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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

.... worst feature ever. Not quite sure why that was created actually. It's creepy AF. If you don't want people to know you've looked at them, don't look at them. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can read forums without even having an account on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does it matter if you have no idea?

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


".... worst feature ever. Not quite sure why that was created actually. It's creepy AF. If you don't want people to know you've looked at them, don't look at them. Simple."

I sometimes read an interesting item.in the forum and want to look at a profile.. That's not an invitation I like or want to see someone...unfortunately if I show on their looked at me list that is how some people take it!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I think it's quite a handy function, obviously designed with us gals in mind

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By *eppoMan
over a year ago

London Colney

How do u hide who uv looked at ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How on earth would you find out if someone is compatible without looking at them?

Some people cannot tell the difference between looking at someone, fabbing, winking or sending a message...

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I think it's quite a handy function, obviously designed with us gals in mind "

Exactly!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


".... worst feature ever. Not quite sure why that was created actually. It's creepy AF. If you don't want people to know you've looked at them, don't look at them. Simple.

I sometimes read an interesting item.in the forum and want to look at a profile.. That's not an invitation I like or want to see someone...unfortunately if I show on their looked at me list that is how some people take it!

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Yep definitely this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do u hide who uv looked at ??"

It's in Privacy settings.

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By *rCurious1Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


".... worst feature ever. Not quite sure why that was created actually. It's creepy AF. If you don't want people to know you've looked at them, don't look at them. Simple."

I agree but if they dont want to be seen never mind. I would like to see who maybe interested in me though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".... worst feature ever. Not quite sure why that was created actually. It's creepy AF. If you don't want people to know you've looked at them, don't look at them. Simple."
because some of us don't want to end up with endless spam in our inboxes just because we've looked at a profile we don't hide in this but I do on my single, Mrs

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

The woman was rude first, I am not sure why anyone would expect the man not to answer back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do u hide who uv looked at ??

It's in Privacy settings. "

you got there first lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

Back to the OP

I like the feature OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's when they send a wink but they're still hidden. Bravo for making the first move but....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very handy for us women as if it wasn't there as an option we would have even more messages than we already get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the feature, then if one of us finds a profile of interest, then the other can look too, without people going "oh they looked at us twice they must be interested"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How on earth would you find out if someone is compatible without looking at them?

Some people cannot tell the difference between looking at someone, fabbing, winking or sending a message..."

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

love stealth mode especially when you need to keep going back and forth to read their verifications and check out who they've shagged before I go there. I love it me, don't get rid of it....keep it admin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".... worst feature ever. Not quite sure why that was created actually. It's creepy AF. If you don't want people to know you've looked at them, don't look at them. Simple."

Ok you look at a profile. Decide they are not for you. What happens next? Well as a single fem you usually get a message. Now times that by 50. 50 Crap messages from people you aren't interested in, cos you have read their profiles. The difference between how men and women use the site.

Best feature ever fab. Please keep it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP are you that journalist guy? You don't half look like him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually like it means I can make the first move if I like the look of someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP are you that journalist guy? You don't half look like him."

Should have checked the green arrow first. I never forget a face! I will answer my own question. You are. Interesting to see your updated profile doesnt mention it.

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By *retty womanWoman
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth


"I think it's quite a handy function, obviously designed with us gals in mind "

I use it too and so does my hubby.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I don't people to think I'm a perv

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP are you that journalist guy? You don't half look like him.

Should have checked the green arrow first. I never forget a face! I will answer my own question. You are. Interesting to see your updated profile doesnt mention it."

I finished my radio documentary. Got a Distinction for it too. Had an interesting experience at one of the clubs I visited and now I'm staying in the scene. What's wrong with that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP are you that journalist guy? You don't half look like him.

Should have checked the green arrow first. I never forget a face! I will answer my own question. You are. Interesting to see your updated profile doesnt mention it.

I finished my radio documentary. Got a Distinction for it too. Had an interesting experience at one of the clubs I visited and now I'm staying in the scene. What's wrong with that?"

Nothing. But that's strictly off the record.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


".... worst feature ever. Not quite sure why that was created actually. It's creepy AF. If you don't want people to know you've looked at them, don't look at them. Simple."

I disagree ... sometimes I might look at a guy because his profile pic seems appealing but then after reading his profile or seeing his other pics I change my mind but if I was to be seen to look some take that as a green light I'm interested

ALL us ladies get so much mail anyway so sounds mean but it would overload our inboxes more

Harsh but true I'm afraid

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I like the feature.

I think, it would be better to get rid of the who's looked at me feature.

What's the point of knowing who's looked. We're only interested in who's messaged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".... worst feature ever. Not quite sure why that was created actually. It's creepy AF. If you don't want people to know you've looked at them, don't look at them. Simple."

It's massively useful and cuts down on a massive amount of unwanted traffic...we'd never be on the site if it was removed as an option...

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