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How Vanilla do you find Fab?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How vanilla do you find Fab?

On a scale of 1 to ten:

1 - Very vanilla, it's mainly 1on1 and missionary sex with the lights off.

5 - It's a bit kinky, they might bring a friend along, and a butt plug.

11 - Its Full BDSM, dungeons and those dark arts.

We all enjoy sex in different ways, some need the sensual sex, others need it rough with toys maybe, and some need subspace to enjoy it to their maximum. So I'm asking, what do you see more being requested from profiles or people you've met on Fab?

And what is it you prefer more of?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very vanilla for the most part. Plenty on here that describe themselves as kinky, but then you get talking and find they bought their first beginners butt plug the week before.

I think for many people just being on fab is 'kinky' for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As for what we would like to see more of? Switch couples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very vanilla for the most part. Plenty on here that describe themselves as kinky, but then you get talking and find they bought their first beginners butt plug the week before.

I think for many people just being on fab is 'kinky' for them."

I agree. Alot talk the talk, but very few mean it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say a five , it all depends on what your looking for .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Aside from the swapping partners everything else is tame and rather boring. And the whole concept that 2 single people hook up here is swinging but if the same too hooked up in the pub it wouldn't be..... err ok.

Any time I have had a meet who has realised that I am genuinely kinky they get a bit out of hand thinking that they know what kink is cos they have seen 50 shades

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it depends who you speak to i guess i'd go with a 6 but my 6 is someone elses 4 and a different persons 7

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found that there's a 50/50 split on vanilla to kinky, but I think that's more to do with selection. If someone msgs stating they're into kink a little chat usually finds their kink is mainly watching bdsm on pornhub!

Sometimes vanilla feels right on a meet, sometimes being cuffed and beaten is needed, I'm easy really

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very vanilla for the most part. Plenty on here that describe themselves as kinky, but then you get talking and find they bought their first beginners butt plug the week before.

I think for many people just being on fab is 'kinky' for them."
pmsl come here you two lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol yes, you guys look awesome and genuine kinksters

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By *ussexcouple40Couple
over a year ago

Sussex

Lots of kinky people here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably a 4 or a 5, some really great kinky people on here but have encountered some very narrow minded and occasionally abusive people on here as well.

You would think that perhaps seeing as we are all here looking for some form of casual sex that maybe people would be a little bit more accepting of others and less judgemental of people's kinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably a 4 or a 5, some really great kinky people on here but have encountered some very narrow minded and occasionally abusive people on here as well.

You would think that perhaps seeing as we are all here looking for some form of casual sex that maybe people would be a little bit more accepting of others and less judgemental of people's kinks. "

You would, wouldn't you?

Fear and the sense of things being taboo, stop most people from living their fantasies

This is the UK. We are still ridiculously hung up about sex

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

i find the trust needed for kink is lacking on here rather than a lack of kinky people.

i have had leash play and piss play but that's about as kinky as i go for NSA.

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

I'm more here for group sex and to find a like minded partner. Dunno if I'd describe group sex as kinky in itself but it's deffo much fun

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By *ussexcouple40Couple
over a year ago

Sussex


"Probably a 4 or a 5, some really great kinky people on here but have encountered some very narrow minded and occasionally abusive people on here as well.

You would think that perhaps seeing as we are all here looking for some form of casual sex that maybe people would be a little bit more accepting of others and less judgemental of people's kinks. "

Some Fetish sites are even worse tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably a 4 or a 5, some really great kinky people on here but have encountered some very narrow minded and occasionally abusive people on here as well.

You would think that perhaps seeing as we are all here looking for some form of casual sex that maybe people would be a little bit more accepting of others and less judgemental of people's kinks.

Some Fetish sites are even worse tbh"

Very true, I have come across quite a bit of elitist attitudes on fetish site's. Some people just take things way too seriously, I mean this is all supposed to be fun right?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

On average 5... we started meeting tgirls a while back though , and that raised the bar . The average with their involvement is often 11

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what I have seen on profiles here..

Not really kinky for the most part.. although there does appear to be "some" kinky ones as well.

I don't really put a threesome, foursome or wife watching far up the kinky scale

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Using your scale, less than a 7 and I wouldn't bother..

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By *arnsleycouple7683Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley


"1. Aside from the swapping partners everything else is tame and rather boring. And the whole concept that 2 single people hook up here is swinging but if the same too hooked up in the pub it wouldn't be..... err ok.

Any time I have had a meet who has realised that I am genuinely kinky they get a bit out of hand thinking that they know what kink is cos they have seen 50 shades"

I honestly don't understand how two single people hooking up can ever be considered swinging.

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By *ngleseyFCouple
over a year ago

2m away

So it does depend on a person's view of kinky doesn't it. For instance if a threesome or a foursome isn't considered kinky does it become kinky if you start wanting DP and DVP? Or is that still pretty vanilla. I don't consider myself kinky in the dom/sub kinda way at all but I do enjoy having awesome and fun sex. (Female posting)

P.S. Is pegging considered kinky?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"1. Aside from the swapping partners everything else is tame and rather boring. And the whole concept that 2 single people hook up here is swinging but if the same too hooked up in the pub it wouldn't be..... err ok.

Any time I have had a meet who has realised that I am genuinely kinky they get a bit out of hand thinking that they know what kink is cos they have seen 50 shades

I honestly don't understand how two single people hooking up can ever be considered swinging."

That's a question I've asked a few times, often to myself. Am I a swinger? Probably not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So it does depend on a person's view of kinky doesn't it. For instance if a threesome or a foursome isn't considered kinky does it become kinky if you start wanting DP and DVP? Or is that still pretty vanilla. I don't consider myself kinky in the dom/sub kinda way at all but I do enjoy having awesome and fun sex. (Female posting)

P.S. Is pegging considered kinky?"

That's right. Someone above said one persons 5 is someone's 8 etc,

I gave my scale, and pegging is up there in the kinky numbers.

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By *ngleseyFCouple
over a year ago

2m away


"So it does depend on a person's view of kinky doesn't it. For instance if a threesome or a foursome isn't considered kinky does it become kinky if you start wanting DP and DVP? Or is that still pretty vanilla. I don't consider myself kinky in the dom/sub kinda way at all but I do enjoy having awesome and fun sex. (Female posting)

P.S. Is pegging considered kinky?

That's right. Someone above said one persons 5 is someone's 8 etc,

I gave my scale, and pegging is up there in the kinky numbers. "

So I like pegging M, would also be interested in pegging another male. Still no interest in giving or receiving pain...

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"i find the trust needed for kink is lacking on here rather than a lack of kinky people.

i have had leash play and piss play but that's about as kinky as i go for NSA."

I think that trust is a big thing.... what I may choose to engage in with one person may not the the same with the next...

In general I choose to keep fab quite simple and fairly vanilla . That though in no way means that is who I am!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find fab very vanilla.... I prefer bi kinky fun latex,parties, Watersports,fisting,snowballing, bondage ect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also love pegging

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Vanilla is different things to different people.

We swap, do mmf, ffm, all girl orgies, orgies, clubs etc. To us that's 10, and to the guy in the street it's off the scale.

Other people might find it a boring 1 , but we love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with vanilla!!

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I like having several guys at once

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Love pegging guys too

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I find fab very vanilla.... I prefer bi kinky fun latex,parties, Watersports,fisting,snowballing, bondage ect "

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