FabSwingers.com forum: Block block block

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Had a message today from another couple asking us do we block many profiles, as it happens yes we do we replied but mainly only those who have no photos in there public gallery.

They said there on a mission to block as many of the photo less profiles as is possible and would we join them in there quest .

So the race is on, it's raining it's grey and dark outside, long winter nights ahead why not we thought.

Also anyone with that pathetic excuse about ' we're in very professional jobs' goes to the top of the list lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best meet was from a profile with no avatar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle trusting the photo less profiles, sometimes go along with it knowing its wasting my time

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By *aturasqCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"My best meet was from a profile with no avatar

How exciting bet the "long winter nights" just whizz by

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

So by blocking profiles with no pics you don't get the chance to meet those who send pics with a message ?

Good call

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What will that achieve?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

As one who has just been viewed by a profile using one of my photos as his avatar, perhaps we should block those who have photos as well.

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

"Had a message today from another couple asking us do we block many profiles, as it happens yes we do we replied but mainly only those who have no photos in there public gallery.

They said there on a mission to block as many of the photo less profiles as is possible and would we join them in there quest .

So the race is on, it's raining it's grey and dark outside, long winter nights ahead why not we thought.

Also anyone with that pathetic excuse about ' we're in very professional jobs' goes to the top of the list lol."

Bit silly in my humble opinion. Some profiles have 42 cock pics and nothing else. Others have zero pics but message you with face, body (and cock) pics. I'd prefer the latter.

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

Our blocked list is massive for a whole variety of reasons. Literally in the 1000's.

Our hotlist however is full of many suitable matches.

The 2 features used in the right way make excellent shortlisting tools. That's our humble opinion anyway xx

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Why not just block them if and when they contact you? If you block them because they have no photos, you won't see them if they do upload photos.

Seems needlessly restrictive.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"Had a message today from another couple asking us do we block many profiles, as it happens yes we do we replied but mainly only those who have no photos in there public gallery.

They said there on a mission to block as many of the photo less profiles as is possible and would we join them in there quest .

So the race is on, it's raining it's grey and dark outside, long winter nights ahead why not we thought.

Also anyone with that pathetic excuse about ' we're in very professional jobs' goes to the top of the list lol."

You have censored your faces. Is that because you have very professional jobs?

No pics at all or only pics showing body or censored faces are all the same thing. Done for privacy. Peoples reasons for privacy are their reasons.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I must be too nice a person because the only people I block are ones that are abusive / nasty , ones that persistently message the same copy and paste when you say no thanks (and even easier with the new feature thanks fab

) or a few individuals I don't like because they cause too much drama

Been on here four years and my block list is tiny lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's an excellent reply, we should have made it clearer, were blocking after receiving a message without a photo and with no photos in the public gallery.

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

"I must be too nice a person because the only people I block are ones that are abusive / nasty , ones that persistently message the same copy and paste when you say no thanks (and even easier with the new feature thanks fab

) or a few individuals I don't like because they cause too much drama

Been on here four years and my block list is tiny lol "

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By *aturasqCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"Had a message today from another couple asking us do we block many profiles, as it happens yes we do we replied but mainly only those who have no photos in there public gallery.

They said there on a mission to block as many of the photo less profiles as is possible and would we join them in there quest .

So the race is on, it's raining it's grey and dark outside, long winter nights ahead why not we thought.

Also anyone with that pathetic excuse about ' we're in very professional jobs' goes to the top of the list lol.

You have censored your faces. Is that because you have very professional jobs?

No pics at all or only pics showing body or censored faces are all the same thing. Done for privacy. Peoples reasons for privacy are their reasons."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You sound like a 4 year old in an adult body! Just sayin...!

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Now this could be a cunning plan by the other couple. Get you to join in and spread the word,everyone is now blocking. Bingo...the door is left wide open for them to have all of the fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Now this could be a cunning plan by the other couple. Get you to join in and spread the word,everyone is now blocking. Bingo...the door is left wide open for them to have all of the fun."

Brilliant we never thought of that , you could be right .

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Surely a report, report, report partnership would be better.

The greater number of members reporting profiles which are fake the better. They could set up a group to collate them.

Just blocking, seems to lack merit.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Surely a report, report, report partnership would be better.

The greater number of members reporting profiles which are fake the better. They could set up a group to collate them.

Just blocking, seems to lack merit."

I agree but there is a huge difference between a fake profile and a profile that doesn't display public pics

Many profiles that don't have a profile pic are happy to send pics with a message etc. You have to remember some people do genuinely have jobs that they could loose if some nasty bastard outed them

Lots of teachers on here, police etc

I myself am happy to be 'out there' but certainly don't berate others that choose to remain discrete

There are good filters to take use of for blocking newbies , different sex's , non paying members etc but like with any site swinging or not there are always going to have a few weidos that sign up just to antigonise or get their kicks in some way

Reporting should be strictly for a genuine reason only

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The easiest option would be to use message filters to stop profiles without public pictures from contacting you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The easiest option would be to use message filters to stop profiles without public pictures from contacting you.

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By *taceylacyCouple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

We block any body who sends message without pics on profile, unless they send pic with message. 99 percent are time waters or just pic collectors. My block list is endless.

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

) or a few individuals I don't like because they cause too much drama

Been on here four years and my block list is tiny lol "

I think that's sensible. I've only blocked those who were abusive and nasty or really really annoying despite multiple warnings.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

) or a few individuals I don't like because they cause too much drama

Been on here four years and my block list is tiny lol

I think that's sensible. I've only blocked those who were abusive and nasty or really really annoying despite multiple warnings."

I always think to myself that someone you may have blocked when they first join fab and don't know the etiquette of swinging might turn later to be a real nice person when into the 'swing' of things and got a bit braver with their profile and pics .. if I block them I would never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you actively seeking out these profiles, or just the ones who message you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We block any body who sends message without pics on profile, unless they send pic with message. 99 percent are time waters or just pic collectors. My block list is endless."

Snap

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you actively seeking out these profiles, or just the ones who message you?"

Only the ones that message without any pics and often the ones who constantly look,don't message us and still have no pics!

Usually creeps on here just to perv with no intention of ever meeting.

Is there a way of settng your privacy filter to stop anyone without pics from even looking at a profile.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Are you actively seeking out these profiles, or just the ones who message you?

Only the ones that message without any pics and often the ones who constantly look,don't message us and still have no pics!

Usually creeps on here just to perv with no intention of ever meeting.

Is there a way of settng your privacy filter to stop anyone without pics from even looking at a profile."

No there isn't. The thing is people can't tell f you're the type they want to meet without looking at your profile and just because they show on your looked at me list doesn't mean they've looked at your photos or that they're creeps. The only way to choose who looks is to remove all your pictures and send them to the people you deem fit to view them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you actively seeking out these profiles, or just the ones who message you?

Only the ones that message without any pics and often the ones who constantly look,don't message us and still have no pics!

Usually creeps on here just to perv with no intention of ever meeting.

Is there a way of settng your privacy filter to stop anyone without pics from even looking at a profile."

Why does that make them creeps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We block any body who sends message without pics on profile, unless they send pic with message. 99 percent are time waters or just pic collectors. My block list is endless.

Snap

Not a bit judgemental then

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

What about couple profiles that show no or pointless pics of the guy?

For us we like to display what we both look like and it's nice to have a similar thing back from those showing interest...

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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

We block those who take the piss by having no face pics on their private gallery when a friendy is accepted. Also those with fake(wife gives permission/wife doesn't participate etc)profiles.

We have also blocked persistent fuglies. Lets face it, we're not desperate because we don't have to be so if we're not responding don't fucking keep winking or looking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We block those who take the piss by having no face pics on their private gallery when a friendy is accepted. Also those with fake(wife gives permission/wife doesn't participate etc)profiles.

We have also blocked persistent fuglies. Lets face it, we're not desperate because we don't have to be so if we're not responding don't fucking keep winking or looking."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My best meet was from a profile with no avatar

What made it the best though???

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"We block those who take the piss by having no face pics on their private gallery when a friendy is accepted. Also those with fake(wife gives permission/wife doesn't participate etc)profiles.

We have also blocked persistent fuglies. Lets face it, we're not desperate because we don't have to be so if we're not responding don't fucking keep winking or looking."

Might as well block me now then to save time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a message today from another couple asking us do we block many profiles, as it happens yes we do we replied but mainly only those who have no photos in there public gallery.

They said there on a mission to block as many of the photo less profiles as is possible and would we join them in there quest .

So the race is on, it's raining it's grey and dark outside, long winter nights ahead why not we thought.

Also anyone with that pathetic excuse about ' we're in very professional jobs' goes to the top of the list lol."

Did someone say pathetic

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By *infulSandyCouple
over a year ago

London

"What will that achieve?

My thoughts exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What will that achieve?

My thoughts exactly"

More silhouettes for me to fantasise about fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My best meet was from a profile with no avatar

What made it the best though???"

Cause we still meet up now. She has her reasons for not having pics up and I'm glad we did meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We block loads...

No pictures = block

No veris after a month = block

Attend a certain club = block

Send a message in text speak = block

View us every day but never message = block

Live too close = block

Mess us about = block

Hot wife = block

Dom guy = block

Judgemental = block

Too lazy to write a decent profile = block

Ridiculous forum posts = block

Want to Skype = block

Want a social only first = block

No kissing = block

There is literally no one left now....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is there such a thing as a blocking fetish?

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"is there such a thing as a blocking fetish?"

There is a fetish for everything so they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only ever block people who are nasty or abusive or liars or those we are not compatible with

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We block loads...

No pictures = block

No veris after a month = block

Attend a certain club = block

Send a message in text speak = block

View us every day but never message = block

Live too close = block

Mess us about = block

Hot wife = block

Dom guy = block

Judgemental = block

Too lazy to write a decent profile = block

Ridiculous forum posts = block

Want to Skype = block

Want a social only first = block

No kissing = block

There is literally no one left now...."

Checked out their profile, not yet blocked. Will check back later hahaha

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