FabSwingers.com forum: Thinking of a couple

By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm thinking of meeting up with a couple, only just thoughts for now.

Any tips/advice on finding the right couple?

Answers in the thread only please.

Thank you.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also would like to meet a couple. If it was me in your situation, I'd like to have a good chat and see if we clicked. Maybe a social meet before hand. I'd rather feel comftable with the couple I was meeting.

Do what you think is right. If you want to meet a couple, try get to know them and take it from there.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm thinking of meeting up with a couple, only just thoughts for now.

Any tips/advice on finding the right couple?

Answers in the thread only please.

Thank you. "

Its very subjective dependant on what you/they are looking for! X

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm thinking of meeting up with a couple, only just thoughts for now.

Any tips/advice on finding the right couple?

Answers in the thread only please.

Thank you. "

My only tip would be to be clear on what you want from meeting a couple and be sure that they want the same. As a single woman you will be in demand.

Good luck whatever you decide.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I would say have a social with both of them

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We're looking for a lady to join us for regular fun times. That said, we would require a social first as we would want to make sure that there is a mutual attraction between us all.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Any more advice about this peeps other than a social?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only profile I can't seem to strike up some kind of interest is from the couples.

I'm not going to give up tho

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Lots of us couples are looking for single ladies.

You need to be sure that they are interested in you as a person rather than a plaything.

You might also find that some will just want you to play with the lady of the couple and others will want a more all inclusive meet.

Clubs could be a good way to find out if the dynamics will be right for you. You get to meet them in a public place, and clubs are a safe and cheap meeting option. Not to mention that nobody gas to sleep in the wet patch

Nita

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I looked at your profile and see you are straight.

Make sure to ensure any couple you contact is aware of this, as lots are only seeking bi ladies.

We would be happy to meet a straight lady to join us and share Cal with me.

Nita

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I looked at your profile and see you are straight.

Make sure to ensure any couple you contact is aware of this, as lots are only seeking bi ladies.

We would be happy to meet a straight lady to join us and share Cal with me.

Nita"

Thanks for the advice.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat with a few find out who you feel comfortable with first

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Read profiles carefully. Have they met single ladies succesfully before, do they seem to have any issues (female jelousy etc). As Nita said, will they be happy with a straight lady for an ffm (wouldn't work for us for example). Ask other female friends who have met nice couples. You have lots of choice!

Good luck, have fun x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *azza80Woman
over a year ago

Your wildest Dreams

I wud hav to agree wiv the club situation OP.. If u get on wel then u hav the option to play. Also chatting on here is another gud way of getting to know people then u cud arrange a meet either at a club, public place or on a more private scenario. I go townhouse and meet alot of couples ther but I do only play wiv fems, a few male halfs hav wanted all play but I make it clear that aint wot I am looking for but I hav had the privilege of playing wiv a few fems either privately in a room or public wiv people watching..also wiv ther partner present but only either watching or just him playing wiv his other half too x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure they know from the off what your looking for and what they are.

Also are you going to play with both and what happens if you only fancy one of them?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

We have been trying without any success to meet a woman.

As said before social first and make sure that it's not the guy pushing to see his Mrs with another woman.

Make sure she's onboard as much as he is, maybe arrange a social with her after you have met both of them.

It's about the three of you not just what he wants to see.

Most females we have chatted to only seem interested in jools, this is the struggle finding a female who is interested in both of us.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *igger101ukMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

I had never really appreciated that this might be tricky for single ladies because you have to have the right chemistry with two folks rather than one.

If I meet a couple it is generally with the intent of focussing my attentions on the lady (although I am acutely aware of some of the subtler emotions that can emerge. One chap who invited me to "have his wife all night" was definitely looking at his watch after a couple of hours. I do appreciate however that the dynamic might be very different if the two chaps are bi.

I suppose that like any meet it has to be, first and foremost, safe, and you should do everything in your power to keep yourself safe (maybe make contact with a friend and let him/her know where you are going, and organise some sort of communication that says to them "its OK...". I have met a number of single girls who use exactly this system.

After that you are, to a certain extent, in the hands of the Gods as to where the encounter fits on the sexual richter scale. Once upon a time I had a foursome with a FB and another couple that had all the hallmarks of an epic encounter, but afterwards sitting around drinking coffee we all agreed that it was a bit rubbish. On other occasions what looked like it was going to be a bit mundane turned out splendidly.

But above all, be safe. If you need a decent bodyguard then I might be available!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any more advice about this peeps other than a social?"

Definitely a social with them both. Watch their dynamic as well. You can see if there is any jealousy. Id also ask them how they would cope with any jealousy coming out mid play. Believe me that can be scary shit as a single fem when that happens.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Old friend said if it's not fun, well don't do it.

Find friends who play, in whatever way, you're comfortable with.

Performing seals are just a show.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Be yourself, meet for a social and check that they are not just wanting you for the thrill of having another female and that they are also going to attend to your wants. At the same time you have to offer something extra to the couple.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

[Removed by poster at 09/09/17 20:52:18]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Thanks everyone for your advice which is much appreciated.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone for your advice which is much appreciated.

"
You're welcome x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm thinking of meeting up with a couple, only just thoughts for now.

Any tips/advice on finding the right couple?

Answers in the thread only please.

Thank you. "

If you like there profile spend plenty of time chatting with them. be really honest with them and meet at a club.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

I've met plenty couples in the past, and like you I'm straight. I have no interest in the woman at all, I will happily use toys on the woman but that's as far as I go, won't put my hands or mouth on her and don't want hers on me. I don't mind her using toys, but it doesn't do anything for me, probably because I'm aware it's a female doing it. What you're happy to do is something you would need to consider first and let them know.

My situation of meeting couples has always come from clubs, but I've met them several times first before deciding whether they're a couple I would be comfortable in joining. You can normally tell what couples are right for you and what aren't, what ones are content in their relationship and what ones aren't. But that is ultimately for you to decide.

My way of deciding on joining a couple is that they are a couple that meet both men and women, not just women.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Most couples wouldn't be interested to be honest , as it would be a very awkward scenario given that you are straight .

As the poster above says , what you will be doing on the meet will be so restrictive . Take a look at how many couples are looking to meet a single female where the female of the couple is straight .

It would be interesting to know what you would be hoping for from meeting a couple .

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Most couples wouldn't be interested to be honest , as it would be a very awkward scenario given that you are straight .

As the poster above says , what you will be doing on the meet will be so restrictive . Take a look at how many couples are looking to meet a single female where the female of the couple is straight .

It would be interesting to know what you would be hoping for from meeting a couple ."

I'm not going to disclose in this thread what I'm hoping for from meeting a couple. That is for me to discuss privately with that couple. As I said I'm only thinking about it, nothing is set in stone.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope whatever you decide Bhubaysi, something works out for you x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"I would say have a social with both of them

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread