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"I've been over 250 miles away to meet up with a friend. Distance isn't the issue if you get on with the person. " 1st meet though !? | |||
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"Theres someone i would go 400 miles for " Wow really | |||
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"Yup we'd spoken various ways and got on really well so it didn't even register the distance." That's good to hear x | |||
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"600 mile round trip... In 2 weeks! " Lol you almost had squatters rights | |||
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"600 mile round trip... In 2 weeks! " Wow that's a lot of Mileage ! | |||
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"I do think it depends on the connection. Some chat for a long time. I've even chatted to someone for over a year on here before we had the chance to meet. I think that was about 200 miles. " Exactly my thoughts build up a rapor Have a connection Not just drive miles and miles ! A bit riska I think | |||
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"I wouldn't travel far just for a shag. But I have travelled up to 300 miles + to spend a weekend with some lady friends. A sort of holiday with benefits." Lucky you ! Bet you had FUN | |||
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"I do think it depends on the connection. Some chat for a long time. I've even chatted to someone for over a year on here before we had the chance to meet. I think that was about 200 miles. Exactly my thoughts build up a rapor Have a connection Not just drive miles and miles ! A bit riska I think " I completely agree with you. There needs to be a connection before the miles get put in | |||
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"I have travelled 1100 miles before to meet someone... And that was by car... " You win | |||
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"I wouldn't travel far just for a shag. But I have travelled up to 300 miles + to spend a weekend with some lady friends. A sort of holiday with benefits. Lucky you ! Bet you had FUN" Very much so. Me and my Scottish Pen pal have become an annual thing (school holidays when the kids go up North to their Mums for a week or two). Its a lovely escape from the everyday grind with a wonderful friend. I suppose like others have said connection increases the lengths you'll go to spend time with someone. I love sex (obviously) but I am more driven by connection which in turn = Better sex. | |||
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"Seriously how far would guys actually travel for a meet ? Am I the only one that thinks omg would you really go that far for a meet ? I've had a few that give it all the talk drive to meet me and it's been like over in minutes ! wow can they really not get local meets " One hour drive away maximum Unless in the area. | |||
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" wow can they really not get local meets " A lot of the times, no 'they' can't. | |||
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"Seriously how far would guys actually travel for a meet ? Am I the only one that thinks omg would you really go that far for a meet ? I've had a few that give it all the talk drive to meet me and it's been like over in minutes ! wow can they really not get local meets " Personally, If we have messages, and then chatted we should have a strong idea we are going to hit it off .... assuming both parties have been open and honest! Then to answer your question I would walk 500 miles .... | |||
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"If absolutely fancied the pants off them then 1hr 30 drive. Anything more then we meet halfway " That's very interesting | |||
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"Seriously how far would guys actually travel for a meet ? Am I the only one that thinks omg would you really go that far for a meet ? I've had a few that give it all the talk drive to meet me and it's been like over in minutes ! wow can they really not get local meets " There is so much for females to chose from here - like a candy shop - so id say keep it local, and make the guy do the travelling, if he serious, he do it | |||
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"I'm seriously considering a trip to Dublin, I've spoken to some great people there and the flights are really cheap... still just thinking about it for now " That's under consideration too! | |||
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"Seriously how far would guys actually travel for a meet ? Am I the only one that thinks omg would you really go that far for a meet ? I've had a few that give it all the talk drive to meet me and it's been like over in minutes ! wow can they really not get local meets Personally, If we have messages, and then chatted we should have a strong idea we are going to hit it off .... assuming both parties have been open and honest! Honestly is paramount! But not everyone is ........ I've had guys drive miles and they look nothing like their pics !!! What's the point Then to answer your question I would walk 500 miles .... " | |||
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"3.5 miles Oh really!? " That's what I thought !! :0 | |||
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"Seriously how far would guys actually travel for a meet ? Am I the only one that thinks omg would you really go that far for a meet ? I've had a few that give it all the talk drive to meet me and it's been like over in minutes ! wow can they really not get local meets There is so much for females to chose from here - like a candy shop - so id say keep it local, and make the guy do the travelling, if he serious, he do it " I don't travel as a rule as I'm a single parent in a new area !! And I am very fussy It just amazes me that guys have traveled so far but nothing like the pics or personalities from texts convos ........ What a waste of my precious time and there's ! :0( | |||
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"I think a 30 mile radius is the accepted norm for travel in here, although I have travelled 80 miles for a meet." Only 80 | |||
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"I prefer to spend as little time travelling as possible, I'd rather spend it in bed....so 30 mins is ideal, 45 tops " Yes this sounds much better ! Less travel more FUN time | |||
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"I would travel anywhere for the right people" ^ This is an accurate comment.. It really does depends on the persons/people..! x | |||
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"I would walk 500 miles... " But would you walk 500 more | |||
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"I prefer to spend as little time travelling as possible, I'd rather spend it in bed....so 30 mins is ideal, 45 tops Yes this sounds much better ! Less travel more FUN time " | |||
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"I would walk 500 miles... But would you walk 500 more " For the right woman yes! | |||
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"I think a 30 mile radius is the accepted norm for travel in here, although I have travelled 80 miles for a meet. Only 80 " Well, 80 is half of 160 isn't it? | |||
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"I would walk 500 miles... But would you walk 500 more " | |||
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"I would walk 500 miles... But would you walk 500 more For the right woman yes! " | |||
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"Seriously how far would guys actually travel for a meet ? Am I the only one that thinks omg would you really go that far for a meet ? I've had a few that give it all the talk drive to meet me and it's been like over in minutes ! wow can they really not get local meets " I'd definitely travel from the south coast to say Manchester/Newcastle or I'd get a train. But from a very recent time waster, I'd have to be 100% certain of them. | |||
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"Seriously how far would guys actually travel for a meet ? Am I the only one that thinks omg would you really go that far for a meet ? I've had a few that give it all the talk drive to meet me and it's been like over in minutes ! wow can they really not get local meets " I do wonder what's wrong with them when they are willing to do a 600 mile round trip just for a shag. | |||
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"Seriously how far would guys actually travel for a meet ? Am I the only one that thinks omg would you really go that far for a meet ? I've had a few that give it all the talk drive to meet me and it's been like over in minutes ! wow can they really not get local meets I do wonder what's wrong with them when they are willing to do a 600 mile round trip just for a shag." Me too! | |||
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"Seriously how far would guys actually travel for a meet ? Am I the only one that thinks omg would you really go that far for a meet ? I've had a few that give it all the talk drive to meet me and it's been like over in minutes ! wow can they really not get local meets I do wonder what's wrong with them when they are willing to do a 600 mile round trip just for a shag. Me too! " *gulp* I hope there is nothing wrong with me. I am not looking for "just a shag" though. | |||
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"Seriously how far would guys actually travel for a meet ? Am I the only one that thinks omg would you really go that far for a meet ? I've had a few that give it all the talk drive to meet me and it's been like over in minutes ! wow can they really not get local meets I do wonder what's wrong with them when they are willing to do a 600 mile round trip just for a shag. Me too! *gulp* I hope there is nothing wrong with me. I am not looking for "just a shag" though. " This is a very genuine question. Why would you travel that far for sex? Surely there must be a woman even 10 miles closer? | |||
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"Seriously how far would guys actually travel for a meet ? Am I the only one that thinks omg would you really go that far for a meet ? I've had a few that give it all the talk drive to meet me and it's been like over in minutes ! wow can they really not get local meets I do wonder what's wrong with them when they are willing to do a 600 mile round trip just for a shag. Me too! *gulp* I hope there is nothing wrong with me. I am not looking for "just a shag" though. " Always the guys that travel so far. Rare if at all its the women. You can't expect a relationship from that huge distance. And I doubt any woman would wait around for a long distance man to turn up again. Long distance rarely if at all lasts long term. I honestly do wonder if you lovely men have your brain in your scrotum instead of your head! Lol. Save your petrol and your money. If you can't find a Local woman, hire one or buy a realistic sex doll! If I were a man, I would be because no way would I travel hundreds of miles for any random person just for sex meets. | |||
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"Seriously how far would guys actually travel for a meet ? Am I the only one that thinks omg would you really go that far for a meet ? I've had a few that give it all the talk drive to meet me and it's been like over in minutes ! wow can they really not get local meets I do wonder what's wrong with them when they are willing to do a 600 mile round trip just for a shag." Thanks, but there's nothing wrong with me. If I wanted just a shag, I could easily get one with little effort. If I want to meet up with someone I've spent several months chatting to, on & off of here, have developed a decent friendship with, plus combine a visit to see an old school friend, then I will. | |||
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"Seriously how far would guys actually travel for a meet ? Am I the only one that thinks omg would you really go that far for a meet ? I've had a few that give it all the talk drive to meet me and it's been like over in minutes ! wow can they really not get local meets I do wonder what's wrong with them when they are willing to do a 600 mile round trip just for a shag. Me too! *gulp* I hope there is nothing wrong with me. I am not looking for "just a shag" though. Always the guys that travel so far. Rare if at all its the women. You can't expect a relationship from that huge distance. And I doubt any woman would wait around for a long distance man to turn up again. Long distance rarely if at all lasts long term. I honestly do wonder if you lovely men have your brain in your scrotum instead of your head! Lol. Save your petrol and your money. If you can't find a Local woman, hire one or buy a realistic sex doll! If I were a man, I would be because no way would I travel hundreds of miles for any random person just for sex meets. " I can understand being quick to judge chaps for saying that distance is not an option. Most guys do tend to think only with their penis. I have been guilty of it in the past, in fact when I was first discovery my bisexuality it almost got me Into some dangerous situations. I learned and I moved on but was always intelligent enough to back away when it came down to it. Don't get me wrong many people are comfortable with hook ups and that Is completely fine. I need a connection with people, a physical attraction always plays second fiddle to the person or people. Matching all those elements together it makes it a little harder to find. I enjoy meeting people, making friends (even plutonically) and I don't see why distance should play a part in that. Of course the ultimate relationship dynamic may be a pipedream but I have patience. In the meantime, I will quite happily continue to believe distance isn't a problem. Not sure if that gives you a wider picture. Just felt I needed to explain rather than being put in a box....it is dark and smells a bit | |||
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"So far I've driven 2.5hours for a meet. Was very worth it, but we'd been chatting for a while so knew it was going to be worth the effort. " Are my ears burning | |||
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"For the right people, I consider it a holiday! " | |||
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"Apologies. Didn't realise it was men only. " Ooooops sorry forum threads are open to all. No need to apologise | |||
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"I have travelled 1100 miles before to meet someone... And that was by car... " John o groats to lands end is 874 miles......... where was you going ? Just curious | |||
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"Apologies. Didn't realise it was men only. " I wasn't just aiming at men Just curious as to how far people would travel !!? Obviously my experiences have been men! As that's my preference | |||
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"So far I've driven 2.5hours for a meet. Was very worth it, but we'd been chatting for a while so knew it was going to be worth the effort. Are my ears burning" They should be | |||
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