FabSwingers.com forum: Can we bring a friend?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So last night we perhaps got a bit hobby and ended up blabbing to our gay male friend all about our lifestyle.

This is the first time we have ever done this. He was remarkably supportive, saying he particularly admired the authenticity and that we were standing in our own truth.

He was fascinated to the point of wanting to come to a club with us to observe the lifestyle.

Is this frowned upon for us to bring a friend along to observe and if not then which is the best club and night to showcase the night?

Next Friday night we're thinking.

Ideas Fabbers.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would it be frowned upon? As long as the club in question allows single men and he can join then I can't see a problem. I must add that unless it's a bi/gay night there's unlikely that much going on to interest him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why would it be frowned upon? As long as the club in question allows single men and he can join then I can't see a problem. I must add that unless it's a bi/gay night there's unlikely that much going on to interest him. "

Initially he'd just like to observe the club in action to see how us other half live so to speak

Any knowledge on gay/bi nights would also be appreciated for if he's not frightened off after the first visit

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

He seems to be taking it very seriously. Whats more authentic about swinging than any other way of going about sex?

Lots of people go to clubs just to watch and be in a sexual environment so nobody will find it odd. He can find out about gay or bi nights when he's there if nobody else can advise him

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Quest in Leeds host a monthly male only gay night.

Sally

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"He seems to be taking it very seriously. Whats more authentic about swinging than any other way of going about sex?

Lots of people go to clubs just to watch and be in a sexual environment so nobody will find it odd. He can find out about gay or bi nights when he's there if nobody else can advise him"

Indeed. I think he meant the authenticity of swinging couples to be true and honest about what we want rather than feeling like we can't voice our fantasies. Both Latina and I have felt repressed like this in past relationships.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Quest in Leeds host a monthly male only gay night.

Sally"

Thanks Sally I'll check it out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chams Monday bi night

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Chams Monday bi night"

Thanks. What sort of ratio of single male, single female to couples is there at this night?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"He seems to be taking it very seriously. Whats more authentic about swinging than any other way of going about sex?

Lots of people go to clubs just to watch and be in a sexual environment so nobody will find it odd. He can find out about gay or bi nights when he's there if nobody else can advise him

Oh right, I understand. Couples who don't swing can be just as true and honest though.

Hope you and your friend enjoy the club

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