirral

Late 50s here and some of the most interesting people we have met recently are well into their 60s.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Hiya folks,

Just wandering if age makes a big difference with people on here?

Does swinging tend to die off as we get older?

Just a thought I posted a thread with exactly the same question and the replies almost universally said yes

Guy's 45 and over are not desired unless they are super fit. which is kinda double standards I think.

Doesn't explain how ugly billionaires manage to shack up with fit younger women?

Maybe it's their amazing personality

I (male) am over 45 and we've had tons of great meets through fab and at clubs. I'm just an average bloke, like most others and we have lots of fun."

I think it would be fair to say that the bulk of your meets have been at clubs, rather than through Fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my experience, the more maturer men are the most trustworthy, reliable, honest and sexually skilled!! I've met many from 20 ish to 60 ish and I'd prefer late thirties to mid fifties any day so long as they're my type of course xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hiya folks,

Just wandering if age makes a big difference with people on here?

Does swinging tend to die off as we get older?

Just a thought "

No way! Everything gets better with age!!

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

The years keep clicking on upwards, it's down to being the person who has what is being looked for.

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By *witch4Fun24Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

Nope, the vast majority of people looking at our profile are over 50 and Princess is over 45 and has meets fairly regularly

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley

40s, too old? You are never too old to be who you are. If you don't want to swing and feel too old personally then maybe have a wee think about it all but definitely no age cap on it that's for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all just a number. I'm 60 and having a great time.

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

68 here and having a great time

You don't stop having fun when you get old

You get old when you stop having fun

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The older you get the more dificult it becomes for most. There are one or two exceptions but we certainly don't get the volume of mesages we once did and that's mainly but not solely because we're out of many people's age range.

There are a lot of things that alter with age the trick is to adapt and enjoy rather than complain

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By *nvisible_manMan
over a year ago

TWICKENHAM

I've played with several women at clubs and when I've looked at their profiles I've often been out of their age groups and not the type they are looking for. Your profile gets you a certain distance but you can't beat real contact.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

of course not... clubs and parties are full of people over 50

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP age does come into it for some people, we all have our preferences after all.

Perhaps the problem is you are looking for the younger people on fab. When I was in my twenties I tended to go for people 18-35 so someone in their 40's wasn't even on the radar. Nowadays I prefer those around my own age or a bit older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bloody hope not!!!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 45 you're barely out of your nappies. At 64 and 71 we're still going strong and thriving on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miss Sj you look incredible great profile xxx

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"

I (male) am over 45 and we've had tons of great meets through fab and at clubs. I'm just an average bloke, like most others and we have lots of fun.

I think it would be fair to say that the bulk of your meets have been at clubs, rather than through Fab? "

Yes, but half prearranged through fab. Either way, being over 45 isn't a show stopper, long way from it.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Definitely not, however if you continuously think it is,then you will start believing it..

Forget about age, just get on with the party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP might have a point, when I first started attending swingers clubs in my late twenties, I used to get a lot more involved in the physical side with women and couples where I would offend have multiple amounts of play time a night.

Sadly as I've got into my late thirties and developed a middle aged body, the social side of the clubs has become more important as the play invites have seemed to become less of my focus and I'll often go to a club and not even step foot into the play areas.

Could this due to how a lot of people look for the opposite of what they have in their normal lives with swinging so the younger male is more in demand than what they might have at home?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bloody hope not!!!!!"

Obv not looking at you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never to old if you enjoy it do it

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"

I (male) am over 45 and we've had tons of great meets through fab and at clubs. I'm just an average bloke, like most others and we have lots of fun.

I think it would be fair to say that the bulk of your meets have been at clubs, rather than through Fab?

Yes, but half prearranged through fab. Either way, being over 45 isn't a show stopper, long way from it."

No worries I'm yet to be convinced about the club scene, as the two visits I've made so far weren't runaway successes, and although I genuinely went with an open mind and no expectations, the urge to leave was stronger than the urge to stay. I do have plans for future visits though, to a different club than those I've been to. I do wish I'd started before my late forties though, as I'm sure younger bods are preferred over mature ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope not ...then I'm done for

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Hiya folks,

Just wandering if age makes a big difference with people on here?

Does swinging tend to die off as we get older?

Just a thought "

It's a nice look at me thread I'll give you that

Look through people's profiles and see there veris which shows it's not dead at any age

It's tough on here but hey that's life

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