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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

2/3 or more of the following strikes then avoid maybe......

No pictures

No verifications

No meets.

Too many male pics.

Doesn't look at your profile

Won't give number or call.

Female on profile never available.

Web cam getting them to wave and move to show its not a video. And getting them to chat on the phone to see if a man or a woman.

I'm sure there's more but 2/ 3 of these you should be suspicious.

Can you add others please ... So it may help some out here and spot the fakes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been here over a year no pics or meet in person veris!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No recent pictures (anything older than a year makes me suspicious - and also concerned about them looking remotely like their pics anymore)

All one sided - all female (unless it's a profile where only one of them meets)

Asking for lots of pictures sharing in first few messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Refusing to photo verify.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm not fake. I'm not meeting at the moment but I'm not fake but no way on this earth would I go on webcam or phone to proove who I am if I was meeting. I never post meets. I look at profiles in stealth mode. I won't give out my number and my pics are friends only

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By *appy headCouple
over a year ago

leicester


"Well I'm not fake. I'm not meeting at the moment but I'm not fake but no way on this earth would I go on webcam or phone to proove who I am if I was meeting. I never post meets. I look at profiles in stealth mode. I won't give out my number and my pics are friends only "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a "returning" long term fabster, id agree with most of the OP's points, but would add which comes first "chicken of the egg"

One of my biggest "tests" (to male or females) is asking them to meet socially first, if they refuse, they have something to hide ..........well in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My simple advice is that if it sounds too good to be true.... then it's too good to be true!......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't think or worry about fakes. We tend to deviate towards profiles that are well written and are well verified, and a general suggestion that they are experienced on the swing scene. Then if the conversation flows thats all good. Mobile numbers are exchanged, there might be a phone chat. We haven't got it wrong yet. Most of the people we have met probably know someone we know, or at least verified by one degree of removal.

Mrs

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent


"As a "returning" long term fabster, id agree with most of the OP's points, but would add which comes first "chicken of the egg"

One of my biggest "tests" (to male or females) is asking them to meet socially first, if they refuse, they have something to hide ..........well in my opinion "

We don't meet socially first as our play time is very limited.

Nothing to hide here either.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Assume most are. This will limit fakes lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Assume most are. This will limit fakes lol"
True ... But there are lots of real lovely people out there who are very real .

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


" 2/3 or more of the following strikes then avoid maybe......

No pictures

No verifications

No meets.

Too many male pics.

Doesn't look at your profile

Won't give number or call.

Female on profile never available.

Web cam getting them to wave and move to show its not a video. And getting them to chat on the phone to see if a man or a woman.

I'm sure there's more but 2/ 3 of these you should be suspicious.

Can you add others please ... So it may help some out here and spot the fakes."

No meets after being here for over a year. Or hidden meets after being here for a long time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they start a "spot the fake" thread or bang on to much in their profile about fakes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If they start a "spot the fake" thread or bang on to much in their profile about fakes. "
? so what are you saying .? I started this thread .. As read a post from a man who had gone miles to meet a fake ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they start a "spot the fake" thread or bang on to much in their profile about fakes. ? so what are you saying .? I started this thread .. As read a post from a man who had gone miles to meet a fake .."

It's official I'm not a fake

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


" 2/3 or more of the following strikes then avoid maybe......

No pictures

No verifications

No meets.

Too many male pics.

Doesn't look at your profile

Won't give number or call.

Female on profile never available.

Web cam getting them to wave and move to show its not a video. And getting them to chat on the phone to see if a man or a woman.

I'm sure there's more but 2/ 3 of these you should be suspicious.

Can you add others please ... So it may help some out here and spot the fakes.

No meets after being here for over a year. Or hidden meets after being here for a long time. "
maybe we don't all want our veris on display doesn't mean fake

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" 2/3 or more of the following strikes then avoid maybe......

No pictures

No verifications

No meets.

Too many male pics.

Doesn't look at your profile

Won't give number or call.

Female on profile never available.

Web cam getting them to wave and move to show its not a video. And getting them to chat on the phone to see if a man or a woman.

I'm sure there's more but 2/ 3 of these you should be suspicious.

Can you add others please ... So it may help some out here and spot the fakes.

No meets after being here for over a year. Or hidden meets after being here for a long time. maybe we don't all want our veris on display doesn't mean fake"
I don't now show all of ours as had this woman mail all our meet saying she new us ... It stopped it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No profile pic is a pet hate. Pure lazy x

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"Assume most are. This will limit fakes lol True ... But there are lots of real lovely people out there who are very real ."

Yes I don't doubt that but my area seems to have lots of them. I have had a few text last minute hiccups

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are certainly real!!! But get few people saying were fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm not fake. I'm not meeting at the moment but I'm not fake but no way on this earth would I go on webcam or phone to proove who I am if I was meeting. I never post meets. I look at profiles in stealth mode. I won't give out my number and my pics are friends only "

The key is you're not trying to meet/ meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My simple advice is that if it sounds too good to be true.... then it's too good to be true!......"

Oy I'm real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my problem is i havnt had any meets yet :-/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know some people won't talk on the phone and it doesn't make them fake, however, no talky no meety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a "returning" long term fabster, id agree with most of the OP's points, but would add which comes first "chicken of the egg"

One of my biggest "tests" (to male or females) is asking them to meet socially first, if they refuse, they have something to hide ..........well in my opinion "

Agree with this one. Then they don't turn up lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a "returning" long term fabster, id agree with most of the OP's points, but would add which comes first "chicken of the egg"

One of my biggest "tests" (to male or females) is asking them to meet socially first, if they refuse, they have something to hide ..........well in my opinion "

Weve never met socially but surely that cant be us hiding something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always reverse picture on Google. A new account appeared, allegedly a single female. The picture appeared on 2 other sites. We sent a message to say they were fake.

They sent us a message and blocked us, amazing how someone new knew how to do all this !!

Obviously we can't blab the name, fakes are protected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any one called disruptive is not you be trusted

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By *imonP23Man
over a year ago

Shepton Mallet

Depends on the gender, surely? Plenty of genuine single males won't get a meet or verification within a year.

Very suspicious for a female though. There are several in my area with no pics or veris, but they still log on regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either no pics at all, or pics of an impossibly beautiful woman,

One veri, from a male, hidden.

These usually (but not always) indicate a bloke pretending to be a woman.

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