FabSwingers.com forum: Annoying people

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all just a rant up really lol

Why is that when people message us they ask who is chatting. When I say male they stop or when ever holly speaks to people they are fine then next day I go to chat they don't want to know this is pissing me off really does Anyone else have this trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say both of your are there

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Our standard response is "Its a couples profile", and then they ask again who is chatting, so I ask if it matters which of us it is?

Its usually guys after a bit of wank-chat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wank chat lol yea prob right there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was chatting to a couple it would be to both .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's hard for us both to be on at same time as holly works long hours but we mostly on in mornings together x

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Maybe Holly's more people friendly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe Holly's more people friendly

Trust me I'm more polite then holly. Holly know what she wants and will tell if she don't like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we get this all the time but as mentioned before we say its a couples profile so why would it matter who is on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's something to do with your profile text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People don't want to talk to a man so he can have a crafty wank.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes we get this all the time but as mentioned before we say its a couples profile so why would it matter who is on "

Exactly right

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"Maybe Holly's more people friendly

Trust me I'm more polite then holly. Holly know what she wants and will tell if she don't like "

Well in that case heeello big boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes we get this all the time but as mentioned before we say its a couples profile so why would it matter who is on

Exactly right

I'll tell you why. If I read a profile and it looks like one person runs the show, I want to talk to that person, so I know I'm not wasting my time talking to the person who doesn't call the shots. I don't want to be told to wait for them to run it past the boss. Meanwhile, he's having a wank over what we're discussing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People don't want to talk to a man so he can have a crafty wank. "

Thus is what I'm talking about im not on here to wank I can do that to porn and I'm taking about when holly speaks they want to chat but when I do they don't want to know

Nothing to to do with my manners as I don't even get that far lol they ask who is chatting usually they are male. When I say male they

stop

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes we get this all the time but as mentioned before we say its a couples profile so why would it matter who is on

Exactly right

Are you talking about me having a wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll talk to anyone about anything. With the only exception being people called Adonis blue......

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By *rbean69Man
over a year ago

Stroud

"Our standard response is "Its a couples profile", and then they ask again who is chatting, so I ask if it matters which of us it is?

Its usually guys after a bit of wank-chat."

It annoys me when a couple post a comment on a thread and don't state which of them is talking. If they have identical views they could state that.

I am not talking about chat rooms (never used one anywhere) and I have never been interested in "wank chat".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes we get this all the time but as mentioned before we say its a couples profile so why would it matter who is on

Exactly right

Are you talking about me having a wank

I've never spoken to anyone from your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's mostly the men in a couple that run the profiles....my research shows this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'll talk to anyone about anything. With the only exception being people called Adonis blue......

Do you no what Adonis blue means

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People don't want to talk to a man so he can have a crafty wank.

Thus is what I'm talking about im not on here to wank I can do that to porn and I'm taking about when holly speaks they want to chat but when I do they don't want to know

Nothing to to do with my manners as I don't even get that far lol they ask who is chatting usually they are male. When I say male they

stop "

Because they don't want to talk to you about what Holly wants them to do with you maybe?

Or, they want to talk to Holly, to have a wank.

Have you tried saying you're her, to see what they talk about? Or put her on and see how the conversation goes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's mostly the men in a couple that run the profiles....my research shows this

Including the ones with no woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People don't want to talk to a man so he can have a crafty wank.

Thus is what I'm talking about im not on here to wank I can do that to porn and I'm taking about when holly speaks they want to chat but when I do they don't want to know

Nothing to to do with my manners as I don't even get that far lol they ask who is chatting usually they are male. When I say male they

stop

Because they don't want to talk to you about what Holly wants them to do with you maybe?

Or, they want to talk to Holly, to have a wank.

Have you tried saying you're her, to see what they talk about? Or put her on and see how the conversation goes? "

Never tried being her no maybe i should

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People don't want to talk to a man so he can have a crafty wank.

Thus is what I'm talking about im not on here to wank I can do that to porn and I'm taking about when holly speaks they want to chat but when I do they don't want to know

Nothing to to do with my manners as I don't even get that far lol they ask who is chatting usually they are male. When I say male they

stop

Because they don't want to talk to you about what Holly wants them to do with you maybe?

Or, they want to talk to Holly, to have a wank.

Have you tried saying you're her, to see what they talk about? Or put her on and see how the conversation goes?

Never tried being her no maybe i should "

I'd be curious as to what they will talk to her about but not me. If they just want a wank you can tell them after 15 minutes that you took over after 5 minutes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People don't want to talk to a man so he can have a crafty wank.

Thus is what I'm talking about im not on here to wank I can do that to porn and I'm taking about when holly speaks they want to chat but when I do they don't want to know

Nothing to to do with my manners as I don't even get that far lol they ask who is chatting usually they are male. When I say male they

stop

Because they don't want to talk to you about what Holly wants them to do with you maybe?

Or, they want to talk to Holly, to have a wank.

Have you tried saying you're her, to see what they talk about? Or put her on and see how the conversation goes?

Never tried being her no maybe i should

I'd be curious as to what they will talk to her about but not me. If they just want a wank you can tell them after 15 minutes that you took over after 5 minutes

No would prob have a laugh and tell them they have just wanked and cum

to a bloke talking lol

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By *rbean69Man
over a year ago

Stroud

"I'll talk to anyone about anything. With the only exception being people called Adonis blue......

Do you no what Adonis blue means "

There is a colony of Adonis Blues within walking distance of my house. I rarely see one, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll talk to anyone about anything. With the only exception being people called Adonis blue......

Do you no what Adonis blue means "

Pretty sure it's a butterfly....but I'm not 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People don't want to talk to a man so he can have a crafty wank.

Thus is what I'm talking about im not on here to wank I can do that to porn and I'm taking about when holly speaks they want to chat but when I do they don't want to know

Nothing to to do with my manners as I don't even get that far lol they ask who is chatting usually they are male. When I say male they

stop

Because they don't want to talk to you about what Holly wants them to do with you maybe?

Or, they want to talk to Holly, to have a wank.

Have you tried saying you're her, to see what they talk about? Or put her on and see how the conversation goes?

Never tried being her no maybe i should

I'd be curious as to what they will talk to her about but not me. If they just want a wank you can tell them after 15 minutes that you took over after 5 minutes

No would prob have a laugh and tell them they have just wanked and cum

to a bloke talking lol "

And they would then come on the forums moaning about men in couples pretending to be women, for wank talk

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'll talk to anyone about anything. With the only exception being people called Adonis blue......

Do you no what Adonis blue means

Pretty sure it's a butterfly....but I'm not 100% "

Well done Adonis blue is a butterfly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll talk to anyone about anything. With the only exception being people called Adonis blue......

Do you no what Adonis blue means

Pretty sure it's a butterfly....but I'm not 100%

Well done Adonis blue is a butterfly "

Yessss! Well done sleep deprived brain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Hi all just a rant up really lol

We reply along the lines of "We are both here. Which one of us would you like to do the typing ?".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found this as well as most couples who msg want just the lady, sorry we scarily do talk and then block idiot couples who try just wanting female partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Hi all just a rant up really lol

We reply along the lines of "We are both here. Which one of us would you like to do the typing ?"."

When you're asked a question do you have a little debate between you about how to reply?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Found this as well as most couples who msg want just the lady, sorry we scarily do talk and then block idiot couples who try just wanting female partner. "

What if it's a woman wanting to talk to her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'll either write messages together, or it might be one of us writing messages. We try to put both our names if we've done the message together, or we might sign off individually if it's not from both of us. We may be a couples profile but we are separate people with different opinions, desires and different ways of expressing ourselves. I too would prefer it if couples were clearer about who was behind the message, because like us couples are comprised of 2 individual people. That being said we tend to pass mobile numbers on to anybody we would like to meet. That tends save any confusion. And the man always get Mister's number first.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us we will only meet couples, will never meet single ladies or men ever. Tired of giving number of partner and then couples messaging just partner saying love her but partner isn't what they want, fair enough it's a block at that point and amused it happens all the time.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

No.

We've rarely been asked whose chatting. Then, most of the time, we wont reply to messages (with interest in meeting) without discussing it. Then it's written by both of us.

Obviously, with people we already know it's different. Most can guess, which of us have replied without us signing off.

Anything forum related, is left for me to answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fact, I prefer to establish commas with the male half, so they can (rightly so) check me out first.. I wouldn't have it any other way!

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

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"Why is that when people message us they ask who is chatting.

Anyone else have this trouble "

This is why we don't entertain profiles who ask this question

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

We get annoyed with this and some couple profiles that don't have picture on it we want to talk to both parties and see both Karen x

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By *xkinkycouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

We dont get asked as we say in our profile that it is mainly me (Saphire) and if its Daz then he signs his name, and even if its both of us we sign its both of us. I sometimes ask other couples who is chatting just for the fact of knowing, you generally dont chat without knowing who as with men or females you generally know who name and sex, as long as there not fake (not to offend but just saying) just knowing who im chatting to. I know both will see or be there either way, just the way I am I think

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley

" Hi all just a rant up really lol

Alas, they may have had a knock on their head at some point in their lives. Or, they may be not into men but don't want to tell you that because they are the very thing they do not like. I can certainly say that for these messages you will have 20 million more who "like dat sammich"....im not even sure what that means:O

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get this occasionally. I (she) do virtually all the messaging and I did have a phase where I wondered what the response would be from guys if I said it was G. Turns out they don't say much at all if they think they're chatting to him or it gets very crude.

If we're chatting to a couple it doesn't bother me if I'm not sure who's doing the typing, I assume that they're talking and whoever runs the account can speak for them both. I don't think you ever get a real feel for people through text anyway which is why we like a social.

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