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By *eneathTheDiamondSky OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Anglia

I've realised that the order of the letters makes a difference when talking about threesomes but I can't figure out how.

So who does what in FFM, FMF, MMF, MFM?

I'm confused!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always thought its in relation to whether its a bi 3 sum or not so a mmf is and mfm isn't

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

It does to some. But we still use the terms mmf and mfm to be the same. It's always going to be a bi meet for us.

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By *eneathTheDiamondSky OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Anglia

Ok thanks - so if two Ms or two Fs are next to each other, it implies those two have sex too. If those letters are separated it suggests not?

Thanks

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By *ussexcouple40Couple
over a year ago

Sussex

You learn something new everyday

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Two males, one female has been known as MMF since Moses was a lad. Note I didnt say a man, a woman and another man.

Likewise FFM

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

You can't catch the ghey from having an MMF*

*Unless it's a Bi MMF then you'll be shopping for soft furnishings by half past two on Wednesday

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By *eneathTheDiamondSky OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Anglia


"Two males, one female has been known as MMF since Moses was a lad. Note I didnt say a man, a woman and another man.

Likewise FFM"

Maybe there isn't a difference then. I gues it only works as a distinction if people know about it!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Some people mix up the letters to emphasise the threesome as straight or bi. I just stick to MMF or FFM.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had no idea...

I'm Sooooo confused.

Why does everything have to be so complicated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id be sure to get it wrong anyway

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By *reman6976Man
over a year ago

Deeping St James


"Ok thanks - so if two Ms or two Fs are next to each other, it implies those two have sex too. If those letters are separated it suggests not?

Thanks "

That's how I understand it

MFM the men interact with the woman only

MMF emphasis on the men playing together etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, that's potentially big difference... Thanks for the heads up...

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

The order of the letters is NOT a universally used thing. People often claim mmf is 2 bi men and mfm is 2 straight men. But most people don't actually use it that way.

As has been said in other threads, you don't say mmff, if the men are bi. Also, in a larger group, say mmmf, you can't spilt the 'm's.

Assuming people mean bi men when they say mmf, won't end well. You will either avoid something or try something incorrectly....

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Ok thanks - so if two Ms or two Fs are next to each other, it implies those two have sex too. If those letters are separated it suggests not?

Thanks

That's how I understand it

MFM the men interact with the woman only

MMF emphasis on the men playing together etc"

Can we not hit this one directly on the head once and for all! There is NO difference. If there was how would you write a totally straight MMMMF, of which I have many? If the guys or girls playing bi or straight depended entirely upon the nuances of how you happen to order the letters there would be many unhappy swingers out there. We make it perfectly clear in conversation that we expect the guys play straight but are happy for the girls to play bi.

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By *reman6976Man
over a year ago

Deeping St James


"The order of the letters is NOT a universally used thing. People often claim mmf is 2 bi men and mfm is 2 straight men. But most people don't actually use it that way.

As has been said in other threads, you don't say mmff, if the men are bi. Also, in a larger group, say mmmf, you can't spilt the 'm's.

Assuming people mean bi men when they say mmf, won't end well. You will either avoid something or try something incorrectly...."

Great points. I hadn't considered the moresum aspects. I guess it's down to the conversation you have when discussing it.

Thanks

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"The order of the letters is NOT a universally used thing. People often claim mmf is 2 bi men and mfm is 2 straight men. But most people don't actually use it that way.

As has been said in other threads, you don't say mmff, if the men are bi. Also, in a larger group, say mmmf, you can't spilt the 'm's.

Assuming people mean bi men when they say mmf, won't end well. You will either avoid something or try something incorrectly...."

Exactly - sorry to have pretty much repeated what you said!

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

The main difference is that it's fractionally quicker to type MMF than MFM

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"The order of the letters is NOT a universally used thing. People often claim mmf is 2 bi men and mfm is 2 straight men. But most people don't actually use it that way.

As has been said in other threads, you don't say mmff, if the men are bi. Also, in a larger group, say mmmf, you can't spilt the 'm's.

Assuming people mean bi men when they say mmf, won't end well. You will either avoid something or try something incorrectly....

Exactly - sorry to have pretty much repeated what you said!"

How dare you steal my ideas

Great minds think alike

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"

Can we not hit this one directly on the head once and for all! There is NO difference. If there was how would you write a totally straight MMMMF"

Exactly this.

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