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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It is a sex site after all so list a tip that does it for you.

For me oral is very important. I know there’s not a fitness class out there that will build up the endurance of your tongue, but simply raising it and lowering it, sticking it in and out and really making it work does it for me. “Your best friend for clitoral stimulation is your tongue and I don't just mean barely using it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look into a guys eyes as you are sucking him......

Doesn't alter the feeling, but at least makes it look like you actually want his willy in your mouth and are not just doing it out of duty! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suck on a menthol sweet before you go down.

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By *oddamnCouple
over a year ago

leicestershire

Don't just give her the tip is my tip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love things in the build up Katy kissing my neck nails down my back then she loves being in doggy while holding wand on her clit xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't forget the balls!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Kiss her like you mean it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you kiss do it like you mean it, no half arsed kissing. Can make a massive difference in the level of passion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kiss her like you mean it "

Great minds

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't forget the balls!"

When you say don't forget the balls what do you mean???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Roses are Red,

violets are blue,

When its stiff

stick it in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

edging for me, when he gets me almost there then eases off again and again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't forget the balls!

When you say don't forget the balls what do you mean???"

Just make sure to give them some attention too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"edging for me, when he gets me almost there then eases off again and again "

I like doing that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're not both loving it, don't do it.

Enthusiasm is key.

Also, good girls clean up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Using your fingers in a 'come hither' motion against the front wall of her vagina.

Preferably whilst kissing her neck or shoulders...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some good tips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say thank you afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of long passionate kisses...and not just at the beginning.. kiss a lil in between too

And whisper something sweet and sexy in my ear...Not lots of talk, just something nice.

Make more eye-contact...

Just make a bit of connection, you're not just a warm dildo!

Let go!! I want to see the funny cum face, hear you make your high-pitched sounds or watch you collapse into giggles when you orgasm... no need to be self-conscious... robot-jackhammer-stoic-too cool guy isn't sexy!!! Really....

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Put the woman's pleasure before your own, no one likes a selfish lover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put the woman's pleasure before your own, no one likes a selfish lover "

The lady always comes first...as many times as she likes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going down on a woman is the best part!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lots of long passionate kisses...and not just at the beginning.. kiss a lil in between too

And whisper something sweet and sexy in my ear...Not lots of talk, just something nice.

Make more eye-contact...

Just make a bit of connection, you're not just a warm dildo!

Let go!! I want to see the funny cum face, hear you make your high-pitched sounds or watch you collapse into giggles when you orgasm... no need to be self-conscious... robot-jackhammer-stoic-too cool guy isn't sexy!!! Really.... "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little dirty talk...

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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester


"Put the woman's pleasure before your own, no one likes a selfish lover

The lady always comes first...as many times as she likes."

Wish all men felt this way !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always good to to touch and tease.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a sex site??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep playing with her very gently after she as Cum and tell her nice things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smile, laugh, giggle. Give some indication you're happy to be there.

Kiss.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Lots of long passionate kisses...and not just at the beginning.. kiss a lil in between too

And whisper something sweet and sexy in my ear...Not lots of talk, just something nice.

Make more eye-contact...

Just make a bit of connection, you're not just a warm dildo!

Let go!! I want to see the funny cum face, hear you make your high-pitched sounds or watch you collapse into giggles when you orgasm... no need to be self-conscious... robot-jackhammer-stoic-too cool guy isn't sexy!!! Really.... "

Yes yes yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put the woman's pleasure before your own, no one likes a selfish lover

The lady always comes first...as many times as she likes.

Wish all men felt this way !"

It surprises me that they don't - it is the best aspect of sex in my opinion.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Bite my shoulders and make me squirm with pleasure before we even get properly started.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sensory breathing.... no one does it enough.

Done well it is mind blowing.

Lick or kiss an area til damp -

purse ur lips and blow will make the area cold and tingle. But open your mouth fully and exhale slowly and it will become very warm. Alternate randomly and u can get every sense tingling. Don't let it mouth make contact with the skin.

On my neck that alone makes my clit twitch

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Communication is key.

Whether it is verbal, non verbal or body language.

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Outdoors always pushes our buttons

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

A hairy pussy is a good start...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kiss her like you mean it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take your socks off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When there is an urgency to sex it can be so _oddamn animalistic and intense!

But my own top tip is this.. Take your time, take your lady, or your man right to the very edge, and then let it subside. Then start all over again. The orgasms are so intense!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Passion mixed with erotic desire - teasing/tantric sex - edging - all great

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Sensory breathing.... no one does it enough.

Done well it is mind blowing.

Lick or kiss an area til damp -

purse ur lips and blow will make the area cold and tingle. But open your mouth fully and exhale slowly and it will become very warm. Alternate randomly and u can get every sense tingling. Don't let it mouth make contact with the skin.

On my neck that alone makes my clit twitch"

I'm taking a screen shot of that tip!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sensory breathing.... no one does it enough.

Done well it is mind blowing.

Lick or kiss an area til damp -

purse ur lips and blow will make the area cold and tingle. But open your mouth fully and exhale slowly and it will become very warm. Alternate randomly and u can get every sense tingling. Don't let it mouth make contact with the skin.

On my neck that alone makes my clit twitch

I'm taking a screen shot of that tip! "

I also trying that one new one for me

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Every wannabe slut likes a spanked ass

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Put the woman's pleasure before your own, no one likes a selfish lover "

See, I hate that. It puts as much pressure on me to cum as it does on a bloke not to.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"When there is an urgency to sex it can be so _oddamn animalistic and intense!

But my own top tip is this.. Take your time, take your lady, or your man right to the very edge, and then let it subside. Then start all over again. The orgasms are so intense!!"

Except for those of us that hate edging. Do that to me and I won't cum at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some great tips here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put the woman's pleasure before your own, no one likes a selfish lover

See, I hate that. It puts as much pressure on me to cum as it does on a bloke not to."

Agree, plus I see it as a contradiction... don't be selfish, it's all about me

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Put the woman's pleasure before your own, no one likes a selfish lover

See, I hate that. It puts as much pressure on me to cum as it does on a bloke not to.

Agree, plus I see it as a contradiction... don't be selfish, it's all about me "

What I meant was don't roll off and over when you're done!!!!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Some great tips here "

Loads of terrible ones too!

Communication is the name of the game.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

And you women wonder why you get the title of never happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put the woman's pleasure before your own, no one likes a selfish lover "

Mr always puts the ladies pleasure before his own

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Put the woman's pleasure before your own, no one likes a selfish lover

Mr always puts the ladies pleasure before his own"

...and that's not always a good idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sit on your hand until it goes numb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sit on your hand until it goes numb"

Lay on your wife until she goes numb - it'll feel like you're shagging someone elses wife (probably)

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Don't stop kissing and touching. The skin is a huge sex organ and covers the whole body. Scratch it, tease is, brush it, squeeze it, slap it. And not just the obvious zones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look into a guys eyes as you are sucking him......

Doesn't alter the feeling, but at least makes it look like you actually want his willy in your mouth and are not just doing it out of duty! lol"

I find this very off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look into a guys eyes as you are sucking him......

Doesn't alter the feeling, but at least makes it look like you actually want his willy in your mouth and are not just doing it out of duty! lol"

I don't need to look him in the eye for him to know I am enjoying it as much as he is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sensory breathing.... no one does it enough.

Done well it is mind blowing.

Lick or kiss an area til damp -

purse ur lips and blow will make the area cold and tingle. But open your mouth fully and exhale slowly and it will become very warm. Alternate randomly and u can get every sense tingling. Don't let it mouth make contact with the skin.

On my neck that alone makes my clit twitch"

I like my lips to just be touching the tiny hairs in the area when I exhale...maybe flick my tongue onto the skin and watch the goosebumps rise with the next breath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Licking the juice out of a wet clit with fingers massaging the spot is my favourite , all the women I had before thoroughly enjoyed it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Smile, laugh, giggle. Give some indication you're happy to be there.

Kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sensory breathing.... no one does it enough.

Done well it is mind blowing.

Lick or kiss an area til damp -

purse ur lips and blow will make the area cold and tingle. But open your mouth fully and exhale slowly and it will become very warm. Alternate randomly and u can get every sense tingling. Don't let it mouth make contact with the skin.

On my neck that alone makes my clit twitch

I like my lips to just be touching the tiny hairs in the area when I exhale...maybe flick my tongue onto the skin and watch the goosebumps rise with the next breath "

A skilled person indeed - just brushing the fuzzy peach fur with lips and tongue esp along the spine down towrds the buttocks is amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really slurpy sloppy bjs are a great treat esp if you inhale air sharply into your mouth when you have a penis in your mouth. A cold rush of air on a wet cock adds a sensory tingle like no other.

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By *ndrew025Man
over a year ago

west lancs

Using the flat of the tongue and keeping it relaxed i find works better than the tip

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By *andm_69Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage

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By *andm_69Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage


"Really slurpy sloppy bjs are a great treat esp if you inhale air sharply into your mouth when you have a penis in your mouth. A cold rush of air on a wet cock adds a sensory tingle like no other.

"

Hubby loves a sloppy bj but the extra air might excite!

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By *emptd2Man
over a year ago

Brum for Xmas then Burgess Hill

Few interesting tips in here worth trying out. Thanks

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By *rishlad2787Man
over a year ago

scun

Kiss my neck then kiss her all the way down , and lick till she's asks you to put it in , then edge the tip in and And out while kissing her , then all in

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