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MMF which involved just Blow/Hand jobs for guest?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey all,

We were just wondering if mmf's that just involved blowjobs and hand jobs for the male guest is a thing?

We are thinking it might be a way to introduce us into the world.

Of course, we would have a keyword if which we both said meant full sex could happen!

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley


"Hey all,

We were just wondering if mmf's that just involved blowjobs and hand jobs for the male guest is a thing?

We are thinking it might be a way to introduce us into the world.

Of course, we would have a keyword if which we both said meant full sex could happen!

"

Setting your own rules is definitely the best way and if it's the right chap they definitely will not mind that.

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South

I had an mmf meet where only a BJ was on offer.

I was happy to meet under their rules and had a great time.

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By *QManc35Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Why not?

I'd love to watch mf couple and watch from the sides... a bit of additional action would be a bonus

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

If that's what you want OP, I'm sure you'll find willing participants.

Just let them know it's soft swap only and what your boundaries are.

Hope you find a suitable chap

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If not why not play by your own boundaries we've tried in past but she's always ended up going further lol

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By *carletcoupleCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Yep, we have done this a few times. At the end of the day the final decision if she goes all the way with the other guy rests entirely with Mrs S and not me. Yes I adore watching her take another man but that intimacy is for her and her alone to decide. That said, I am very happy to help out with blow jobs and hand jobs while she makes up her mind.

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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago

warwickshire

I'd be more than happy with that...so long as the lady knows how to spank the monkey and we don't get any of this "Owwww, my arm hurts" nonsense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I don't have to put the work in?

Where do I sign up!

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By *laytimenowMan
over a year ago

Essex

Wouldnt be for me but its been a long time since i dipped my toes in .

Control can some times spoil the fun as you may want to progress , but because you set limits you feel you cant , or the rules change because 1 of you maybe more comfortable to progress .

Have a little sign/word for you & your partner that you are comfortable to progress or stop .

Remember the extra is just the extra & the communication between you both is more important, as he goes home & you need to carry on after in a relationship , so your private communication is much more important .

A simple get me a bottle of water may mean stop

Or get me a tissue means we go further .

The extra either gets what he signed up to or gets a brucie bonus

but it is all controlled by you .

Happy Fabbing & enjoy .

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By *layfulcoupleCouple
over a year ago

a kinky mood

we enjoy when a guy or guys watch us play for a while. Then we invite them to join in , which might mean getting a joint handjob or nlowjob. We enjoy the fore play more and the anticipation of it. The guys enjoy it to, believe me

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Wouldnt be for me but its been a long time since i dipped my toes in .

Control can some times spoil the fun as you may want to progress , but because you set limits you feel you cant , or the rules change because 1 of you maybe more comfortable to progress .

Have a little sign/word for you & your partner that you are comfortable to progress or stop .

Remember the extra is just the extra & the communication between you both is more important, as he goes home & you need to carry on after in a relationship , so your private communication is much more important .

A simple get me a bottle of water may mean stop

Or get me a tissue means we go further .

The extra either gets what he signed up to or gets a brucie bonus

but it is all controlled by you .

Happy Fabbing & enjoy .

"

You won't be getting to dip anything in, never mind your toes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey all,

We were just wondering if mmf's that just involved blowjobs and hand jobs for the male guest is a thing?

We are thinking it might be a way to introduce us into the world.

Of course, we would have a keyword if which we both said meant full sex could happen!

"

Similar situation to me and something we have talked about, would strongly suggest you don’t hint full sex may be on the cards so as not to cause disappointment for the man if it doesn’t happen, plus suggest you stick with the BJ then talk about what happened with your partner before thinking about taking it further x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about setting boundaries and rules. And ensuring that everyone understands them..

After all, we all want to feel safe and comfortable when we play.

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By *trkenitMan
over a year ago

Clovis

It would be nice to find a couple who enjoys being watched. I personally am not looking to join. Watching or her stroking our cocks at the same time sounds fun.

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By *oonracerdanMan
over a year ago

torbay

Put me down lol

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"we enjoy when a guy or guys watch us play for a while. Then we invite them to join in , which might mean getting a joint handjob or nlowjob. We enjoy the fore play more and the anticipation of it. The guys enjoy it to, believe me"

This sounds hot. I have been in mfm and mfm, but never a voyeur and then get invited over to mutual handjoj or BJ fun. Rules/guidelines are always best to sort out ahead of time.

This sounds like an evening of sexy fun indeed.

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

We have had several very successful meets with one two and three single males. We have and always will remain purely softswing, and non bi males only, we meet with them in the lobby bars first. Explain the position and what she wants I take photos and fuck her whilst she enjoys the attention.

They may enjoy her but not enter her.

No complaints and repeat requests have always followed. Verifications and pics to prove it can't wait to repeat!!

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By *inabushCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Absolutely this is a thing x we are honest from the start and all 3 had a great time. The idea that “everything is available “ is a pretty dumb one. Communication and honesty will make everyone happy xxx

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By *LUFFER200Man
over a year ago

North Devon

To be invited to join a couple during an intimate moment is an honour. Anything else I consider a bonus. Always happy to respect people’s limits.

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By *ostguy321Man
over a year ago

Bucks

I think this is a great way to have some fun play without jumping in at the deep end. Intimate enough to be highly erotic and a huge turn 9n for all involved

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By *odjamMan
over a year ago

woodford

When I have met a couple they always set the rules and limits and I always comply. It is having respect for them which is important.

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By *jkuk72Man
over a year ago

London & Herts


"I think this is a great way to have some fun play without jumping in at the deep end. Intimate enough to be highly erotic and a huge turn 9n for all involved"

Fully agree. Highly erotic indeed

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